r/Floridar4r • • Jul 06 '26

Updated Rules and moderation - July 2026 NSFW

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Mods have been working on updating the rules and trying to develop AI moderation that catches behaviors spam/scam bots often engage in. (mainly canvasing communities and trying to take you off reddit.) The current human friendly rules are always in the sidebar on a desktop or under "see more" on mobile. The current set is copied below for easy reading. Each rule has a link to a wiki page which should be easy to understand and be fully transparent on the prompting logic an AI is given to evaluative enforcement of that rule.

Spam is fundamentally a cost problem. Scam bots can scatter shot thousands of posts and if they get a few suckers that give up $5 to $20 they've made a day's wages in some parts of the world. These rules try to make posting in FloridaR4R more expensive if you're a scam bot.

This version of the rules is now giving 99% accuracy when compared with human reviews. For a long time we were getting about 95% AI to human alignment. That said I'm sure future posts will make mistakes and AI, and humans, make mistakes. If the mistake happens to you it will feel like a lot more than a rare mistake. Politely message the mods and we will try to fix it.

Reddit Mods don't get paid. Be kind. We want a healthy and functioning community.

While some of the rules mention temporary bans, the mod-bot isn't temp banning until more extensive testing.

FloridaR4R Rules

  1. Searchable Titles - Age + Gender Code + Location Start your title with age, an R4R gender code, and your Florida city or county, like "28 M4F Orlando". Anything after that is up to you. People search by these - a searchable title reaches the people near you. Titles missing a required part are removed so you can fix and repost - no ban, no strike. See Searchable Titles wiki for more
  2. Keep Contact on Reddit - No Off-Platform Handles All contact starts on Reddit. Do not post or request handles, phone numbers, or emails for Snapchat, Discord, Telegram, or any other platform. "DM me" is fine - it means Reddit. Profile bios and history are checked. Posts are removed; repeat or egregious violations, or a handle in your bio, earn a 3-day ban. See Keep Contact on Reddit wiki for more
  3. Personal Meetups Only - No Transactions This community is for free, real-life meetups only. No payment, gifts, sugar arrangements, OnlyFans/Fansly promotion, or content sales. Transactional history anywhere on Reddit earns a 3-day ban even when your post here is clean; blatant or repeated selling here earns a 7-day ban. See Personal Meetups Only wiki for more
  4. Post Where You Really Are - No Same-Day Distant-City Posting Post for the one area where you really are. Same-day posts targeting R4R regions more than ~1-2 hours' drive apart are removed - nobody can meet in two distant cities at once. FloridaR4R plus your nearby city sub is fine. Traveling? Include dates and post only for where you're headed. A sustained pattern earns a 7-day ban. See Post Where You Really Are wiki for more
  5. Wait 24 Hours Between Posts - No Delete-and-Repost Tricks One active post at a time; wait 24 hours between posts here. Fewer, better posts beat fleeting reposts. Posting again too soon removes the new post; under 12 hours it also earns a 1-day ban. To fix a mistake, delete and repost once within 20 minutes. Deleting to bump visibility is a violation. A removal under this rule does not extend your wait. See Wait 24 Hours wiki for more
  6. Account Authenticity - Your History Must Match Your Post Be who you say you are. Posts are checked against the account's own history - language, stated gender, location, and posting pattern. When two or more contradict the post (e.g. years of history as a man abroad, now posting as a local woman), the post is held for a human moderator. Never an automatic removal or ban. See Account Authenticity wiki for more

r/Floridar4r • • 39m ago

M4A - Pensacola 29 M4A Pensacola NWFL looking for hookup NSFW

• Upvotes

Id love to have an NSA hookup.


r/Floridar4r • • 7h ago

M4A - Ocala 22 M4A Ocala lookin for fun hmu NSFW

2 Upvotes

Dm me lookin for F or trans or bbc/ bwc


r/Floridar4r • • 6h ago

M4F - Orlando 30 [M4F] Orlando - Big and Tall seeking FWB or more! NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey! My name is Andrew, I’m 30, and I’m from Kissimmee, but like 20ish minutes from Orlando so it still counts, right? I’m looking to meet someone that I can get to know and hangout with in person and see where things go! I’m open to casual or something serious, I would want to get to know someone before putting a label on anything but going on some dates and hanging out sounds lovely! I’m into video games, movies, music, tv shows, I’m 4/20 friendly and hope you are too, or atleast okay with me smoking! Please be okay with swapping pics and verifying!I hope to hear from you!!


r/Floridar4r • • 6h ago

M4F - Naples 24 M4F Naples looking to have some kinky fun with someone. NSFW

1 Upvotes

Any girl who’s near the naples/fortmyers area with "cool ideas" for a meetup pls message me


r/Floridar4r • • 6h ago

M4F - Tampa 20 [M4F] Tampa - BBC looking to gain experience NSFW

1 Upvotes

I’m a 20 yo black male 6’ 1” 180lbs fit and hung. I would looking ti hook up or possibly find an fwb. I don’t mind sending pictures in DM’s


r/Floridar4r • • 6h ago

M4F - Lakewood Ranch 29 M4F Lakewood Ranch - Sit on my face until I either drown, or you forget your name 👅😻 NSFW

1 Upvotes

Love eating pussy hmu


r/Floridar4r • • 7h ago

M4F - Port Richey 18 M4F Port Richey - Hi, I’m a Virgin. I have 8in and would like to find a pretty woman to lose my v card to😉 NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hi!!


r/Floridar4r • • 8h ago

M4F - Doral 27 M4F Doral FL Looking for casual sex and can host whenever NSFW

1 Upvotes

lmk! into older and chubby women too


r/Floridar4r • • 8h ago

M4MF - Miami 37 [M4MF] Miami – Looking for a Couple to Share Some Backseat Fun NSFW

1 Upvotes

37M in Miami. Athletic, dominant, and enjoy a mix of intensity and sensuality. Looking to connect with an open-minded couple interested in exploring a cuckold dynamic, with the idea of a husband enjoying the experience while I have some fun with his wife—even a little backseat fun while he drives around town. Ideally, I’d love to find a couple with genuine chemistry who I can connect with beyond the bedroom, too. Miami locals only. If this sounds like your kind of fun, let’s chat! 😉


r/Floridar4r • • 8h ago

M4F - Fort Lauderdale 23 [M4F] Fort Lauderdale hot gym dude looking for a submissive gal NSFW

1 Upvotes

I workout and I’d say I’m somewhat attractive so I’m looking for a cute girl who’s into getting manhandled and treated like fuck meat. I have very rough and degrading fantasies I would like to indulge in real life so yes I’m only looking for someone who’s interested in meeting. not looking for dudes or trannys, thank you


r/Floridar4r • • 9h ago

M4A - Orlando 35 M4A Orlando - staying by UCF. Come have a taste. NSFW

1 Upvotes

Driving to the hotel now to check in. Looking for a no drama time of relaxation and release. Up for some fun? Looking for a worshiper. Come join me your time with me. Every inch is yours till you receive the sweet tasting…


r/Floridar4r • • 19h ago

F4M - Gainesville 26 F4M Gainesville looking for a FWB NSFW

5 Upvotes

I’m looking for a consistent FWB, must be 7 inches min, a good communicator and single. PM me if you’re interested.


r/Floridar4r • • 9h ago

M4A - Lakeland 23 [M4A] Lakeland - Looking for some intimacy NSFW

1 Upvotes

NO MASCULINE MEN PLEASE

Hello everyone! I'm a bit lonely and bored lately, so I thought I would look for something on here. I'm hoping to find someone in central florida, but I'm not against fun chats online either. I'm really hoping to find someone I can be physically intimate with. I'm not very interested in anything too sexual right now, maybe if we know each other better, but I'm mainly looking for kissing, hugging, cuddling, and getting very handsy with each other. I might be willing to make it long term, but I'm very much looking for some physical contact right now. As for what I want from you, I'm not terribly picky about what you look like, but NO MASCULINE MEN PLEASE. Appearance wise, I'm 6'1, white, average weight, and have long-ish brown hair. Anyway, if you're looking for some random fun, please reach out! I live at both Lakeland and Spring Hill, so if you're from either of those places, please reach out!

Please include your age/gender/location and preferably a physical description/picture of yourself.


r/Floridar4r • • 14h ago

M4M - Jacksonville 38 [M4M] Jacksonville - Any str8 guys want a quick sexy hj tonight? NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hey guys! Gay guy here. I'm visiting Jax tonight (Sunday night, 10/18)... and leaving early tomorrow morning (Monday, 10/19) . Would love to get someone off if you're down.

If you'd like to, DM me and let's chat. Not from here, so unsure what part of the city I'm in. Lol. I'll explain as much as possible in DM.

Just hit me up if you're interested. 😊 Should arrive around 8 p.m. or so!


r/Floridar4r • • 11h ago

M4F - Fort Myers 26 [M4F] Fort Myers Seeking BBW, Feedee or Plus Size FWB NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey there, just looking for a kinky bbw thats down to be fwb. Looking for positive experiences and for mutual pleasure. Shoot me a message

Into feederism as a fetish, but not totally required for me to have fun :)

In the Cape Coral/Fort Myers area


r/Floridar4r • • 1d ago

F4M - Jacksonville 38 [F4M] Jacksonville latina milf looking for live in dominant younger white boy NSFW

13 Upvotes

Curvy latina looking for a younger white boy 18+ but younger than 23 that would like to live together, dom and free use me, be fwb or maybe a bf. I live in Florida but open to anyone in the us if theyre willing to relocate here.

I Own my own business a couple nail salons. Im 5ft, long black hair, olive skin, big booty and boobs, small waist. Divorced have one son but out of the house now.

I like to cook, bake, read, watch tv, anime, watch sports, football and f1 mostly. 420 travel.

Into free use, creampies, age gap, sucking cock, raceplay, ass slapping grabbing, choking, deepthroating.


r/Floridar4r • • 12h ago

M4A - Miami 25 [M4A] Miami - Does anyone want to get jerked or sucked later? Or even eat my ass? Just been curious in south florida Miami broward NSFW

1 Upvotes

Lmk


r/Floridar4r • • 12h ago

M4F - Orlando 25 [M4F] Orlando - High af and extremely fucking horny NSFW

1 Upvotes

Im in such a bad spot in life, it's been really rough and just need a distraction from it all. A naughty friend would be really nice. Someone to chat about anything and everything, especially nsfw stuff. Maybe exchange porn or masturbate together. Like a bit intimate but nothing too crazy. Just someone to be a degenerate with whilst feeling safe and having fun. If we click well, maybe eventually we can try stuff irl, like experimenting on one another and trying out kinks. I guess my only hope is that if we do try something irl is that we do find each other atractive, no hard feelings...

We can introduce ourselves and give a bit of an intro. To be honest I appreciate honesty and directness. Im not trying to play games I promise. Just need a little change of pace in my life I guess.

About me? Im 5'11 and 180lbs, Im pretty active with the gym as well as doing barbell cardio and pilates. I tend to be more of a homebody and an introvert. I love cooking, drawing/art, playing video games and watching shows and movies, listening to music, and exploring the areas around me like thrifting, going to fleamarkets, oddity stores, or simply visiting parks or museums. I also volunteer! Im currently a student. And I tend to be online a lot. Im also very open in terms of what my type is, so feel free to shoot me a message! Ill be looking forward to hearing from you :)


r/Floridar4r • • 16h ago

M4F - Kissimmee 37 [M4F] Kissimmee - What's your favorite movie? A role play fantasy NSFW

2 Upvotes

Happy Spooky season!

I have had this Ghostface costume in my closet and I'd love to put it to some naughty use.

You get a call from inside the house, it's a lustful killer looking to rip your clothes off and penetrate you with his hard "knife".

I'm clean, good looking and easy to get along with. I am into horror, nerd culture and having fun.

Let me know if you also have a Ghostface fantasy as well and we can plan something fun and pleasurable.


r/Floridar4r • • 13h ago

F4M - Ocala 25 [F4M] Ocala looking for fun NSFW

1 Upvotes

hmu


r/Floridar4r • • 13h ago

M4F - Boca Raton 42 M4F Boca Raton - Kinky Divorced Daddy, Insatiable Eater, for Good Girl Pillow Princess... NSFW

1 Upvotes

Handsome Professional Pleasure Dom in west Boca, able to host, looking for a babygirl to come by and be Daddy's perfect little play thing...

Sit on my face and soak my beard in your juices, lay back and let me devour you until your legs are shaking, then ride my THICK throbbing cock, or bend over... Daddy has a vasectomy if you have a breeding fetish...

LOCALS only, not looking for LDRs or endless messaging...

Please be real and serious about meeting, let's swap stats, pics, and make plans...


r/Floridar4r • • 13h ago

M4F - Cocoa Beach 31 [M4F] Cocoa Beach - Spending a month in FL would like to spend it with you! NSFW

1 Upvotes

31 M white, DDF. I’m in Florida for the month (10th - 30th) and would love to meet a beautiful woman, have some dates and fun! I’m spontaneous outgoing and also kinky if you are into that! Older, younger doesn’t matter, though I do have a soft spot for curvy women. Message me!


r/Floridar4r • • 14h ago

M4F - Delray Beach 25 [M4F] Delray Beach - Boca area looking for a lady to provide pleasure to nothing more. Wanting to munch and fuck NSFW

1 Upvotes

Dm if interested, just as title says. No strings attached just fuck and go about our day


r/Floridar4r • • 14h ago

M4F - Tampa 27 [M4F] Tampa - Virgin wanting my first bj NSFW

1 Upvotes

I'm brown skinny man with long hair and a beard in Tampa area, I’m a full virgin looking for my first ever bj and if you want we can do whatever you'd like to or we can get to know each other more, whatever you're comfortable with. If this post is still up that means I still haven't found anyone and I'm still looking!