I was always curious if it was worse to be wanted for your size, like if it felt that's all they wanted you for, or if it was a good thing to be appreciated for it

My wife has recently opened up about how she's been watching face fucking videos, which from my perspective is super hot, I've always done my best to help her fantasies become a reality, problem is I'm above the average and she can only get about half my dick in her mouth so it takes a lot of restraint on my part (not gonna lie that's also pretty hot)

I'd love to fuck her face like the videos she's been watching but I'm worried I may break her poor little face.

I don't want to push it either because a bad experience can ruin the fantasy.

Is this a practice thing or are some women just able to swallow big dicks better than others?

Sometimes my measurements sound better than my dick actually looks, my measurements are 6.7x6.1, it might just be because I am used to my size or it could be due to my girth distorting how I view it but it looks smaller

The confusing thing is that other people have been shocked when they’ve seen it, which makes me wonder if I’m just so used to my own size that I don’t really see it the way other people do maybe because of angles im not sure.

Does anyone else experience this is there any reasons for it?

When I was young, I used to hear “XXL condoms up-charge you by preying on the male ego. An average condom can stretch up to so-and-so inches!” The first time my girlfriend handed me a Magnum was the last time I busted through a condom.

I’m now in my mid-thirties and it only recently occurred to me that pouch underpants might also be a specialty item worth investing in.

Spending a little extra dough seems a fair trade for the extra inches we were born with, but are there other products marketed to the well-endowed gentleman that legitimately improve your quality of life? What is truly a waste of money?

*No snarky or jerky responses please and thank you. I am a respected amateur dick scientist conducting important dick research.

So I'm regular 9 inches, nun crazy im big but becuase American food and etc I never got to size I should of been ,but I came across this dude on Twitter which is now x , his name is Mr 13inches ,he got female fans he make videos with and is straight dicking them down ,I watch some of his videos and read some of his comments, out of curiosity ,and the women love him and that ,ik his dm's are going crazy but I came to conclusion u guys that are 10 and up complain about women turning u guys down, but i really think you guys have it easy in the world, me I feel like I gotta have to keep with my self keep my self in shape and learn to seduce woman ,that all I jus wanted to vent

I’ve been curious about this brand… but don’t want to spend the money on something that might not fit… so I figured I’d ask here. Has anyone tried the brand “Shinesty” that is a larger flaccid size? I’m about 5.5-6 inches (13.9-15.2 centimeters) flaccid … so oftentimes most underwear brands will not provide me enough room and not squish me up. I know this brand has a pouch mechanism going on which is what piqued my interest in the first place.

Just curious if any one of you larger flaccid members have tried this and what your thoughts were!

Here is a link to Amazon to clarify which brand I’m referencing: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Shinesty%7CHomeofBallHammocks/page/4A0CE826-213B-44DE-98AF-DEAF05878C87

(Also for what it’s worth- my scrotum is very average size, I’m not super small or large in that department. But my penis does need the extra room.)

I felt like a criminal walking around I was just soft but everything was basically on show I received some very funny looks

Hi, so this is probably the 5000th post about this, but I just wanted to get it out there.
My girlfriend of 3 years and I are thinking about breaking up, mainly because our sex life isn’t how either of us wants it to be. We’re both in our early 20s, have great chemistry, and haven’t met anyone we have more fun with. The problem is that we seem to be physically incompatible. She’s tighter down there than the average girl, and I’m girthier than the average guy.

During our first year, when we were newly in love, we had sex whenever we got the chance. Limited foreplay, a lot of thrusting, and pretty much “porn sex.” I didn’t know I was bigger than average, and she never told me it hurt. She felt like she would ruin the moment if she told me and thought sex was supposed to be a bit of a “meh” experience.
After some time, she told me she couldn’t keep going like this, and of course I felt terrible. She went to a professional to check if she had vaginismus, which she didn’t, but they could see that she was sore.

After taking a break from sex to let everything heal, we started using more lube, taking things 100 times slower, and finding the one position that wasn’t too painful. This meant at least 30 minutes of foreplay, lots of lube, and basically no thrusting. She orgasmed every time, and I thought we were finally heading in the right direction.

The problem is that the soreness still came afterwards. She feels like having to spend at least 30 minutes on foreplay every time and only being able to do spooning with tiny thrusts isn’t something I deserve. On top of that, the soreness and cramps are still there, which makes having sex more than once a week pretty much impossible.

We have tried everything. She says that if i just was smaller things would have been so much better. Now im just lost and dont feel like there is not much to do?

I'm 19.5 - 20cm long and 14-15cm in circumference in the summer I'm a grower so I can like 10 to 12cm when erect and I have a 45 degree upward curve in the summer sometimes I'm also like semi hard half the time like a part time shower but since it got colder I'm like 17-18cm long and 14-13.5 cm thick.

Is this normal?

I like going commando cuz underwear feel a bit constricting.

hey it’s my first time posting on here so I’m not really sure how to ask this but my boyfriend is around 7.5” and has trouble finding some actual good underwear that fits and doesn’t bother him. He has tried regular boxers, boxer briefs, briefs and everything has been really uncomfortable for him. Do anybody have or know any specific brands or underwear type that would be good for him?

I live in Madrid and I have seen a good amount of guys who are well endowed but they dont seem to be online (at least here on reddit). I would love to share stories and trade. Anyone knows about groups with guys with BWC to connect with in Spain or Europe?

Vivo en Madrid y he visto una buena cantidad de chicos que están bien dotados pero no parecen estar en línea (al menos aquí en reddit). Me encantaría compartir historias y fotos. ¿Alguien sabe de grupos con chicos con BWC para conectarse en España o Europa?

I’ve been thinking about it a lot lately and how already right now it’s hard finding someone who can take it but Inmagine you meet the love of your life and there just never able to take it cause it’s too thick 😭. Ik there’s more to the relationship then just sex but still I’d say it’s stil a BIG predicament I’d say.

I have a girlfriend that I'm crazy about. Super sexy, intelligent, big heart, we connect on so many levels - she checks ALL the boxes. She admits that she never enjoyed giving blowjobs in the past, but that she geniunely enjoys sucking my dick and it turns her on like mad.

Now like anyone not lurking in this group, you probably have experienced inadvertent teeth dragging while getting a blowjob. This is one of those cases.

I want to tell her that it is uncomfortable, but not without being able to give her advice on how to correct it. With past girls, I just would have said, oh well, guess I won't ask for head with this one. But I REALLY want to be able to teach her to do it without putting my glans through scraping teeth. Both for what I can get out of it (obviously) and because she really likes it. What advice can I give her to improve her technique? Thank you to anyone with helpful tips.

Last year I had a back injury and gained a few pounds. Just to be sure I didn’t lose any length, I measured it a few months ago, and much to my surprise I’d lost 1.5-2”. I was…depressed. Although having a big dick isn’t my personality, it’s definitely part of who I am.

So the other day I did a chest measurement for a turtleneck. Somehow my chest had also shrank…8 inches. I knew it couldn’t be right, so I finally put the tailor’s measuring tape (top) up to a real measuring tape and lo and behold…this.

Turns out it’s bigger than ever.

Pretty sure whatever Asian country is making these is sending them to America as a form of psychological warfare. It worked on me.

My girlfriend is coming over this weekend to stay the night and binge some movies, so i think there’s a chance of intimacy.

I’m a virgin, and have sorted out what condoms i need but i would like lube recommendations, and any insight for any challenges I might face on my first time.

Thanks

It's starting to get quite cold where I am now. I'm finally bringing out the cold weather gear and I would like to get new thermals or long johns as a base layer for winter.

I have a few pairs of regular thermals but I struggle with them since I wear a smaller size and they end up crushing my dick and balls and provide little room for comfort. I would love to hopefully find some with a pouch or at least more support and room for my size especially since I will be commuting with them, do you all have any recommendations?

Hello!!!

One of my supervisors, who I was great friends with, is now giving me the cold shoulder. He’s gotta be the coolest guy I know in the office.

The situation is irrelevant on how he found out, but I handed him my phone for him to verify work-related documents. He jokingly looked through my photo album, which I was very adamant on him not doing (It seemed like he was doing it to assert dominance).

He scrolled past a picture of my dick with a tape measure on it and he handed my phone back quickly.

{Btw, this all happened within like 20 seconds of him violating my privacy}

I really don’t want to make it awkward anymore, but idk if he’s mad or a little embarrassed. I genuinely want to keep him as a good friend…

Update: Please, stop telling me to make sexual moves to my co-worker. I came here for re-assurance and advice. Nervous that it made him insecure and uncomfortable.

Thanks.

Honestly this isn’t a problem I don’t think. Nothing to do with big dick. I’m 24m, I’ve been sexually active since about 14-15 and have had sex just about every single week since. Up until about 2-3 months ago. I don’t feel the desire to. I mean I do want to.
I had a breakup in February. Slept with a few girls afterwards, but now I feel I’m stuck and just cba to even try.
I’m mentally fine it’s a very weird feeling, i have girls wanting to sleep with me again. But tbh I just don’t want to drive as to me it isn’t worth it for ‘sex’. Like I know they literally just want me to come over for my dick. Anyway rant over

I moved abroad for college (France to the UK), I picked a shared dorm (with one other person) to ease my expense but I chose an en-suite. Usually when I take my shower my roommate has a class, so today, like usual walk out of the bathroom naked. There I find my roommate, I just walked by to my part of the room(it’s sort of divided) through the divide he starts shouting at me saying I was trying to arouse him, but I really couldn’t care less because in France it’s normal? Like nude beaches are a really common thing so I didn’t think he would care. Plus I didn’t know he was gay, he could have told me cause I got a guy to the dorm (I’m bi) I’m so confused on what to do now

UPDATE: He asked me to fuck him, I said I’ll think abt it

After my first post, my bad assumptions have been DEMOLISHED. You guys chill af, thanks for being so nice most of you

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Nothing else, I just really appreciate that most of my brief experience here so far was met with genuine help, reassurance, and good advice/points. Please forgive my assumptions that you all were gonna be mostly unsupportive, bad on my part, I'm a bit of a pessimist for certain topics. So yeah, thanks for being nice and sharing knowledge with me!

menopause sucks. no amount of lube helps. after 25+ years of regular loving it seems closed for business. here I am with a functioning BD in my 50s and it sits unused. not worth cheating or a divorce. I feel like if it was smaller it wouldn‘t be an issue. smoke em while you got em.

I'm grateful for what I have but I just hope that most women can tolerate my size but I understand at a certain point a guy can do all they can to get their partner prepared and warmed up but she still is in pain during sex.

The most i’ve measured was around 19cm, and most commonly, 18cm.

However, i find theres a big difference when i measure from the side of the penis or from the top, i’m not really sure why. Theres about a 2cm difference which is alot when speaking in penis size terms.

Not to mention, i’m not sure if its a social media thing, but i’m starting to think 18 cm is a lot more common than what i originally thought.

As well as if being with a woman thats 5’0 ( 154cm ) an issue with being 19cm length and 14.5cm girth ( 7.5 inches length and 5.5 inches girth )

Finally, is there a large difference for women when going between for example 16cm and 19cm?

Threw all my questions that race through my mind .