Before I paid anything, the landlord provided house rules that explicitly stated “No men, no boys.” She was also very strict about visitors. She even said it would be acceptable if the au pair’s friends got fingerprinted. (She currently has a female au pair who is going to leave.)

On 10/07, I sent her a holding deposit. I was planning to move in on 10/31.

7 days later, the landlord told me she might hire a male live-in au pair who also would share the bathroom with me.

She said, “As you know Aupairs are young and like children. Your choice. I won't know for a while what we end up with. So if you have lived with families before it's the same. But your comfort level is yours so let me know.”

She said, “My son may have friends over that are boys. I may have dinner parties that have couples. It’s a guest bathroom, so even male students may use the bathroom. It’s only one bathroom.”And I asked, “But do they live with you?”

Basically, she still thinks these are the same thing. And she didn’t say sorry or something.

Because of this change, I decided not to proceed with the rental and requested my money back. If I had known I will live with an adult male I wouldn’t have given her any money in the first place.

However, the landlord did not refund the full amount. She kept $200 and even said, “I am taking a loss.”

I spent a lot of time on this. I visited the property twice because the first time I arrived, she told me the tenants hadn’t left the key, so I could only look through the window. I then went back to school, finished my classes, and returned around 8:30 PM to see the place again. And the furniture I plan to buy for the room.

Now I have to find a new place while preparing for my exams and working.

Hey all! I'm a 22M looking for long-term housing, ideally starting around November 7, with a budget under $3k/month.

I recently graduated from UC Berkeley and moved to SF from Chicago to work as a software engineer at a startup. I work in-person 5 days a week, so I'm flexible on location as long as the commute to FiDi is reasonable.

I'm clean, organized, and easygoing. Outside of work, I enjoy working out (running, gym, pick-up sports) and playing piano and other instruments.

I'm open to either a private room in a shared apartment or my own studio/1BR. I'm also open to finding a new place with other people who are looking.

If you have a place available or know someone looking for a roommate, feel free to DM me! Happy to share more about myself or set up a time to chat.

Edit: furnished place would be a big plus! I’m also happy to discuss paying extra for this.

Looking near 24th and mission area

Any leads? Or websites I can use?

Are you still looking for a subletter or housemate?

👋 Hi I'm Amanda relocating to SF with my pug, Bubby Valentino!

I want to get to know the city before choosing a neighborhood to settle in.

Preferences:

- Furnished

• Budget under $2,800

- Flexible location within SF (not Oakland or South SF)

- Move in Nov. 12 until end of Feb but flexible

While I adjust to life in SF, I am looking for a place to quietly relax after work. I spend a lot of time outside playing with Bubby who is a very social, loving boy.

About me:

• Clean, tidy

• Nonsmoker

• Easygoing

• Enjoy hosting small gatherings

• I do triathlons & love 5am swims

• Really not interested in partying or drinking, but enjoy socializing!

Bubby:

• Well trained, but hates garbage trucks & Fireworks

• Might let out a little boof now and then to warn you of random noises, shadows, objects that appear over night, like a scooter on the sidewalk.

This will be the 8th city I've lived in, so I appreciate meeting new friends from all over the world.

Feel free to ask me anything!

Oh! Also, I'm a 37yr female, single, no kids, no annoying ex-bfs 😀.

Hope to hear from you!

I'm the outgoing tenant helping the leasing office re-lease Unit 312 at Mt. Sutro Apartments, 480 Warren Dr, San Francisco, CA 94131 (Cole Valley / Mt. Sutro neighborhood, steps to UCSF Parnassus).

THE UNIT - 1 bedroom / 1 bath (~650 sq ft) - $3,795/month, vacant now, available for immediate move-in - Updated interiors, full-size kitchen appliances, spacious closets - Courtyard and panoramic Bay views

$1,500 MOVE-IN BONUS (from me personally, not management): sign a new lease by October 31, 2026 and move in by November 15, 2026, and I'll pay you $1,500 directly within 7 days of move-in once the new lease is confirmed. Lease and rent are set by building management. Open to any applicant approved under management's standard criteria; one bonus per unit.

LOCATION - ~10-min walk to UCSF Parnassus campus - Walking distance to Golden Gate Park - Backs onto Mt. Sutro Open Space Reserve hiking trails - Easy Muni access; Cole Valley cafes and shops nearby

BUILDING: dog-friendly, on-site laundry, high-speed internet available, full-time management/maintenance, storage units available.

Video tour: https://youtu.be/SuuzAj2aHg8 (filmed 2022, same unit)

This is a new lease signed directly with building management. To view or apply: (415) 664-2822 or leasing@mtsutroapartments.com — mention "Unit 312 / Zhong Zhang referral." DM me here or text 669-272-5810 so I can track the bonus for you.

Hey everyone! I'm a 35M looking for ideally one other person to team up with to find a good apartment in San Francisco. The goal is to find a nice 2-bedroom in a desirable neighborhood without paying a fortune, which if you look closely, it's totally possible to find 2 bedrooms for around 4k. Ideally I would like total rent cost to be under $5k and can be flexible on distributing rent fairly based on room size/portion of apartment used.

A little about me: I work full-time in downtown SF and am responsible, clean, and laid-back. I'm also open to pets! Preferably a well behaved cat.

I'm particularly interested in Nob Hill, Russian Hill, North Beach, Polk Gulch, and Pacific Heights, but I'm open to other neighborhoods too. I've explored almost every part of the city so as long as I can keep the commute to around 30 minutes on Muni I'm happy.

Ideally, I'd like to connect with someone who's financially independent and responsible, considerate, and interested in finding a place to be proud of as a team.

If you're in a similar situation, shoot me a message with a little about yourself, your budget, and what you're looking for. Let's see if we can find something great!

We’re two friends looking for a third housemate (or fifth if you count our two cats!) for our spacious 3 bd/2ba home in Lakeshore (Oakland) starting November 1! Our space is the ground floor of the landlords’ house but is completely separate. Street parking is easy. Washer and dryer in-unit.

Room: Unfurnished. 12’x13’. Has two bright windows, its own bathroom, and large walk-in closet.

Location: ~half a mile from Lake Merritt, Trader Joe’s, and a lot of other stores on Lakeshore. 12th St BART is about a 10 min ride on the 22 bus, which picks up outside the house. Walking distance to other bus lines as well, including a transbay line.

Shared space: The house has a large kitchen, dining room, and living room, all furnished with basics. We are open to layout and decor changes to accommodate a new person’s belongings.

Move-in: Nov 1 (flexible)

Rent/Lease: 1 year, $1400/month + utilities, security deposit $1333

Utilities:

$40/month electricity and gas

WiFi is $25/month per person.

Water is roughly $30/month

Rules:
- Pets: No more pets, sadly.
- Smoking: no smoking inside the house or on the property.

Household: We’re J (he/him, late 20s) and M (she/her, early 30s). J works in public health and M is a designer; we work hybrid jobs, so we’re around a lot. We’re fairly tidy.

Let me know if you're interested or have any questions!

I moved to CA over the summer and I'm trying to get established in Oakland anywhere from around Lake Meritt to southern Berkely, or any of the surrounding neighborhoods in that area. I am looking to move in the next month or two, max $2,400. I can even pay a few months up front.

Buuuut I have three pets. Two cats and an 11 year old dog who is quiet, mellow, and good with other animals of all sizes. Three is a lot to ask, which I guess is why I'm posting here instead of just refreshing Craigslist endlessly. I'm open to a room in a house if the people are fine with animals (especially sweet senior dogs), but I realize a place of my own is more likely.

I am a graphic designer/artist, quiet, home most of the time. Trans woman. Board games and TTRPGs, sci-fi and fantasy, painting, bad movies. Typical nerd stuff.

If you know of anything, or know someone with a unit coming open, I'd appreciate the lead. I'm not looking for a short-term rental.

Looking for someone to take over a private bedroom in a spacious 4-bedroom, 2-bathroom apartment in Russian Hill!

Apartment Details

• Rent: $2,340/month
• Availability: Mid-November through July, with option to extend
• Room: Private bedroom in a 4BR / 2BA apartment
• Location: Quiet part of Russian Hill, walking distance to North Beach, Lombard Street, and the waterfront
• Roommates: 3 guys, all 23 years old
• Furniture: Bed, desk, and chair available for purchase at a reasonable price

Location Highlights

Great location with easy access to the waterfront, restaurants, cafes, and everything North Beach and Russian Hill have to offer, while still being tucked away in a quieter residential area.

Interested or have questions?

Text 4695628566 for more details, photos, or to arrange a tour!

Hi,

I’m (26M) quitting my job and moving out of SF but there’s still 6 months left on my lease. Rent is $2,400 and the location is Russian Hill. There are utilities on top of rent, and it’s about $100-$120 per month. I also have a roommate (26M) who pays $2,000, so total rent for the 2 bed 1 bath is $4,400.

If interested please DM me, and we can hop on a call to discuss further details.

Hi, my roommate and I are looking to swap our 2B2B apartment in Rincon Hill for a studio or 1B1B in the Rincon Hill/Mission Bay area, ideally under $3,500/month.

We signed our lease before rents increased, so our current 2B2B base rent is under $4,800/month.

If anyone is interested in a potential lease swap, please DM me. Thanks!

- 2B2B, 1,200 sq ft
- $3,860/month total, so about $1,930 each (utilities not included)
- Move-in: Oct 15, 2026 (flexible)
- Lease ends: April 22, 2027
- 1 garage spot available, with plenty of street parking for a second car

About me: I'm a 22M new grad who works in tech. I'm clean and easygoing, and I like gaming and going to concerts. Also to note - I’m non-vegetarian.

Interested or know someone who might be? DM me for more details or to schedule a visit! The video showcasing the entire floor plan can be provided upon request.

hello! I am moving from emeryville and i am looking for a room or a roommate! Ideally female too but feel free to dm me if ever, I would be flexible. I need to move ideally ASAP if ever there is available!
Working in Construction tech!

OPEN HOUSE THIS SATURDAY 10/17/2026 11am-3pm

Additional Details can be found below

609 Oregon Ave, Palo Alto CA 94301

Welcome to this beautifully remodeled 5br/4ba home in the highly desirable Old Palo Alto neighborhood on a side street. Thoughtfully updated while preserving its charm, this inviting residence offers spacious living areas, beautiful hardwood floors, abundant natural light, and numerous charming windows throughout.

The home features fully equipped kitchens, in-unit laundry facilities, and air conditioning for year-round comfort. With its versatile layout and generous living space, this property offers plenty of room for comfortable family living, entertaining, and everyday enjoyment.

Ideally located near California Avenue, Midtown shopping, and an exceptional selection of restaurants, this home provides convenient access to some of Palo Alto's best shopping, dining, and amenities. Families will also appreciate the proximity to highly regarded public schools.

Must have good credit history, good rent history, no eviction, verifiable income, not pets, and no indoor smoking.

Feel free to laugh at me but I’m looking for something under $4000 for me and my cat. She’s an ESA. I can do a studio but would prefer a 1 bed or ADU or in-law. Would like something near Caltrain but I can park my car if needed.

Commute is to Dogpatch.

Thank you for any leads. I’ve got some tours of complexes but would love any insider info.

- budget $4k-$6k a month
- have 2 cats
- would like to have a dishwasher and laundry on site
- work in healthcare tired of commuting an hour home over Dumbarton each day
- non smoker, spend all my time working
- I’ve tried looking at SU post, facebook, and craigslist but haven’t found many places that are ok with the cats. I’m not Stanford so can’t live in Stanford housing

Do I really have to hire someone to find a place to rent? If so how much does that usually cost?

Close to Caltrain/BART, 101/280, Target, grocery stores, movie theater.

Has parking, EV charging, gym, pool + hot tub, BBQ, trash valet.

In range for ATnT fiber.

Walkable to YouTube/Walmart campuses.

Price negotiable.

Hey there! I’m a 36F looking for a room during the work week (Sunday night to Friday morning MAX) for under 1k all inclusive of utilities.

Just hoping for something clean and quiet. I think of myself as friendly, clean and quiet myself!

I take most of my meals at work and the only kitchen access I need would be to hold and warm up leftovers and make tea.

We’re subleasing our studio at 899 Pine Street, Pinnacle at Nob Hill, as we’re upgrading to a new place.
Apartment Highlights:

1- Spacious clean studio with 450+ sq. ft. of living space
2- Beautiful views of Twin Peaks and the San Francisco skyline
3- Rent-controlled unit
4- Approximately $1,000 below current market rent
5- Laundry facilities conveniently located on the floor
6- 24/7 fitness center
7- Dedicated co-working spaces
8- Relaxing sauna room
9- Unfurnished
10- Rent $3,200 + Utilities
11- Pet Friendly

Availability: November 12, 2026
Current Lease Ends: November 30, 2026, with the option to extend rent controlled.

Parking Options:
- Standard dedicated parking: $400/month, in addition to rent
- EV dedicated parking: $600/month, in addition to rent

Located in the heart of Nob Hill, this studio offers stunning views, excellent amenities, and an opportunity to enjoy San Francisco city living at a great value.

If interested Please DM me for photos, or more information.

Hey all

I am looking for someone to relet my RWC apartment ASAP, as I need to move out for some personal reasons. The apartment is 2750/month, around 650 sqft, on the third floor and very recently renovated. It comes with one covered and keyed garage spot, and is a 20 minute walk to the Redwood City Caltrain and 15 minutes to downtown. Move in is available ASAP, ideally around oct 16-19. If you do move in then, I am able to cover rent up until Nov 1 as well as your security deposit.

Hi everyone! My mom is looking to move from Chicago to SF to be closer to my brother, she doesn’t use Reddit so I figured I would make a post for her. She’s 63, her budget is around $1,500 but she’s flexible on that. She would prefer her roommate(s) to identify as female and around her age. She’s very sociable, kind, and understanding. She doesn’t smoke and rarely drinks. She loves to cook and stay active. She’s flexible on amenities and is fine with pets. Please DM me if you’re interested and I’ll send you her way!

Hi Everyone! I just moved here for work and am looking for my permanent apartment!

I am super friendly with all my neighbors so we can be respectful of each others' living spaces. I've never missed rent in 18 years in Los Angeles and I'm extremely neat and clean.

My primaries are being close to public transpo to Soma and parking for my car!

Not sure really what else to put on here... I like Conan Obrien, Foo Fighters, and shoot a lot of pool 😁