r/chat • • 8h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ F 28 Canada

12 Upvotes

Hi there! Back on Reddit and looking to chat with people with same interests! Also please be 26-34 in age and keep the chat clean! Keep scrolling if taken/married thanks

A few things I like are geography, gym, and reading. I also love GeoGuessr!

Send me your ASL and we can connect!


r/chat • • 20h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 35| Just looking to chat

10 Upvotes

Hey there! I moved from one side of the country to the other and I work so much it’s hard to get out and meet new people. I’ve been feeling a little isolated lately and would love to just find some people to have some friendly banter with.

I can talk about pretty much anything and I love learning about people. I love reading, exploring new places, legos, thrifting. I’m also a mom so fellow parents would be cool to chat with.

If you’d be interested I’d love to hear from you!


r/chat • • 16h ago

Friends πŸ‘₯ 31/F Looking for "an ally" to talk to on a daily basis... I feel like others and I are at completely different stages In life πŸ™ I want to meet someone understanding, caring, talkative and friendless - an emotionally mature Introvert who really needs a friend! No NSFW accounts, please!

8 Upvotes

(Please, read this post If you want to send me a message)

Yes... I'm still here and I'm still trying to find someone... That's all I want πŸ˜” Finding a bestie Is my dream... I would love to finally say "Goodbye" to my loneliness and start smiling, again. Not with someone random, but with someone who wants what I want...

(I'm a REAL PERSON! Bots are taking over Reddit but I'm not one of them so don't accuse me of being someone/something I'm not)

I want you to read everything because my expectations aren't the same as other people's expectations. I also want you to know what to expect because even though we're all here to spend time with others, not everyone needs new friends. Some people want to find someone to play games with & It's just an example. πŸ‘‡πŸ»

(This post Is for people who live In Europe because I would love to meet my new friends In real life, In the future)

I made this account In 2021 and even though I'm really active on Reddit, I can't make new friends... Not everyone on Reddit Is toxic or rude but there's ALWAYS something missing because I don't feel any emotional connection... I would love to change my life & finally wake up excited to text someone I really, really like πŸ™ But... Life Isn't easy and I'm not sure If there's still a chance for me to find someone with exactly the same expectations as mine, someone who wants to meet someone new...

β€’ I'm DEFINITELY NOT Interested In small talk! I had to use capital letters because I don't like low-effort messages and I don't even want to read them. Repetitive questions like "How are you?", "What are you up to?" or "What are your plans for the weekend?" aren't enough to start a conversation with me.. Don't get me wrong - Questions like these can be an Interesting addition to conversations about something else, but whenever people ask me the three most common questions In the world - my answer's the same because my life Is quite monotonous and I don't really know what people expect to hear πŸ™ I also don't like abbreviations. Abbreviations are shortened forms of words or phrases. Why? I just don't like them because I see no reason to use shortened forms of words that are already short enough, you know? Abbreviations are common among minors and bored adults but I'm neither a minor, nor a bored adult. I want to see emotional maturity, warmth and kindness In conversations with others.

β€’ I don't need to see your list of hobbies to know If you're someone I would get along with! You can tell me what you're Interested In but.. Believe It or not - I'm not like others and even If you're Interested In something I'm not - we can still be friends! What matters to me Is what you're like (If you're honest, talkative, kind, understanding and If your outlook on life Is similar to mine)

β€’ I don't want to talk to minors and people way older than me. Why? I don't want to talk to minors because I'm an adult & I don't want to talk to anyone over fifty for example. Emotional maturity doesn't necessarily come with age so you can send me a message even If you're 20 (It's just an example) but please, don't contact me If you want to remind me that I'm older than you. I want you to feel comfortable & I want to feel comfortable myself. When I read messages like "Hi, I'm younger but I hope you don't mind" I always say to myself "If my age bothers you, you should've contacted someone else" I absolutely don't mind talking to people younger than me If they know how to communicate with others 🌸

β€’ PLEASE, Don't use AI to talk to me! I Can't stand AI generated messages! If I wanted to read AI generated messages, I wouldn't be here! I read AI generated messages and comments all the time and I'm sick of It!

β€’ I don't want to get any messages from people whose accounts are NSFW! Please, respect my decision! It's none of my business If you're here to find someone to flirt with or If you're an Internet exhibitionist but I don't want to see you with no clothes on - If you want to be my friend & I don't want to know what you want to do with other women In bed. If you are on Reddit to flirt with others, be on Reddit to flirt with others but... don't make an alternative account to hide who you really are just to send me a message. Pretending to be someone you're not - Isn't good for anyone

β€’ I'm not a fan of sarcasm! I do - have a sense of humor but I'm not someone who makes fun of everyone and everything... Jokes about disabilities, death, religion or someone's financial status - are unacceptable to me!

β€’ I also want to meet people who don't mind listening to negative stories and sharing them with others. My life's not easy so If you want to be In my life, you should be prepared for a realistic or even pessimistic outlook on life. I'm definitely not an optimist and I know I wouldn't get along with optimistic people who always tell others "Just believe In yourself and everything's gonna be OK" or something. We don't always get what we want & and It's completely normal to lose hope "for a better tomorrow" after many failed attempts. Not everything's as easy as It seems to be so If all you want to say to someone who needs emotional support Is "Don't complain" or "Find a therapist" Please.. don't send me a message. Not all sad people need therapists and let's be honest - Would a therapist replace a true friend? Absolutely not! Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on! I also don't mind listening to sad stories (even If they're repetitive) because I know what It's like when no one wants to listen to you...

β€’ I would love to meet people who also don't have anyone, you know? There's absolutely nothing wrong with having friends and not being single but I'm single and I don't have anyone special In my life... It's just easier for me to get along with others If there's some common ground. I just feel better talking to people who know what It's like to be completely alone & let's be honest - People who have friends or partners, have less time for others...(which Is completely understandable) and I? I don't want to feel like an option, again. I'm not here to meet as many people as possible because I choose quality over quantity 🌸

β€’ If your comment history Is full of comments "If you want to talk, hit me up" don't send me a message. I don't want to be rude but If It doesn't make any difference to you who you want to chat with - I'm definitely not for you. I want you to be my friend because of who I am! (If after reading my post you think you'd get along with me) I don't need emotional support from someone who doesn't even want to read my post.

β€’ I want to talk to people who love and use emojis 🀭😊 Why? Emojis help us express our emotions even If others can't see our faces. Two emojis "😊" and "πŸ˜”" are completely enough. You're probably surprised but.. text messages without emojis are really emotionless... I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea" as it sounds dismissively! First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even In a text message

Ps. I don't like kids and I don't want to ever become a parent. I just thought everyone should know that just In case. I don't want any unpleasant conversations with anyone. Not everyone wants to be friends with people who don't want kids so.. It's better to be honest. 🌸

Ps.2 I don't reply to messages I'm not Interested In even If they're long! I'm not on Reddit to pretend anything and I'm not here to be everyone's best friend. Some people lie & make empty promises to get attention. I? I'm quite selective because I know what I want.

Ps.3 I admire sensitive people who are not ashamed of crying In front of others! Crying Is not a weakness! It's not a weakness even If you're a guy 🧑

Please, If you want to talk send me a private message.


r/chat • • 2h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 34F petite dancer looking for someone to talk to ;) the Halloween gigs have me exhausted!

8 Upvotes

r/chat • • 16h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 38m, who likes to chat all day?

6 Upvotes

At home today spending this crisp autumn morning tinkering in the garage, sipping on way too much coffee with the sound of an old stereo crackling in the background. The one thing I'm missing is that excitement that comes from a new connection, a curiosity that perhaps leads to a new admiration of a different opinion, another way of seeing the same world as you, forever expanding your own horizons. A new friend even. I could probably ramble here for way too long but I'm going back to tinkering, unless you give me a reason to pick my phone back up.


r/chat • • 20h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 18f, talk to meee :0

6 Upvotes

i just got home from a halloween party thing with friends, am still drunk but getting unready so i can play video games in bed, dm me so i can yap to someone during that ^^ :d

edit cuz forgot to say: no creepy dms pls and thanks! :))


r/chat • • 4h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 25F! Anyone want to chat?

4 Upvotes

I'm currently a part time market research analyst & a MEd student. Let's chat about something else. The universe, people, weird concepts, something fun!


r/chat • • 22h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 26M | Looking to meet some good humans :)

4 Upvotes

26M here, trying this whole internet-friends thing for the first time.

I like movies, music, and working on random stuff. Looking to meet people who are genuinely interested in getting to know each other, can yap about literally anything, and aren't afraid to double text.

I want the kind of friendship where we go from strangers to randomly sharing the most insignificant details of our day. Deep conversations, dumb conversations, unhinged conversations. I'M HERE FOR ALL OF IT.

No pressure to be available 24/7. Just looking for people who actually want to talk and see where things go.

If you're looking for genuine connections too, come say hi. Let's see if we click :)


r/chat • • 54m ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 18f bored

β€’ Upvotes

I'm just bored idk


r/chat • • 6h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 21 f, does anyone want to talk?

3 Upvotes

My name is summer, I’m 21 from Canada, I speak 4 languages being Ojibwe, Cree, Lakota(not fluently), English, I enjoy creating stuff whether it’s drawings, painting or even clothing, I can also do beadwork pretty well, if I’m not doing any of that stuff I’m usually watching documentaries, movies/shows or even anime, I also like watching combat sports, my favourite fighter in the UFC is Khamzat chimaev and my favourite boxer is naoya inoue, u can also find me outside or spending time with my friends and family


r/chat • • 18h ago

Friends πŸ‘₯ [19/F] I feel very bored rn and I need friends

3 Upvotes

Hello ! I'm 19F and I feel like shit. I'm lame at introducing myself, so feel free to ask anything (I love answering questions). I'd prefer girls tbh. We can talk about anything you want. I don't have anything to do or anyone to chat with, so if you wanna chat, hit me up ! Please include your ASL (age/gender/location) when you dm !


r/chat • • 2h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ Hey 21 m i wanna chat with someone

3 Upvotes

I’m from the Middle East i live in the us and I’m so bored and kinda sick
Tell me what do you love the most and let’s chat plz!


r/chat • • 3h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 28F sleepy but chatty

3 Upvotes

r/chat • • 5h ago

Other 15 f testing to see if i can finally post here lol

1 Upvotes

trying to actually use reddit but i’m
stuck in all the low requirement groups lol i feel like
im speaking into the void lol so im gonna keep testing posts until smth gives πŸ’€ don’t mind me


r/chat • • 9h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 35F, let's play a question game!

3 Upvotes

I've had a recent traumatic event happen, and I generally prefer to laugh and joke as often as possible through the pain. Chats are also an amazing way to connect and distract, and I am ready to have my mind focused on anything else! So, if anyone wants to throw questions back and forth (nothing inappropriate) please shoot me a msg 😊

EDIT TO ADD If it takes me a while to respond it's because I have had a larger response to the question game than I expected! Don't be discouraged, I'll get back to you as soon as I can :)


r/chat • • 11h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 53F - would like to chat to other women

3 Upvotes

Would be nice to chew the fat with other women close to me in age. I like chatting about books, politics, TV, music, nostalgia, and how weird it feels to be middle-aged. Not looking for nsfw chat and hence the request for some female company. Hoping to make some new Reddit friends 😊


r/chat • • 15h ago

Discord 29M from the UK looking for consistent convos

3 Upvotes

Hello! My names Tay and i'm 29 years old, I'm looking for some more people to talk to and get to know more,Yes i'm Bri ish, and yes I saw Boto O Wota, I have a lot of different hobbies, consisting of playing video games (souls games, rpgs, fighting games and horror games), going to the gym, travelling and learning about mythology, I also do like to speak on voice and if that's something you would like to do then by all means we can do, also I can exchange a picture of myself if you are curious of what I look like,

Communication is key, and I would love to hear about everything you get up to, your likes / dislikes, your own hobbies and what you are looking for in specific, i like to also learn about different cultures too which peaks my interest

I'm going to keep it short and sweet here but if you would like to know more about me do not hesistate to message me (:


r/chat • • 19h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ For the girlies only.

3 Upvotes

I want to make a groupchat on Reddit and talk about fictional men that we are currently obsessed with. Any takers? I'm currently in the "Halloween" mood βœŒοΈπŸ’€

MDNI.

girls/women.

[Not accepting DMs]


r/chat • • 23h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ Bored as fuck hmu people adults only sfw convos only

3 Upvotes

HMU


r/chat • • 23h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 28f maybe we can hangout & it would be cool

3 Upvotes

i have nothing really to say, you dont have to have anything really to say either. just dont be gross or just message me β€œhey”, no need to waste your precious time. costco pizza haters DNI

i like music (emo, hardcoreish, etc), smoking weed (lol), documentaries & other stuff too probably.

come hang if youre not lame, extra bonus plus plus if you’re not a man (some offense)


r/chat • • 1h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 36m UK amateur bodybuilder looking to find new people to chat to!

β€’ Upvotes

Hey im from the UK, i live out in the middle of nowhere so can be isolating and finding people to befriend especially around my age is difficult as everyone either busy with their own lives or just lost contact.

I used to do a lot of rugby but stopped due to not wanting a serious injury effecting work. Also into weightlifting with an aim of competing next year in my first body building show! Also into a bit of gaming currently playing crimson desert on ps5 and favourite series is fallout games!

I work in construction so always building something or outside in all weathers either at work or at home renovating my garden.

Drop me a message if you want to get to know each other a bit more πŸ‘πŸ»


r/chat • • 1h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 18F looking for new friends !! :3 🫢

β€’ Upvotes

hiii guys !! honestly idk how to start these posts without sounding awkward but whateverrr 😭

i’m just here hoping to meet some cool people and maybe make some long-term friends !! i’m the type of person who can go from talking about the most random thing ever to having a whole deep conversation at 2am LMAO. i love when conversations just flow naturally and we can be weird without judging each other πŸ’€

i might be a little awkward at first so pls don't mind me if i take a while to get comfortable πŸ˜” once i get used to someone i talk sm more tho !! i also love random questions, silly conversations, and hearing people talk about things they’re passionate about.

i don't really expect anything, just hoping to meet some nice people around my age who wanna yap about literally anything !!

anyways if you read all this you're actually so real for that πŸ™πŸ˜­ feel free to say hiiii !!


r/chat • • 2h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 26F, Hope Life's Giving You a 10!

2 Upvotes

From 1 to 10, how contented are you with your life right now?

As for me, I'm at a 2. Life has been going downhill instead of getting better. I kinda disagree with the saying that the only way from rock bottom is up because apparently, there's a basement. Lol.

I don't know if I'm lacking effort, luck, or patience. All I know is that hard work and perseverance can only take you so far when you don't have the resources. Sometimes, no matter how hard you try, your dreams remain dreams because you simply can't afford to make them happen. Harsh reality, indeed.

I guess we're all going through something. Some are living their best lives, while others are just trying to get by. I just hope that someday, somehow, we all get our chance to win in life.


r/chat • • 4h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ 41M Looking for genuine conversations and new connections

2 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I'm here to meet open-minded people who enjoy meaningful conversations about life, spirituality, consciousness, self-awareness, and all those fascinating things we don't always get the chance to talk about.

I enjoy sharing perspectives, laughing, exploring different ways of seeing the world, and having those long conversations where you lose track of time. I also love nature, discovering new places, and spontaneous adventures.

I'm happy to start with a chat, and when we're both comfortable, I'd enjoy a video call too. It's a nice way to connect more naturally and get to know the person behind the screen.

If you enjoy genuine conversations and getting to know people without pressure, feel free to say hello. Let's see what kind of connection unfolds! 😊


r/chat • • 4h ago

Chat πŸ’¬ Anyone fancy a chat?

2 Upvotes

I’m 18m looking for just a simple chat. I’m up late and bored! I’ve got my interests, tattoos, politics, sports but I’m happy to have a chat about anything!