I imagine there must be many people on here like me that work way too many stressful hours (either in school or career) and would just like to find a fun FWB partner to meet up with on occasion and spend some time enjoying physical pleasure.

Hello to all readers, hope all of you are well. As my title states I am looking for someone to have a FWB situationship with, no feelings, friends that can talk to each

For personal reasons, I’d like to keep things completely discreet and private. I’m looking for someone who is comfortable with that and is interested in a no-strings-attached arrangement.

Please do note that meeting up is secondary for me, don't really have the time for it so I prefer an online set up at the start, All are welcome to message as long as they are 18 -35 age range .

Hey y’all!

Hope everyone had a good week and is surviving the heat this weekend. Looking forward to it actually cooling down soon.

I am hoping to make some fun new connections, some interesting conversation, or irl/online fun. Whether the intentions are friendly, casual/fwb or something more, I’m open to going with the vibes and seeing where it takes us. Would love especially something ongoing to help us both get through the rest of the year at least.

I love hiking, trying new foods/cafes, and soccer/sports in general as some of my regular interests. But the thing I love most is getting to know new people and especially hearing them gushing. about their interests! find it super cool learning about new things! Always down to find a pickleball and hike buddy as well

If you’re into tall, athletic, wasians (or just like a good conversation), please free to reach out!

On the spicy side. I consider myself a switch, I really enjoy female pleasure and making a woman happy, so I would find a woman who would love my assistance.

Honestly though would mainly just would love a cuddle buddy. If this catches your eye let me know and maybe it could even turn it into a more regular thing

I’m 6’1 with brown hair, brown eyes, and a fairly athletic build. I’m open to chatting with people from anywhere around SoCal that is 20 or older.

Looking forward to hearing from you and hope to see some of you in my dms! Would really love to catch some people locally in OC though ( as it’s always more fun when you’re close by but don’t mind driving a bit, especially not too far away in LA

Hi. Thanks for your interest. I'm Cody and you can see Pics of me here. Fair warning, this is going to be a long read. Also, I am going to be really open about who I am, and therefore specific about things I would love from my partner. Don’t be discouraged I guess if our interests don’t align, they aren’t mandatory, I am just being honest and without reservations.

Here is some boring general information first:

• I am 5’10 tall, 160lbs and I have green eyes

• I am from Orange County, CA and have lived here my whole life.

• I grew up in Lake Forest but now live in Rancho Santa Margarita with my mom (yeah, more on that later)

• I don’t do politics and I don’t tolerate political bigotry. Hate the government and hate politicians, but don’t hate people who vote. People who believe voting works are like people who believe in religion. I can tolerate disagreeing with them but not maligning them; if you disagree that’s fine too, but I am not for you.

• Speaking of religion, I’m an atheist.

• Women only. I am not interested in male attention of any kind, even compliments. Just silently nod in approval from behind your monitor and leave me be.

• I’d prefer you live local to Orange County. I have a car and can drive, but gas is getting expensive and I don’t love driving long distances. If you insist then guuuuuuuurl you better shoot the shottiest shot of all maw fkn shots because I SERIOUSLY hate driving to LA or IE or whatever non-OC part of SoCal you live in. You better make me feel like “I’m the only boy in the world,” yeah, like that fkn song. You’ve been warned!

• Same if you are older than me. I am open to dating someone older but, let’s be real, as a man, I wanna date someone equal or younger. I dunno why it’s important, blame biology. So if you are older than me, guuuuuuuuuuuuurl you better fkn come with it.

• Lastly, I am not attracted to women who are overweight, If you put a gun to my head and made me put a number on it, I’d prefer if you were 80% of my weight or lower. There’s some wriggle room there depending on how tall you are, but hopefully you get the idea. I am a guy with regular proportions and would like to find a woman with regular proportions. If that’s you, come say hi. If not, then I am just trying to help you save time and effort because I likely won’t respond.

Just being real, tryna save everyone out here some time. Aight good luck!

So, it probably comes at no surprise that I’ve been single for a long time. No committed relationships for 11 years, no dating for 7 years. I removed myself from the dating pool because I refused to be honest with myself about what I really wanted out of my relationships; and as a result, all of them were really messy and harmful to both parties involved. I also wasn’t happy with a lot of things about who I was and so I decided it was best to go dark and work on me; utilizing that time to better myself and focus on what I really value and desire, both in what I give and provide my partner, and what they give and provide to me. What all that means is, as you can probably tell, I’m still a bit rough around the edges, but I’ve hit a good stride of self-improvement, and I work to continue, maintain, and build upon that momentum each and every day. And, you know, I’d like to not be alone anymore and so I think now is the appropriate time to take a bit of risk and start putting myself out there again.

Bear with me on this next part, because describing yourself in any capacity is cringe. I hate making declarative statements about myself, I’d much rather let my actions make such facts self-evident, but this isn’t exactly the place for that; so I am about to say a bunch of highfalutin bullshit that I like to tell myself is true. Just remember to not take my word for it and constantly judge me against it. That being said, in my solitude I’ve come to identify as an empath; deeply sensitive, emotional, and romantic. I like feeling my emotions and expressing them without restraint. This is great when I am feeling happy, excited, playful, or supportive; but it can also be dark, destructive, and depressing when I am feeling angry, alone, or neglected, which is where I’ve consistently been at for the past few years, until recently. I wouldn’t consider myself a “sad boy” by any means, but, man, I just hit an unlucky stride of bad events and had no one close to support me through it and, I just let it eat me alive because.. that’s just what I tend to do. FORTUNATELY THOUGH! The downward line on my graph has turned back to the upside and I am hoping to make some new highs and leave the darkness behind me, and so far so good bringing us up to now.

What does that all mean when it comes to my partner and companion? Ideally, I am seeking an intimate connection with a woman who encourages us sharing all our deep feelings and thoughts with each other. Where we can be honest and unashamed of our flaws. Where we create a space for us to express our masculine and feminine qualities, but also dip into and indulge in those emotions native to the opposite sex. Where we can provide and find support in times of excess and times of need. Where being thoughtful, kind, and making the other person feel cherished and desired comes as second nature to our coexistence. And the value of monogamy, loyalty, and commitment is equal to the intimacy, romance, and sexuality we develop and cultivate together. Companionship, partnership, and friendship should define our bond and commitment to each other. That mostly covers the romantic side of things, so let me talk about my more normal emotional demeanor and personality. First and foremost, I like to be funny and silly. This doesn’t mean I can’t ever be serious and lock in, but I am not lying when I tell you that I will cease every opportunity I see to inject humor into whatever I am doing or saying. I have one of those brains that constantly converts energy into wit, which is normally useless, so I prefer to turn it into laughter and amusement. I love musing about stupid observations I have or thoughts that pop into my head; I’m sarcastic, snarky, and sardonic and have a great sense of timing and delivery that I think makes engaging in conversation with me a lot of fun. “Great bants,” as the kids would say. Or at least I’d like to think that’s what they’d say. So yeah, I am very lighthearted, playful, and chill most of the time. I have a lot of patience and my temperament is typically inviting, productive, and playful. I don’t normally sport a bad mood and in the event I do, I’m a great communicator and I will let you know if I need some space or am feeling short-fused that day. To be clear, while I'm naturally talkative and energetic, I am not a yapper. I know and appreciate the value of peace and quiet, and I am comfortable with silence. If you’re familiar with the movie “Pulp Fiction,” I’ve always loved the scene with Vincent and Mia where they discuss the beauty of sharing silence, and that’s a perspective I share.

When it comes to my interests I am a movie guy. I looooove watching movies, talking about movies, going to the movies, all of it. Take that shit and shoot it directly into my veins. Growing up I didn’t see eye to eye with my dad about a lot of things, but one area we did bond over was movies and that love grew up with me. One of my favorite things is definitely going out to the movie theater and I used to always have those subscriptions where you could see multiple movies a week. I don’t currently though, cuz movie theaters are kinda shitty now AND lots of movies are also pretty shitty now, so it isn’t as often that I want to see multiple things a month, but I’d say I see roughly 1 movie a month in theaters. I enjoy all kinds of movies also and am pretty opinionated about what I think qualifies as quality. I listen to various podcasts about movies for recommendations and things like that, so I’ve developed a pretty diverse palette for what I enjoy and find interesting. The same goes for tv shows and anime, but I’ve seen a lot more movies than both of those.

My other big interest would be videogames, though I’ve been spending less time in recent months and years playing them as I used to. I used to sink all my freetime into playing games, but now it’s mostly every few months I will get a new title that I am interested in and play that till I am finished with it. I also really like trading card games (I know, yeah, I have all the non-athletic hobbies) and I used to play a lot of “magic the gathering” when I was a teenager, but not anymore. I recently got into a card game called “Flesh and Blood” which I love, but it’s super niche and there’s not many places in the area to play or compete, so, while I really enjoy it I am not sinking as much time or money into it… yet. I guess now would be a good time to spike the post with the information that I DO ACTUALLY VALUE exercise and physical activity. I am not really a sports person or anything like that, you won’t catch me at the park with my ball looking for a pickup game, but I do like running outside and lifting weights. Even through my depression I managed to stay consistently active and continue to set and reach goals. Something I am working on is running 1,000 miles this year which I am very close to doing. I actually think I can get over 1,100 but we will see what happens. I also enjoy cooking, especially for others, and even more with others. When it comes to food I am not a picky eater and I love going to new restaurants and trying new foods. I am also a very grateful eater; if you ever put a plate of food in front of me, I promise I will eat all of it and praise you like it’s the best thing I’ve ever had! That’s not a ploy to get you to cook for me, I just recognize cooking for someone is a lot more about love than what you actually end up making at the end.

As I mentioned a bit earlier, I live in Rancho Santa Margarita in my mother’s house. I really hate admitting that but it’s the situation at the moment. It was supposed to be something temporary but I fell into some hardships and it became… more temporary. I am working on getting my affairs in order so I can eventually move out, but it’s gonna take some more time. I know, it’s not sexy at all, but please don’t misconstrue it as something I’ve settled into and am ok with. I am working very hard to end this chapter in my life but I just need more time; I would rather be honest about it and still put myself out there than let it hold me back. The person I want to eventually attract should be understanding about it anyways, so that’s that.

I have a bachelor’s degree in accounting and currently work as the sole billing-specialist at a local retirement community in Lake Forest. I got hired fairly recent but it’s been really important to me and helped me mentally and spiritually to climb out of the hole I was in. My job isn’t super exciting but I really enjoy it. I am good at it and I can feel the appreciation from my coworkers and peers. It’s clear that at one point they stopped evolving their processes with new technology, and I’ve aided them a lot in upgrading their workflows to 21st century standards. Again, I am not changing the world, but it has been very satisfying and fulfilling to be needed and have a purpose. Overall it’s a great place to work and I look forward to seizing new opportunities presented to me to make the most of the entire experience.

Some other mundane information: my car is a Subaru Forester, which is modest but incredibly reliable. It gets good mileage, rarely breaks down, and I actually own it. I also have no debt, no kids, a great credit score, and no weird exes waiting in the wings to try and steal me back. My life is undramatic and quiet. I have a few friends and relatives in the area I make time for, but otherwise I have a lot of free time and this is another reason I would love to find a companion. I have lots of time, energy, attention, and love to give and believe me I am not earning interest on it by just keeping it in the bank.

That’s all I have to say. If there’s something I didn’t mention that you are curious about, feel free to ask; though I feel like I was pretty thorough going over the bulk of things you wouldn’t see on a traditional dating profile. I prefer to talk to people that are willing to invest some time getting to know me better, so some of it was intentionally vague to preserve some mysteries that will be fun to discuss if we hit it off. I promise to reciprocate your energy so please don’t be shy or hold back your curiosity.

If you do decide to message me I would appreciate if you start by telling me your name, age, and location. It serves as a basic introduction and also let’s me know you’ve read this far. Maybe you are thinking, “who would start a conversation without introducing themselves?” and the answer is, Everyone. It’s the internet after all, if you expect people to say more than “Hey,” you have to explicitly ask, so here is me doing so.

Secondly, I am providing my pictures to set a standard for reciprocity. I prefer knowing what someone looks like before investing my time romantically pursuing them, and so I’ve extended that courtesy to you upfront, in the hopes you will do the same. So, I expect you to send me some pictures immediately. You won’t be able to at first because reddit won’t let you, but when I get your message, I’ll accept your chat so that option opens up. Once you do, If I find myself attracted to you I’ll let know with a thoughtful compliment that hopefully makes you feel warm inside and we can continue the conversation from there. If I don’t, I am just going to respond with “banana” and that means, “thanks for your interest but I don’t wanna talk,” which is the best compromise I can come up with that respects your time and the romantic risk you just took.

Finally, the last thing I want to talk about is just that, risk. I just want to remind you that pursuing romance is full of risk and if you aren’t willing to take risks, then you shouldn’t bother putting yourself out there. Romance/relationships require you to risk your time, your energy, your privacy, etc and there’s no guarantees any of that is going to work out. Recently, after working up the courage to put myself out there again I was recently strung-along and then ghosted and it really sucked. I didn’t deserve it, I didn’t expect it, but I accepted the risk that would happen when I put myself out there. So, while it left me sad and deflated, I am pushing forward nonetheless. That’s just life, and all the risk will be worth it when I finally find my person.

Anyways, if you’d still like to talk after reading all that, introduce yourself and we’ll go from there. And if you decide to pursue love somewhere else, I hope what you risk is respected.

Thanks for reading,

Cody

Would a woman let me know if she thinks I'm kissable. I haven't kissed a woman in years so I may already have my answer. But maybe you think I might be. Or I'm passable for a Saturday night ;).

Would a woman let me know?

40m in the Coachella Valley
6 foot 5, bigger build(think nfl offensive lineman) beard, tattoos.
Been in the BDSM space for 15 years and craving a new sub. Dominant by nature. High sex drive.
A little about me, I work in the cannabis industry. I am a sports junkie. I love stand up comedy, I think there's so much truth in a joke.
Recently divorced, just dipping my toes in the water.

Fit athletic looking for another straight guy around my age.

Looking for someone to watch porn with and jerk next to me. Only way this works is if you share a face pic and the vibes are right through chat.

Not into gay guys or fem guys. I have my own place and can host in LA, Venice area.

I need a soft, ideally shy or docile girl to come over and be a sleepy little brainless doll for me to slide in and out of and use how I see fit. You're to be enjoyed for hours with a mix of free-use, degradation/praise, and psychological CNC.

You can dress for roleplay or just dress normal.

I'm looking to meet soon, open to ongoing, am regularly tested, and can host.
Totally ok with meeting in public beforehand, and discussing boundaries and safe-words.
The vibes will be chill overall but once the scene begins, and until it ends, you'll just have to disassociate and be soft and sweet while I help myself to all of you. I'm vocal and moan and groan a lot so expect that lol.

About me: above avg height, dark wavy medium length hair, nice arms and chest, and alt style. I like going out dancing and making music, so also hoping to have some good times
Outside you being my Cumrag ;)

Looking for a fwb to make some memories with. I'm Asian and looking for someone local to be fwbs and maybe friends with. I aim to reciprocate to the best of my abilities. I'm chill, fun, and considerate around friends, but I'm okay with something more casual if that's what you prefer. I'm a bit shy at first, but I warm quickly and I'm a real board game fanatic if you happen to also enjoy them! Hmu if you're local and want to connect

Hanging out and looking to host a chill guy. Mainly looking to chill, watch porn, Jo, down to suck. Send me a chat if you’re down and free. No flakes.

I have a fetish I want to play out (in person only). I have a major tickling fetish, so basically I’m looking for women to tickle. Please reach out if interested.l, and feel free to ask me anything. Looking for open minded women (one or more) to help me play it out. Or couples where I or we tickle your gf/wife. Please tell me a bit about yourself when you reach out, and let me know you found me on this sub!

I’m 34, single, 6’1”, bigger/stocky build, and live in the South Bay. (Torrance/Gardena)

I’m also a single dad of two, which is worth mentioning right away. Between the kids and work, my free time is pretty limited. That doesn’t mean I can’t make time for someone, just that I’m not always able to drop everything on a whim. I’d love to find someone who’s understanding of that and doesn’t mind planning ahead a little.

A bit more about me: I’ve lived and worked in Japan, speak pretty decent Japanese, love cooking, good food, live music, and getting out when I can. I’m outgoing, have a pretty dry sense of humor, and can usually find something to talk about with just about anyone.

As far as what I’m looking for, I’d really like to find a regular FWB. I’m not looking for a girlfriend, but I’m also not particularly interested in sleeping with a different stranger every weekend.

I’d much rather find one woman I’m genuinely attracted to, have some great sex, get to know each other a bit, and hopefully keep doing it. I actually enjoy the flirting and getting comfortable with someone. Plus, I think sex gets a hell of a lot better once you know what the other person likes.

I don’t expect anyone to rearrange their life around mine, either. If anything, I’d love to meet someone who’s equally busy, has her own things going on, and wants something fun to look forward to when we both have the time.

Happy to swap normal pictures privately and would be down to grab a drink first to see if we actually get along.
Anyway, if this sounds like something you’d be into, shoot me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and what you’re looking for.

26yo male here looking for online connections at the moment. I will be moving back to the area in the spring and could meet in person then if we click. Prefer those near southern OC but fine with anywhere in OC and north county SD.

A bit about me: Fit and love to workout, open to gym buddies or running partners if interested. Like going out to the beach. Into video games and trying to get more into it once I upgrade my PC. Also into cars and know how to work on them. So can help you out with small jobs if you need it :) Don't mind going out for drinks either

Looking For: Not looking for anyone specific honestly. Open to all ages 18+, have a thing for older women though. No preferences on body type, ethnicity, etc. Very much into BBWs and thick women as much as I'm into petite or fit women. Ideally we share one common interest.

If this interests you, send me a message and let's get to know each other some more. Have a pic in my profile but happy to share more in the meantime ;)

Hello! I'm looking for a partner for to date/be in a relationship with. I would love to have someone who can also be my companion. Maybe going to the movies on a date, or enjoying nature on a walk would be a nice way to start or end a day together.

About you

Single, must be able to host, kind, smart, can hold a conversation and allow me to feel comfortable. Please be between the age of 25 and 40.

Love well kempt beards and good quality tattoos

Please be local to San Diego

About me

Im single, in school, and working

I love reading, animals, plants, going to the movies or a museum. I love travelling too, but ive been so busy I haven't had a proper chance to lately.

Im latina and BBW. I have tattoos, piercings, dark hair and dark eyes

Serious inquiries only.

I’m a 6’ tall, thick, dadbod-rocking bear with a thick juicy dick and I’m looking for a vanilla slut for October sexcapades. I have a kinkier side, but sometimes nothing is hotter than really milking missionary for all it’s worth (or you know, the other two basic positions lol). I’m active, adventurous, intelligent, open minded, and seeking similar qualities in you. Let’s get off.

Looking for a chill/drama-free FWB in Orange County? I’m here in Anaheim. I’m single, I have my own place & live alone, & work from home. Ideally I’d like to find a FWB that can come over to chill & have some fun. Pretty straightforward

I’ve been using Reddit for a couple years now & I came to the conclusion to what makes for the best experience. Creating a connection! Grabbing a drinking & getting to know each other a little goes a long way.

Physically, I’m 5’9” about 180lbs, overall decently fit. Ethnicity, I’m mixed white & Hispanic.

If you’re at all interested, send me a DM

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looking for a horror movie art gaming cuddle buddy

Please be 20 min or less close to me.

Sometimes you just really miss being held. Right?

Any friendship, relationship, etc is based in a strong communication foundation.

We could chill with some horror and or make art or game this weekend?

That would be cool.

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I'm a 5'9 chubby/ fat dad bod teddy bear perfect to cuddle. I have a beard and curly stache. I dont drink or smoke. I'm clean and tested recently. Can show.

Please dont smoke. And don't be allergic to cats I have an orange floof.

Let's talk about that, or the horrors, movies, arts? I like to paint and do digital art too. Let's game together.

Well yeah hopefully you're out there

Soft energy with spicy potential. I’m here for laughs, warmth, easy connection, and kisses that feel effortless. Let’s keep it fun, flirty, and uncomplicated, good vibes, natural chemistry, and seeing where it flows without pressure.

My last fwb moved to another city, so im seeking for a new one. if you can flirt,laugh, and not ghost like a coward, i’m interested. casual but comfortable. fun but respectful.

Hey there, thanks for stopping by. If you're here reading you're looking to satisfy a certain urge... Good.

By day, I’m a successful, clean-cut creative professional with my life together. Out in public, you get a grounded, friendly guy-next-door vibe.

​Behind closed doors, the dynamic shifts completely. I'm passionate, deeply physical, and love to get my big, strong hands all over—and inside—you. I take control, know how to manhandle every curve, and happen to be a great kisser. Whether it's passionate and primal or slow and heavy, my priority is making sure you’re completely satisfied, dripping, and leaving with a smile on your face.

​Me: 47, 6'2", 210 lbs, fit, DDF.

Clean, private home to host, or can travel to you.

​Kinks & Play Style: Soft-sensual to heavy rough dominance depending on mood.

​Interests: CNC, MFM/Bulling, public/risky play, boundary-pushing.

​Couples Welcome: Happy to play while he watches, joins, or steps back knowing his partner is fully taken care of.

​Safety First: Strict on safe-words, privacy, and clear consent out-of-scene. Trust makes the intensity work.

​About You: A woman (or couple) with a high appetite who wants a confident, capable partner to take the lead.

DM me with your stats, location, and favorite kink. Pic exchange to follow.

Hey everyone. Thanks for checking out my profile. As I mentioned or as you can tell from my user, I'm a femboy/ sissy/ CD, whichever one is fine. Anyway it's been a dream of mine to meet a woman who is into femboys. I love dressing up. It's not just a kink. Its a part of who I am. I have my own set of clothes but wouldn't mind sharing either. I love trying on new clothes. I'm somewhat inexperienced and closeted as well (so please excuse the body hair). I'm hoping to find someone who would doll me up before taking what's yours. Check out my profile for tons of pics of me (primarily nsfw but there's also a mix of sfw in there). I'll also attach some completely sfw pics and vids of me below.

About me:

• 26, 5'7, latino chubby dad bod, lives in Garden Grove, CA but willing to drive within an hour

• brown curly hair & brown eyes

• Love music, video games, tv, movies, playing pool, eating out, and hanging out in general

• Love giving oral, and would love to please

• Submissive leaning switch. Ideally I'd love for another switchy partner. As much as I love being a submissive girl, I very much want to become better at being a dominant.

• Would love to also learn to worship, and obey orders.

• Would love to also go out together. Not looking to just remain indoors all day. Would love to have someone to talk to and hang out with every once in a while while dressed

• sfw pics and vids attached below. Can't host but can drive within an hour. Everyone is welcome, as long as 18+

• Not into someone who smokes regularly (including weed).

• I am only attracted to feminity, meaning women, trans women and femboys.

• As mentioned, I am a closeted femboy. That means I am male presenting 90% of the time, including in my personal life. Hoping to find someone ok with this.

About you:

• Into femboys, femdom in general and are a switch or domme

• Can host or willing to meet at a hotel

• Located within an hour of Garden Grove

• open to all body types and anyone 18+

• Likes to chat and go on dates

• DDF

If you read all that (sorry I know it's long), I'd love to hear from you! Hope to hear from you soon! Below are some sfw pics and vids of me. Please start with your asl and a short intro about you

https://imgur.com/a/qSxg8Mo

I’m mixed latino with long hair 5’7 in very good shape work out often.. std free looking for the same

Making out, cuddling &multiple long sessions…

I love hearing moans and whimpers… seeing you tremble and your entire body shake and shiver as I’m going and after I’m done…

I love making a girl orgasm;) I have a lot of stamina!

I have been told I give the best massages and head

I can host!

Trade pictures… see where it goes

I’ve tutored a number of subjects before, from English to Math but my main expertise was Science. It was so much fun to see my pupils faces light up when they realize they get it. I'd like to do so again, with a twist.

I’d like to host a lesson for an eager student (doesn't have to be any actual teaching involved), but somewhere in between all the teaching we take a break, a blowjob break or at the end of class after a long and boring session - but the idea’s been with me for a long time, and it’s high time I - we - indulged it, don’t you think?

That said, I’d like to teach if possible. I want to earn it, and teach you something valuable in the process. We can always meet in public for the first time if you just want to get a feel for what I'm offering. 18+ Only. About Me: 5'9, 140 lbs, long brown-white hair