r/Floridar4r • • Jul 06 '26

Updated Rules and moderation - July 2026 NSFW

15 Upvotes

Mods have been working on updating the rules and trying to develop AI moderation that catches behaviors spam/scam bots often engage in. (mainly canvasing communities and trying to take you off reddit.) The current human friendly rules are always in the sidebar on a desktop or under "see more" on mobile. The current set is copied below for easy reading. Each rule has a link to a wiki page which should be easy to understand and be fully transparent on the prompting logic an AI is given to evaluative enforcement of that rule.

Spam is fundamentally a cost problem. Scam bots can scatter shot thousands of posts and if they get a few suckers that give up $5 to $20 they've made a day's wages in some parts of the world. These rules try to make posting in FloridaR4R more expensive if you're a scam bot.

This version of the rules is now giving 99% accuracy when compared with human reviews. For a long time we were getting about 95% AI to human alignment. That said I'm sure future posts will make mistakes and AI, and humans, make mistakes. If the mistake happens to you it will feel like a lot more than a rare mistake. Politely message the mods and we will try to fix it.

Reddit Mods don't get paid. Be kind. We want a healthy and functioning community.

While some of the rules mention temporary bans, the mod-bot isn't temp banning until more extensive testing.

FloridaR4R Rules

  1. Searchable Titles - Age + Gender Code + Location Start your title with age, an R4R gender code, and your Florida city or county, like "28 M4F Orlando". Anything after that is up to you. People search by these - a searchable title reaches the people near you. Titles missing a required part are removed so you can fix and repost - no ban, no strike. See Searchable Titles wiki for more
  2. Keep Contact on Reddit - No Off-Platform Handles All contact starts on Reddit. Do not post or request handles, phone numbers, or emails for Snapchat, Discord, Telegram, or any other platform. "DM me" is fine - it means Reddit. Profile bios and history are checked. Posts are removed; repeat or egregious violations, or a handle in your bio, earn a 3-day ban. See Keep Contact on Reddit wiki for more
  3. Personal Meetups Only - No Transactions This community is for free, real-life meetups only. No payment, gifts, sugar arrangements, OnlyFans/Fansly promotion, or content sales. Transactional history anywhere on Reddit earns a 3-day ban even when your post here is clean; blatant or repeated selling here earns a 7-day ban. See Personal Meetups Only wiki for more
  4. Post Where You Really Are - No Same-Day Distant-City Posting Post for the one area where you really are. Same-day posts targeting R4R regions more than ~1-2 hours' drive apart are removed - nobody can meet in two distant cities at once. FloridaR4R plus your nearby city sub is fine. Traveling? Include dates and post only for where you're headed. A sustained pattern earns a 7-day ban. See Post Where You Really Are wiki for more
  5. Wait 24 Hours Between Posts - No Delete-and-Repost Tricks One active post at a time; wait 24 hours between posts here. Fewer, better posts beat fleeting reposts. Posting again too soon removes the new post; under 12 hours it also earns a 1-day ban. To fix a mistake, delete and repost once within 20 minutes. Deleting to bump visibility is a violation. A removal under this rule does not extend your wait. See Wait 24 Hours wiki for more
  6. Account Authenticity - Your History Must Match Your Post Be who you say you are. Posts are checked against the account's own history - language, stated gender, location, and posting pattern. When two or more contradict the post (e.g. years of history as a man abroad, now posting as a local woman), the post is held for a human moderator. Never an automatic removal or ban. See Account Authenticity wiki for more

r/Floridar4r • • 9h ago

F4M - Miami 28 F4M Miami - Strong woman looking for a weaker guy NSFW

8 Upvotes

I’m looking for a guy who’s soft and doesn’t mind being the “weaker” one and letting me make all the decisions and do whatever I want with him.

I wanna do things like tie you down to our bed making you completely vulnerable and just milking you all day while I toy with you body or putting a collar on your and walking you around the house before sitting on your face and teasing your cock.


r/Floridar4r • • 19m ago

M4F - Fort Lauderdale 46 [M4F] Fort Lauderdale anyone having success lately here? NSFW

• Upvotes

Curious if anyone is actually getting messages and meeting on here or it's dead for everyone else as well? A few years ago I managed to talk to a few and meet but every post now gets no attention. Where are people meeting online these days?


r/Floridar4r • • 1h ago

M4F - Fort Lauderdale 29 M4F Fort Lauderdale - Handsome BWC looking to meet a kinky lady. Longer term preferred. Pics on my profile :) NSFW

• Upvotes

Title says it all! Open minded and laid back, kinda nerdy, kinda gym rat. Happy to share more pics, DMs open :) please include ASL in your DM


r/Floridar4r • • 1h ago

M4F - Tampa 26 [M4F] Tampa - full virgin looking for my first bj NSFW

• Upvotes

I'm brown skinny man with long hair and a beard in Tampa area, I’m a full virgin looking for my first ever bj and if you want we can do whatever you'd like to or we can get to know each other more, whatever you're comfortable with. If this post is still up that means I still haven't found anyone and I'm still looking!


r/Floridar4r • • 2h ago

M4F - Vero Beach 34 [M4F] Vero Beach - Anyone looking for a cuck? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hi! I’m a tall, stable, and open-minded guy looking for something specific and honest: a real relationship with a one-sided open dynamic, where you’re free to explore with others while I remain exclusively yours.

I’m drawn to the eroticism of watching and supporting my partner’s pleasure with other men—whether that’s in person, online, or through the aftercare and intimacy that follows. Things that turn me on include preparing you for dates, the intimacy of reclaiming and cleaning up afterward, and the mix of affection and intensity that can come with that lifestyle. I’m also open to exploring elements like exhibition, verbal play, group scenarios, and longer-term arrangements if the chemistry and trust are there.

I’m looking for someone who’s confident, sexually adventurous, and equally interested in building something real—someone I can introduce to friends and family, who can move comfortably between social settings and more private, kinky ones. Mutual respect, clear communication, and genuine connection matter as much to me as the dynamic itself.

If this resonates and you’d like to talk more, I’d be glad to hear from you.


r/Floridar4r • • 2h ago

M4F - Fort Myers 47 M4F Fort Myers - looking to chill, cuddle NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking for a BBW age 18 plus and size doesn't matter. Just be fun and open minded


r/Floridar4r • • 5h ago

M4F - Orlando 27 M4F Orlando - Zookeeper looking for a sub NSFW

1 Upvotes

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Hi all! I've tried this before, and it worked out okay- so I'm here to reach out again! I'm mostly up for anything- and just wanted to put some feelers out there. It gets a little lonely where I live, so meeting someone would be nice! Cute dates, phone calls, intimacy ..

I'm 6'1, big guy but still fit, and work with big cats primarily. I love video games, movies, books, comics... And pretty much anything horror!

I prefer people around my age, who are affectionate and a liiitttle bit whimsical, and liking cats is a must have lolol.

I'm an ass man, do with that what you will. I tend to like Alternative women and connect with them the best, but I'm open to any connection

I would like to build on something, have lots of fun while I'm down in Florida, entertain a D/S dynamic, or even have a pleasant connection regardless! I'm open to sharing face and voice!

If you want someone to go do fun things with, sit on my lap, or cuddle and watch bad horror movies, I'm your guy!

Well, not sure what else to add- but shoot me a message if you're interested!!!


r/Floridar4r • • 5h ago

M4F - West Palm Beach 28 [M4F] West Palm Beach looking for hanging out, exploring the area together, maybe FWB NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hi! I’m 28m living in west palm beach. I do like it here but I’m interested in having a person or even a couple to do some of the fun things the area has to offer together!

My hobby lately has been learning how to repair and maintain cars.

I’m not really all that into tv or movies as of late, but I do leave family guy on tv for background noise when I come home from work. I could use a good recommendation :)

Anyway! I’m looking for mostly more for dates that lead to a relationship right now, but if you’re not quite looking for a relationship yet that would be ok too!

I’m not too picky on age. Having some hobbies that we can teach each other about would be cool :) let me know if you’re interested!


r/Floridar4r • • 5h ago

M4M - Miami 30 M4M Miami - looking to give free hot erotic massages. Happy endings! NSFW

1 Upvotes

This is for free. I enjoy giving massages to fit men. Please be over 18 and max 45.

LA Fitness. Planet Fitness. Power gym. Miami fade college MDC. FIU.


r/Floridar4r • • 10h ago

TF4A - Sarasota 19 [TF4A] Sarasota - pre hrt, looking for something sexual and monogamous!! (long term) NSFW

1 Upvotes

first off, i'm slightly chubby and a virgin. please dm me your age, and don't message unless you're interested in growing something together beyond sex. i'd love to meet and do something ASAP though!


r/Floridar4r • • 19h ago

F4M - Tallahassee 18 F4M Tallahassee looking to explore :) NSFW

5 Upvotes

bored and i wanna text, maybe lead to more. not looking for money and not selling anything.


r/Floridar4r • • 16h ago

M4F - Tampa 28 M4F Tampa - I’d like to pamper you. NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi everyone, I’d like to find someone to pamper, which to me just means rub your feet and buy you food and tell you how beautiful you are. Maybe even a massage or whatever else you request. When I was dating my ex (talking about his ex ohh no lol) those were the times I really enjoyed. I got used to treating her like a queen and now I’m kinda missing it. I’m not looking for sex more so just that without the relationship part as I don’t think my schedule is stable enough to really cultivate one. I’m about 6”1 and I have a well-built physique. I have plenty of hobbies and interests and I’ll be happy to share them if you’re interested.

If this is something that interests you please feel free to reach out


r/Floridar4r • • 12h ago

M4F - Tampa 20 M4F Tampa looking for a girl to take my virginity NSFW

0 Upvotes

DM me please


r/Floridar4r • • 17h ago

F4M - Orlando 29 (F4M) Orlando - BBC ONLY! NO EXCEPTIONS!! NSFW

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r/Floridar4r • • 13h ago

M4F - Orlando 35 [M4F] Orlando Let's Make Out?! NSFW

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1 Upvotes

Good evening lovely ladies of Central, FL! The fall weather is here. Reposting because people flake, but totally understandable. I'm an attractive single straight White male in his 30s that's kinda on the nerdy side. I'm simply seeking an attractive woman to make out with on and off all day with conversation in between. I miss the connection of having my lips pressed against another woman's lips during a hot make out session. I'm really craving it. I have good hygiene and I am always doing basic exercises to stay healthy. This is clean, consensual, stress-free, legal vibes only.

My Stats

Ethnicity: White Caucasian

Hair: Soft, short, and black

Eyes: Hazel Green with a hint of blue sometimes

Weight: 135 LBS with broad shoulders, skinny but kinda fit, and I sport a natural younger facial appearance

If this interests you, let's talk, my inbox awaits your message :)


r/Floridar4r • • 17h ago

M4M - West Palm Beach 32 [M4M] West Palm Beach Gloryhole in Downtown Area for Bi Curious Straight Guys NSFW

2 Upvotes

Super discreet and clean.
Located in Downtown WPB area.
Send full body and D pic for details.

32 5’11 165 6” Fit Latino hete


r/Floridar4r • • 17h ago

M4A - Boynton Beach 37 [M4A] Boynton Beach - Looking For A BBW To Worship. NSFW

2 Upvotes

Not trying to rush into anything. Let's chat and see if we vibe.


r/Floridar4r • • 14h ago

M4A - Miami 25 [M4A] Miami - Does anyone want to get jerked or sucked later? Or even eat my ass? Just been curious in south florida Miami broward Lmk NSFW

1 Upvotes

Lmk


r/Floridar4r • • 15h ago

M4F - Citrus Park 26 M4F Citrus Park - Anyone horny asf rn? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Lets link of for the weekend and fuck non-stop like animals


r/Floridar4r • • 16h ago

M4F - Pompano Beach 56 M4F Pompano Beach Monday NSFW

1 Upvotes

I am recently out of a long-term situationship and have front row seats to see the show. Would love to take a true cake fan out, and maybe there’ll be a spark


r/Floridar4r • • 16h ago

M4F - Naples 20 M4F Naples joining in the fun NSFW

1 Upvotes

Marco island area for a good time


r/Floridar4r • • 16h ago

M4M - Melbourne 27 M4M Melbourne Fit top looking for fem/twink bottoms NSFW

1 Upvotes

Heyyy, yeah just like the title says lol… dm me we can trade pics’ got my own place too so


r/Floridar4r • • 17h ago

M4A - Boca Raton 22 [M4A] Boca Raton - Looking for someone who wants to talk and get to know each other first (Boca-Delray-Boynton-Deerfield-Parkland-Coral Springs and more) NSFW

1 Upvotes

As the title states, I’m looking to form a connection before moving into anything, and to put this up front I’m not looking for any Masc dudes or old guys.


r/Floridar4r • • 18h ago

M4A - Lakeland 23 [M4A] Lakeland - Looking for FRIENDS with benefits NSFW

1 Upvotes

First off, no MASC men please! I'm one of you, but I'm not interested in you!

Hello internet! Lonely 23-year-old college student here. I'm looking for someone to share some physical intimacy with and some cuddles. I want to get very touchy with each other and hope we can share some physical time. As the title suggests, I am looking for someone who can be actual friends too. I want to talk like normal people, talk about our lives and days, share some interests together, and maybe do normal friends things. I'm also willing to potentially make it long term or committed, but I'm totally fine with something very short and brief, so if you don't want commitment, I'm open to anything. I'm a huge nerd so I like video games, anime, reading, and going for walks, so it would be nice to find someone who's the same (maybe we can cuddle and play mario kart together, just an idea!). I'm open to anyone who's not masc, so cis girls, trans girls, non-binaries, femboys, really anyone feminine. Age doesn't matter too much as long as we both are physically attracted to each other and feel the chemistry. I'm also fine with online flirty/dirty chats too, but I do hope to find someone who is willing to meet up. I can go to either spring hill or lakeland so if you live near either of those places, I can be there for about half the week. If this seems interesting to you and you wanna reach out, feel free to do so! Please include Age/Gender/Location in your original message so I know who I'm talking to!