I've been really irritated lately with the lack of representation depicted in porn, despite the fact that there is probably more porn out there than ever before. I tried watching mainstream porn when I was a teenager and was generally put off by the misogyny and performative spectacle of it all. It was all just so same-y, the dude just jackhammered some pristine hairless wailing woman with his massive dick until someone came. It all felt fake and crude and cringe-y. Sure, I get that gets most people off and its only for entertainment mostly, but I've never found anything particularly suited to my own unique interests.

I mostly read erotica (fanfiction) because I can get very picky with the content filtering of it, and the writing style is a lot more erotically vs pornographically focused. But sometimes I want something visual. I am bi, but a lot of porn out there does not seem to be made with anyone else in mind than cishet men... I've bought subscriptions to erikalust, a content creator couple, and filthy figments to try and bring some visual and creative diversity in, and while those were all lovely exceptions to the rule, their catalog is limited, and does not seem as extensive as sites like pornhub or something. There's only so many times I can jerk it to the same video before it becomes easier to just use my imagination.

I've recently taken to just making the content I want to see in the world by writing and drawing some characters that are representative of what I find arousing, but I'm sick of doing everything myself! Its even hard for me to find reference images to draw the sort of stuff I want to see of the male body type I'm attracted to. I like very tall lanky alternative (tattoos, piercings, mohawks, looks like a strong breeze would knock them over, etc.) men but even on the subreddits dedicated to "alt porn" its always just focused on women, sorry, ~goth girls~ What if I want to objectify an inked up man!?!!

The main things that I want to see change:
-skinny lanky guys
-alternative men
-seeing a dudes face while people are boning, not just a close up of the fucking
-literally any normal amount of body hair on women
-different body types for women (I'm talking fat girls and muscled girls and older women whose boobs sag!)
-Gender minorities that are not fetishized (idk if I've seen any trans or non-binary representation where their marginalized identity was not overtly fetishized outside of filthy figments comics which are made by a lot of GNC artists)

It feels frustrating that there is diverse content for fetishes as specific as inflation or JOI or furries or hypnosis or feminization out there with LIBRARIES worth of media but a girl with unsymmetrical labia? Nearly impossible to find. It just feels so monotonous and lame at this point. I know culturally we're still getting over the whole "women can be interested and enjoy erotica" point but cmon now. romantasy is one of the best selling fiction genres annually. Can we at least consider editing the script on these videos?

TL;DR there should be more diverse porn out there that caters to me and my interests, specifically.

So first of all I'm an adult so I hope no minors interact with my post. I've been looking and exploring personal massagers for a while. Currently I have a Qibox lipstick discrete one and was looking for a suction massager as well.

So if somebody can answer me how is the one I've mentioned in the title? for more context it's the rose shape one (have heard about it a lot too) and it's currently available on instant delivery apps I guess but I really wanted to do my research before investing.

So please if anybody can answer they're welcome. 🤗🥹

we finally had a chance home alone to actually love each other properly after months, and it was great! i love that he is very caring and makes sure i give full consent and am ready for everything :)

Hi, i'm F(24) and always have problem with my sexuality (because of past trauma) and my boyfriend bought me a sextoy for me to take back my sexuality.

We have sex but not often and he really doesn't shame or pressure me to do it. He encourage me to explore it with smut in books and asked me if a sextoy would help me and at the time i said yes and i believe it but i'm at loss..i tried it but it feels weird and there's a LOT of settings and i feel bad..it's like he offered me a sweet opportunity and i waste it.

The funny thing is that the toy has the same name as me and i kinda like it

I can share the link if it's relevent just tell me

I 21F have grown up syntribating before i even knew what it was (crossing ur legs until climax) this has worked for me great until i started getting in relationships and couldn’t even finish with my partners. I had tried using my hand before it just never seemed to work. After a lot of research i decided to take a break from syntribation and try using my hand. About i week ago i tried it, i started off crossing my legs a bit and then when i felt turned on enough i switched to my hand. This worked as i started to feel close, still it didn’t feel half as good as syntribation and it felt a bit different than syntribation as i was getting close because usually i just finish and that’s that but this felt like finishing was taking longer and like i kinda had to push it out? then out of nowhere that feeling went away and i started feeling nauseous and exactly how i feel post orgasm. The weird part is that i didn’t feel the orgasm part but i think i came? So i tried it again a couple days later and same thing happened. I’m lost idk what to do i want this so bad.