r/Floridar4r • • Jul 06 '26

Updated Rules and moderation - July 2026 NSFW

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Mods have been working on updating the rules and trying to develop AI moderation that catches behaviors spam/scam bots often engage in. (mainly canvasing communities and trying to take you off reddit.) The current human friendly rules are always in the sidebar on a desktop or under "see more" on mobile. The current set is copied below for easy reading. Each rule has a link to a wiki page which should be easy to understand and be fully transparent on the prompting logic an AI is given to evaluative enforcement of that rule.

Spam is fundamentally a cost problem. Scam bots can scatter shot thousands of posts and if they get a few suckers that give up $5 to $20 they've made a day's wages in some parts of the world. These rules try to make posting in FloridaR4R more expensive if you're a scam bot.

This version of the rules is now giving 99% accuracy when compared with human reviews. For a long time we were getting about 95% AI to human alignment. That said I'm sure future posts will make mistakes and AI, and humans, make mistakes. If the mistake happens to you it will feel like a lot more than a rare mistake. Politely message the mods and we will try to fix it.

Reddit Mods don't get paid. Be kind. We want a healthy and functioning community.

While some of the rules mention temporary bans, the mod-bot isn't temp banning until more extensive testing.

FloridaR4R Rules

  1. Searchable Titles - Age + Gender Code + Location Start your title with age, an R4R gender code, and your Florida city or county, like "28 M4F Orlando". Anything after that is up to you. People search by these - a searchable title reaches the people near you. Titles missing a required part are removed so you can fix and repost - no ban, no strike. See Searchable Titles wiki for more
  2. Keep Contact on Reddit - No Off-Platform Handles All contact starts on Reddit. Do not post or request handles, phone numbers, or emails for Snapchat, Discord, Telegram, or any other platform. "DM me" is fine - it means Reddit. Profile bios and history are checked. Posts are removed; repeat or egregious violations, or a handle in your bio, earn a 3-day ban. See Keep Contact on Reddit wiki for more
  3. Personal Meetups Only - No Transactions This community is for free, real-life meetups only. No payment, gifts, sugar arrangements, OnlyFans/Fansly promotion, or content sales. Transactional history anywhere on Reddit earns a 3-day ban even when your post here is clean; blatant or repeated selling here earns a 7-day ban. See Personal Meetups Only wiki for more
  4. Post Where You Really Are - No Same-Day Distant-City Posting Post for the one area where you really are. Same-day posts targeting R4R regions more than ~1-2 hours' drive apart are removed - nobody can meet in two distant cities at once. FloridaR4R plus your nearby city sub is fine. Traveling? Include dates and post only for where you're headed. A sustained pattern earns a 7-day ban. See Post Where You Really Are wiki for more
  5. Wait 24 Hours Between Posts - No Delete-and-Repost Tricks One active post at a time; wait 24 hours between posts here. Fewer, better posts beat fleeting reposts. Posting again too soon removes the new post; under 12 hours it also earns a 1-day ban. To fix a mistake, delete and repost once within 20 minutes. Deleting to bump visibility is a violation. A removal under this rule does not extend your wait. See Wait 24 Hours wiki for more
  6. Account Authenticity - Your History Must Match Your Post Be who you say you are. Posts are checked against the account's own history - language, stated gender, location, and posting pattern. When two or more contradict the post (e.g. years of history as a man abroad, now posting as a local woman), the post is held for a human moderator. Never an automatic removal or ban. See Account Authenticity wiki for more

r/Floridar4r • • 8m ago

M4F - Pasco County 37 [M4F] Pasco County - Alt guy looking for FWB NSFW

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White male 5’7”. Tattooed and in decent shape. Have transportation. I’m cool, or whatever.


r/Floridar4r • • 13m ago

M4F - Fort Lauderdale 36 [M4F] Fort Lauderdale mature femal fwb wanted NSFW

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Hey, 36 year old guy here in the ft. Lauderdale/ pompano area looking for a fun older woman for a fwb situation. Looking for someone of equally dirty mind, tired of vanilla encounters looking to see how far we can push bounties and live out any fantasies we desire. Im 5'11", burly build with blue eyes, buzzed hair and a beard. Can share pics upon response. Laid back, easy going, non judgemental, just like to have fun. Open to race and body type but has to be some sort of vibe. Only main rule is you must be 100% std free, as am I (just tested with proof). Actually looking for a legit friend to consistently meet and experiment with. Not looking to change anyone's situation just want to find someone thats up for some fun.


r/Floridar4r • • 2h ago

MF4F - Siesta Key 25 [MF4F] Siesta Key looking for solo female only NSFW

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On our honey moon for the week looking for a 🦄


r/Floridar4r • • 3h ago

M4F - Kendall 34 [M4F] Kendall — For the Woman Who's Done Waiting for Someone to Notice What's Actually Worth Noticing NSFW

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r/Floridar4r • • 3h ago

M4F - Winter Park 33 [M4F] Winter Park - Looking for a ons or fwb NSFW

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Looking for a lady for a one time or reoccurring thing if we click. Recently tested, can host or travel. Be drug and disease free. Preferably someone local to seminole or orange county.


r/Floridar4r • • 3h ago

M4F - Miami 38 [M4F] Miami Looking for a Pillow Princess NSFW

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Any woman in Miami or surrounding areas looking to be a pillow princess? Not looking for sex. Just one woman to lay back and watch me eat it up from time to time when they need it. I love eating pussy and ass. If you’re a dominant woman even better. No reciprocation needed. Just be disease free as am I and have good hygiene. All about you. Feel free to ask any questions. Shoot me a message. Let’s talk. I am a single 38 year old black male. Respectful and drama free.


r/Floridar4r • • 3h ago

M4F - Panama City 50 [M4F] Panama City - Sensual Massage NSFW

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I want to give you the perfect massage. You will feel completely relaxed and the massage can be as plain or sensual as you want. I am a good looking guy, very clean and respectful. This is just for fun and it is free, no strings attached. Send me a message if interested or if you have any questions.


r/Floridar4r • • 4h ago

M4F - Citrus Park 26 M4F Citrus Park - Anyone close by horny rn? NSFW

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Lookin to cuddle and fuck tn


r/Floridar4r • • 5h ago

M4F - Tampa 25 [M4F] Tampa - Cheating Kink NSFW

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Not looking for anything serious but ongoing would be nice. It’s a plus if you’re also in a relationship. Obviously for discretion I’ll keep this short but DM if you’re interested for more about me.


r/Floridar4r • • 5h ago

M4F - Polk County 39 (M4F) Polk County Any Asian or Latina women in the area? NSFW

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Hi,

I'm looking for an Asian or a Latina woman in the area to chat with and see if we vibe and possibly link up at some point.

I’m 6’4”, about 200 lbs, with an average build.

Clean and drug-free — looking for the same in you.

No pressure, no games, just seeing if we click and letting things flow naturally. I do have a sfw picture of myself and am happy to swap once we’ve said hi with a picture of yourself.

Thanks


r/Floridar4r • • 5h ago

M4F - Fort Lauderdale 29 M4F Fort Lauderdale - Handsome BWC looking to meet a kinky lady. Longer term preferred. Pics on my profile :) NSFW

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Title says it all! Open minded and laid back, kinda nerdy, kinda gym rat. Happy to share more pics, DMs open :) please include ASL in your DM


r/Floridar4r • • 5h ago

M4F - Miami 52 [M4F] Miami - Coming to town in January NSFW

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Ok. I know it’s a ways off, but I thought maybe I’d make a chat friend in the meantime. It would be nice to find someone to meet up with when I come to town rather than sit bored in my hotel room. I’m coming to go on a cruise. Anyway. Say hi! Did I mention I’m cute? Tell me something interesting about you. Hope to hear from you!


r/Floridar4r • • 6h ago

M4F - Palm Bay 27 M4F Palm Bay FL looking for FWB/fun in the area NSFW

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Hey, slim athletic male here with a love for the beach, going out, and just enjoying life. I’m pretty laid back. I have my own place and can carry a conversation lol… dm me if you wanna see some pics!


r/Floridar4r • • 6h ago

M4F - Orlando 35 [M4F] Orlando - Nerdy Creative looking for a FWB NSFW

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Not necessarily wanting to meet up immediately but would like something ongoing. The idealized version of this in my head is a friend where we can hang and explore places around mills before coming back to my place and exploring each other lol.

Comfort, communication, and boundaries are important to me so we can take things at a pace that works for the both of us. I lean between being a soft dom/pleasure dom but have a nerdy wholesome vibe outside of the bedroom apparently. Into (talking dirty, pinning down hands and kissing, light hair pulling, ass slapping...), been told I’m good with my mouth and hands, and enjoy a good cuddle.

Physically, I am half Korean and half white, been told I have a cute smile, a few tattoos on my arm, and above average height being just shy of 6 feet tall. I also try to stay fairly active working out during the week but would say I have an average build.

Hobby and interest wise, I like taking photos, watching movies (on a horror binge right now), listening to music (favorite band is Radiohead), and reading (never let me go is my favorite book but currently reading dungeon crawler Carl series)

I’m near the mills/downtown area.

Don’t really have an age preference and I’m not interested in being a third. Will probably swoon though if you have short hair. Also, send me a message with more than hey lol


r/Floridar4r • • 7h ago

M4F - West Palm Beach 28 [M4F] West Palm Beach looking for my beach buddy! NSFW

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Hi! I’m looking for a friend or partner that wants to hang out and explore stuff to do around South Florida. I’ve been here almost 10 years now, but haven’t gone to the beach nearly enough so if you like the beach, take me with you!

In my free time I’ve been learning how to work on cars, and I’ve been maintaining and repairing my own for a little over a year now. That usually keeps me pretty busy on weekends. Work is usually boring to talk about but if you’d like to ask I’ll tell you about my job.

I’d like our relationship to at least be a friends with benefits type, or if we really click I’d like to pursue an actual relationship. For this side of things, I’m pretty open to trying new things and I’m sort of hoping my partner could introduce me to some things they like. I’d consider myself a bit of a freak and I’d love to have someone match that, exceed it, or at least be willing to humor me.

As for what/who I’m looking for, I’m not picky but I guess if I had preference it would be either petite white women or tall white women. For context I’m 5’7”. I’d like to hear from anyone though, everyone has something beautiful about them. Looking forward to meeting you!

TLDR: I want a fwb to do stuff around South Florida with and get freaky with when we come back to our places.


r/Floridar4r • • 7h ago

M4F - South Miami 38 [M4F] South Miami - Come Over When You Want and When I Want NSFW

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Work, my dog, and life obligations are keeping me too busy every day. Tension is building and I need to release it. Respond to this if you:

  • Are between 23-45
  • Are high energy and quirky/a little weird
  • No requirement about height or weight. Just be cute.
  • Want to make out with a thin 5'6 hispanic guy with long hair
  • Would possibly want to cook together or go out to dinner
  • Most importantly, be a woman. No men. No males. Women only.

r/Floridar4r • • 8h ago

M4F - Orlando 27 M4F Orlando - Zookeeper looking for something worth it! NSFW

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Hi all! I've tried this before, and it worked out okay- so I'm here to reach out again! I'm mostly up for anything- and just wanted to put some feelers out there. It gets a little lonely where I live, so meeting someone would be nice! Cute dates, phone calls, intimacy ..

I'm 6'1, big guy but still fit, and work with big cats primarily. I love video games, movies, books, comics... And pretty much anything horror!

I prefer people around my age, who are affectionate and a liiitttle bit whimsical, and liking cats is a must have lolol.

I'm an ass man, do with that what you will. I tend to like Alternative women and connect with them the best, but I'm open to any connection

I would like to build on something, have lots of fun while I'm down in Florida, entertain a D/S dynamic, or even have a pleasant connection regardless! I'm open to sharing face and voice!

If you want someone to go do fun things with, sit on my lap, or cuddle and watch bad horror movies, I'm your guy!

Well, not sure what else to add- but shoot me a message if you're interested!!!


r/Floridar4r • • 8h ago

M4F - Winter Haven 28 [M4F] Winter Haven - In town for 2 weeks bored and horny NSFW

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Looking for some fun. Tell me your kinks and fantasies because I love to please. Im pretty chill and open minded so don't be afraid to let your freak flag fly with me. Appearance wise, I'm fit with longer curly brown hair and green eyes. I have a nice fat cock that will fill anyone nicely. For my kinks, I like feet, sensual play, and breeding. Hmu if I've piqued your interest please just be disease free and 18+.


r/Floridar4r • • 9h ago

M4F - Miami 44 [M4F] Miami FL - I want to use your throat like a fleshlight NSFW

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I've been wanting to find a girl that can deepthroat enough so that I can just go as deep as I've always wanted to without hitting the back of her throat. I'm pretty thick and most girls have had that issue with that so I'm looking for one that can satisfy my urge, or at least a girl that is interested in practicing.

I'm 5'8, with short brown hair, light eyes, dad bod, and a handsome face. I can host and would be down to make this a regular thing if we have fun. I absolutely love it when my partner clearly enjoys doing her work, so hit me up if this sounds appealing to you!


r/Floridar4r • • 10h ago

M4A - Orlando 29 [M4A] Orlando -- looking to spend some time tied up NSFW

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6'2 180 lb.

Into kink play more than anything else, lewd things not required. Just want to spend some time helpless and maybe explore some new things too. Can consider switching for the right person and being the one tying the knots.

Unfortunately I can't host. Shoot me a DM if you're interested.


r/Floridar4r • • 10h ago

M4F - Cocoa Beach 31 [M4F] Cocoa Beach - Spending a month in FL would like to spend it with you! NSFW

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31 M white, DDF. I’m in Florida for the month (10th - 30th) and would love to meet a beautiful woman, have some dates and fun! I’m spontaneous outgoing and also kinky if you are into that! Older, younger doesn’t matter, though I do have a soft spot for curvy women. Message me!


r/Floridar4r • • 10h ago

M4F - Miami 44 [M4F] Miami - Looking for someone to face fuck on a regular basis. Serious inquiries only. NSFW

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Professional by day. Artist by night. Dating has been terrible. Single by choice. I'm working on myself and taking the time to love myself before I can love anyone else. But in the meantime I need to let my demons out every now and then. Looking for a cute slut who loves to be face fucked hard. Must have an oral fixation and a deep innate need to please.

Serious inquiries only.


r/Floridar4r • • 11h ago

M4F - Orange Park 34 M4F Orange Park - Nerdy Guy looking to chat while bored at work. NSFW

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I'm a tall white skinny nerdy guy with auburn hair, a beard, and glasses. I'd like to chat and flirt, and maybe send pics to a pretty lady. Mostly, just looking to chat while I'm bored at work. I tend to get bored and horny at work, so any naughty messages are welcome. If we get along, maybe it could turn into a real life fwb situation. Send me a message and don't forget to describe yourself so I can tell you how sexy you sound. Married btw. Yes I'm allowed to have friends.


r/Floridar4r • • 13h ago

M4F - Miami 45 M4F Miami - Tall, Attractive, and Very Well Hung 45m in Town for Work Next Week NSFW

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Tall, attractive, and very well hung guy in town next week for work and looking for a fun woman or couple to meet for a cocktail.

Very easygoing, respectful, successful and fun. 6’2”, 195 lbs, DDF, 8.5”