Hi my fellow Redditors! The title kinda says it all haha. My partner of five years and I have decided to do solo and I’m doing my best to find myself a partner in crime!

I work in IT, so my work days are pretty open to message. My hobbies include PC gaming, reading (35 books read this year!), Lego, writing, and cooking!

What I’m looking for: someone who makes my face light up with a smile every time they show up on my phone. If you live in Iowa or northern Mizzouri/Western Illinois, we could meet up occasionally for dates in person. Someone who isn’t afraid to be themselves with me, and make some fun memories along the way.

If any of this piques your interest, please don’t hesitate to reach out! I promise I don’t bite too hard! Thank you for reading, and I can’t wait to hear from you.

I am in Texas looking for other poly women with hopes that I possibly join a community! I am married, but newly on this poly journey, seeking friendships with experience in the poly world.

If we just so happen to be on the same path, hit me up!

M55 (going on 25) | Married, wife approves | Seeking a partner in crime + occasional trouble

Hey Reddit. I'm 55 on paper, 25 everywhere else, and my knees are the only part of me that hasn't gotten the memo.

Quick rundown: I'm happily married, and my wife is fully on board. We're open, honest, and communicate better than most couples I know. We date and play separately and together, and yes, she's read this post and approved it. She also said my jokes needed work, so blame her.
I love tattoos and piercings, so if you're inked or pierced, we've already got something to talk about. I'm looking for a female friend first: someone to laugh with, grab drinks with, and send questionable memes to at 11pm. If the chemistry's there, an occasional hookup is welcome, no strings and no drama.

What I bring: good conversation, a sense of humor, and discretion. What I'm after: a little spice and an escape from the mundane. Ages 25-45 preferred, but personality beats a birth certificate.
Message me with a bit about yourself and your favorite tattoo (or the one you regret most). Bonus points for good stories.

Hey everyone! I’m B. I’m a 32 year old ladyyy living on the coast of Virginia with my two cats and husband

I’m looking for someone local-ish to connect with, get to know and hopefully grow something beautiful with 🫶

I love to cook and bake and wish I made more time for it. I make a meannnn mac n cheese! I work in a field that I am incredibly passionate about and will work from home super soon (yay working in jammies all day!)

I’m suuuuper 420 friendly obviously and casually drink

I am 5’6, longish brunette/red hair that hides an undercut, BBW, tatted and wear glasses

Hi!

I'm looking for someone to share my life with. I'm a partnered woman in a long term relationship with a bi man. I want to talk regularly, throughout the day when possible. I enjoy gardening, crafts, animals, and hosting. I am child free and work during the week.

I have brown hair and blue eyes. 5'8 tall.

I want to meet someone who wants to go on dates when availability presents itself.

I look forward to learning more about you. Share something with me in your messages. Tell me about yourself and what matters to you.

I’m 28F. Curvier. I do have a child already, a 7 year old boy. I live in the Dallas, TX area. Waitress on the weekends currently. I love COD zombies, Minecraft, and Stardew Valley. I love all things pink and Hello Kitty but I mostly wear black lol.

I am not able to relocate as my son’s life is here, and frankly, so is mine. Be understanding of that or please don’t message.

If you think we might be compatible, I hope to hear from you. ☺️

Hey! I'm a chef around Nashville looking for someone to talk about pretty much anything. Tell me something you're passionate about, or a movie you can't stop thinking about or a crazy story about anything. I love movies, music, going to shows and collecting plants. I'm pretty tatted and really love talking about them and seeing yours! We can swap selfies so we know who we're talking to. (: long distance is welcome too

A little about us ;)

NATE - I grew up gaming and its helped me become who I am. Some of my earliest games were Spyro, AOE, Neopets and Runescape. Im mainly a multi-player game type of person now. I played Runescape for years and now when I do play its OSRS. I started playing League of Legends in season 2 and fell in love with the build diversity, the difference between champions and the complexities of the match ups. Now I mainly play Rivals or League with some random games sprinkled in. If its co op or multiplayer Im probably down to give it a try. A little more on the personal side. Ive never been with a guy, Ive explored my sexuality myself and with my partner a bit and I know Im into it. Ive gotten into dressing a bit fem ; mainly just thigh highs and its not an everday thing. Im pretty hairless and I shave my thighs and pubes. I tend to be bratty but also like to tame brats. Im hoping to be more submissive with someone in the future. Im a Bottom/Side. If you want to know more feel free to message, just put in some effort.

J - I also grew up gaming, starting with some N64 games and then mostly Toontown and Wizard101! I started playing League in 2016, and that's been my main game since then, though I also love cozy games like Coral Island and Stardew Valley. I like Marvel Rivals, Overwatch, 7 Days to Die, and Sea of Thieves too! I'm definitely a sub and can be a brat at times. I'm short and plus-sized, but plan to start working out and eating healthier so that I can just be healthier overall.

You : If not local then you must be okay with long distance and have no problem being exclusive. Be a good communicator! Dont lie, tell us the truth. Not too hairy, relatively in shape and dont smoke cigarettes or do any hard drugs. Able to entertain 2 people at a time whether its sexually, emotionally or intellectually. PC Gaming is a must, its how we spend our time and would be a great way for us to all spend time together and get to know each other(League of Legends is our main game). Dont be rude to waitstaff or bartenders and always tip! Please be a good texter and willing to initiate text conversations and conversations in calls.

Hiiii how are you ☺️ 21m im pansexual and im really looking for a fun person to get to know wether they are f tf or fb. I would love to chat with you and see if we can get to know each other . Im 5ft 5in hispanic (half mexican half hondurean born in the USA) so if your looking for a tall guy sadly im not it lol. But if that doesnt matter to you I would love to get us to know eachother and see if we match.A little bit about myself. I work in a exterminating company so I apologize in advance if that's something you dont approve of.

I love call of duty even tho Im bad at it and i played overwatch 2 for a while and fortnite to but thats a even bigger pain in the behind then call of duty

I love reading books im a book tok guy. Ive read The 4th wing and The court of thorns and roses. (For the fantasy not the smut)

Im a huge pet lover and there are very few things that scare me main one being spiders (I know its dumb with my job )

Im a out going person especially around people I like and love but at first im a bit shy.

Hey there! I'm Finn, 36 FTM located in Iowa. I'm married but separated, no kids, missing having an intimate connection with someone. Or potential someones. I'm new to ENM, but I know I'm not interested in being monogamous again. That being said, I'm looking to make long-term connections. Ideally localish, but I'm open to long-distance and strictly online situations as well.

A little more about me, I'm bisexual so I'm open to all gender identities. I'm 5'2" and plus-sized, not really picky about how tall, or big, or small you may be. Just be somewhere between 28-44ish. I'm nerdy, my main interests being Star Trek and TTRPGs, some video games. I like to think I'm creative, I enjoy drawing and writing, as well as crafting with my hands.

Fair warning I'm also autistic and don't always get subtle social cues, I appreciate bluntness.

I'm hoping to meet someone I can be friends with as well as partners, with shared interests we can nerd out about together. Someone to chill with, watch shows and movies, play games, go on random adventures with. Talk with at least a little every day.

If any of that suits you, send a DM!

Honestly, I’m pretty tired of dating n try n lose my virginity in the traditional sense. I’ve spent a lot of time looking for a serious relationship, but I think I’d rather take a step back from dating, have some fun, and explore a different side of myself.

I feel like I’d regret not doing that later in life, so I’m looking for an FWB situation with a genuine emphasis on the friends part.

I’m not interested in meeting someone and immediately jumping into bed. I’d much rather get to know each other first, build some trust, see if we click, and let anything physical develop naturally.

I’m 31looking for someone who is genuinely attracted to me as I am. I’m calm, easy to talk to, and somewhere between an introvert and extrovert. I love trying new restaurants and cafés, going to concerts, travelling, and the occasional reality-TV binge.

Recently, have started hiking to Lake District as well as Northumberland to explore UKs greener side.

I realise Reddit probably isn’t the most conventional place to look for this, but y

Hi, I'm James.

5'4", stout, ENM, married with no children. My spouse is aware that I'm seeking someone local/online. If you're currently partnered, please be in a similar situation. Outside of my spouse, I have no partners currently.

What I am looking for:

Someone (28-40+) local or relatively local (4-6 hours) to develop a long-term and meaningful relationship. Ideally, we'll complement each other's life and build something lovely together.

It’s important to me that we have a shared hobby or activity. Whether it’s gaming, TTRPGs, binging a multi-season TV show, or something entirely new to both of us.

I'm also open to online friendships.

About me:

I have several hobbies and interests. My most involved hobbies are Warhammer 40k and Pathfinder 2e. I'm building a few armies and planning to run a campaign at the start of next year.

I've recently resubscribed to FF14 after a year's absence. I stopped playing before Dawntrail, so I have plenty to catch up on. I'm leveling SCH/SGE at the moment!

I devour audiobooks. I haven't listened to as many this year as I'd like to, but that's a consequence of my work environment. I've recently started on the Horus Hersey series, currently listening to The Flight of the Eisenstein.

I love horror. I was allowed to watch IT (1990) as a toddler and I've been hooked ever since. Books, movies, TV shows, games - format doesn't matter, plug that shit into my veins.

In conclusion:

If any of this catches your interest, feel free to drop me a message!

Hi there! I’m Danny 34M I live in northeast pa. Married and date separately I’m looking for a long term relationship.

A bit about me. I’m 5’11 and about 225 so rocking the dad bod lol I have long hair and a beard. I don’t have a picture perfect smile that I’m self conscious about. I’m a nerd who loves video games, anime, and magic the gathering. I also enjoy going out for drinks with friends or going on an adventure! Also very 420 friendly. I’m a hopeless romantic looking for my player 2

Ideally I’d like to find someone closer to home but I’m also cool with long distance as long as we can make time to see each other!

33 / PDX / [NB4R] romantic sap here!!

Hey hey! Currently I live in portlajd Oregon but possibly will be moving back to new england where I am from (all depending on life crap).

I'm a huge animal lover, mostly vegetarian/vegan, I love rotting in bed watching comfort shows/movies but I also love going out and having a blast!

I'm definitely more a morning person than a night person but that also depends on my insomnia. I'm very touchy feely and love touching others (massage, hand holding etc)

Big goals to find a long term rope partner. I've been a rope bottom for over 6 years and its a damn delight.

Kink is extremely important to me and my life so thats a must! (True switch but top/dom leaning)

I'm such a sappy mushy hopeless romantic. I'm a recovering people pleaser (in due time..... lol) and i love acts of service and just all service in general. My communication style is very direct and open, I'm not just saying that. Really just trying to find my people. I want to love and spoil the hell out of amazing folk.

I love crafts and going on walks and bowling and thrifting, but i also am chronically ill so patience and empathy are extremely important to me.

I'm agender/nonbinary transmasc, a bit hairy and chubby but soft and cozy. I am no man but I do present more masc sometimes. Open to all bodies and genders! Xox

Howdy,
🍀I’m a friendly stoner that loves to garden and travel in her spare time.

Adore concerts and emo wasn’t just a phase haha. Music means everything to me, it brings me up when I feel down and I have a genre for every mood<3

Totally into alternative/cottage-core esthetic. I’m a short, curvy blonde with green eyes - sometimes I dress up and sometimes I like to be a couch potato! 🙃

I have a partner that’s consensual to poly and wants me to find a lady that makes me happy. I’m also a mother to a young boy who is my entire world ☀️So if you don’t like kiddos - we won’t be a good fit! 🤷‍♀️

I have lots of pets, I adore animals, I work full time, I know nothing about anime or video games but I’m willing to learn if it’s important to you.

I don’t mind pauses in conversations, because I know life gets busy - but one word/short replies can drive me bonkers if it’s constant. I have ADHD, so good conversation is important to me.

I am not every good at talking about myself on these posts haha. If you would like to know anything. Please feel free to ask me anything. I am bi/pan so i dont care about what gender you are. I dont have a type either. As long as you are a kind person. That's all that matters to me. Like the title says. I am nerdy too. Hopefully you like nerdy guys. Please feel free to message me. I look forward to hearing from you

24M bi, seeking new connections and experiences.
My name’s Xerxes I am a nerdy extrovert and am seeking a a partnership. I am currently single and am more than happy to relocate if you’re in the PNW area.

A little about me: I love video games, especially rpgs and fps games. I enjoy weight lifting and a very technical person. I also enjoy anime every now and then. I love building and working with computers essentially. I’m a major foodie and on that topic I love going out for drinks and coffee. Im a major soccer head but I do love watching other sports as well including, mma,basketball and football.

I am a very stout stocky guy, currently standing at around 5”7 with a very muscular build and broad shoulders.

I can cook,clean and do have my own car as well. I don’t have much experience being poly but I am trying to get my foot in the door.

Hey, I’m Jessica! Married, poly, plus-size, affectionate, sarcastic, and just the right amount of trouble. 😂

I’m looking for an actual relationship—not a hookup, pen pal, or “wyd” at 2 a.m. I want chemistry, consistency, affection, dates, inside jokes, good communication, and someone who genuinely wants to get to know me.

I’m into D&D, cats, getting dressed up, good food, reading, flirting, dark humor, and conversations that accidentally turn into three-hour conversations. If your flirting can survive a little sarcasm and dark humor, we might get along. 😏

I’m very much a connection-first person. Attraction is great, but I want to know your brain, too. Make me laugh. Tell me something weird. Challenge my thoughts. Remember the little things I tell you. Most importantly, make me feel comfortable enough to be completely myself.

I’m happy to start by chatting and getting to know each other, but I’d ultimately love to meet in person and see if we have something worth building together. I’m not looking for an endless online situationship—I want a genuine connection that can grow into something real. 🖤

28 Male switch Married and Poly

I'm 6'0 280-320 lbs (on a weight loss journey)

I am a gamer, i love to sing (i think i have a somewhat decent voice), I've always been so incredibly bad at writing things like this i do much better with being asked direct questions so I'll just say that i don't know what else to say about myself i hooe to hear from someone soon

Hi!
I’m a 26-year-old plus-size cis white woman currently in a happy poly relationship and hoping to meet another lovely person to flirt with and intentionally build connection. I am married to my partner (white cis male).
I’m pan, affectionate, emotionally available, and very into people who can communicate openly while still making me blush. I appreciate kindness, emotional intelligence, and teasing banter.
I love deep conversations, horror movies, reading, and exploring kink.
Looking for:
Other non-heterosexual/LGBTQ+ people
Good communication and emotional maturity
Flirty energy with potential for something real
Send me a message with your age, pronouns, what you’re into, or just your best attempt at making me smile :)
Hoping to connect with someone also in the SC/GA area but open to distance if the chemistry is strong

I’ve played with the idea and never really set my eyes into looking for a poly relationship, but here I am! FINALLY accepting that’s really what I want and deserve! I’ve dreamed of a poly relationship since I was 18-19 when I realized I like women as well! I’m 2 hours away from Amarillo at the moment! I’m looking for more men in the relationship! I just don’t know how to go about that! Some advice and insight would be greatly appreciated!

KY, Meade co Soft, curvy, married milf, seeking companionship with something cute and sweet. Emotional, romantic, intimate, and hopefully nearby~

I'm open to a lot of different dynamics as long as respect and transparency are there.

I've been alot of things to alot of people, online and offline. I am mostly a mommydom outside of being a somewhat typical housewife.

I'd love to be myself with someone and share in our interests and hobbies and keep each other company throughout the day. (Texting/voice notes/snap/etc) Maybe go on dates or hang out I'm fairly easy going. I just wish for some soft-boy grunge type or a pretty bxnny to connect with and dote on.

Lifestyle and kink are somewhat intertwined with me so if its not your thing I don't think you'll like me. 😅 But I'm perfectly capable of boundaries if that's a concern. And I like being the older in the age gap so if you're into chubby moms please feel free. 🥰

reposting because I didn't realize pxxpy was an automatic removal. I just use animal nicknames a lot so I'm sorry =_=

Hi there! I've posted before but haven't quite found who I'm looking for yet, I'm married and my husband and I are both seeking out new connections, separately, so I hope I'm in the right place. I've been in a dead bedroom for over 5 years and my husband and I have come to the conclusion that we're no longer sexually compatible with each other but the love and partnership is still there.

Currently I'm looking for online connections and hope to build up to in-person connections once I'm more comfortable in this space.

My goal is to meet someone who I can genuinely connect with, I don't want hookups or random encounters, I'm looking for someone who aligns with my wants and needs sexually as well as general interests and beliefs. My main goal is to have fun and enjoy my life and enjoy being wanted and adored and craved.

I love to read, play video games and board games, craft, and I'm a dancer. I'm also very into Disney and will talk your ear off about it if you let me. I'm left leaning and won't entertain anyone who wears a red hat. In terms of sexual interests I am a sub but have not explored that dynamic as much as I'd like. I have a Daddy kink and would be interested in exploring that more as well. I'm short but curvy and currently on a weight loss journey, my self esteem has been non-existent these past few years and part of me building myself back up has been focusing more on my health and well-being as a whole, but I am bigger and that's just a fact.

I am a Mom and my child comes first so you don't have to be a parent yourself but you do have to understand that side of me.

I hope I've given enough to start out here, feel free to send me a chat if you're interested 😊

Attracted to masculine presenting individuals, but always open to being friends with anyone!

Hi everyone! I am 30F living in Nebraska. I am married, we have been open/poly our whole relationship. Ive had previous relationships, though one ended quite sourly so I ended up taking an extended break from pursuing new romantic relationships while I focused on myself, therapy, and just life in general! But Ive been in a pretty good place lately, so I have been testing the waters a bit on that front again.

What I am looking for: Ideally, I would like to find someone who is looking for a long term and meaningful relationship, but with the understanding that I am married, so it would likely never progress to a shared living situation or marriage. Hopefully there are others out there that are looking for a more "casual" but still commited relationship. If thats not you, no worries! I still love making new friends :)

Random facts about me:

1.Big gamer. My husband and I helldive almost every day. For Super Earth! When left without a squad, I have been spending a lot of hours on Planet Zoo 2!

1. My favorite color is sage green.

2. I own two cats and a crested gecko. Used to own horses, but slowly sold them and my last remaining horse passed away not too long ago, so I am taking a break from horse ownership right now.

3. Aspiring hobby author. I have been writing my first novel, though it is busy season at my job, so it has ended up on the backburner as of late.

4. Big audiobook fan. In high school I was a voracious reader, though that has dwindled with time. Audiobooks are awesome to listen to while still having my hands free to work or get stuff done around the house.

5. I am fiercely independent. I never mind doing stuff on my own and often prefer to be alone when winding down for the day.

6. Smoke and drink socially.

7. Im not involved in aviation or healthcare, but have very big interests in both. I love planes and learning all about them and the job of pilots. Air shows are one of my favorite events to attend! I also find medical things simply fascinating, so I have acquired a large mental database of illnesses, symptoms, medications, etc. Will any of it ever come in handy? No.

8. I run a little photography business on the side. I compete in local and state competitions and have been invited to be a judge in a county competition next year.

9. Huge equine color generics nerd. I can tell you what color a horse is or what colors a pair can produce just based on their genetic markers. Yet more information that absolutely will never come in handy.

Some things people might find deal-breakers:

1. I work fulltime, so my free time can be somewhat limited. I have busy and quiet seasons at work, so my availability can ebb and flow.

2. I do not have kids and I have no interest in kids. I have nothing against parents, but would never want to be involved in raising a child.

3. I HATE SNAPCHAT. I do not enjoy taking selfies and insistence in sending selfies will drive me insane. I am more than happy to share selfies on my own term, but not as an obligation. If Snapchat is your primary way of communication, we probably wont vibe longterm.

4. I am not ace, though my libido has always been low. If you are looking for someone to talk spicy with constantly, Im not your gal. If your primary reason for seeking a long term relationship is largely sexual, Im also not your gal.

If I sound interesting, drop me a message! I promise I dont bite :) all I ask is you put more effort into your message than "hey."

If you want a fun icebreaker prompt, tell me one of your favorite fun facts or subjects that never gets brought up in conversation so you never get to talk about it but you have been eagerly awaiting the opportunity.

Hello Lovelies, I’m Jessica. I’m 23 and I’m looking for a longterm relationship with some fun along the way I spend a lot of my time playing games (On PC) and causing chaos.

I currently have a lovely (Short) boyfriend who I adore and is my life partner!
Here is a password to make sure you actually are reading the stuff
When messaging me have the word pizza in your message
I’m looking for someone to chat with and hang out with if less appropriate things happen eventually that is fine too.

I am transgender (MTF) and just started medically transitioning a bit over a month ago
I am Plus Size
I also have a very long list of Kinks and interests so be warned if things do develop that way

Likes
-Streaming
(I stream on twitch and have always been interested in making content on Youtube as well)

-Gaming
(I play a bunch of games on my computer but the main list includes Modded Minecraft, Slay the Spire 2, Warframe, Dark Souls(with the seamless coop mod typically), and Ark Survival Evolved)

-Game Dev
(I have always been interested in coding and developing games I know the basics of Java, C#, C++, and Python and tend to mess with coding mods and developing games/apps)

-Art
(Me and art have a love hate relationship their are times where I will sit their and draw for hours but than during those same times I redraw every line a hundred times because it just isn’t right)

-Anime
(When i am not playing games or sleeping i am typically watching anime i don’t typically watch live action stuff and just stick to anime)

-Reading
(while i don’t do it often i definitely don’t mind getting distracted by reading a book on my phone for several hours on end)

Dislikes
-Lies
(grew up around people who would lie and manipulate to get what they wanted I don’t want that in my life if you lie to me that’s it)

-Spiders
(Arachnophobia)

-Thunder
(Thunder is loud and i have trauma and sensitive hearing so it spooky)

- Horror Games/Movies
(They Scary and I’m a scaredy cat but there are methods to make me suffer through them)

I live in NJ (Gloucester County) and would prefer someone somewhat close but don't mind long distance

If you are interested in me please message me in private chat