Hey ladies. I'm a 45, 6'1", white male. Not looking for a serious relationship as I am already in one, but have approval to have an FWB on the side. So I'm looking for a woman who just wants a casual friend who you can go out on fun dates with, or just get a hotel and fuck like porn stars. I am disease and drug free. I'm not into politics but definitely left leaning. I'm a construction worker, but also nerdy.

As for you, I don't care what race or body type you are. I just want a genuinely nice, fun, and down to earth partner. I will send you pics as soon as you do.

I also don't mind what kind of relationship you're in. Whether this be discreet, or if he knows and you are in an open relationship. I don't mind if you wanna keep it a secret, or if he knows. I have dated women who we had to meet away from town, and women who wanted us to take pics and videos for them to watch. All I ask is you also be disease and drug (not counting pot) free.

I'd like to meet a cuddle enthusiast interested in swinging up the armrest at local movie theatre, potentially graduating to couch cuddles at home. Would you like someone to squeeze and melt into while watching Godzilla's atomic breath? Find some teenage nostalgia in the romance of Hunger Games? No need to overthink or feel clingy, just relax and let the affectionate expression flow. Melt closer, discover your favorite positions, or genuinely explore your affectionate side with someone who appreciates and encourages the language of touch.

I'm 42, single, straight, and live in the Pacific Heights area of San Francisco. 6' tall if you're sizing up spooning compatibility and the type of wingspan that might wrap you up in his arms. Our paths may have already crossed as I bike around the city exploring pop-up bakeries (calorie neutral?), slightly outside of your glance at one of the cute puppies I train for a local non-profit, peering up from a good cup of coffee near my professional job downtown, or passing on a trail as I hike in a nearby forest.

I realize not everyone is affectionately expressive, causing me to seek out people who recharge and relax through touch. Your inner cuddler might feel dormant or under-appreciated and need some time to fully express herself and realize her full potential. I'm looking for multiple cuddle sessions if things go well, hopefully expanding your comfort level and expressiveness with additional exposure to cuddle possibilities and the existence of a capable cuddle partner. There's no need to hold back your affectionate side out of concerns of coming off as too clingy.

A good cuddle match:

• Bathes regularly and has generally good hygiene.
• Is curious to discover the full affectionate creature stirring within her, emerged in her fully expressive and unconstrained state.
• Has a few cuddle preferences, providing hints of what could be her favorite ways of being held or affectionate expression.
• Is a generally easy-going person.

I expect we'll chat for a bit about your cuddle, book, and movie preferences, creating an opportunity for discovery even if you're not sure you'd ever go through with meeting. There's a vibe check and a potential need to create some comfort before you're comfortable chatting over coffee or entertaining the thought of watching a movie together. I'm happy to talk cuddle theory and I want to create the best space for affectionate expression however you'd best like to ease into that space.

I've had some good cuddle experiences in the past, ranging from lesbians who like to be spooned to experienced snugglers glad to find someone who shares their enthusiasm. Curious if cuddle bliss is possible? Reach out and say hi!

Howdy! My name is Dylan and I am looking specifically for a someone to watch horror movies, eat good food, have deep and silly conversations, and share plenty of pleasure. I am 420 friendly and I don’t really drink but I don’t mind if you do. Ideally you would be able to host movie nights and/or willing to go to the cinema together (I’ll pick up the tickets).

About me: I am a 36 y.o., polyamorous man in a marriage with a cis-woman and a partnership with a non-binary person. I am a therapist and try my best to keep my work at work. I love watching horror movies, but neither of my partners enjoy them. I love dogs, always have multiple books on my desk, in my first semester of an online PhD programs, and enjoy deep or shallow conversations with passionate people. I am trying to get better at cooking, learn more about my mixed-race heritage, and always willing to seek out the best donut in the Bay Area. Some of my favorite horror movies include: Wrong Turn (2003), The Clovehitch Killer (2018), The Invisible Man (2020), Alien series, Smile, and The Conjuring (2013).

Description: 5’10, average body, buzzed/bald, trimmed brown beard, brown eyes framed with glasses, kind smile, and lots of tattoos. Ask for a picture.

Ice breaker… Two truths & a lie: (1) I was named after the family dog; (2) my favorite superhero is Wonder Woman; and, (3) I have one dog.

I have an extra ticket to the Pouya, Ramirez show at the fillmore tonight. If anyone wants to hangout the ticket is yours!
Just buy me a drink at the show 😜
Really just lookin to hang out / enjoy the show with someone chill, no pressure
Send me a message if you’re interested, we’ll coordinate and whatnot. 420 friendly 🌳🔥

Hello how are you all doing? I’m a 26 male from San Jose, 5’10” 155ilbs, white with short red hair and blue eyes. I’m looking for a regular FWBs, so I’d like to cook dinner for you and get to know each other a little better. If we’re both feeling it I’d hope you’d like to move to the bedroom to cuddle or more, and plan to meet more in the future.

I’m a little reserved but I do like to listen when you are passionate or excited. I have a pretty geeky interests, I like to game and read. I’m currently playing the new Castlevania and my favorite boardgame is Element. Also I like to cook and garden; my favorite food to make is BBQ ribs and ratatouille. Im a cat person, have two new kittens who are destroying everything I hold dear.

Ideally you are around my age give or take a few years. If your geeky too it would be great to nerd out together. I don’t have any preference as far as looks go, I’m more interested in how well we vibe. If you like to game we could break the ice by playing one.

If you decide to reach out, please tell me your favorite food and a little about yourself, roughly the same sort information I shared. Hope to hear from you soon!

Hello!

I'm a 40M with a bit of a unique kink. I LOVE providing sensual fingering to curious women. Whether you're single or married, experienced or just dipping a toe, I am available to provide you with an incredibly pleasurable experience.

6ft, white, hwp, clean and respectful. Very experienced with both vaginal and anal fingering. I expect absolutely nothing in return, just you enjoying yourself. No sex, no oral, just hands.

Happy to chat and spend time building trust. I know this can be nerve racking, so am available to slowly get comfortable.

Thanks!

I’ve been at work for a few hours now and I’m already losing my mind. So I thought looking for an affair on Reddit might help me… I’m the guy who posted about a cousins bachelor party a month ago and the itch never went away.

For the next couple of weeks, I’ll be at a pretty much empty office in ssf. Working on a project here thats basically allowed me to have an entire office to myself. Ideally for like the next two weeks. Maybe even longer.. Looking for someone to come by and help me take advantage of it. The hard part of the project is over so I’ve got a lot of free time and need some help with it.

Me: 6 foot and 250 lbs. Dad bod but been working on it. Trying to get back to that mid 20s body. Dark hair and green eyes. Bit of a mixed background but mostly white and I'm told I certainly look it.

You... just be down for some fun like above. If this interests you then message me your favorite color.

Looking for something casual while I’m in SF from nyc for a conference Oct 26 - 28!

I’m 28, 6ft, slim/athletic, white with dirty blonde hair, tattooed, and usually clean-shaven or short stubble. I keep myself well-groomed. Also have a vasectomy.
I’m direct and respectful. I like keeping things clear and making sure it’s enjoyable for both of us. May be able to host at my hotel or can definitely travel within reason.

Open to most ages and body types. Happy to verify.
Let me know if you’re interested. :)

hi all!
halloween is coming up, and that's the most socially acceptable time to hoe it out :) also open to doms who would love to humiliate me, and take a bunch of pics/videos for content as well!

NOT looking for a quick fuck, looking for people to enjoy the fair well! some pics of me on my profile

Hi!

Oh you’re reading this?

Thank you!

Are you kind of shy but still curious and want to .. see what happens?

Are you also by any chance looking for a charming, handsome guy you could trust to have some fun experiences with?

Are you into fit muscular masculine men? Someone to take care of you from A-to-Z and make sure you have a wonderful time?

Someone to treat you like an absolute lady in the streets and yeah, you know the rest….

If so… msg me. I think we should talk :)

Hey, 5'9 slim smooth masculine ddf twinkish guy in san francisco looking to find someone local to use my throat every now and then and make me better at taking it all the way.

Like both slow sensual worship sessions, and rougher face fuck scenarios. You should be kind enough for me to trust you to let me breathe, but dominant enough that I want to please you so much that I don't need to.

What I'm looking for:

(A) slim/fit/muscular guy that's constantly horny and likes the idea of having a cocksucker serve you.

(B) woman or straight man that finds the idea interesting > can use a dildo to train me

Please send stats and a chest / body pic, that's what turns me on the most. Teaser pic in my profile.

Are you stressed out and your body tense, stiff and achy from busy days at the office or stressful times at home? It's time for you to relax and indulge in a massage session that will leave you satisfied, relaxed, and glowing...Tantric massage is rooted in India and contains a sacred formula that awakens and frees energy within the body so you may become more alive, passionate and in tune with yourself. Experience a highly pleasurable, deeply relaxing, and ultimately spiritual session designed to unite you with the supreme bliss and love that is within all of us. Through my unique blend of bodywork and energetic techniques, your body will release the stress, release the tension, and make room for pleasure and fulfillment.

The Tantric Massage experience can be enjoyed by anyone. All people in all adult age brackets, from all walks of life can experience Tantra. You do not have to be a spiritual person to receive a Tantric Massage. The Tantric session can be a wonderful gift for yourself. Whether your life is incredibly stressful or amazingly stress-free, Tantric Massage can be deeply relaxing and ultimately fulfilling.

Most people spend their lives earning a living, hurrying to exercise at the gym, yoga, or pilates class. How often do you stop and treat yourself to an amazing experience? How often do you pamper yourself and indulge your mind and body in a deeply pleasurable, spine-tinging session?
Massage for women can be sensual, stimulating, exciting and relaxing. All the things you have been missing out on.

I am Indian, very discreet and respectful of your body and boundaries. I offer this exclusively to Females Only who are over 18 years old. Anonymity and discretion is guaranteed at all times.

Hi everyone! We are a thick latino/asian mix couple that is looking to connect with fun folks for some good ol'fashioned kinky play ☺️

We are looking for a soft/smooth/trimmed bi bottom to join us. Be open to giving and receiving, Mr BP is a Top, so if you bottom, then thats a plus! TS or femboys a plus! Looking for smooth faced, so sorry to you handsome bearded men.

About us:

Her: 5'7", Filipina mix, HWP, sexy curves and kitty that is in-satiable(literally), loves to be orally pleased and has a thick ass that loves to be touched.

Him: 5'10", mixed Italian/Latino, HWP, 6" cut, bearded. Tested and negative.

We are both big on hygiene. This means showered and smelling fresh, fresh breath and we always wash hands before using them anywhere. We ask the same of you.

We are both professionals and always opt for discretion and assure the **same.**

**We like to host at a hotel in Milpitas.**

Please send a SFW face pic. We aren't into the "send one first then I will" game, so if that happens, we will pass. Again, discretion from all parties. This is why we prefer a SFW pic.

Hi there!

32 year old Korean guy in San Francisco looking for a local girl for a FWB relationship. One night stands are cool, but Id love to meet regularly and get to know each other. I am 5'9 in height, lean fit type, with a 7" dick.

Looking for a shy nerdy type, with a submissive side who loves to get dominated, and spoiled. If you like getting fucked by a thick, Asian cock with huge loads of cum to swallow, or be bred with, we will be very good friends :) it would be awesome if we can grab coffee, boba, or food together as well.

I like Asians, Latinas who are petite. I can host in hotels in SF, or on the Peninsula.

NSFW pics are on my profile. Lets chat, and meet soon!

Hi!

I’ve finally brought myself into here because my work and personal life has gotten so stressed to the point that I figured that I’d find something on here to take my mind off of things, let loose and have fun!

I’m 29 SEA, working in tech 5’9, goes to the gym every week, binges anime/movies, big foodie. If you’re also stressed like me and are looking for some escapism or just to chat and talk about anything and see where it goes I’m your guy! Hope to hear back from you!

I know that Reddit is a terrible place for this, but I’m just trying it out. I’m 29 and I haven’t done much. I never kissed a woman either. I went on one date in my life. I received oral before but that was like five years ago. I’m just looking for something casual that can potentially become more. I can talk to women in a general sense, but I simply just don’t know how to shoot my shot. I’m also slightly autistic, so my social intelligence isn’t the greatest in nature lol. Maybe some women have flirted with me or crushed on me, but I’m just bad with hints.

Anyway, I’m not necessarily asking to have my virginity taken. I just want a woman who I can be intimate with and experience more female companionship. I know that some dudes are weirdos, so I don’t mind hanging out getting to know each other first. Maybe I can treat you to food.

At this point, I don’t really care much about physical characteristics.

About me:

29, Asian dude, short at 5’6”, 170 lbs, muscular (stocky build). Warehouse worker. University graduate. Musician. Investor. Dog lover. I’m also a martial artist. I wrestled in high school, currently do Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and bounce between Judo and Muay Thai, but I have trained in other arts. I have no interest in being a MMA fighter. I competed before, but I hate it. I also enjoy learning new things. I went back to school and I’m taking personal finance, nutrition, automotive maintenance, and psychology.

Please excuse my Reddit username. Hah.

Fwb situations are awesome. The relief of having someone fun and trustworthy to consistently meet with is awesome. Fortunately, it's not my first rodeo, so I'm well positioned to manage everything that comes with this, including keeping a secret.

About me:
I’m 32, highly educated, techie, sophisticated good smelling gentleman, keep myself occupied in my free time, respectful, active lifestyle, take extremely good care of myself, and an expert at giving massages with 10+ years of experience massaging women. Check out FAQs, feedback posts and success stories on my profile to see what’s all the fuss about!

I value clear communication, safety and sticking to boundaries, and will make sure you’re comfortable at all times. I can read the room very well. I offer a safe and a non-judgmental environment, and believe in building and maintaining trust.

I’m looking for someone who likes sensual fun as much as I do and someone who knows what they’re doing. Please reach out with some info about yourself.

39-year-old straight, athletic, white guy in San Francisco here (6'0", 170 lbs).

Looking for another straight, fit dude to watch straight porn and JO side-by-side. No penetration, no oral—just a chill, discreet hang where we can compare, sync up, and have a good time. Open to becoming buds and possibly teaming up for an MFM down the line.

A quick meet first to make sure we vibe. If you’re serious and local, hit me up.

Hey there! I’m 38 years old and a Bay Area native. I’m looking to find someone who is inexperienced or experienced with this type of connection. A mutually beneficial connection.

I’m open to younger or older. Feel free to tell me about yourself and I can do the same.

ISO legal, obedient, slender sub female ISO little or middle who enjoy a benevolent Dictator who will support them in coloring their color books but then find themselves gagging on something big as they orgasm for His pleasure. Sapiosexual who desires to be micromanaged, spanked/slapped, disciplined and maybe humiliated privately.

A pacifier goes into your mouth and you sleep on the floor when you are not a good gal. You should be on the slender side with curves and a pretty face. A lack of deference towards Me is a good way to get dropped. I can be cruel at times and this should arouse you.

Bonus points if you get aroused while giving oral to Me and like to roleplay — you enjoy wearing stylish makeup, you’re multiorgasmic (faking it nicely is acceptable) because I can cum three times in an extended lovemaking with the right person, you're a cuckquean or you are busty to your frame.

Extra bonus points for enjoying free use, domestic discipline, patriarch, CNC, begging and orgasm denial. 57 SWM lean muscled build (5’11”), hairy chest and often taken for 40s (recently a colleague who is seven years younger than me said, “When you get to be my age you will understand how getting old wears the body down.” This was his response when I invited him on a seven-mile hike)! Couple of body pics on my feed.

I tend to be a protective teacher Daddy type who obviously enjoys teaching you. It should warm your heart if I start to look out for you outside of the bedroom. My vanilla interests: hot yoga, cultural knowledge, tabletop gaming, video games (preference for Steam), novels, movies & movie trivia, travel, History, red wine, hiking & the many Metaverses. This is a shared fantasy between two consenting adults - 20 or older - probably no older than 43.

This could go towards an LTR in which case you would sometimes need to act “normal” in public circles. Ideally, you are a clever and pretty woman who likes to privately play out some very naughty fantasies. I tend to lean toward traditional roles in a romantic relationship. Long-term audio partners who are never able to meet might work. When I become exclusive with someone you should understand it means the breaking of our audio interactions - unless it arouses her that I am with other women.

I am exacting and seeking a quality experience. When you contact Me put “Excalibur” in your detailed message explaining why I should consider you, including a physical description that includes your height, weight, body measurements and dress size.

If you cannot write at least five sentences to me in your reply I doubt you will get a response. Be ready to voice verify a file to me to prove you are not some guy trolling.

5'11" athletic build blue eyes dark brown hair.

Hi! So I’ve been wanting to get into weightlifting for a while now, mainly because I’d love to grow my butt and lose around 10 pounds but I’m a complete beginner! I honestly have no idea where to start lol. I’d really like to find someone who’s experienced and wouldn’t mind teaching me proper form and routine but most importantly keeping me consistent because I know myself and I’ll probably need someone to keep me on track lol. Ideally you’d have your own equipment at home or have access to a private gym since I’d be a lot more comfortable learning one on one. And privacy means more fun! ;) I’d definitely be okay with having some fun outside of lifting too, assuming we’re both attracted to each other!

I’m 22, 5’11, 160lbs, brunette with brown eyes, pretty introverted and a little shy at first but I promise I warm up once I’m comfortable with someone haha

I have a bit of a size kink so I’m looking for someone taller and bigger than me. That’s one thing I can’t really compromise on, I like to feel smaller. I’m also more than okay with an age gap and honestly tend to prefer older men! IDEALLY someone who lives relatively close to me too so getting together regularly wouldn’t be too much of a hassle

Not looking for a relationship or even really a FWB situation where we’re constantly hanging out and doing coupley things. I’d just like someone I get along with who can teach me how to lift and who I can also enjoy some casual sex with. I’m completely single and would really prefer someone who’s single too because I’m not interested in being involved in anyone cheating on their partner. No drama please!

I know this is all probably a bit of a long shot with how specific I’m being but hey figured it wouldn’t hurt to try lol! I’m not in a rush to jump into anything and would like to feel comfortable so please be okay with exchanging face pics/calling before we meet, that’s pretty nonnegotiable for me

I’m 30M, married, but unfortunately in a toxic and emotionally draining marriage. Both emotional and physical intimacy have been missing for quite some time, and I’ve felt disconnected for a while.

I’m looking for something discreet and ongoing, with genuine emotional and physical chemistry. Someone I can have meaningful conversations with, flirt with, laugh with, share little moments with, and genuinely look forward to spending time with.

I’m interested in an in-person connection where there’s mutual attraction, comfort, and a desire to explore physical intimacy when it feels right for both of us.

I’m not looking to rush into anything or put pressure on where things should go. I’d rather get to know someone, build some trust, and let things develop naturally if we click.

A little about me:
- Indian, 5’7”, 170 lbs, medium build, brown skin, black hair, and brown eyes.
- Well-groomed, take care of myself, enjoy dressing well, and always appreciate smelling nice.
- Easygoing, respectful, and someone who enjoys good conversations and a little playful banter.
- I value communication, personal boundaries, and making sure both people feel comfortable.

What I’m looking for:
A woman between 24–40, preferably in the Bay Area or nearby. Someone who’s easy to talk to, enjoys a little flirting, and is open to building a genuine connection.

Physical attraction matters to me, but so does personality, emotional chemistry, and being able to enjoy each other’s company beyond just physical intimacy.

Discretion, mutual respect, honesty about boundaries, and good hygiene are important to me.

Happy to exchange pictures privately once we’re both comfortable.

If this sounds like something you’re looking for too, feel free to DM.

If you’ve made it this far, I’d love to know:
Your age and location
What brought you here?
What kind of connection are you hoping to find?

Hi there, thought I'd try this out instead of the dating app treadmill. I'm 28, athletic, and attractive. I recently moved back to SF and I'm looking for a FWB I can connect with both in and out of bed. I have my own place and am sane (lol)

In bed I'm on the dominant side and pretty kinky. Giving head is my absolute favorite. I also have a big breeding kink so it'd be awesome if you did too; I test regularly.

Outside of bed, I love to be outdoors, whether it's backpacking, picnics at Dolores, or stargazing at the beach. I also love to cook and bake for all my friends so perhaps you can be my sous chef, expect your tastebuds to be spoiled :)

If any of this interests you, shoot me a message!

I recently had a husband want to become friends first and then seduce his wife, and have had more fun with the friend play. Usually this comes after a report has been built up, but the idea of being a friend that slowly seduces the wife is intoxicating.

So if you are a cuck that just wants to talk about the lifestyle, grab a drink in the bay for fun, have the same motives as me, or just hoping to meet likeminded people, would love to talk and see where it leads