Hi all,

I'm a late bloomer and in my 40s. I have always liked men who are androgynous or feminine. It's because I feel safe around them. I'm genderqueer, omnisexual, omniromantic, demisexual, and demiromantic.

There's a lot of judgment against people liking people whose gender expression is different from ’the norm’. It feels terrible because, to me, it has nothing to do with sex.