I LOVE this shirt from aritzia but I wish it would fit me like how it fits the model. If I try on this shirt it will be 10 times shorter and even more of a crop top 😢.

I also just want to wear baggy clothes without looking like a tent. If anyone has any hoodie/ sweater recommendations please let me know, thanks.

Ok I new to this sub and I need to vent so hopefully this is the correct flair and apologies in advance if i ramble. I started birth control about a year ago ago and my boobs got bigger, no surprise there. I just stopped birth control because I want to try for a baby next year hopefully and I am hoping my boobs get smaller in the meantime. Also have been in the process of losing weight without GLPs. It's been hard yall.

Anyway, I just measured myself again using a bra that fits calculator and I'm now a 38G. I feel like crying because I can't imagine how big my chest will get if I do end up getting pregnant. I want a breast reduction in the future. I'd get it now of I could, but I am scared that I may not be able to breast feed.

I think it's a combination of my hormones stabilizing/ body dysmorphia making me feel depressed, but I don't have anyone to talk about it at this time. Thank you for reading.

I am 5'2 175lbs.

Not sure why my hoodie falls off my left shoulder. Is it my bust line that's causing this? It's a pain pulling it back on all day. Zippered hoodie open to the waist; as it is, I'd like full sleeves, not 3/4.

I'm an "I" cup and looking where you guys find boob friendly corsets preferably extended size. Doesn't have to be super high quality. Just pretty enough for a 18th century princess look.

I measure to a 32DDD which is technically an 32F. But every bra I try on never fits. The cup is either too big, or the band is too tight. Or the bra feels like it fits but the gore doesnt touch. Its terrible, im 25 and never had a proper fitting bra except sports bra.

If anyone on this channel has experience with recreational shooting (rifle/shotgun), I’d love to hear from you.

I recently picked up pistol shooting, and I’m thinking of moving up to longer guns soon. The only thing holding me back at this point is my concern about butt placement when shooting. I have a pretty wide root for my frame, and I’m concerned that this might affect my ability to put the butt in the right place on my shoulder. I don’t want to risk a silly injury like this! If anyone has faced this before and can advice me on how to go about this, I’d really appreciate it!

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So I have been wearing the Sculptresse Bliss in 34GG but I have lost some weight and the bra is finally feeling far too lose on the band and a bit too snug in the cup to the point where it is actually extremely uncomfortable.

Measurements: loose 35, snug 34, tight 32, standing 45, leaning 51, laying 47

The calculator is now putting me in 32J or JJ. I have very squishy tissue and a high root. The other issue is that I am a swimmer so I have larger traps so my bra straps like to slide off. This bra WAS PERFECT and of course they don't make it in a 32 band because that would be too easy.

I would like suggestions for bras that solve these issues in the 32 band, please and thanks!

* large traps cause straps to slide

* high root

* squishy tissue with a lot of projection

* to throw a curveball at y'all I don't like racerbacks

UPDATE 10/17:

I tried the Panache Serene 32J. Cups are too small. Quadboob and wire is too wide and stabs me in the armpit, despite the fact that the underwire is sitting completely flush, as is the gore. Band felt very comfortable though.

Panache Serene 32JJ. Cups are too big. Even worse armpit stabbing, and also the top of the cups are gaping after scoop and swoop.

Please suggest!!

I do colorguard and riffle spinning. Theres moments where I have hit myself many times and it’s even worse with a riffle since it’s heavier usually. of course when I throw the flag/ riffle with too much force ill probably not be able to catch it on time. I’ve gotten a concussion before with it but I’ve also been hit many times on my chest and it HURTS LIKE A BITCH especially if the riffle tip hits it. Over the years, it’s started to hurt less, but I have been bruised there many times to the point someone confused it as a hickey.

I don’t know if this is normal. I can still feel pain sometimes but when it comes to the flag, I don’t feel much but the riffle (which I spin less) still hurts a little more

Hey everyone, I wrote this piece about my issues with Victoria’s Secret, Savage X Fenty and others, they are doing us a big disservice!

I wish I could repost on here so I wouldn’t have to copy the link!! Let me know how everyone else feels!!

FOLLOW UP!!

Here is my quick checklist of 8 pointers I always tell people to check when diagnosing their own bra fit (I've also attached some great anatomy/fit diagrams to the post to help visualize this!):

1. ⁠The middle should lie as flat as possible on the sternum. (Obviously with the bigger sizes complete flatness is not always possible, but it shouldn't float completely).
   
2. ⁠The band at the back should be straight and inline with the front. It shouldn’t feel like the band at the back is going halfway up your back—that actually makes you hunch over!
   
3. ⁠If you pull the band at the back and it stretches greatly away from your spine, it’s way too big.
   
4. ⁠When the band is fitted, it should feel snug and firm NOT TIGHT. This is normal for new bras; you don’t want them too loose otherwise they wear too quickly and you’ll be back getting a new one in no time.
   
5. ⁠The metal wire should never sit on the side of your boob tissue; it should sit flat on the bone.
   
6. ⁠When you lift your hands up, the bra shouldn’t lift with you and reveal lots of underboob. It should stay firmly anchored.
   
7. ⁠Avoid washing bras in the washing machine! The elastic expands and breaks, which causes that annoying fold-over effect in t-shirt bras. If you absolutely must wash it in the machine, do it cold or in a proper bra bag!
   
8. ⁠And please, don't make the straps too tight just to compensate for an ill-fitting, loose band!

I HOPE THIS HELPS XX

PLEASE let me know I’m not alone on this? As a lurker on this sub I know you’re all acquainted with the daily issues we face on our own, but what happens when it starts affecting our loved ones? As a single mom I have it hard enough as it is, people love to make wild assumptions about me or look down on me which isn’t fine but I’m used to it.

Unfortunately now I’m starting to see the effect it has on my child and it’s infuriating. At my size, it’s pretty unavoidable to attract attention everywhere I go but lately I feel like it’s causing him to be embarrassed of his own mom. There’s assholes that don’t understand boundaries or how to act when a kid is around. It’s one thing to be catcalled, it’s another to be catcalled when your son is right next to you. I also feel scrutinized at his school because I know how the other parents look at me. I’ve been judged for what I’ve worn to parent-teacher conferences when it’s literally the same thing other people were wearing. His teacher has told me he’s been having trouble getting along with his classmates and I know for a fact it’s my fault because I’ve heard what his “friends” have said about me. I could go on and on but you get the idea. I feel like I’m a horrible mother and that he would be so much better off without me causing issues for him.

Hello! I have been struggling with my big boobs for a long time now. Not to mention the physical and mental health problems they cost me, I also just dont like how I look in them. Do u guys maybe have some tips on how to make them look visually smaller?

Thank u in advance 🩷

my shoulders have become hunched due to my tits weighing them down what can i do

I have horrible posture from my larger breasts and I would love some suggestions on how to help correct this. It’s awful to deal with and I can’t get a breast reduction because my boobs “Aren’t large enough“ even though they‘re throwing my upper back out(which hurts me more often than not)and causing my whole upper body to slump in ways it isn’t suppose to. If anyone could help, it would be greatly appreciated

Hi everyone! It’s my 40th 🤢🤢birthday in a few weeks and looking for an outfit. I’ve seen a few things but mostly everything I like, like the new lbd from Zara, will not be suitable for me 🥺 so I’m looking for recommendations of sites to look at please? Places I’ve been looking at pink boutique l, Zara, river island etc.

Thank you

hi all. i've been wearing the same sports bras for over ten years now, of course, purchased from marshalls, which means i'll never be able to find them again. i've checked the brand as well and naturally, they don't make this exact bra anymore. it's perfect because it clasps in the back, the shoulders have velcro so you can adjust how tight it is (and aren't ones that go through the middle of the back, they have individual thick straps), and there's enough fabric to fully cover my boobs without any spillage (i'm about a 38DDD).

i really would love a sports bra recommendation. but here's the issue i run into: i HATE underwire sports bras, i HATE sports bras that have molded cups/cups that are already formed/encapsulation. i also don't want one of those overhead ones that have absolutely no compression. i want compression! but all the sports bras that say they're my size don't have enough actual fabric to fully cover the boobs.

does anyone have any recommendations at all or any idea of any sports bras that kind of fit this? or do you have any sports bras that you love that are worth it? because the two i have are starting to fall apart. i don't care about the shelf boob look lol.

I have a pretty big chest and In the past I’ve been able to get away with wear 2 sports bras when learning to ride, but as I’m getting better I’m going faster and it no longer cutting it. my chest hurts after every ride and I thank goodness it cold out right now and I can wear a jacket.

I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions for high support sports bras that hold up while horses riding.

Every time I think my boobs are maybe done growing and I can invest in expensive big boob bras, I literally have a boob growth spurt and they go up 1 to 2 cup sizes in a month. I’m measuring at a 32L today, and i was measuring at a 32J/K a month ago. They’ve definitely gotten to the point where they make me feel huge and like i’m breastfeeding triplets lollllll, a few weeks ago an older lady at the thrift store asked me if I “have little ones at home” with no context and I genuinely think she thought I was breastfeeding😭 I’ve just been super self conscious of how big they’ve gotten and I don’t have anyone to really talk to about it. I have a doctor’s appointment next week and I want to mention something about rapid breast growth but I don’t really know what I would say to be taken seriously. Does anyone else notice random huge growth like this? Super tired of my boobs rn

i’m 18 and a 32HH and I haven’t yet been in a romantic relationship which is annoying but I’m waiting for the right person to come into my life. Although bc I have a bigger bust compared to my waist I’m just kind of worried how do you know if someone loves you for you or just your body. When I go out in public I worry that ppl literally look at my chest bc of the difference between my waist and my bust it’s literally the first thing you would look at. It also makes talking to people uncomfortable because I feel like they are looking at my boobs even tho I can’t tell. I’m literally hating every minute of being single and need a boyfriend but i’m waiting to find the right one but I am a very empathetic and gentle person I’m worried I won’t know if i’m being used. Sorry if this is such a slop post I just need some advice

It's super rainy today, and humid and sticky but somehow still October sweater weather in New England...and, as a very busty woman we all know what this means: Sticky and sweaty underboob, or just in general. I love the girls mostly. But the management and extra self with things like this are difficult.
I'm 36GG, and possibly growing (some weight gain I think, very annoying). Anyone have any discrete solutions for this? I'm at work so, have to stay bra on.
Sorry for the straight forward post I'm trying to sneak this on my phone while on teams.

I’m taking surfing lessons while in Jaco, Costa Rica while working remotely for a month.

I’ve taken two lessons so far and hope to get in ~8 while I’m here.

My problem is that the upper body strength needed to get up with big boobs (DDD/E) is SO hard for me!

I know that I’m a very new beginner so that it would be hard anyways.

But I’m so down on myself and sad that I didn’t get a reduction in my 20s and all of the other athletic things I’ve probably missed out on because of it! (I love hiking and skiing but running is very painful.)

Does anyone have advice for surfing with big boobs?

Specifically with getting up from laying on the board to standing.

Is it just that I need to work on my upper body strength regardless?

Thank you!!

I went to a bachelorette this weekend with a lot of women I don’t know. For some reason, one woman in particular felt it was appropriate to comment on how “humongous” my boobs are. She’d also frequently tell me that I was “falling out” of my bathing suits. It was never complimentary (not that it would matter) and I feel like she just wanted me to feel disgusting about myself. It felt like I was back in the middle school locker room.

This is more a vent post that anything I just fucking hate it.

Before I used to have a problem with my huge ass belly and I lost weight and now my boobs don't fit really... it barely locked and I felt suffocated af.. i didn't know this was a thing 💀