Hi! I'm 36, married, ethically nonmonogamous, and living in West Virginia. Yes I'm a cryptid trapped in the body of a woman. Im looking for someone around my age and up who's interested in friendship that could eventually turn into something more.

I'm a tattooed, alternative, cardigan wearing nerd who's equal parts sweetheart and sarcastic menace. I can be incredibly affectionate and sentimental, but I also have a dark sense of humor and will absolutely tease you if I like you.

Music is a huge part of my life. I love cats, being outside, good conversation, ridiculous banter, sharing songs, and those unexpected moments when you realize you've been smiling at your phone for an embarrassingly long time.

I'm not looking to rush into romance or manufacture some instant connection. I want the friendship first.

I'm open to online connections, though someone in or around West Virginia would be lovely.

Ultimately, I'd like to find someone who's kind, emotionally mature, communicative, a little weird, and capable of both meaningful conversations and completely unhinged humor.

If any of that sounds appealing, send me a message! Tell me a little about yourself, where you're from, and what song you've had on repeat lately.

Bonus points if you have tattoos, love cats, or never really grew out of your emo phase. 🖤

I’m looking for a long-term relationship with someone kind, considerate, and emotionally available. I’m open to long-distance, but I’d eventually want to live together, so I prefer the US.

I’m bi, polyamorous, and partnered. My partner is supportive, and we’d love to find another partner to build a family with. The vision is for all of us to live together and raise our kids as one household. I want kids with my new partner, but the relationship comes first, so I’d want to build a real connection for at least a year or more before that. I’m hoping for biological kids, and I’m open to fostering if that isn’t possible. I’m looking for someone poly-friendly or already poly, roughly 27-38.

I’m a yapper, a musician, a socialist, and a massive nerd. Sci-fi, fantasy, history, philosophy, public transit. I will talk about any of these for an embarrassingly long time. I play games like Animal Crossing, Mario Odyssey, NBA 2K, and Spider-Man on my Switch and PS4.

As a partner, I communicate, I’m physically affectionate, and I show up with care when things get hard. I survived a cult and had to rebuild my life from scratch, so I’ve learned not to take love for granted. I’m the kind of person who tells my friends I love them.

Looking forward to hearing from you 🥰

Hello! I am married to a lesbian who came out late in life. We cohabitate and maintain a healthy platonic love for each other, and co-parent together.

She has a partner, who also lives with us, and I am looking for someone to share romantic and physical intimacy with, with the hope that will grow into something stable and long-term.

I am hoping for someone who is mature, confident in themselves, and understanding/accepting of how we got where we are.

I love being outdoors, hiking, a good cup of coffee, going on spontaneous adventures, watching football, occasional video games, and spending time with my children.

I'm looking for something a bit unconventional. I'm hoping to find a connection with someone who cares and is kind. Where we enjoy talking to each other and do things like make each other playlists, exchange creative work, and/or vent about the world or our day.

A true online friend/bff/QPR type connection. Mutual support and affectionate vibes.

A bit about me. I'm very chronically ill and disabled. I have a lot of pain and limitations. I don't talk about it all the time but it's my reality. I just ask that people hold a little space and don't try to fix me, tell me to be positive, or act freaked out by me.

I also have some mental health stuff and I'm neurodivergent. I'm queer, ace, and left-leaning looking for people who are also LGBTQIA+ or friendly and care about what's going on in the world.

Because I'm homebound, my online connections mean a lot to me. I've found a lot of meaning in having an online person I'm close to. Right now I spend most of my time working on a poetry manuscript and recently got a dog. I have an NP who is also disabled.

But I'm around a lot. I listen to a ton of music. I do a little cozy gaming when I can. I watch TV and have some niche favorites (bonus points to anyone who recognizes my cover image).

If you message, please tell me a bit about yourself and your favorite song or show of the moment. It helps when people ask questions, show interest. I'll do the same. Please be aware I can primarily only do text chat due to my disabilities but folks can send me audios.

I'm not the best fit for everyone, but for the right person, I think I have something to offer. I hope to hear from you.

Hi I'm Rick. I'm live in Virginia on a homestead with my platonic nesting partner. I'm a stay at home uncle. Family is very important to me and I'm looking to start my own family. I'm a hopeful romantic and looking to build an intentional relationship based on love, trust, communication and respect.

I'm probably the tallest guy in the room. Average build, short black hair and beard, with gray showing up in the sunlight.

I'm recovering from a spinal injury. I'm "lucky" that my injury allowed me to regain the ability to walk, and I have fought hard to get back to where I am now. I still rely on both my cane and wheelchair, depending on the activity. Progress is slow, yet steady. I've made huge strides since i got my knee replaced last march.

I'm now working on getting muscle on my dadbod. I have some loose skin left over from the weight loss. I'm hoping to be able to get out hiking and cool rock finding, in spring '27. Definitely more swimming too! I love being outdoors and going on cool adventures.

Health is really important to me. Most of my life, I was very unhealthy, and as a result, didn't do much. I've sat on the side lines for way too long, and I'm getting out of my comfort zone to fulfill my dreams. I'm in the best shape of my life, even at my "best" prior to my injury. I was 700 lbs at my heaviest. Somewhere around 400 lbs lost on my journey!

Mental health is just as important to me. I have AuDHD and I also have cPTSD from medical trauma. I deal with anxiety and self confidence issues. I'm working every day to be a better man than I was yesterday.

I'm an artist and I'm working on writing my first book based on my home brew D&D Universe. I'm a DM for a few campaigns. I love writing and story telling. I also really enjoy working on my homestead; building new things, taking care of the animals, and shovel work! Lastly, I play games to relax. I like grindy and cozy games. Pokemon, Asphalt Legends, and Minecraft have the majority of my attention at the moment. Music is always on, and i listen to an eclectic mix.

I'm pansexual. I'm very 420, kink and BDSM friendly. I'm a soft dom leaning switch. Open to talking about that or anything else, in our conversations. I'm very chatty and like to yap. So if you like reading and responding with walls of text, to the front of the line!

Looks are important as as personality to me, but so is privacy... so we will share pics within a time when we're both comfortable.

Please be left leaning and queer friendly. Also please don't be a ghoster.

I'm open to Online relationships and especially Online to Irl.

Chat request me with:

1. Who you are and what you're looking for.
2. What drove you to message me, showing that you read my post.
3. What are 5 songs that describe you and why?

First and foremost; #notabot.

Well hello there! I'm 38, 420 friendly, athletic, and liberal. I'm married, and both of us are poly. We simply choose to date seperately, but are aware. We don't often share partners, and neither of us are looking to replace anyone's current dynamic. Simply; honesty tends to be the best policy.

I enjoy dynamics that feel intense and addictive instead of something shallow that dies after one conversation. Ideally you're someone I can stream with, get to know, and have long conversations with - far past when we should both be asleep. Obviously, looking for the fun stuff too. But it's nice when there's substance. Extra points if you're a gamer!

Outside of that, I’m into all types of movies, gaming, and reading (primarily fantasy and dark romance, HUGE DCC fan), and anime. I like people with personality, energy, and enough intelligence to actually keep my attention or a conversation. I'm into martial arts, and just about ANY outdoor activities. I also love to cruise and travel! I generally use Discord or WhatsApp for messaging.

If you're interested, shoot me a DM and let's see if we vibe.

Ask for a pic if you're willing to trade

Hi, I’m 21 old boy living in France. I live in Bretagne, if you think is too far away, please don’t message me. I’m poly and already have a partner. I love many thing like anime, drawing, reading, and going for walk and sport.

I’m looking for a partner who lives in France and is cute, kind, and lovely. Age is not a problem.

I want someone who live in France because I would like a longterm relationship and maybe that can be IRL, and even later maybe we can live in the same place.

Send me a message if you are interested <3

I'm a nurse, which means I spend a lot of my time taking care of other people and the rest of it pursuing extremely important hobbies such as running a D&D campaign that's been going for years. I built an entire fantasy world for it, complete with history, factions, wars, religions, cities, questionable political decisions, and an alarming number of things that my players were absolutely not supposed to kill yet. Ask to see my maps! I also like painting tiny plastic soldiers. My Warhammer collection has gotten completely out of hand. Send help.

So yes, I'm a nerd. But I'm not the kind of nerd who can only talk about one thing. I like getting interested in whatever makes someone else light up. If you can spend an hour explaining some bizarre niche you're passionate about and make me want to learn more, you've probably already got my attention.

I'm sarcastic, reasonably funny, and confident enough to make fun of myself without needing to turn every sentence into a self-deprecating joke. I like playful arguing, teasing, stupid humor, and conversations that can jump from something completely ridiculous into an unexpectedly serious discussion without either of us realizing how we got there.

I'm also a dog person, unfortunately for my dignity. I have two dogs and absolutely no objectivity about either of them. They are both perfect. I have photographic evidence.

What I'm hoping to find is a woman who's curious, playful, intelligent, and has a personality of her own. Someone who can give me sass, take some in return, and isn't afraid of a little flirting once we establish that we actually like each other. I'm not looking to force this into a relationship immediately. Let's talk. If we click, we'll figure out the rest. Maybe we become friends. Maybe there's chemistry. Maybe we end up staying awake until stupid o'clock talking about something neither of us expected to care about.

And if nothing else, I can offer you unsolicited dog pictures and several hours of D&D lore that you absolutely did not ask for.

If you're going to message me, skip the "hey." Tell me something I can actually work with.

Hello all, i am a 34 year old female pansexual . Im really not sure where to start hah I'm a huge nerd into anime and a little bit of game ! Hello kitty island adventures is amazing!! I like to color and do all kinds of diffrent types of crafting. My child is my world and are cat is like family hehe .  My comfort show is Bob burgers but I just got into Haunted hotel recently, and adore it.  I'm  420 friendly and would love someone that was as well. I don't really drink alcohol and havent smoked cigarettes in many years .  I'm shy at first but once I come out of my shell I can be very bubbly and chatty and clingy to the people I care for.

I would love someone to nerd out with and maybe craft with and sesh as well. Maybe watch a show and chill out or a movie. Going on random adventures would be lots of fun too. I'm all about the vibes now a days and don't believe in forcing things i like to just let them develope and build how they are ment too .

With that said I will mention I have anxiety but its gotten better over the years and bipolar but im medicated and take my mental health extremely seriously. 

I do have male partner that I'm in an open and happy relationship . He is understanding that I have needs that are diffrent from his own and from what he is able to offer . I'm not looking to replace him in any means . I'm just looking for someone to be part of my world and me there's and maybe we will all three hit it off never know but not somthing I would push.

Hi! I'm Erik, 38M, from Germany. I'm married, a dad of two, and have been practicing polyamory for several years.

What I love about polyamory is the idea that relationships don't have to replace each other to be meaningful. My marriage is an important and secure part of my life, and I'm looking for another connection that can grow into something special in its own way.

One of the most meaningful relationships I've had started with a Reddit message. It showed me that two people who genuinely enjoy each other's company can build something real, even when it starts with a simple conversation.

I'm someone who likes to invest deeply when the connection feels right. I'd rather build one meaningful relationship than have lots of surface-level conversations. I enjoy the everyday parts of connection: checking in during the day, sharing random thoughts, sending photos of little moments, celebrating each other's wins, being there during difficult times, and slowly learning all the small details that make someone who they are.

A little about me: I'm a language teacher, and I'm naturally curious about people. Outside of work, I enjoy photography, music (I've played piano and violin since I was a child and have sung in choirs for years), chess, history, psychology, gaming, and travelling. I love conversations that start with something completely random and somehow turn into something deeper.

As a partner, I'm affectionate once there's mutual comfort. I value kindness, communication, emotional openness, and creating a space where both people feel appreciated and understood.

I'm open to online or long-distance within Europe if the connection is there. For me, emotional distance is much harder than physical distance.

If you're also looking for a genuine connection alongside your existing life, I'd love to hear about you. What kind of relationship are you hoping to build, and what does polyamory mean to you?

Hi, you can call me m for now. I’m looking for that spark again, a conversation that doesn’t stop, feeling disappointed at every notification that isn’t from you, yearning all the time.

A bit about me, I’m a dork. I love books, writing, cartoons, tech, stuffed animals, arts and crafts, tattoos, peanut butter, crows, and cozy spaces. I have adhd, I work from home, and I’m happily married. I have a cat, she’s incredibly spoiled. I’m a poet and will send you metaphors or even hint that I practice magic. I’ve been told I’m funny and have a sweet voice. You’ll have to find out.

I value direct communication, whimsy, patience, respect, and kindness. I will respect your life and time, I don’t wish to change anything about your life or intrude at all. Personally, we practice ktp, but my husband is my primary partner. That means my husband is my best friend and the most important person in my life. I’ll talk about him and I would love to hear about your partner(s) too. He does not veto power or direct influence over my relationships, but if we’re ever hanging out and he needs me, I’m going to him. He’s very supportive so he won’t bother me unless emergency.

I’m hoping to find a partner, local would be really cool but I’m open to anyone in the US or Canada. The age range I’m comfortable with is 24-35. That is non negotiable. So if you’re also a nerd, love to yap, can communicate well, match my vibe, and aren’t MAGA or a Trump supporter, shoot me a message about why you responded to my post.

It is easy to find FWBs but apparently not to find an actual relationship. Yet still, I try. Is it from the being hoplessly romantic or a glutton for punishment, do you think?

Hey! I’m 35 and have been poly for about 7 years now. I currently have one long-distance partner, but lately I’ve realized that I really miss dating. Not just having a connection with someone, but the whole meeting new people part and actual dating itself.

I’m hoping to find someone within driving distance of me in the PNW. I travel to Eugene often as well. I want someone I can actually spend time with. Hanging out together, cuddling up and watching movies, wandering around bookstores, playing MTG, or spending way too much time nerding out over D&D together. I’m a nerd through and through, and honestly I’m just looking for someone else who is nerdy too. Someone where we can get excited about our interests together, introduce each other to new things, and see what kind of connection develops.

I love movies of all kinds, including horror and romance movies, which is probably an interesting combination. I'm also pretty much always down to binge a new show or a new season of something with someone. I love to read and write. In fact, I wrote a ton. Poetry, and I am working on editing a novel right now.

It has been brought to my attention that I am also incredibly impulsive. If I have the gas money, it really doesn’t take much convincing for me to go on a random road trip. I love just getting in the car and going somewhere, whether there’s an actual plan or we figure it out along the way. Blaring music and singing at the top of my lungs. 

Psychology is another huge interest of mine. I can nerd out about it for way too long, and I eventually plan on getting my PhD in psychology specifically psychopathology if you like conversations about why people are the way they are, there’s a pretty good chance we’ll have something to talk about.

I’m not trying to force a connection into a specific box right away. I miss getting to know someone, flirting, going on dates, getting comfortable with each other, and seeing where things naturally go. 

It is important to know I am also into BDSM. Vanilla is not something I do.

If any of that sounds like your kind of thing, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. Tell me what you’re currently nerding out about, your favorite horror movie, or something! 

Married, 42 bi female. Looking for a female bestie that I can hang out with but also have an intimate relationship with. My husband is aware that I'm looking but he will not be involved. I am a mom of 3 kids, teacher, love coffee and wine, like to shop and do my nails and hair. I love being a "girly girl" and rarely seen without makeup.

I'd prefer to meet someone local or close to my location. I don't mind chatting online but ultimately looking for someone.

I am not interested in joining a couple. I just want that "side girlfriend " that I've been missing. If interested, please DM me!

I am in dfw and as of late have been open to a new connection. I am not opposed to long distance. Primarily, I am interested in chemistry and compatibility.

I try to have an open mind so I won’t list specifics in what I may be looking for because I honestly will not know until I find it.

Tell me a bit about yourself and I can reciprocate if I think we may be a match.

Hey thanks for taking time to check out my post im looking for A potential partner im open to A partner or A Nesting partner also im polyamorous and I practice Kitchen table poly! About me I stand at 5,3 and I live in Virginia I have all my life im A simple man who's just looking for the right people to enjoy and do life with, love to laugh and have A good time enjoy making others laugh as well I love it when everyone is happy and enjoy themselves! Things I enjoy are Traveling, Gaming, listening to music, watching movies and tv shows, Basketball, weightlifting and alot more im open to long distance just got to be in the USA if interested lets see where it goes!

Hi there,

I’m a 6'2 tall, 34-year-old german guywith an athletic build. I’m the kind of person who needs fresh air to feel alive. Whether I’m out jogging, casting a line while fishing, hiking up a trail, or cruising on my motorcycle, I love being active and outdoors.

However, I’m looking for someone to balance that energy. I have a strong preference for women who identify as BBW. I love a woman with curves, softness, and confidence in her body.

What I’m looking for in you:

• You are curvy/BBW and own it. I’m not looking for stick-thin; I’m looking for lush and lovely.
• You know how to keep a conversation flowing. I love good banter and getting to know someone beyond just "hey" and "what's up." Let’s actually talk..

Tell me your favorite way to spend a Sunday or your favorite travel spot!

I would like to share a pic early on!

Hiya~

Just your not so local neighborhood Demi/Pan Trans Man here putting his feelers out for….well….anything really.

Being demisexual makes the dating scene a bit more difficult for me as I don’t get immediate sexual or romantic attraction right off the bat. I’m a slow burn and need emotional connection and safety before I feel those butterflies in my stomach.

If you are patient and want to build a deeper connection I’m your guy.

A bit about me.

I’m into the alt lifestyle, love to read and collect books, have a wide array of hobbies I enjoy such as knitting, crochet, cross stitch, painting/drawing (whatever keeps my hands busy). I love the strange, unusual and obscure. Cooking and baking are my love languages and at the end of the day I love to just cuddle and fall asleep while watching a movie. I’m like a cat in that way, if you can make me comfortable enough to fall asleep you’ve got something special.

What I’m looking for is someone who is patient, understanding of my mental health struggles as I’m AuDHD, isn’t expecting a fast romance, can make me laugh and who likes to go out but it also comfortable staying in. Intentional time and good communication as key.

If that sounds like something you might be looking for drop me a DM. Would love to hear from you. 🖤

Hey, you! Yes, you, the cute woman scrolling through Reddit wondering where all the fun, affectionate, emotionally available men are hiding.

Well, I can't speak for the rest of them, but I figured I'd introduce myself. 😉

I'm 30, living in Chicago, and looking for another partner. Someone to laugh with, flirt with, go on dates with, and hopefully fall head over heels for eventually. I'm a hopeless romantic, but I promise not to plan our third anniversary before our first date.

So, who's this handsome stranger? 😏

I'm a 30-year-old Mexican guy, 5'9" (yes, actually 5'9"), muscular build, full beard, hazel eyes, and glasses or contacts.

I enjoy dressing well and putting effort into my appearance. Am I attractive? I'd like to think so. My mom certainly thinks I'm handsome, and she's clearly an unbiased source. 😂

I'm an electrical engineer, naturally extroverted, goofy, affectionate, adventurous, and a little nerdy. I'm a happy, positive person who loves making others smile. I value honesty, vulnerability, good communication, and being unapologetically yourself.

**Some of my favorite things:**

- Cooking (especially for someone I like!)

- Salsa dancing

- Playing guitar and singing (amateur at both 🎸)

- Weightlifting and cycling

- Hiking, snowboarding, and roller coasters

- Movies, gaming, coffee, and Chicago sports (Bear Down! 🐻)

- My adorable beagle 🐶

I'm equally happy going on spontaneous adventures or spending a lazy Sunday cuddling on the couch.

Let's talk polyamory 💕

I'm happily engaged to my fiancée/nesting partner, and we've practiced polyamory for about four years.

We date independently, and you're dating me, not auditioning to date a couple. I prefer kitchen-table poly but am flexible. Meeting my fiancée is entirely your choice.

We're open to an organically developing triad if everyone genuinely wants that, but there's absolutely no expectation or requirement.

I have the emotional availability and time for another meaningful relationship. Ideally, I'd love to see each other weekly, potentially 2–3 times if you're nearby. Sleepovers, vacations, and holidays are possibilities as things develop.

What catches my attention? ❤️

I'm looking for a woman aged 22–40, preferably around Chicago, although I'm open to long distance.

Kindness, intelligence, confidence, ambition, humor, and someone who's passionate about something are incredibly attractive to me.

You can be single, partnered, married, or new to polyamory, as long as you're genuinely open to it.

Quality time and physical affection are huge for me. I'm also very kink-friendly, but we can save those conversations for when there's mutual chemistry. 😉

Ultimately, I'm hoping for something romantic and long-term, but I'm happy starting as friends and seeing where things go.

Your move 😉

I'm happy to exchange pictures early!

Tell me about yourself! What's the best movie you've watched recently? What's something weirdly nerdy you're obsessed with?

**Bonus points if you tell me what you'd want me to cook for our first cooking date.** 😉❤️

Hellooo!! I am in a committed relationship, but we are dating separately. I enjoy anything with yarn and my current obsession is with using a drop spindle.

I am pretty introverted but will do my darndest to pretend I'm not. Most nights you can find me crocheting on the couch watching whatever my latest obsession is, currently its Below Deck. I am a slight nerd, I play D&D every week, love video games and really any kinda game. 420 friendly.

I am open to long distance but would prefer someone in the Midwest at least. My dm's are open. I am only looking for female company at the moment so please no cis men. Really just looking to make a connection. Bonus points if you have a pet and are willing to send me ALL the pictures. Thanks for reading!!

Hello everyone I’m coming to you from Nashville, Tennessee. I’m a woodworker by trade and love making things. Currently I am looking for fem partners who are 20+.

I and a kinda nerdy person who loves taking on new challenges and trying new things. I’m trying to develop a new hobby this year with sewing and cosplay so if there’s any one who would like to join me on this journey in life please reach out.

Hoping to hear from you. If interested please Message or DM.

heyo polyam trans guy here looking for another partner in crime. my current partner and i have been together for 8 years and engaged in ENM for about half the time. they’ve had a little bit more luck than me so i decided why not try here.

a little bit about me. im 26, work full time and take care of my grandparents after work. im super interested in horror, history, true crime and thrillers. in my free time you can catch me watching tv, movies, reading, and listening to or playing music. i dj sometimes but havent had a gig in awhile.

im looking for something decent and casual at first. maybe start off as friends and evolve into something else. i prefer queer women but if you are straight and interested trans men then you’re more than welcome.

if you are interested please send your favorite somg or movie atm. hope to hear from you soon.

Hi, still new to this and definitely not good at writing these. Looking for Connections, and possible relationships. Have a current partner and we date seperately. i'm kinda shy at first but open up once i get to know people. I like to travel, go sight seeing. Kinda a Nerd with technology. some hobbies i have are video games(when i get time to play) and 3d printing. hobbies vary some as i do get sidetracked with new ones. Love getting Tattoos, finding new places to eat, taking day trips around and see new things. preferred age range is 37ish-53ish DM me if you want to know more.

I newly live in Minneapolis and love the city. Separated and pending divorce, I work more than full time (especially this time of year) and try to make time for getting out to see the city and surrounding nature. And yeah, I am wholly unprepared for the winter!

I have a few hobbies I am still improving at. Classical guitar, crochet, writing. I am the type who enjoys the journey and not so concerned with mastery. I hope to adopt a cat in the very near future. I spend too much time falling in love with every baby on the shelter site. Years of therapy and constant self awareness of how I’m navigating the world.

A few bits on me physically. My job is physically demanding but I am overweight. I am definitely fit, couldn’t do what I do without strong calves. Short, long brown hair, big brown eyes, fair enough the sun has a vendetta. I consider myself low femme.

I am looking to join an existing M/F couple. A couple who can understand my need for solitude and closeness. Who can participate in interdependence instead of codependency. I’m a low stress, level emotion kind of person and seek the same. Inter-triad jealously is not natural to me. Please be invest in self-care, whatever that means to you both. I believe the work is never done when it comes to growing. Please don’t be younger than 30, I find it harder to relate to too much younger.

I am open to local and long distance within the US. My DMs are open and I am open to any questions in comments if that is preferred. I do like to chat over discord and will want to move there from Reddit when the time is right.

Thank you for reading and take care out there!