This is my first pregnancy after trying for over a year so this is all so new to me. Don't know if I should be hopeful or if I should just guard my heart. In all honestly, maybe I just need to get this all off my chest because it’s been a stressful few weeks. ( Long post)
Last Saturday I was supposedly 7 weeks + 5 days pregnant but started experiencing very light spotting. Only saw a pink tint when I wiped, never filled a pad or even enough to stain underwear. Some days I would see small flecks in the toilet, went to my Doctors office on the 3rd day and they didn’t seem too concerned and stated that spotting was completely normal in early pregnancy unless I was cramping which I wasn’t. Continued to spot on and off for about 5 days until the 6th day I had a red streak from an wipe and immediately flipped out and decided to go to the ER. Same questions were asked , no I was not filling a pad, it was just pinkish red spotting, no cramps. They decided to check me into the maternity ward instead of Emergency, and the nurse was reassuring me that she didn’t think I was miscarrying but that it was normal and to keep an eye on it and come back if it gets worse. I felt a bit sad that I wasn’t able to get a bedside ultrasound, because up to that point I hadn't received any ultrasound yet but the nurse was kind enough to find me an appointment 2 days later, which was 6 days sooner than my scheduled one.
Fast forward to the ultrasound, and at that point I was supposed to be measuring 8 weeks and 6 days But the tech was only able to find the gestational sac and egg yolk. No fetal pole… no embryo or heartbeat.. and she mentioned I was only measuring about 6 weeks and 6 days. A whole 2 weeks behind!!! She tried to be very optimistic with me and said maybe we just have our dates wrong or maybe ovulation and implantation took longer than expected. I know that I have longer cycles that can be 33-35 days and not the typical 28 and I tend to ovulate on day 20 or 20+ , but a whole 2 weeks behind with no embryo was just concerning. I have no bad feelings for the tech, she was doing her job and being as kind as she could to me. The next day the hospital Nurse called me to go over the results, she was also very optimistic and said right now I have everything needed, just need the egg yolk to grow into an embryo and that anything is possible still. We scheduled another appointment in 10 days and I am waiting to see whether or not there is any growth.
Since then spotting has stopped completely, the morning of my first ultrasound It had stopped and it wasn’t until after the appointment that I spotted one last time but I heard that’s normal to spot during a transvaginal ultrasound. My actual doctor did call me the next day to go over results with me , and unfortunately a resident was attending and he delivered the news to me. He was very blunt , and said due to my period date I should be 9 weeks and because I have no embryo I am probably going to miscarriage soon or should look into options to do so. My doctor had to cut in and offered I do some bloodtests to track if my hcg is going up just so I could double check before my next ultrasound. So far I’ve just done the one and am waiting 48 hours for the next one.
Sorry for the long read, not sure if anyone is still here but I guess I just needed to let it out and share my life story lol Is there any hope for me or is this just the end? My symptoms have always been the same, just sore breasts, tired , and I get on and off mid day nausea that lasts only a few hours at a time.