This is pretty out of character for me, but it's worth a shot. I've become super lonely as of late because I don't really have friends around me and stuff, and I want someone I can have lots of fun with, so I thought I'd try Reddit out. I'm from the northern part of Orange County. I'm also a college graduate and in grad school.

Unfortunately, I'm still trying to discover a path for myself, which means that I'm basically in a holding pattern. In the meantime, many of my friends have left this area, or are super busy, so I'm looking for someone to make my days better. While I'm looking for someone to sleep with regularly, I also want someone I can hang out with and get to know. However, I'm not really looking for a commitment at this time. This is because I have no idea where the future will take me, so something more flexible suits my needs for now. I can host some days, and I can drive anywhere in Socal so distance isn't too much of an issue for me. Honestly, I just want someone who's open minded and chill to have fun with.

Also: I really love going down on women, and I'm down to go down on you without reciprocation.

PM me with a little bit about you if you want to get to know me! I'm hoping to see some orange envelopes.

Additionally: If you just want to be platonic friends, that's fine too!! I'm 5'9 and 145-ish pounds

Looking for a more sensual/passionate hookup. Things like eye contact during missionary, extended foreplay, dirty talk, whimpering, genuinely wanting to please eachother, etc. This may sound a bit much for a subreddit like this, but I'm just at a point now where I feel like if a hookup feels overly transactional or passionless, it doesn't really do much for me and I'd rather just masturbate at that point. A bit more about me:

* 5'10", slim/fit body type, dark brown hair, brown eyes
* bit shy but friendly and can hold conversation
* tested clean
* love going down, pleasing really turns me on
* vocal when I'm turned on, especially during oral. I love to moan/grunt/pant
* like foreplay and building sexual tension versus getting straight into it
* switch, can be either dominant or submissive.
* Limited bdsm experience (handcuffs/blindfolds), but open to exploring it more
* turned on by public play, but totally understand if it's not your thing
* prefer communicative partners and partners not shy about giving/receiving feedback

Not sure what else to add. Just looking for someone that's a good fit and also respectful, clean, and just a chill/normal person. I can share pictures of myself over chat, and we can go from there.

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Hey everyone!
A little about me: I'm a college student in the San Diego who is half European and half Mexican. I have longish wavy black hair, big dark brown eyes and I’m pretty skinny/lean. I like to think I’m a pretty good looking guy so don’t be shy! Just shoot me a text message! I am however looking for something relatively local and in the area near where I live in, I just don’t think I can have a realistic LDR.
I’ve been kinda burnt out on the dating apps and that leads me to here! Outside of that, I'm a huge fan of rock music, love watching movies. If you’re into any of that we should get along great. I’m pretty easy going and very easy to talk to! I also just love going bar hopping and maybe doing some karaoke even though im pretty terrible at it. I am looking for a serious dating relationship if anyone is interested!

Some of my favorite rock bands are Oasis, Arctic Monkeys, The Strokes, Queens of the Stone Age and so many more! I do love all kinds of music though! I also have letterbox, so if you’re a self proclaimed movie buff, maybe something can spark between us! In terms of who I’m looking for, I don’t mind any age, even older than me! I don’t really have a lot of preferences so no pressure let’s just talk and have some low-stakes conversations to see where it all leads! If any of this sounds like something you’d be interested in just shoot me a text and I’ll answer! Looking forward to meeting some great people here!

Hi! I’m 36, live in San Diego, and I’m hoping to meet a Dominant woman who enjoys D/s and is also open to building something real if we click.

A bit about me: I’m active, creative, and a little nerdy. I work from home, have my life together, and I’m usually either making art, gaming, lifting, catching beach sunsets, or hunting for good coffee. I can be shy at first, but warm up pretty fast once I feel comfortable with someone.

In a D/s dynamic I’m naturally submissive. I like giving control to someone who actually enjoys having it. I’m into a wide range of kink, but I’m also looking for someone I get along with and feel good around. The dynamic is way better when the people in it click naturally.

If you identify as Dominant (or just leans that way) and want to chat, I’d love to grab coffee or brunch by the beach and see if there’s a connection!

When messaging me, please start out vanilla. Include your Age, Sex, Location, and a little bit about yourself when reaching out. It’ll help against the bots!

Here’s me: https://imgur.com/a/qHfy204

Testimonials here: https://imgur.com/a/Oa6sJmn

Ladies, do you have stress in your life, lacking sensual touch, miss intimate touch, wish to discover your body's potential and are pent up needing a release? You'll love my hands all over your body with oil, and a sensual, yet firm, teasing touch to warm up! The first sensation you will feel are my hands rubbing oil on your neck and shoulders as I spread it softly and slowly. I will work the tension out of your muscles, slowly and methodically working my way down your body. There will be a sensuality to the way I use my hands, fingers, and arms to rub and stroke and caress your body. Oil will trickle between your butt cheeks. You'll likely be squirming now and pushing/raising your hips for a more intimate touch but i will tease up your legs first, giving special attention to your inner thighs. You will be wet and yearning for more. If this sounds like something you need, pm me. Please no time wasters or flakes.

I have been offering massages for over 15 years. Should try at least once! Open minded and i can take lead. If you have requests let's discuss before we meet. I am clean and STD free. You be also! No couples or men. I can host.

Hey everyone! I’m 26M, 6ft and 125lbs just looking to chat about some of my fantasies since I’m pretty inexperienced since I only had sex twice with one woman and that was 3 years ago.

I’ve been wanting to figure out how it would be like to experience more and was curious if anyone had similar fantasies themselves. Some things I haven’t experienced yet that I think about are 69, anal, footplay, pegging, rimming.

As of recently I’ve been obsessed with feet and I’m hoping to find someone that wants to explore mutual foot worship, licking, and rubbing on each other’s body!

I lean more towards the submissive/switch side currently and I have some pics of myself on my profile if you want check them out.

Just looking for single females with a slim build like me for now. If interested feel free to chat with me! :)

I can’t host or drive so I prefer if you are close if we meet. Send ASL in your message.

I’m looking for a friendly woman who can teach me how to pleasure her. I’m a somewhat inexperienced guy and a late bloomer. However, I’m a patient person, and I like to listen and learn. I enjoy giving shoulder and neck rubs too. I like to make people feel good.

I’m single, in San Diego, California, about 5’8” and 200lbs.

I have May STI test results (all negative).

If you have any questions, please let me know :)

(I’m open to people all over socal)

FUCK! Our voyeur turned out to be a coward and deleted his account. Don't be a coward, people.

You need to be a pervert that likes to watch kinky sex that has a hotel room at 10 a.m. tommorrow in the area of Long Beach, California.

If that doesn't describe you PERFECTLY, do not reply to this ad.

If it DOES describe you perfectly, the three of us want to meet you and have you watch as we strip down naked, tie each other up and fuck. You get to watch, masturbate and possibly hold the camera for us. You'll get to keep some unpublished photos as a momento, and we'll keep in touch for future possible kinky shenanigans.

This will be a threesome with a 47-year-old man, a 29-year-old woman and a 20-year-old woman.

So if we're describing you PERFECTLY, feel free to ask any questions. Just tell us that you're "Perfect for us," so that we know you're paying attention.

Hello there,

I’m a 21 straight recent college grad that is asian and taken. I’m looking for someone who wants to have some NSA fun, specifically giving head. Also interested in getting rimmed which I’ve never done and maybe edging and more if the moment leads to it.

I’m 5’9 168lbs average twinkish build with glasses and brown hair. I do have a small dick so please be on with that. I’m able to host after work between 6-7 today or tomorrow but I’m more so looking for today because of how horny I am lol.

I’m specifically looking for women be it cis, trans. Also open to femme-presenting people! Please be drug and disease free, tho weed is ok! Also if you got blue chew or anything like that I’d be willing to try them to see if I can last multiple rounds!

Please send stats and pics and tell me a bit about yourself!

I’d love to meet someone younger that wants to regularly enjoy a nice cocktail and some fine dining and spend an erotic night together. 

I’m a fit, handsome, recently divorced silver fox who loves to please and hopefully explore any of your existing or unexplored kinks. Let’s have some fun!

Looking forward to connecting and chatting with you!

Of course, some sort of verification will happen, even if it's just meeting at a public place like Starbucks or Target.  And of course, I am regularly tested as you should be as well…

https://imgur.com/a/OjD10pL

Are you looking for someone to safely explore new things with? I work (probably too much) and it’s hard to just go out and meet anyone. I’m not a big fan of one night stands either. I’d rather have fun with you and get to know you a bit - whether you have experience or not. I’m not going to judge you if you have questions or haven’t done much. As long as you’re 18+, your age doesn't really matter to me as long as we can have fun together.

A little about me:

I'm 5’11, white (Italian and Swiss decent), shaved head and a very short trimmed beard. Well hung (pics in my post history). Great hygiene (hey you never know, right?). Funny in a sarcastic way and overall I’ve been told I’m attractive. I’m into photography, fish/aquariums, and I love the beach. I work out a bit too to stay in shape - cycling and swimming are my favorites.

What about you? I’d love to hear from you and see where it goes.

Im looking to worship the ass of a cute petite or skinny girl. Ass worship includes rimming you and fingering your booty. My preferences would be either a Latina, white, Asian, or middle eastern girl. The age range I'm looking for is 18-27. I live in Santa Ana. I won't be able to drive or host so be willing to pick me up. I'm a 22 year old Hispanic man with minimal facial hair and young looking. If you are interested send a photo of yourself in my dms, I will verify if you are a real person for safety purposes.

I have this mommy kink itch that you might be able to scratch ;) Chubby and older women to the front please!
Im looking to be a good boy for you! I wanna praise and worship you. I’m want to learn what turns you on and what do you want me to do to pleas me you. I love being given orders and being told when to cum. Then if I’m acting out of line you can squeeze me by the balls to have me act right. I would want to be use for your own pleasure. I would love to be your munch. I wanna want to tast your sweet juices.

Mexican toned body. 6 foot exact. No tattttoos. I love being the outdoors hiking and playing baseball. I also love being a home body being indoors, cuddling and baking! I love watching new movies a bit of a marvel Nerd.

40M married attractive Asian guy. Things are good but the passion, the physical connection isn’t there and I don’t want to spend life just going through the motions.

Looking for someone local who wants an ongoing, meaningful connection that feels real, even if it has its limits. Someone who enjoys staying in touch when we can but understands we both have full lives.

If you’re also missing that fire and ready to bring it back, let’s talk. Life’s too short to settle for less.

Hello! As the title says, I'm looking for a gym buddy. I've been going to the gym, working on myself for the past couple of months, and I'm kinda looking for someone that I can go with, and we can kinda keep each other in it. It can be platonic or kinda develop into something if we click, but looking to get to know each other first! Feel free to DM me, and we can see if we click and could help each other do better. I normally go to a gym in my city, but I work kinda far, so I wouldn't mind going to some other places if it works better.

Looking for Cis Females only. No drama guaranteed I’m very discrete.

If you are into cheating kink or just wanna have some fun. Not looking to change my situation so this is no strings attached, one time or ongoing.

I require a recent test and have one to share. No cream pies or unprotected sex.

I'm 30, 5'10, 160 lbs, sane, down to earth, recently tested last month.

Got a picture in my profile for those looking for the D pic. Average size, good for those that want to practice DT.

Please be cis female, femme, 18+, HWP, clean, DDF and recently tested.

Can’t host but can come to you, get a hotel or Carplay works too.

Must be able to verify and be discrete. My hours are limited due to family obligations.

If interested, please respond with age location and stats as I won’t be responding to low effort messages.

M 27 Latino, 6'0 , 6 inches, couple tats, interested in getting head and down to fuck too. I'm also down to just finger you if that's all you want

Hey! I'm a college student from the ontario area. Dating apps have been pretty trash so I thought I'd go back to reddit and try my luck here. I'm looking for someone who's interested in hanging out. I am 5’11 with an average body and size. I dont have a lot of sexual experience and dont last long and I even struggle with getting hard due to nerves. I am pretty vanilla but open to trying new things. I'm a history major, and my interests include board games, hiking, Dungeons and dragons, video games and movies. Pretty nerdy with interests in anything fantasy/sci fi related pretty much lol. Can’t host as i live with family but open to car play or hotel tho im moving out this October in a few weeks. I can commute to oc, and riverside

Right now im looking for someone to guide me and be patient as i dont have a lot of confidence and want more experience. But i want to try being more dominant and have rougher sex!

All that said if this sounds like something you'd be interested in, please dm me with your age and some of your hobbies/interests. Thank you!

Not looking for anything serious, let’s cuddle, let me oil you up for a nice massage, get you all hot and horny and maybe that leads to something more? If not that’s fine too, no pressure, at least you will get a nice massage and some cuddles.

I can get us a hotel or go to your place. Located in BH adjacent but can travel

I’m easy on the eyes, keep in shape even at 37 lol. Ukrainian, 5'9, 160 lbs, sane, down to earth and fun to be around. DDF

Looking for cis females 18+, that keep in shape, HWP, attractive, clean, DDF

Not looking for pen pals, time wasters. Your pic gets mine.
If interested respond with your favorite drink, age, if you can host, your location and we can go from there.

I am looking for something casual and fun to blow off some steam every now and then. I work a lot but luckily I am in control of my schedule so I can usually make the time with a little bit of heads up.

When it comes to what I am looking for, I am pretty open, however, I am not looking to jump into another super serious relationship or marriage. In the short term, I would love to have regular sex again and that's honestly what I am looking for with this post. Things typically develop from there and with that I like to keep things casual and let things flow naturally.

When I am involved with someone, to me, respect is the absolute most important thing. I will always show you respect and will always act kindly towards you. I don't believe in yelling, voice raising, or big arguments. I understand the physical power imbalance between a man and a woman and I think it is a man's duty to always make sure that his woman feels safe. In exchange, I expect the same in return and will walk away if I feel you are not living up to this agreement.

In the bedroom, I am very dominant and love being in control. I am always happy to lead our interaction and all I expect from you is to do what comes naturally to you. You won't ever have to initiate or worry about what pleases me. What pleases me most is you making yourself available to me and once there, I know where to take things. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

I am 41 years and have no kids. I have my own place about 10 minutes from the beach. I am 5'10 and weigh 158 lbs. I am white with brown hair with a touch of gray, hazel eyes, and a fit/muscular body type. I workout several times per week, and always try to take care of myself.

STD free.

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Hey and thanks for stopping by. I’ll be visiting San Diego for the first time on Friday (10/23) before meeting up with friends the next day so I would love to take advantage of my solo time.

Offering to help us both to decompress after the week. I’m looking for a fun night that would result in a call from the front desk due to a noise complaint.

Spoiler: we were laughing too loud ;)

We can grab a drink and/or dessert to start off the night. Dancing is optional though I won’t be able to stop myself if I hear some good beats, especially reggaeton.

If I can be so blunt: Ideally, I would like to get you laughing and smiling before I turn you into a moaning and trembling mess.

If you’re not a cis female, please save us both the time and don’t message.

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Me:

I carry myself with a subtle confidence and operate with a “you cum first and often” mindset. Witnessing your pleasure—seeing it in your eyes, hearing it in your voice, feeling it through your trembles—is my ultimate goal.

• Slut for dessert
• Asian
• I still play soccer
• Educated
• 5’6”
• Full head of salt & pepper hair that you can grab onto
• Fun and personable personality that will put you at ease
• GGG
• Kink-friendly/experienced dominant (PRICK, CCCC, SSC, aftercare, safe words, CNC, etc.) that thrives on focusing on your needs

Kinks:
My hard limits are scat, blood, and weapon play.

Beyond that, I'm open to exploring a wide range of interests. I enjoy keeping an open mind and discussing possibilities. Let's talk about what interests you and go from there.

Ideal threesome: Costco, Aldi, and Publix. I almost said the holy trinity but didn’t want to potentially offend.

Seeking:
• Feminine energy
• ~5’6” or under
• Petite or average/curvy frame (~135 lbs or less)
• A more natural look and girl next door vibe
• Someone that is an experienced submissive or wanting to explore
• DDF (I don’t mind if you’re 420 friendly); happy to provide recent test results
• Non-smoker

If you’ve read through all of the above, please send a message with at least the following:

• Anything you’re looking forward to for the remainder of the year and age

I have a weakness for pretty smiles, sharp wit, and women who flirt like they know exactly what they're doing.

6’1”. Latino. Dad of three. A little nerdy, a little sarcastic, and probably going to challenge your horror movie opinions at some point.

My ideal kind of chemistry? The kind where the teasing becomes a competition, the conversation gets unexpectedly personal, and neither person is in much of a hurry to call it a night.

I'm into concerts, movies, gaming, spooky season, and making the most out of a good connection. Currently on a fitness journey, so consider this my character development arc.

Life has taken a few unexpected turns lately, and I'm enjoying the idea of meeting someone new without trying to write the ending before the story starts.

Maybe we hit it off over drinks. Maybe we discover we have the same terrible sense of humor. Maybe there's a look across the table that makes us both forget what we were talking about.

I'm a fan of natural chemistry, playful affection, a little tension, and the kind of company that makes an ordinary evening feel like the best part of your week.

If you're a little witty, a little bold, and curious enough to find out whether we'd get along, I'd like to hear from you.

Tell me something: what's a seemingly innocent thing someone can do that instantly makes them more attractive to you?

If you’re nervous about messaging me it’s ok, I don’t judge (or bite haha) and it would be fun to get to know each other or at least flirt with each other. I’m I’m married and in a dead bedroom and hoping to flirt, have fun, and experience my first ever blow job

I’m married but my wife has a very low sex drive (the last time we had sex was several months ago) and even though I give her oral sex when we have sex (and I’d like to think that I’m quite good at it and bringing her to orgasm) the longest blow job I’ve ever received from her was about 5 seconds and she’s never made me finish from a blow job. She says she just isn’t into it and the idea of giving a blow job grosses her out, and she is grossed out by the idea of me cumming in her mouth.

I grew up in a very conservative, strict family. The idea of no sex until marriage was pushed very strong on me and because of this I really didn’t experiment sexually in high school or college and didn’t have sex until I was married.

I’m looking to meet (in real life) someone fun and flirty and who actually enjoys giving blow jobs and who will help me experience something I’ve wanted for so long but never had the opportunity to enjoy. I’m completely fine with reciprocating and I’d love to give you oral in return and pleasure you to thank you for helping me to experience this.

I’m open to all ages as long as you’re at least 18. If you knew me, I’m the last person that you’d be expecting to do something like this and because I’m married I need to be discreet. I’m happy with getting to know you before we meet. Maybe you’ve wanted to have a man give you oral for a long time and we can do each other a favor.

I’m completely fine with trading pictures and I’m excited (maybe a tiny bit nervous too) about the possibility of meeting someone that can make this happen.

I always thought it was so sexy when girls dress up for Halloween or parties. Also I’m a sucker for girls in cosplay. Maybe my love language is gift giving, because I like the idea of spoiling you by getting you a nice cosplay or outfit. In other words, if you want to feel cute, I can buy you some clothes and we can have fun :)

I can host or get us a room and treat you right. Let’s have some fun.

About me: dark messy hair, brown eyes, slim and tall. Been told I look like Harry Potter by seventh grade students I would teach. Also I’ve gotten Tom Holland from kinder folk