Sometimes my measurements sound better than my dick actually looks, my measurements are 6.7x6.1, it might just be because I am used to my size or it could be due to my girth distorting how I view it but it looks smaller

The confusing thing is that other people have been shocked when they’ve seen it, which makes me wonder if I’m just so used to my own size that I don’t really see it the way other people do maybe because of angles im not sure.

Does anyone else experience this is there any reasons for it?

When I was young, I used to hear “XXL condoms up-charge you by preying on the male ego. An average condom can stretch up to so-and-so inches!” The first time my girlfriend handed me a Magnum was the last time I busted through a condom.

I’m now in my mid-thirties and it only recently occurred to me that pouch underpants might also be a specialty item worth investing in.

Spending a little extra dough seems a fair trade for the extra inches we were born with, but are there other products marketed to the well-endowed gentleman that legitimately improve your quality of life? What is truly a waste of money?

*No snarky or jerky responses please and thank you. I am a respected amateur dick scientist conducting important dick research.

I’ve been curious about this brand… but don’t want to spend the money on something that might not fit… so I figured I’d ask here. Has anyone tried the brand “Shinesty” that is a larger flaccid size? I’m about 5.5-6 inches (13.9-15.2 centimeters) flaccid … so oftentimes most underwear brands will not provide me enough room and not squish me up. I know this brand has a pouch mechanism going on which is what piqued my interest in the first place.

Just curious if any one of you larger flaccid members have tried this and what your thoughts were!

Here is a link to Amazon to clarify which brand I’m referencing: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Shinesty%7CHomeofBallHammocks/page/4A0CE826-213B-44DE-98AF-DEAF05878C87

(Also for what it’s worth- my scrotum is very average size, I’m not super small or large in that department. But my penis does need the extra room.)

I felt like a criminal walking around I was just soft but everything was basically on show I received some very funny looks

Hi, so this is probably the 5000th post about this, but I just wanted to get it out there.
My girlfriend of 3 years and I are thinking about breaking up, mainly because our sex life isn’t how either of us wants it to be. We’re both in our early 20s, have great chemistry, and haven’t met anyone we have more fun with. The problem is that we seem to be physically incompatible. She’s tighter down there than the average girl, and I’m girthier than the average guy.

During our first year, when we were newly in love, we had sex whenever we got the chance. Limited foreplay, a lot of thrusting, and pretty much “porn sex.” I didn’t know I was bigger than average, and she never told me it hurt. She felt like she would ruin the moment if she told me and thought sex was supposed to be a bit of a “meh” experience.
After some time, she told me she couldn’t keep going like this, and of course I felt terrible. She went to a professional to check if she had vaginismus, which she didn’t, but they could see that she was sore.

After taking a break from sex to let everything heal, we started using more lube, taking things 100 times slower, and finding the one position that wasn’t too painful. This meant at least 30 minutes of foreplay, lots of lube, and basically no thrusting. She orgasmed every time, and I thought we were finally heading in the right direction.

The problem is that the soreness still came afterwards. She feels like having to spend at least 30 minutes on foreplay every time and only being able to do spooning with tiny thrusts isn’t something I deserve. On top of that, the soreness and cramps are still there, which makes having sex more than once a week pretty much impossible.

We have tried everything. She says that if i just was smaller things would have been so much better. Now im just lost and dont feel like there is not much to do?

I'm hung and lonely, is it too risky to get on sites and jerk off with girls on cam? It feels disgusting but my horniness is killing me, 19M and I know legit sites with girls. Did anyone else do this here due to high libido?

I'm 19.5 - 20cm long and 14-15cm in circumference in the summer I'm a grower so I can like 10 to 12cm when erect and I have a 45 degree upward curve in the summer sometimes I'm also like semi hard half the time like a part time shower but since it got colder I'm like 17-18cm long and 14-13.5 cm thick.

Is this normal?

I like going commando cuz underwear feel a bit constricting.

I live in Madrid and I have seen a good amount of guys who are well endowed but they dont seem to be online (at least here on reddit). I would love to share stories and trade. Anyone knows about groups with guys with BWC to connect with in Spain or Europe?

Vivo en Madrid y he visto una buena cantidad de chicos que están bien dotados pero no parecen estar en línea (al menos aquí en reddit). Me encantaría compartir historias y fotos. ¿Alguien sabe de grupos con chicos con BWC para conectarse en España o Europa?

hey it’s my first time posting on here so I’m not really sure how to ask this but my boyfriend is around 7.5” and has trouble finding some actual good underwear that fits and doesn’t bother him. He has tried regular boxers, boxer briefs, briefs and everything has been really uncomfortable for him. Do anybody have or know any specific brands or underwear type that would be good for him?

I’ve been thinking about it a lot lately and how already right now it’s hard finding someone who can take it but Inmagine you meet the love of your life and there just never able to take it cause it’s too thick 😭. Ik there’s more to the relationship then just sex but still I’d say it’s stil a BIG predicament I’d say.

Last year I had a back injury and gained a few pounds. Just to be sure I didn’t lose any length, I measured it a few months ago, and much to my surprise I’d lost 1.5-2”. I was…depressed. Although having a big dick isn’t my personality, it’s definitely part of who I am.

So the other day I did a chest measurement for a turtleneck. Somehow my chest had also shrank…8 inches. I knew it couldn’t be right, so I finally put the tailor’s measuring tape (top) up to a real measuring tape and lo and behold…this.

Turns out it’s bigger than ever.

Pretty sure whatever Asian country is making these is sending them to America as a form of psychological warfare. It worked on me.

My girlfriend is coming over this weekend to stay the night and binge some movies, so i think there’s a chance of intimacy.

I’m a virgin, and have sorted out what condoms i need but i would like lube recommendations, and any insight for any challenges I might face on my first time.

Thanks

It's starting to get quite cold where I am now. I'm finally bringing out the cold weather gear and I would like to get new thermals or long johns as a base layer for winter.

I have a few pairs of regular thermals but I struggle with them since I wear a smaller size and they end up crushing my dick and balls and provide little room for comfort. I would love to hopefully find some with a pouch or at least more support and room for my size especially since I will be commuting with them, do you all have any recommendations?

I have a girlfriend that I'm crazy about. Super sexy, intelligent, big heart, we connect on so many levels - she checks ALL the boxes. She admits that she never enjoyed giving blowjobs in the past, but that she geniunely enjoys sucking my dick and it turns her on like mad.

Now like anyone not lurking in this group, you probably have experienced inadvertent teeth dragging while getting a blowjob. This is one of those cases.

I want to tell her that it is uncomfortable, but not without being able to give her advice on how to correct it. With past girls, I just would have said, oh well, guess I won't ask for head with this one. But I REALLY want to be able to teach her to do it without putting my glans through scraping teeth. Both for what I can get out of it (obviously) and because she really likes it. What advice can I give her to improve her technique? Thank you to anyone with helpful tips.

Hello!!!

One of my supervisors, who I was great friends with, is now giving me the cold shoulder. He’s gotta be the coolest guy I know in the office.

The situation is irrelevant on how he found out, but I handed him my phone for him to verify work-related documents. He jokingly looked through my photo album, which I was very adamant on him not doing (It seemed like he was doing it to assert dominance).

He scrolled past a picture of my dick with a tape measure on it and he handed my phone back quickly.

{Btw, this all happened within like 20 seconds of him violating my privacy}

I really don’t want to make it awkward anymore, but idk if he’s mad or a little embarrassed. I genuinely want to keep him as a good friend…

Update: Please, stop telling me to make sexual moves to my co-worker. I came here for re-assurance and advice. Nervous that it made him insecure and uncomfortable.

Thanks.

Honestly this isn’t a problem I don’t think. Nothing to do with big dick. I’m 24m, I’ve been sexually active since about 14-15 and have had sex just about every single week since. Up until about 2-3 months ago. I don’t feel the desire to. I mean I do want to.
I had a breakup in February. Slept with a few girls afterwards, but now I feel I’m stuck and just cba to even try.
I’m mentally fine it’s a very weird feeling, i have girls wanting to sleep with me again. But tbh I just don’t want to drive as to me it isn’t worth it for ‘sex’. Like I know they literally just want me to come over for my dick. Anyway rant over

I moved abroad for college (France to the UK), I picked a shared dorm (with one other person) to ease my expense but I chose an en-suite. Usually when I take my shower my roommate has a class, so today, like usual walk out of the bathroom naked. There I find my roommate, I just walked by to my part of the room(it’s sort of divided) through the divide he starts shouting at me saying I was trying to arouse him, but I really couldn’t care less because in France it’s normal? Like nude beaches are a really common thing so I didn’t think he would care. Plus I didn’t know he was gay, he could have told me cause I got a guy to the dorm (I’m bi) I’m so confused on what to do now

UPDATE: He asked me to fuck him, I said I’ll think abt it

After my first post, my bad assumptions have been DEMOLISHED. You guys chill af, thanks for being so nice most of you

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Nothing else, I just really appreciate that most of my brief experience here so far was met with genuine help, reassurance, and good advice/points. Please forgive my assumptions that you all were gonna be mostly unsupportive, bad on my part, I'm a bit of a pessimist for certain topics. So yeah, thanks for being nice and sharing knowledge with me!

menopause sucks. no amount of lube helps. after 25+ years of regular loving it seems closed for business. here I am with a functioning BD in my 50s and it sits unused. not worth cheating or a divorce. I feel like if it was smaller it wouldn‘t be an issue. smoke em while you got em.

I'm grateful for what I have but I just hope that most women can tolerate my size but I understand at a certain point a guy can do all they can to get their partner prepared and warmed up but she still is in pain during sex.

The most i’ve measured was around 19cm, and most commonly, 18cm.

However, i find theres a big difference when i measure from the side of the penis or from the top, i’m not really sure why. Theres about a 2cm difference which is alot when speaking in penis size terms.

Not to mention, i’m not sure if its a social media thing, but i’m starting to think 18 cm is a lot more common than what i originally thought.

As well as if being with a woman thats 5’0 ( 154cm ) an issue with being 19cm length and 14.5cm girth ( 7.5 inches length and 5.5 inches girth )

Finally, is there a large difference for women when going between for example 16cm and 19cm?

Threw all my questions that race through my mind .

I’ll keep this as brief as possible. It happened a few days ago and felt pretty humiliating and I don’t really have other places to talk about it.

Had to travel for a work event. It was four long days from morning until night, followed by client dinners, and crashing out in the hotel room. I was exhausted, I had not relieved myself all week, and just wanted to sleep on the flight home. It was a four hour flight leaving at 10 PM. I wanted to be comfortable so I wear sweatpants. I fell asleep pretty much immediately in my window seat next to one older woman on the aisle seat. I was woken up by a flight attendant handing me a blanket and the woman’s husband yelling from across the aisle that I was a pervert. Apparently I had gotten an erection while sleeping, and it was well visible through my sweatpants.

To make things worse, I woke up and thought there was some kind of emergency. I was startled and started trying to unbuckle myself and stand up. Then the husband yelled to “look he’s touching himself“. There was a bunch of people staring at me. The flight attendant said for everybody to relax and that nothing was happening, but it was still absolutely humiliating. Did not get any sleep after that.

Okay so I’m just going to use this to vent but perhaps someone has some advice for me or can help change my perspective. Basically right now I’m not sexually active and I’m not looking for a partner either, I want one don’t get me wrong, but I need to get my life together first. I know people argue against this but I’m 26 rn and all that’s on my mind is getting a house and a decent car.

But for some reason in the back of my mind I kind of feel guilty for not making use of my youth and body. I know to some women they would love me and I feel like it’s somehow like I’m being ungrateful for what god has allowed me to have.

It’s quite an odd feeling because I am grateful and I know my time will come but I can’t help but feel like I should be doing something now.

Just the truth. Most guys with big dicks are bad at sex.

Source: Women. I know lots of women. I’ve had tons of women friends ever since I was a teenager, and I’ve often been in or around conversations where this kind of thing gets discussed. Obviously, one thing they all mention (especially when they’re talking to each other) is that guys are way more obsessed with dick size than they are. That’s a given.

But truly, I have only once or twice heard a woman describe the biggest guy she was ever with as the best sex she’s ever had. I have MANY times heard women say the biggest guy they were ever with was meh,terrible, painful, or even the worst sex she ever had. I’ve heard the sentence “He had a giant dick but no idea what to do with it” a LOT. Also, “he thought he was god’s gift to women because he’s got a big dick, but…”

Yes, there are size queens out there. I’ve met a couple. But as far as most women are concerned… If you do the math, there’s a pretty good chance that most of the guys on this sub (the ones who aren’t just LARPing)… are bad at sex.

Women will rarely, if ever, tell you that. They’ll tell you that you were great. Especially if it’s a hookup. I mean, it is literally physically unsafe for a woman to tell a hookup that the sex wasn’t great. Often they will fake a good time, tell you that you’re gigantic and the best ever, and get on with their lives.

And no, you can’t tell if they were faking it. I’ve seen so many guys say “Believe me, I can tell,” with a smirk on their face, and in some cases I’ve known for a fact that they’re wrong. You want to have some fun? Ask a woman you hook up with regularly to fake it for you. (If you have a good rapport, obviously!) It’s pretty cool. Everything can be faked, boys. Kegels are a thing.

(And also, with us big guys, there is added motivation to get us across the finish line. Because it can be painful.)

If all the women you sleep with just want to keep coming back for more again and again, then yes - you’re probably not bad at sex. Or you’ve got a great personality. Otherwise… it’s worth thinking about. The perception that women want a huge guy makes huge guys think they don’t have to work on sex and intimacy. And so… they’re bad at it.

(All that said, I’m AMAZING at it. :D)