r/SoCalR4R • • 2h ago

F4M 29 [F4M] #Irvine - Want night-time makeouts leading to oral NSFW

27 Upvotes

Come over after dark. Netflix on low, snacks nearby. Long wet kissing that turns into you eating me out properly, teasing, then focused until I’m shaking. Casual, open to ongoing.


r/SoCalR4R • • 10h ago

F4M 28 [F4M] #LA - big? NSFW

41 Upvotes

Hi all!

I really really really love the stretch that comes from a big thick dick. It’s just so satisfying. I’m not really trying to do any foreplay because that stretch is just best without anything else being inserted in me. I love the struggle.

I unfortunately cannot host and would prefer to keep the drive time under 45 minutes as we all know gas prices are pretty ridiculous right now!

So please message me if you have big dick that you’d be willing to use on me. Huge bonus if you’re generally just taller (>6’), really want to feel small!

You of course should be okay with condoms, recently tested, able to host in LA. If you’re available today/night for a meet, that would be perfect. (Toy friendly +++)

I am 5’2, 126lb, Latina. It’d be fun to just wear a dress and have it lifted up because you just need to be inside me.

Happy searching 💗


r/SoCalR4R • • 17m ago

F4M 29 [F4M] #SanDiego - Looking for Someone to Share the Couch With NSFW

• Upvotes

29F I’m pretty easygoing and open minded. If we vibe, maybe we explore a fun FWB situation. If we don’t and just end up cuddling and talking all night, that honestly sounds pretty perfect too


r/SoCalR4R • • 6h ago

F4M 29 [F4M] #Riverside - looking for some fun tonight NSFW

7 Upvotes

Heiiii😋 Not gonna lie but I'm hornier than usually and my body is asking for a decent stress relief... I'd be down for anything as long we are having fun together ... I'm looking for someone older with some good manners but with a dirty mind😜


r/SoCalR4R • • 1m ago

F4M 29 [F4M] #Irving - looking for FWB or a ONS, up to you NSFW

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I'm a switch but at the moment looking to dom (can do both if you want). I’m definitely in my bad girl era got no plans except vibing, wine, and maybe causing a little trouble.


r/SoCalR4R • • 36m ago

M4F 40 [M4F] #LosAngeles - 6'4" guy looking for a discreet, low-stress escape / cuddle & massage partner NSFW

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Looking for a compatible woman to escape the daily stress with, someone who appreciates real touch, relaxing massages, low-pressure cuddling, and great conversation in a clean, comfortable environment.

​About me and the vibe:

​Respectful and discreet (married so it's a must): Privacy, boundaries, and clear communication first.

​Flexible: My schedule takes a little coordinating, but I have control over my time and can work around yours.

​Low-stress: No rush, no drama, just a cozy atmosphere to unwind, trade massages, and chill out.

​If you're looking for a tall, grounded guy to recharge with, DM me with a bit about yourself and what your ideal low-key hangout looks like.


r/SoCalR4R • • 1h ago

M4F 24 [M4F] #CulverCity - looking for more experience NSFW

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Heyo! I’m not very experienced and I’m looking to get some reps in lol. I can’t host unfortunately but open to other options! I’m around the Culver City/Beverly hills areas but willing to commute. I’m 5’10 170 lb 7.5x6 in and clean. Looks and age don’t matter to me.

A little about myself

\- Gym enjoyer
\- love talking about nerdy things (video games, anime, Marvel/DC, Star Wars, etc)
\- Love music (play a couple instruments and collect vinyl)
\- Hiking (currently dealing with a leg injury lol)

If you’re into this kinda thing, reach out for additional info or pics on my part


r/SoCalR4R • • 1h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] #losangeles - Looking for a weird girl who wants to explore a shy nerd's secret kink! NSFW

• Upvotes

Open about finding a kinky friend or possibly more. Open to online.

Me: Half Asian, half sub, half dom, but totally down to get to know a like minded woman. Conversational, empathetic and easygoing, artsy, flirty, and extremely silly. I love voice calls, discussions about almost anything, getting to know someone new and what makes them special! I'm working on my shape/weight, as I do admit I need to improve. As with a number of things in my life, I'm figuring it out, slowly but hopefully surely.

You: Adult, not a couple looking for an extra, not looking for a completely spineless slave. (I prefer kink to be a fun activity between equals, s/d dynamics being just fun and games!) Silly, or at least able to handle silly. Conversational and chill. Okay with having their snoot booped.

The kink: While I have many, especially the expected ones, I promised a secret... In a lot of ways, I'm confident and outgoing. I'm a weirdo, and I own that. However, this kink manages to make me feel incredibly shy about it. >.> It's uh. Well, have you ever wanted to get away with smacking a guy where it hurts? <.<


r/SoCalR4R • • 1h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #Alhambra - Eating your pussy tonight NSFW

• Upvotes

Hello! I'd love to eat your pussy today as long as you'd like.

I really enjoy helping you orgasm and want you to feel hot and desired. No reciprocation is expected, this is for you to be taken care of. If you're stressed and need to relax, or just love attention for your pussy, we'd be a good match.

Let me know if you're open to chatting more.


r/SoCalR4R • • 2h ago

M4M 32 [m4m] #sylmar - Str8 4 str8 NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking for someone to watch straight porn with. I can’t host but down to travel, hike, car, split a room. I’m down for one on one or small circle.

I’m 32, 5’8, 145, cut, white, straight


r/SoCalR4R • • 2h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #SantaClarita - Love to worship some big tits NSFW

0 Upvotes

I’ll show you how a real man appreciates your incredible pair.

I want you to relax while I take some time to feel your tits, grope them, compliment you, suck on them and find out how you like them played with.

I’ll give your chest the attention you have always wanted. The bigger the better!

Located around the Valley near Santa Clarita, open to public and car play, or I can come to you. You do not have to reciprocate. Bonus points if you have/want a friend to watch your tits get played with, the more the merrier!


r/SoCalR4R • • 2h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] #SantaAna - Tall Doordash Driver and eater looking for discreet carplay FWB NSFW

0 Upvotes

26M Latino, tall and thick but not morbidly obese, thick uncut cock (ask me for pics), and in a struggling and sexually neglecting relationship!!!

I do DoorDash often, sometimes in evenings, looking for someone to meetup for carplay or host. Im in OC, but willing to travel to you or meet hafway. I know a handful of discreet locations in Santa Ana. Not looking for any trouble, just a good time and multiple discreet meetups.

\*\* Send a message with your stats and what subreddit you saw this post in. \*\*


r/SoCalR4R • • 3h ago

M4F 34 [M4F] #LosAngeles - New connections aka fwb NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hi, I'm looking for a girl to ideally be fwb with. Let's just have fun and hangout. Wouldn't mind wholesome nights just watching movies or spending time together as well. If things go well and feelings become mutual, I'm not opposed to something more serious or a relationship down the line. Hoping for some cuddles that eventually leads to some fun.

You: No preference when it comes to race, decently in shape, clean and ddf. Please be open to send a photo along the line because let's be honest, physical attraction is important. Not looking for anyone that's just going to end up ghosting.

Me: 5'10, hwp, and ddf. For the sfw stuff, I'm into anime, kpop, video games, plants, aquariums, working out, and getting good food. As for what I like in bed, just ask. Pretty open and experimental as long as we're both comfortable.

Thanks for reading. Hope we get to chat!


r/SoCalR4R • • 3h ago

M4F 48 [M4F] #HuntingtonBeach - Let's Release Your Stress & Give You the Attention You Desire! Erotic Massage for Women Only Provided by Experienced Masseur NSFW

0 Upvotes

Testimonials here: https://imgur.com/a/Oa6sJmn

Ladies, do you have stress in your life, lacking sensual touch, miss intimate touch, wish to discover your body's potential and are pent up needing a release? You'll love my hands all over your body with oil, and a sensual, yet firm, teasing touch to warm up! The first sensation you will feel are my hands rubbing oil on your neck and shoulders as I spread it softly and slowly. I will work the tension out of your muscles, slowly and methodically working my way down your body. There will be a sensuality to the way I use my hands, fingers, and arms to rub and stroke and caress your body. Oil will trickle between your butt cheeks. You'll likely be squirming now and pushing/raising your hips for a more intimate touch but i will tease up your legs first, giving special attention to your inner thighs. You will be wet and yearning for more. If this sounds like something you need, pm me. Please no time wasters or flakes.

I have been offering massages for over 15 years. Should try at least once! Open minded and i can take lead. If you have requests let's discuss before we meet. I am clean and STD free. You be also! No couples or men. I can host.


r/SoCalR4R • • 3h ago

M4F 47 [m4f] #Orangecounty - Feeling Stressed.... Can We Make Out? NSFW

0 Upvotes

I don't think this is a remedy for feeling stressed. And I doubt a therapist would recommend it but I've been feeling stressed lately. I think it has to do with my work or lack of work. But I sit around feeling stressed.

Maybe some making out would take my mind off things for a little awhile at least ;).

Now if I could only find a woman that would help distract me. Might you?


r/SoCalR4R • • 3h ago

Couples 40 [MF4M] #WestHollywood - Established Couple Seeking Alpha Dom for triad NSFW

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We are accomplished, active couple in West Hollywood looking for a deep, long-term connection with a dominant man who knows how to claim what is his.

About Us: We’ve been together 10+ years and are incredibly solid. She is a beautiful, fit Latina with a heart of gold and a submissive streak. I am a willing beta ready to be broken down and rebuilt by the right man. We aren’t looking for a "guest star"—we are looking for a leader.

The Dynamic: I crave the mental and physical surrender of being owned by a true Alpha. I want to be trained to serve you and to support the relationship you build with my wife. We thrive under guidance and want someone who revels in the "cuckold bottom" dynamic.

About You: Ideally 40-60, self-assured, and established. You should be hung, experienced in D/s, and possess the emotional intelligence to manage a complex, loyal triad. We want someone who wants to own our sex life and claim leadership over us both.


r/SoCalR4R • • 4h ago

M4M 25 [M4M] #SantaClarita - Anon gloryhole for hung men NSFW

0 Upvotes

Submissive throat goat with no reflex hosting a gloryhole right now and looking for someone with a nice cock to flood my throat with nut

Huge plus if you have shoot heavy loads


r/SoCalR4R • • 5h ago

M4F 40 [M4F] #NorthHollywood - cute bear with nice dick seeks flirty friend NSFW

0 Upvotes

Are you into a strong, hairy, chubby man with a thick juicy dick? I’m slowly finding my way around LA and I’d like to find a fun new friend who also wants to fuck. Sex is often better with a bit of connection, and I’m currently lacking in both departments. I’m intelligent, open minded, adventurous, active, and seeking similar qualities in you. If you’re in the market for a cute well-equipped bear, slide into my DMs and let me fill your void. Fellow nerds/alts/weirds to the front.


r/SoCalR4R • • 6h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Looking for ticklish females (couples too!) NSFW

0 Upvotes

I have a fetish I want to play out (in person only). I have a major tickling fetish, so basically I’m looking for women to tickle. Please reach out if interested.l, and feel free to ask me anything. Looking for open minded women (one or more) to help me play it out. Or couples where I or we tickle your gf/wife. Please tell me a bit about yourself when you reach out, and let me know you found me on this sub!


r/SoCalR4R • • 3h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Tall, fit, hung musician looking for fun times/good vibes (can host) NSFW

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hey! terminally chill, good looking musician guy looking for a fun girl to take out and get to know.

have my own spot near miracle mile. would love to get coffee or drinks when we first meet up to see what the connection is like. I’m 6ft, 165lb, 6.5 inches and thick. love going to concerts and shows in general. could talk about music for hours :) hit me up with your age and a bit about you! happy to share pics once we connect.


r/SoCalR4R • • 7h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #LosAngeles - i wanna feel your grip… NSFW

0 Upvotes

Keeping this pretty simple:

seeing who’s around and interested in making some plans.

Usually looking for something fun after work or over the weekend. Lounges, music events, bars, clubs, whatever sounds good that night. Ofc I’m ready to have fun in the bedroom as well and can make it worth your while.

SFV / Los Angeles

32, 5’10”, 180#, Colombian/mixed. Clean & tested, DDF, discreet, established and fun to be around.

Looking for someone height weight proportional , within a reasonable distance, attracted to each other and looking for the same kind of fun.

Message me if interested. I can share more privately and if the vibe is there, we can figure something out.


r/SoCalR4R • • 8h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #LaMesa - hotel nights expiring, would rather not waste them NSFW

0 Upvotes

Got leftover hotel nights that disappear if I don’t use them. Would rather spend one with someone who’s fun, direct, and local than let them vanish.

Me: 32, 6’3”, athletic, easygoing, can host. You: 21+, nearby, actually wants to meet. Drinks first or straight to the room is fine as long as we’re on the same page.
Drop your area and a little about you.


r/SoCalR4R • • 8h ago

M4F 41 [M4F] #Westminster - Seeking younger woman for dom/sub relationship in Southern California NSFW

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I am looking for a relationship where both man and woman have established roles and boundaries. We both share the same mindset when it comes to our dynamic and are in tune with each other.

Respect is number 1 and will always be the cornerstone of our relationship. I believe everyone should be treated with dignity whether they are a stranger in public or a loved one. I am very assertive and do not need to raise my voice or get excited to get my point across. I do not believe in verbal abuse of any kind and is something I will never subject you too. I am very aware of the physical imbalance between the sexes, and I understand that it is my duty to always make sure you feel safe, loved, and protected while in my presence.

Once respect is established, trust begins. The level of trust will be to the point that anytime we are out together as a couple your mind will be completely clear and your entire focus will be on enjoying yourself, being pretty, and just being a girl. This will be your reality because you will be of the understanding that no matter what happens your man can handle the situation. This idea that you have someone who is always looking out for you gives you peace of mind.

What I am looking for ultimately is a woman who fantasizes about the idea idea of fully surrendering herself to a man and will submit fully within the confines of the relationship. In other words, you recognize that I am the one who leads us and I know what is best for us.

When it comes to intimacy, this is not an ad seeking BDSM sex with props and toys. I don't need any of that. Dom/Sub is a mindset. I am very much a dominant and love being in control. This will be your time to shut your mind off and not think about anything. You will never have to think about what comes next as I will always lead the interaction. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

About me:

I am 41 years old (no kids). I'm 5'10 160 lbs. I workout a couple times per week and am in good shape physically. I am white with dark brown hair that has a touch of gray and hazel eyes.

I'm a very simple man. My trials and tribulations have taught me to enjoy the little things in life. My favorite moments are enjoying a nice meal, having a good laugh, or just enjoying the moment with someone I truly care about.

I have a lot of life experience and would love to share that wisdom as a mentor with a new friend/lover. I will teach you how the world works and help guide you when you need it.

I love a feminine clingy woman who craves my attention, approval, and validation.

I am STD free.


r/SoCalR4R • • 9h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] #SanDiego - ucsd law student NSFW

0 Upvotes

M

Hey everyone!
A little about me: I'm a college student in the San Diego who is half European and half Mexican. I have longish wavy black hair, big dark brown eyes and I’m pretty skinny/lean. I like to think I’m a pretty good looking guy so don’t be shy! Just shoot me a text message! I am however looking for something relatively local and in the area near where I live in, I just don’t think I can have a realistic LDR.
I’ve been kinda burnt out on the dating apps and that leads me to here! Outside of that, I'm a huge fan of rock music, love watching movies. If you’re into any of that we should get along great. I’m pretty easy going and very easy to talk to! I also just love going bar hopping and maybe doing some karaoke even though im pretty terrible at it. I am looking for a serious dating relationship if anyone is interested!

Some of my favorite rock bands are Oasis, Arctic Monkeys, The Strokes, Queens of the Stone Age and so many more! I do love all kinds of music though! I also have letterbox, so if you’re a self proclaimed movie buff, maybe something can spark between us! In terms of who I’m looking for, I don’t mind any age, even older than me! I don’t really have a lot of preferences so no pressure let’s just talk and have some low-stakes conversations to see where it all leads! If any of this sounds like something you’d be interested in just shoot me a text and I’ll answer! Looking forward to meeting some great people here!