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My boyfriend and I recently discussed the possibility of having a threesome with one of his close friend.

During our conversation, I repeatedly asked him if he was genuinely comfortable with the idea, especially since the third person would be someone he knew personally. Each time, he reassured me that he was comfortable with it. He even explained that he felt more comfortable with someone he knew rather than a stranger. I felt the same way, as I wouldn't want to do this with a stranger either.

We discussed the idea in quite a lot of detail, and he asked me several questions about a dream I had that involved a similar situation. Based on everything he said, I genuinely believed we were on the same page.

The next day, after thinking everything through, I told him that I wanted to move forward with it. That's when he told me he wasn't comfortable with the idea after all.

I immediately told him that it was completely fine and that we wouldn't do anything if he wasn't comfortable. I have no issue with respecting his boundaries, and I don't want him to agree to something he doesn't want.

However, I asked him why he hadn't told me how he really felt during our conversation the previous day, especially when I had repeatedly checked in with him. He told me that he wanted to see where I stood on the subject first.

That honestly made me feel manipulated. I had been open and honest with him about my thoughts, and he had encouraged the conversation by reassuring me that he was comfortable and asking me questions. I feel like I was being led to believe that we had reached a mutual understanding, only for him to reveal his actual feelings after I expressed that I was ready to proceed.

He also explained that he would have been okay with it if our relationship weren't leading toward marriage, but because he sees us getting married someday, he no longer wants to consider it.

To be clear, I am not upset that he changed his mind or that he doesn't want a threesome. I respect that completely, and nothing would happen unless we were both genuinely comfortable with it.

What has affected me is how the conversation unfolded. I repeatedly gave him opportunities to tell me how he felt, and I believed he was being honest with me. Now, I feel like I can't trust that he is telling me what he genuinely thinks when we discuss something important.

Since this happened, I've noticed that I don't feel as attracted to him anymore. It's not because he said no, but because the situation has changed how I perceive him and how safe I feel being vulnerable and honest with him.

So, AITA for losing attraction to my boyfriend because of how he handled this conversation, even though I completely respect his decision not to go through with the threesome?

Your best friend of 15 years calls you over and tells you something he hasn’t told anyone else.
Six months ago, he won $4 million after taxes.
His wife has no idea.
She currently works two jobs because they supposedly can’t afford their mortgage, childcare and bills. She’s been working around 60 hours a week while he keeps telling her they’re barely getting by.
Meanwhile, he secretly put most of the money into investments and bought himself a $70,000 car that he told her was leased through his company.
You ask him why he hasn’t told her.
He says their marriage has been rocky and he’s afraid she’ll divorce him and take half the money. His plan is to wait a couple years, see if their marriage improves, and then tell her.
A week later you’re at their house and his wife starts talking to you about how exhausted she is. She says she’s considering picking up even more shifts because they’re falling behind.
Your friend texts you afterward:
“Please don’t tell her. This has nothing to do with you.”
You know telling her could destroy your friendship and possibly their marriage. But every time she goes to her second job, you know there’s $4 million sitting there that she doesn’t even know exists.
Do you tell her?

"I just want to share something that is currently going on between me and my husband.
I am a 26-year-old man, and my husband is over 50. The age gap was never a problem for me (I guess I have some 'daddy issues'), and I am completely fine with it. However, when we walk outside together, people often look at us with judgment. You can tell they think I am only using him for his money, but that was never the case—I have had real feelings for him for the past four years.
A year and a half ago, we decided to open our relationship. And that is the point where I now think: hmm, maybe that wasn't the best idea. Our sex life has changed a lot. Sometimes we go two or three weeks without doing anything except cuddling. I feel like he isn't really into me anymore, and honestly, I am not that into him either.
But then there is the other side of me that doesn't want to leave him. I don't know... I really care about him a lot, and he has always taken great care of me. We have shared such beautiful moments together. Still, I can see that nothing seems to fit in our marriage anymore.
Another thing is that I am very active and quite extroverted, while he is very introverted. This means that when we go out, I am always the one talking to people and trying to ensure we have a great night. He doesn't really contribute anything to our social life. I always have to be the one who comes up with nice things for us to do.
I think he has simply done a lot in his life already, and now he just wants to rest and relax. On the other hand, I still want to experience so many things. It is not that something is physically holding me back, but it just feels strange when your husband doesn't share the same interests as you.

Since I don't really have close friends to talk to about this, I would really appreciate any advice or suggestions."

Ladies please help,me and this guy have been texting for almost 3 years now. He lives 30 minutes away and we have never met in person but recently we have been texting more and trying to make plans. He invited me over to his house but I’m soooo nervous and scared I might pussy out

We do like each other and want to meet and he has his own house it’s not like he’s invited me over to his mom’s house which is a pet peeve of mine so should I ? I need words of encouragement because I’m so nervous I haven’t gone on a date or hung out with a boy in months
Edit: he asked to go on a hike date next Saturday should I just wait until then? Kinda wanna get my rocks off but at the same time I don’t know

I introduced my GF to Rust a few months ago and she struggled at first because, well I'm terrible at FPS honestly... And I don't think I was a great teacher.

She's crazy competitive at R6 Siege and stuff, so i thought she would be good at rust too. She wasn't bad at the game when it comes to 1v1s and stuff, but against groups or like getting raided, we never did a chance.

Although we did succeed at offline raiding this one group of weirdos who really pissed us off on one server.

We played for a few weeks, but then I got bored and decided to play DayZ and BG3, but she wanted to keep playing Rust. So she joined a clan that was mostly girls and I think played on more of a roleplay server with streamers and such... Which is fine and all, but imo isn't the authentic Rust experience.

Anyway, she's been playing a ton and recently I've noticed that she had started using language that I kinda associate with the more toxic elements of Rust. For example, when she swears about something, she will use words like "cuck", "bitch", "cunt", and some others like... I'm not gonna list them because they are probably too offensive for Reddit these days.

But she also has called me some of these words and I'm not actually that she even noticed she's been doing it. I got called such an actual cuck because I wanted to read my book rather than watch another episode of From.

I also got told to hurry my bitch ass up while I was getting something from the kitchen. And I've been called a lil bitch dozens of times now.

I don't mind the language and I'm not going to like bring it up like I'm fragile about it. But I did have a weird nightmare that we were having sex and she screamed "reeeeee" in my ear.

I currently have a 8 year old little girl with my ex Anthony. He is a dead beat dad and hasn’t been a good dad at all. However when my daughter was around 3 years old her parental grandparents starting coming around to visit her and help we out with taking care of her. I visited their home as well and went to Thanksgiving and Christmas dinner at their home. My daughter’s grandfather became very attached to her and wanted to do more to help me with her. The grandmother became upset because she said he was doing too much and did not want him giving me money on a regular basis to help with my daughter. I told him to stop and I would take care of my bills. But the grandfather Tony did not stop. In fact he stop by my house everyday to see his granddaughter. He bought food weekly for me, cut my grass, paid utilities and my rent numerous times, even though his wife told him to stop. After a year or two his wife found bank statements and saw the money he was giving me and an account he open just me and deposited money. She left him and he told me how she was trying to ruin him financially. He has his own business and makes a good living . I told him I would be there for him always like he has been there for me. He poured his feelings out for me and I just consoled him and we started an sexual relationship from that point on. I got pregnant by him and had a little boy who is 2 years old. His wife came back to him because she realized she loved her lifestyle and didn’t want a divorce. She knows about our son and he has never stopped taking care of my daughter. Also I have not stopped my relationship with Tony. I love him but I don’t want to keep this going forever. I got a reality check when I discovered I am pregnant again with his second baby. I don’t know what to do, and he said that he will never stop being my man and wants me to marry him. But I just can’t. His wife told me she will never divorce him , because she will be sure I will not be his wife, regardless how many times I get pregnant by him. She will fight and fight the divorce . I don’t know if I should just secretly move away. Or stay and accept his marriage proposal. He has filed for divorce and currently stays at my home the majority of the time. His wife has followed him to my home and gotten in arguments with me more than once. I told Tony I can’t tolerate that. She has convinced all his family to hate me and my children. I can’t go to any of his family gatherings or reunions because his family hates me. They don’t want to have anything to do with my children. I don’t know if I want to be in a family that has so much hate for me. However I have never had a man that loves me like Tony. He gives me affectionate all the time, even in public constantly kissing on me, hugging, and rubbing on me. He takes care of all my bills and household needs for me and the children. He says he doesn’t need his family, as long as he has me. I know he loves me deeply and we are intimate every day. It would not be easy to break away from him because we have children together and he is so attached to me emotionally and sexually. But I don’t want to spend my life arguing and bickering with his wife and one of his sister that always teams up with his wife and harasses me. Especially now that I am pregnant again. They don’t want me to have another baby with him. Anthony was adopted by them when he was a little boy. Tony and his wife didn’t have any biological children because she could not have kids. So me getting pregnant back to back is really bothering her and his family especially his older sister she is close to his wife.

I was scrolling on TikTok yesterday evening and got a follow and dm from a guy whose username read Richard. We’ve been talking for about 48 hours and I just decided to give him my number, not thinking anything of it since there were videos of the guy in his account. As we’ve been talking, we’ve sent simple, innocent selfies back and forth and one of them stood out to me. It was him in an army uniform with three men behind him smiling, and upon showing this picture to several people I know we all agree it looks heavily AI generated. He told me things about his army career that didn’t add up, that he was part of mission Resolute Support and stationed in Iran.

Initially I didn’t think anything of it, then he sent the AI selfie and I looked into it further. The job and battalion information all added up, but resolute support didn’t. I have immediate family who is ex military, and he pointed out that Resolute Support was in Afghanistan and disbanded in 2021, but “Richard” said he was actively part of it.

So naturally, I dug deeper, using image search through every search engine until I found a man who looked identical on Facebook under a different name, who is also in the Infantry for the Army. I don’t know if it’s the actual person, or if it’s an alternate account, but I’m weirded out enough that I’m half tempted to reach out and ask if he knew of the other account.

I’m honestly kind of freaking out because I’ve shown this person what I look like, told him things like my favorite color (stupid, I know), though I’ve kept things like my family relations, last name, and other personal information to myself. Any advice on where to go from here would be greatly appreciated 😓

I work for a man in power. I don't mean like a politician or billionaire, but stil someone in private practice who is highly respected in this field.

He is extremely difficult. He shouts, belittles, demeans. not all the time; he can be nice too. And he yelled at everyone around us. I am usually beside him when he does it. because I am there to take notes. I am the one who calms him down after the meeting.

but it happened 2 weeks ago that he yelled at me the same way he yelled at others. and I started crying like crazy in front of him. i even went that far to tell him while I was sobbing how I felt special because he never yelled at me and how I try to be the best for him. he immediately softened amd apologised but was somehow distant for the rest of the day.

im his assistant. we are not close on a personal level, he never tells me about his wife or kids and I also never talk about my boyfriend or sister or family. but we still spend a lot of time together. since that day he snapped 3 more times at me. but it looks a bit forced, like he just wants to see my reaction.

I feel so stupid because my life goal became to show him I am good enough and I don't deserve to be yelled at (no, my dad never yelled at me nor other male figure in my life). I am 31 and he is 47. so i am not some teenager

My Bf (30M) and I (26F) were together two years. Yesterday we broke up but he hasno idea what I discovered before our breakup, and I desperately need advice on how to handle this.
A week ago, a text message from Tinder popped up on his IPad. I brushed it off as promotional, but tbh it kept bothering me.
Yesterday while tidying up, I was his iPad and checked, but I didn’t stop there and went through his WhatsApp.

Conversations with approximately 7-10 women. Full on romantic relationships, sexual encounters, all of it. Telling multiple women he loved them and everything. Two of this women were his cousins. One it appeared to be a full blown romantic relationship, the other were very graphic messages and pictures about all the times they met up, and plans to meet again.
Conversations with this coworkers about hooking up in lunch breaks, and request to a bunch of women requesting and receiving intimate pictures. There were also conversations with his children’s mother about buying her the same things as me, confessing his love while telling her he would not leave me regardless of his feelings for her.
I was devastated. I didn’t even check in depth, I just looked for key words, so idk how much more there is. I’ve never done this in my life, and never experienced this level of shock.
He came over later and I couldn’t tell him what I did. I just asked repeatedly why put me in these situations that made me questions his love and loyalty for me. The conversation escalated, and we broke up.
He doesn’t know I was those messages. .
I’m struggling because I feel lost on what to do. I want to confront hin but maybe it’ll turn into an argument about snooping instead of an honest conversation.
I need advice on what to do, how do I handle the conversation? Should I have it? How to get closure? Need help

UPDATE: I had to see him since he apparently had my house spare keys. I looked at him and said “if you even have the slightest respect for me as a human being, say the shit you need to say.”
Basically confessed to everything. And said I breached his trust and atp he doesn’t care anymore. He explained that I had been “nagging him too much” so he decided he was done with it and looked for love someplace else. That he still deeply “loved me” but he had to teach me a lesson. And then said “Have a good life! You’ll find something better. I still love you, but the trust is broken and I don’t wanna fix it and have to go through all that”
He mentioned a “in the future comment” but I had to stop the convo because I was over it…
He said a bunch of other stuff, but thats the main things.
I feel like he trulyyy think he’s a victim of my snooping and my mistrust.

Found this girl on Facebook turns out we went to the same college and live in the same city, I texted her made my intention completely clear informing her of what I wanted from her and she didn’t seem to object and now… should I call it GGs and abandon?

What could I have done differently and where did I go wrong

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I made a post here a while ago about discovering that my girlfriend's physical and personality preferences were different from what she originally told me. Most people called me insecure, said I was overthinking, and accused me of ruining my relationship. You all wanted to make me the bad guy and especially the woman saying that it's none of my business knowing about her preferences or past.

I'll admit I have insecurities, but my gut kept telling me there was more, especially because her answers constantly changed.

Well, I recently found out she had been secretly talking to another guy while we were together. The worst part is that this guy matched pretty much everything she described as her ideal type.

I also discovered that she had cheated on her previous boyfriend with this exact same guy. By cheating I mean she was sexting him while they were on a break.

She initially lied about when they stopped talking, and her timeline kept changing as I uncovered more information.

She admitted he sent her explicit pictures and that she sometimes went along with his sexual conversations. When I asked whether they had sexted while we were together, she claimed she couldn't remember but admitted it was possible.

What hurts the most is that I've repeatedly asked her to be honest, yet I've had to uncover almost everything myself.

I genuinely love her. We're long-distance, have spent months together in person, and were even planning to get married. But now I'm questioning everything.

I know I have insecurities to work on, but I don't think that excuses her dishonesty.

Would you give her a second chance knowing she cheated on her ex with the same guy she continued talking to behind your back? Can trust realistically be rebuilt after this much lying?

My girlfriend said to me during a conversation, she doesn’t care how her hair looks as there are no boys in her college. She literally meant she wants to look perfect in front of other boys but doesn’t really care among girls.

i (18F) am in a discord server. it’s a lot of fun ! we do movie nights and game nights and it has really gotten me out of this depression i’ve been in. i am dating a wonderful wonderful man (19M) for almost a year now !! i love him with all of my heart. we’re going through a weird phase right now because our sleep schedules were opposite and talking became less but we still love eachother and are excited to see eachother for halloweekend ! now the issue. there is a guy (29M) in the discord server i frequent and he has told me that he is “waiting for me” and keeps talking abt what it’ll be like when we see eachother in person (uhm that’s NOT on my bucket list). we played some video games together and he kept calling me sweetheart. at this point i think it’s just what he calls people. i refer to people i don’t know by “sweetness” all the time so i wast fazed by this. then he starts talking “oh ik im making you horny” and sends unsolicited peen pics. at this point i want to block him and call it a day but he is ALSO frequent on the discord. in the server rules it states if you have drama figure it out and don’t bring it to the server. i’m really scared ill fall back into depression if i leave the server which sounds dramatic but its honestly the only thing that makes me feel like i have a community. any ideas ? in a perfect world i find a new active server to spend my time with but im autistic and making friends is hard. many people dont like me because of how blunt i am (which is funny considering the situation im in). I know ill get some “go outside and make friends” but i dont know how. HELP !!!

Best friends since we were 14. Now 30. Always a”will they, won’t they” around us. We loved each other when we were younger, used to kiss at parties and end up with each other but never crossed that line.

Grew up, went down similar but different paths. I had (rubbish) boyfriends for a large period of time, he was always there. I’m finally single about 4 years ago, he’s happy in a relationship. We just remained very good friends but less flirty than before.

He broke up with his gf about a year ago, I’m still single. Still staying in touch as friends. Go to a wedding this year and spend the whole night together and eventually cross the line. So confused now; all those feelings came rushing back but a few months on and we’re both so guarded. Tried to talk about it but feels like both of us are still holding back. I think I still love him but I don’t know what to do about it

As a girl, I want your opinion.

She’s 23 (F). How do I explain the difference between reality and fiction?

She wants me to yearn for her, to constantly chase her and express my feelings in ways that, honestly, feel performative to me.

I don’t send her reels all the time, but I do make an effort to talk to her because I genuinely enjoy having conversations with her. To me, connection should come naturally, not feel like a competition over who misses whom more.

She told me she can earn money herself and that what she really wants is someone who yearns for her.

Anyone can give flower to her but how do I explain I have compromised my values in this relationship and I am still standing.

I understand that she wants to feel wanted, but I think there’s a difference between wanting someone to love you and wanting them to constantly prove it.

A little about me: I’m an ambitious man. It’s been five years, and throughout this relationship, I’ve pushed her to grow, challenged her, and encouraged her to reach her potential. Now, I want that same energy in return. I want someone who challenges me, pushes me forward, and helps me become a better version of myself.

I’ll admit that I’ve been toxic at times, and I’m not trying to justify my mistakes. I know I have things to work on. But at this point in my life, I want a relationship that brings peace, emotional security, and mutual growth.

The problem is that every time I talk to her, it feels like I’m entering another battleground. Instead of feeling understood, I feel like I have to defend my intentions, explain my actions, and prove that I care.

I don’t want a relationship where love becomes a constant test. I want a partner who understands that ambition, personal space, and genuine affection can coexist with love.

Am I wrong for wanting this? How do I explain the difference between the romantic expectations she has and the kind of relationship I want to build? And after five years together, how do I figure out whether we can actually give each other what we need?

I met him after just turning 26.

When we met he was smart, capable, and sweet. He treated me so well. Doing anything to see me smile. He’s not from this country and his English wasn’t the best, but we made it work. I fell in love with him, his chivalry and his character.

We moved in together. We grew up and our relationship deepened.

Fast forward 6 years to the present. I’ve noticed he’s not acting capable anymore, maybe he never was and I was just young and didn’t see it before. Like, he always takes a backseat and lets me handle everything and pick up the pieces when our life hits a rough patch. He doesn’t do things that I’m used to men doing in a relationship. He doesn’t keep finances organized, he doesn’t handle paperwork if we have a problem, he doesn’t write things down or set reminders. I swoop in to save us because I can’t handle the uncertainty and I’ve gotten the feeling that he can’t be trusted to keep us safe or be competent when situations arise. He avoids. He is avoidant and then the problem grows and comes crashing down.

At 32 I’ve realized that I’m becoming the “manager” and the one who feels competent enough to handle the problem. He’ll straight up look to me as if I have all the answers. I only say this because I’ve seen, time after time, him fail to solve a problem effectively. It either gets worse or I have to come in and do it. I know that I’m more intelligent than him (I’m sorry if that sounds arrogant, I’m not trying to be), but it’s just that way. I thought this wouldn’t be a problem in our life but I’m starting to wonder if it is. He’s just not the guy to go to for solutions or problem solving. He’s not proactive and doesn’t pay attention to certain detail. I have to repeat things and he forgets. He’s not the kind of guy to plan a trip and print out tickets or get boarding passes ahead of time, if you know what I mean. So I do. He’s passive, avoidant and somewhat incompetent with certain things.

However, he’s a nice, sweet guy. He loves me and he’s thoughtful. It’s frustrating and I don’t know what to do because I don’t want to throw away love, but I don’t want to drown either. I don’t want to be constantly saving us when problems arise. I want to TRUST him to carry the burden sometimes, so that I can let go. I know this isn’t possible. He will let things slip through the cracks and miss deadlines or do something incorrectly. I’ve wondered if he is good for my heart, but not for my life. He has gotten himself into debt and we’re working with our landlord to avoid eviction because he was late on payments. I’m afraid I won’t be able to move on in life if I’m constantly watching behind me.

Ever since I was a kid, I wanted to have the dream life, a big house, stable job, a loving family but sometimes that’s not in the cards for you. I know people say I am young, but I like this peaceful life. I wake up in a high rise apartment, overlooking the ocean. It’s just me, and the quietness feels nice. I call my friends sometimes but even that gets boring. I like drinking my morning coffee and looking at the beautiful ocean. To be honest if I could do this forever I could. My dad constantly stresses out that, I don’t have a relationship or I live too far away from home. I told him I’ll move back after law school, but he wants me to get married and try to not give up. My dad has always shown up for me no matter what, and it’d really suck if I could never give him grandchildren. The issue is I am not interested in dating anymore, I’ve realized woman aren’t worth it. I haven’t met one empathetic one in my life, not even my mother. When I say, they have been created by the devil himself I truly mean that. There is a school dance, it’s like a college dance and most of my law mates will be there. Now I have enjoyed my peace. I pay extra money to sit alone, and my dad is telling me I should go. But I just wanna focus on making money.

I’m 20 F & I’ve been talking to this guy M 23 for around 2 1/2 months on and off, I’m the one who is non-consistent with texting him, but when I’m bored, I decide to reach out. Now don’t start thinking I only reach out to him when I’m bored it didn’t used to be like that, but he turned me off. I met him at a gas station where he’s been working at for two years now and when I was DoorDashing late at night, we crossed paths.

We exchanged Instagram’s and exchanged numbers within a week. We got on the phone the first time maybe four days after seeing each other and just for starters, he does not physically or sexually attract me at all. Nowwww when I daydream or fantasize about how possibly big his… then I can picture us in the bedroom, but the reason why he turns me off is the questions and the certain things he’s said.

For example, I’m a first date type of girl & anytime I talked about going on a date, He just never really seemed too interested he agreed, but it was something about his rhetoric in response. Whenever I kept mentioning it, he’s like “OK we gotta get this first link over with so that you can start coming over more” and he said it in a flirty tone now it’s definitely something that turned me off because it seems like he’s rushing like WTF. Mind you he’s from the city we live in the suburban inside and he says he’s an indoor person over here but an outdoor person out there and he wants me to come over to his house to chill? Nah boo boo u got me messed up…. “You gotta take a shot w me” said M 23… like is this your idea to ‘swoop me off my feet’.

not only that we were on the phone one day and I was talking about plugging my phone
in and he thought I was talking about a rose toy. I was like what and laughed awkwardly. Then he chuckled and was like “let me see it, Let me see it” like persisting and I was like OK I’ll show you and I just never showed him because if he was my boo, I would’ve shown him but he’s not my bf so it’s kind of weird and in my opinion it’s weird to show a guy you just started talking to your sex toy. Your man know but guy you just started talking to? Weird.

switched the topic after that but another thing that really turns me off about him is he’s always mentioning a Miami trip that he’s supposed to be going on this month and he mentioned it prior to this month even starting, but he doesn’t have his license, he goes out to eat, he goes to work but yet can’t seem to really get his license and he’s 23 now I don’t judge but in this case, I am judging because I’m 20 and I have my license. I have a job and as the responsibility being 20 years old, I feel like you need to think about necessities and utilities rather than fun but everyone needs to have fun and I get that but a man going to Miami with his cousin and a whole bunch of guys yeah you’re usually gonna have some different type of fun 🤣. Now because we’re not together I don’t have a problem with him going on the Miami trip, but I don’t feel like he’s a loyal man even because of other things that he said and he’s just not the type of man

that I want. another example; I was in the mood for lava cakes, one night and outwardly said “I’m in the mood to go get them”

He said “oh you should get me some marble brownie” mind you we’re talking about Domino’s he’s like I’ll send you the bread for the brownie, but he never mentioned to pay for my lava cakes and he expected me to go to the trip drop off the marble cookie and see him.

It was late at night. I was tired so I just stood home while me and him otp. he works the night shift, which is really inconvenient for me speak to him because I’m asleep when he’s up working. But he usually calls me and he doesn’t talk that much. He refers to me as sexy lips, which doesn’t bother me, but I just feel like when a man refers to a girl as sexy off the bat he’s rather sexually attracted to her than romantically. Not only that one day when we were on the phone he was like in “ I sleep in my boxers, so I hope you don’t mind that” . I don’t know if he thought that would turn me on maybe but it just turned me off because I feel like real gentlemen don’t say things like that. I also don’t wanna be too nitpicky, but there’s no chemistry between me and him at all, and I kept trying to give him more chances even over the phone, but I just feel like he is not worthy and not only that when he told me about his past relationship and how the female chose his cousin, he told me that she wanted to figure out if he was cheating and I guess he was cheating because they’re not together, but he never disclose that with me but the thing is when a girl thinks you’re cheating is cause you’re giving her reasons and he has already really flirty.

And listen, I have to be honest. I do want some dick, but what if he’s not even good at it I mean I know what self pleasure feels like, but what if he can’t please me and I’m over here fantasizing about it you know??

So me and this girl have been in a “relationship” talking for about 3-4 years, but it wasn’t anything serious. I like her a lot but idk if it’s the same for her. It was just simple flirts here and there and sometimes random dates to the movies or out to eat. Today, out of nowhere, she sends me a bikini pic and asks me “How do I look in this? Is this a good photo, or do you want to see this in person.” Really I thought she sent it to the wrong person, but after I asked, she said it was “only meant for your eyes.” I genuinely don’t know to say and need some advice as soon as possible so it doesn’t seem like i’m ignoring her..

Can this relationship be repaired after I broke her trust?

My girlfriend and I dated for around three months and developed strong feelings quickly. Things became difficult when my brother moved in, and my communication dropped significantly. She felt deprioritised, and although I improved, it left some hurt unresolved.

Over the last couple of weeks, my anxiety made me overanalyse changes in her texting and affection. I repeatedly questioned whether her feelings had changed and tried to communicate my insecurities. She felt that I was turning her earlier complaints about feeling neglected back on her, rather than recognising how my behaviour had affected her. These conversations became overwhelming and affected her emotionally.

During Thanksgiving weekend, I tried to make amends by spending time with her, being more present, and showing her I cared. Things seemed better, and we spent the holiday together.

However, I noticed messages from a longtime male online friend and became suspicious. While she was downstairs preparing Thanksgiving dinner, I secretly read their Discord conversations and took pictures. I found old, sexualised conversations from before we officially became a couple. I later confronted her, and she explained that he was gay and their exchanges were jokes. Regardless, I had violated her privacy, especially knowing her previous abusive relationship involved similar breaches of trust.

She ended things, saying she still loved and cared about me but couldn't rebuild trust. I apologised and asked to repair things, but she remained firm and asked me not to try to change her mind. She recently removed me as an Instagram follower.

I deeply regret my actions and recognise how my anxiety, overthinking, and need for reassurance contributed to the situation. I still love her and hope reconciliation might be possible, but I want to respect her boundaries.

Is reconciliation realistically possible in the future, and what should I do now?

My dog Biscuit is a 6 year old beagle mix. Over Labor Day weekend I boarded him for four nights at a kennel near my work. At drop off the staff did a quick check, looked at his paws and ears, and wrote "no visible injuries" on the intake sheet. I have a copy.

When I picked him up Tuesday, he was limping a little. At home I found a cut about an inch long on his back leg, with dried blood around it. It looked a day or two old.

I called the kennel right away. The manager, Glen, said their staff didn't notice anything and that it "could have happened in the car or at home." Biscuit was in my car for eight minutes, in a crate.

I took him to our vet the next day. Two stitches, antibiotics, and a cone. $286.

I sent Glen the vet invoice and a copy of their own intake sheet and asked if they'd cover the bill. He said their waiver says they aren't responsible for "minor injuries during play" and offered me 20% off my next stay.

I don't plan to board him there again, so a discount doesn't do much. Biscuit is fine now, thankfully.

Is it worth pushing for the $286? I'm not sure a waiver like that covers something they never even told me about.

tl;dr: My dog came home from a kennel with a cut that needed stitches, their own intake sheet says no injuries, and they offered 20% off instead of paying the $286 vet bill.

i’m 18 f and he’s 20 m we’ve been together for four years and just moved in our own home together in july. his mom used to be on meth and then she became an alcoholic. i think she’s on drugs again because 1. her boyfriend never comes home she says 2. she’s always eating something sweet 3. she just acts totally different now from when i first met her. pretty dumb reasons but i know the signs because my mom was on meth my whole life

anyway she’s a shit mom. when me and my boyfriend got together she would leave him home alone for weeks without food and she’d get mad when my bf would call her. my mom had to actually buy groceries for him. but this isn’t a place to shit about her.

recently she texted my bf about how she was gonna leave her bf because he never comes home after work. she asked my bf to order her food, at first she said a slice of pizza but my boyfriend ordered her mexican. then she said “now i can share this with my 5 year old daughter” girl first of all what were you gonna do if he just ordered you a slice of pizza from the gas station? now today she asked for $20 to get her license plate, my issue with this is my boyfriend didn’t tell me! i saw his moms message on his ipad while i was playing games

also were literally broke college students, i wish his mom would just find a job. she asks for money all the time and she only texts my bf on his payday. idk what to do

Why can’t I see AOT ON CRUNCHYROLL ????i thought id rewatch aot but what m i witnessing????