r/bigdickconversation • • Aug 03 '26

Inclusiveness! Gay and Straight inclusion in posts

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I will not make this a rule but I’m here to share some etiquette and encourage you to use it. Keep in mind this group is for Straight, gay and bi men and even trans women. when you post about sexual experience try to leave it open for all to answer. for example instead of saying “are you too big for women” you could say ”are you too big for your partners”.

thank you - mods


r/bigdickconversation • • Jun 23 '26

SITUATION Fairytale Posts

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Thank you everyone who enjoy this sub and are honest in all their post. We have been seeing a lot more questionable posts that seem more like BS fetish stories. Please be honest in your posts. This is a place to discuss your manhood and to be proud of it as well as discuss issues. The MODs on here are well endowed too and can easily figure out if an experience or story is just a bunch of BS. If it’s presumed to be a fairytale post created by a LARPer then it will be questioned and likely deleted. I don’t want this sub to turn into some fetish sub full of unrealistic experiences.


r/bigdickconversation • • 8h ago

QUESTION Have you ever had a male friend who is not comfortable when you are naked? Maybe out of jealousy or insecurity?

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I grew up sharing a room with my older brothers, and we were naked quite often. I also did a lot of sports growing up and had to use communal showes, locker rooms etc. and always slept naked in dorms or other shared spaces with other guys. I have only once or twice came across other guys who were insecure about their sizes and have been alarmed by my flaccid size (over 6 inches), but it seems to be a running theme here. Are you and your friends comfortable with you being bigger?


r/bigdickconversation • • 12h ago

QUESTION Straight / bi hung guys, have you ever been curious about what another guy could do for you that a woman might not be into?

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Things that some women might not be as into.... like cock worship or deepthroating, for example.

I’m a gay guy, and I’ve always wondered whether some straight men have thought about it, especially if they’ve struggled to find a woman who’s into those things. Is it something you’d never consider, something you’ve been curious about, or maybe something you’ve actually tried?

No judgment either way. Just curious!


r/bigdickconversation • • 1d ago

QUESTION Can you place 2 hands on your cock?

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Hey y'all, I can place 2 hands on my cock and have a bit of the shaft + the entire head out. I was wondering if that qualifies me as big because it really doesn't feel that big. Wanted to know how hung guys do and their size to see if it's that uncommon


r/bigdickconversation • • 6h ago

QUESTION I Crunched the Numbers

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I searched my particular dimensions and calculated via available data how many of the 4.17 billion men in the world were my exact size. There are roughly only 4,170,000 men of my particular dimensions in the world male population according to available data and stats. My size is 8" long with 6" girth. The combined likelihood of that combination of dimensions is roughly 0.1% of the global male population. People often speak of length rarity, but being that combination of length and thickness is a double rarity. Based on the reactions and feedback of people I have been with, it seems highly probable that it is rare. Can anyone else my size relate?


r/bigdickconversation • • 1d ago

QUESTION I’m not gay but have u compared with guys at work?

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We compared our softy’s but I was becoming semi very quick 😬


r/bigdickconversation • • 1d ago

CONDOMS I live in Spain and I can't find condoms over 60mm. Any stores or brands that sell them?

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I guess this is a question only for spanish guys, do you know any stores where I can find them? The biggest ones I've seen are Durex XL and they're just 60mm


r/bigdickconversation • • 1d ago

BIG BALLS Does anyone else have rly big balls but only an above avg dick?

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Kinda curious


r/bigdickconversation • • 1d ago

QUESTION Measuring soft

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What is everyone’s thoughts on this?
I measured mine once and put it on my flair (don’t know why but it’s what some of us do isn’t it lol)I took it off a little while after as the measurements varied so much I never really have a size that I can say what it is. Sometimes it’s bigger and sometimes it’s shorter.


r/bigdickconversation • • 3d ago

CLOTHING Trying to conceal my softie at work.

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My softie is 6.25 x 5.75. I love looking at it and taking pics of it and posting pics of it, but the outline can be very annoying. My wife and I went clothes shopping for a new job and it seemed like the focus was how visible my outline is. I have to buy dark thick pants but I wanted at least one pair of kahki s. When I tried them on it was clearly visible but we agreed that I would wear compression shorts with them. After getting home we did a “fashion show” as she calls it and I put a pair of compression shorts on with the khakis and it was still visible, so I put a 2nd pair of compression shorts on and tried the pants and still visible. I love having a huge flaccid but I hate always having to wear dark thick material to conceal it.

(I only try to conceal it at work because I have a job that requires professionalism. Otherwise it’s almost always visible and I’m fine with it)


r/bigdickconversation • • 3d ago

SITUATION i love being hard

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Im like 7.2 Inches in length which is above average but i only have 4.2 Inches of girth which is below average (according to my research)

But now the actual post:

I LOVE being hard it feels so amazing especially in underwear or pants where i can feel it wanting to escape and throbbing. Idk if i'm alone with this but i would love running around hard 24/7 (which im obviously not doing) i wouldnt complain about it tho


r/bigdickconversation • • 3d ago

QUESTION Content

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What’s everyone’s experience on both sides. Posting in this group and others like it always leads to interesting DMs. Most usually involve content of sorts. Either exchanging or asking other sites posted on. What’s your reason. Is it the exhibition is it the thrill or is there a financial benefit (ie a fans page). Have you paid to see more if so what was the reasoning. curiosity, kink? Let’s hear what experiences have been.


r/bigdickconversation • • 3d ago

QUESTION Did you notice any difference in your size the first time you had sex?

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I've read a few things online about guys sometimes seeming a bit bigger or thicker when they're with a partner compared to when they're alone, and I was curious whether any of you actually noticed a difference yourselves.

For those of you who remember your first time having sex, did you notice anything different about your size, or was it pretty much the same as when you measured or compared things on your own? The experiences I have read about claim not too big of a difference, but still a difference.

I'm asking partly out of curiosity, since I haven't had any sexual experience with a woman yet. To be honest, I'm also a little insecure about my size and sometimes worry that being particularly long or thick could make things difficult or uncomfortable for a future partner. So I'm wondering whether anyone here has had similar thoughts or experiences.

Would be interested to hear your experiences, especially from guys who were also inexperienced when they first had sex.


r/bigdickconversation • • 4d ago

EXPERIENCE Work trip

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I am an intern at an engineering firm, and we had this work trip for the last three days that included a sauna. Almost everyone at work is a guy and everyone on the trip was except for two women, so we as the guys went to a male-only spa and bath that required you to be completely naked in all the areas. We are all fine with it, but me being very large flaccid (over 6 inches) was always subject to a lot of jokes.

One other thing was that, the hotel we stayed in had a bar and us single guys all went out and went after women. I ended up fucking one random woman on my first night and one of the female employees of my firm (the other one is married), who is 37. I myself live in a dorm with 12 guys, so the luxury of getting to bring women over made me go feral during sex and both of them moaned a lot.

The issue is that, during the sauna session, the other guys mentioned how big I looked flaccid and one of them (who stayed at the room next to mine) mentioned he heard the moans coming from my room. I am younger than them and they were being really nice and just gave me the usual bro talk about women. I was a bit worried that I was talking about my sex life with my colleagues and it would appear unprofessional, and was frankly a bit embarrassed initially. Have you ever had a similar experience?


r/bigdickconversation • • 4d ago

CLOTHING A problem with work trousers

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Hey guys so I work in a place that requires I wear these fairly fitted trousers I am quite tall and skinny to so the ones I was given don’t fit great because the sizing is weird but an added problem with these trousers is that my junk is quite visible mainly due to girth.
Im constantly conscious of whether people can notice it, especially at work when I’m standing around or walking past people. I don’t want to draw attention to myself, but sometimes it feels pretty obvious. And if I got a boner I’d be finished haha

Does anyone else have this problem with work trousers, have you fixed it? Or do you just live with it?


r/bigdickconversation • • 4d ago

QUESTION Big cock negatives

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We all know how great it is to carry a big cock …..but has anyone ever said or written anything that was negative about yours?


r/bigdickconversation • • 5d ago

QUESTION Sauna with Friends

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Has anyone gone to a wellness club or sauna with their friends? I have a trip coming up and we might go to one together (3-4 guys in our 30s, all with long-term girlfriends or wives) to a sauna/wellness club as part of our plans.

Has anyone done this and what was it like? We’d all be naked together for at least part of the time, or with a towel on for the rest. I’m pretty comfortable with my size and body, but I’m not sure about the other guys. I’m well above average, but I haven’t been friends with these guys for very long so this would be the first time seeing/comparing.

Any advice or stories from your own experience would be great. I’m not too worried, and I’ll probably just follow what the other guys do so everyone is comfortable with the situation as much as possible.

Thanks in advance!


r/bigdickconversation • • 5d ago

TOO BIG 8x6 inch penis with a slight down curve- any sex advice?

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Hey, 19m college student, I have recently been in situations that almost led to intercourse but have not done penetration with anyone yet. But as i feel it might happen soon, I'd like some advice on the best positions or methods for my size and shape.

When erect it's 8 inches in length and 6 inches girth, and I'm circumcised (not sure if that's relevant tho)

About an inch from the base, it curves downward by 20-30 degrees and the rest is perfectly straight. I've heard that a downward curve is best for positions like doggy in order to hit the g-spot, but I also feel like I would enjoy something like missionary more, it's just hotter to me.

Is doggy enjoyable? What do you find most enjoyable about it if so?

I also should take into account my size- I've heard that for longer penises it's important to try with positions that allow the receiving partner to have control so that you don't cause damage. Is this true? What are the best positions like this for my size and shape?? Thanks for any help!!

PLEASE answer in the comments if you have advice. Do not answer privately, I will NOT reply lol ^^ Just answer here. Thank you!


r/bigdickconversation • • 5d ago

QUESTION A question for us 7 incher’s

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Why is it that 7 inches isn’t big when statically it says we are ?


r/bigdickconversation • • 6d ago

QUESTION I have a fun question for you… has she ever asked to hold it while you pee??

19 Upvotes

She had asked me several times lately, finally let her do it. She got giddy like a kid for the ice cream truck. Would do again lol


r/bigdickconversation • • 5d ago

ADVICE Picture

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Hi. Can I post a dick pic here? Thanks


r/bigdickconversation • • 6d ago

QUESTION Watching yourself fuck!

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Does it turn you on, looking at your dick when you are fucking?

I love watching myself fuck doggy sliding in and out, or in missionary.

I know it's vain but I've seen women watch as well, and it is soooo hot!


r/bigdickconversation • • 6d ago

EXPERIENCE Have any of y’all dealt with weird girls who flaunted your size to other guys?

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Idk if it’s just me, but I feel like a lot of the time the girls I’m with have way more of a “flaunt the dick” mentally than even us guys do. I’m not gonna pretend like I’ve never shown off before, but I don’t do it regularly and never to make other guys feel smaller or insecure. HOWEVER, an unusual amount of girls I’ve been with have the bizarre interest in comparing my dick with other guys explicitly to put them down or take a shot at their masculinity.

Whether it’s them joking about the heft I’m packing with their guy friends, or worse… (my guy friends??), it seems like a lot of girls get a sadistic thrill from outsizing another guy, regardless of who they’re using to outsize. I know this a minority of girls out there but I feel like people online always talk about boastful guys without taking in to account the other sex.

Maybe it could be something exclusive to sizequeens? Or maybe it’s just a way for some chicks to flaunt what they get to go home to? Regardless, I always feel weird being thrown into indirect dick measuring contests with other guys. Thankfully I’m not with someone like this at the moment, but my last fwb was very obsessed with this and other size kinks, and made me recognize the pattern for the first time.

I guess it could be seen as flattering a guy in a weird sense? Either way it still feels gross putting other guys down for something neither of us chose or can control. Am I crazy or has anyone else dealt with this? Do girls actually get a thrill comparing cock sizes vicariously? Should I just not say anything if this happens again in the future? Is this as weird as I think it is? Thanks!


r/bigdickconversation • • 5d ago

QUESTION Ankle Monitor - Bad Boy Factor

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Has anyone of you had an ankle monitor?
Did it have an effect of your (hook-up) partners when you had action going on?

Or:

Would you see a guy with an ankle monitor (and of course a big dick) finde hotter / more attractive due to the implication of him being badass / dangerous / mysterious?
Or would an ankle monitor rather spoil your mood?