r/aves • • 8h ago

Discussion/Question Anyone else sick of these little groups at raves?

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Every time I go to a festival, I seem to run into the same type of group. A bunch of guys and girls who stand in a circle, taking up as much space as possible and squeezing everyone around them out

Then smoking, randomly screaming “AY AY AY AY” (especially this shit drives me insane when it’s not even remotely on beat), pulling out their sneaky alcohol and chatting loudly/scrolling phone ,half the time, they’re not even paying attention to the music, completely disconnected from whatever the DJ is doing

And the most annoying part? You move away to find another spot, and several minutes later you run into another group doing the exact same shit. Honestly, I wish these people would just go back to their commercial clubs and VIP tables(You can tell exactly what kind of crowd they are)

I used to go to pretty much any show if there was a DJ I liked on the lineup. Now I’m starting to care a lot more about the crowd, the atmosphere, the sound system and whether I’ll actually enjoy being there. A good DJ alone isn’t enough to make an event worth it. I’d rather be more selective and spend my time & money on events where people are actually there for the music and the experience😡


r/aves • • 16h ago

Fit/Fashion I decided to ramp up makeup.

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I decided to be almost totally blue ravecat :3 We had hsrd techno party with lot of smoke and photograph ban. It was great rave party :3


r/aves • • 16h ago

Photo/Video Met LYNY in Hawaii

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r/aves • • 21h ago

Discussion/Question Let's talk about the club scene....

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I suppose arena shows and festivals have ruined the club scene for me. I went to a show tonight, melodic house, which isn't really my thing in general. It was at a club venue. The amount of coked up jackasses with no spatial awareness, college girls who pregamed to blackout before they even got to the show, and people shoving through the crowd was insane. The PLUR community just ain't there... I blame the preponderance of other substances besides just the happy ones that you get at festivals 😆😆😆


r/aves • • 3h ago

Photo/Video Most mellow edm festival

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r/aves • • 7h ago

Discussion/Question Sling bag

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Hello, i’ve been going to raves lately but i find myself worrying about my belongings getting stolen or just not comfortable with all my stuff in my pockets.

So i’ve been looking for a rave/sling bag, any recommendations?

I don’t want a very big one. I would like it to hold a water bottle and is cross body and comfortable.

Let me know of your experiences with bags or your recommendations. Thank you


r/aves • • 10h ago

Discussion/Question best raving shoes??????

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r/aves • • 3h ago

Discussion/Question my dancing was called "corny"

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new gen raver, went to my first "rave" (local club in college town that had an edm night) and i had a lot of fun dancing in a crowd of 30 people (everyone else was standing around on their phones lol.) apparently though while doing so some girl told my girlfriend that she needed to get away from me because my dancing was "super corny."

now i really don't care, most of the college kids care too much about being embarrassed (everyone recording everything doesn't help) but im more concerned about how one dances in a rave? is there a particular style of dancing im not aware of? is there dancing etiquette i could've broke?

also i know now to not hit up a college club for raves. definitely going up to austin next time.


r/aves • • 2h ago

Discussion/Question Moving people along

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We've all been there. You get to the set you've been waiting for all night, or all festival a luttle early. You get set up in the crowd, with your little spot and about 6 inches in front of you to move and dance. A half an hour into the set, someone or someones come in and decide that 6 inches look good to them and they crowd you out. I know the crowd is always shifting and it is part of the whole experience but some times are more egregious than others. Has anyone figured out a good PLUR way to tell them to keep looking elsewhere or is it impossible to do politely? Does it change things if it is one or two people or an entire train?

As an aside, when I find a spot in the crowd, I always turn to the people behind me and give them a "thumbs up/thumbs down" gesture. If I get the thumbs down, I smile and nod and keep moving.


r/aves • • 17h ago

Photo/Video Met the Crystal Method in Hawaii

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r/aves • • 8h ago

Discussion/Question Who do you consider an absolute “must see” dj?

84 Upvotes

And what genre are they? What is different about their live set vs what you can listen to online?


r/aves • • 10h ago

Discussion/Question American "raves" - wtf?

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Can someone please explain to me how are these mfs still stuck in 2013 listening to skrillex and dubstep at their festivals where they probably had to pay at least 300 $ to get in.

And I'm not even talking some niche small underground events. Like this is their actual main biggest scene right now.

Yes, I am European.


r/aves • • 21h ago

Photo/Video PsyTrance in pashupati Nepal

241 Upvotes

Land of da mystics


r/aves • • 16m ago

Discussion/Question Who got you into raving and at what show did yall get into a huge fight and never talk again?

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Roommate’s friend in college. BOO! Seattle 2023


r/aves • • 1h ago

Social Media/News Never forget why rave exists 🏳️‍🌈

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r/aves • • 11h ago

Meme Even with buffs once my stamina bar is blinking red all of my abilities go on cool down and I need about 8hrs of recovery after a show/festival.

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r/aves • • 6h ago

Discussion/Question Things I love to see people do at raves

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A list of reasons why raving will always make me feel right at home.

- bumping into someone while dancing too hard, then they turn around and start dancing with you

- dance circles

- people drinking/smoking/other stuff etc. sounds weird, but its nice that there’s a safe place to explore these things where you know that if something goes wrong, you’ll be taken care of.

- strangers looking out for each other in any way

- slutty/skimpy/wacky/crazy outfits. there’s not a lot of places you can dress like that publicly and safely without a sexual context.

- hearing screams, woops, ayyys, any sound of someone enjoying the music or the crowd connecting with each other through vocals

- taking pictures of themselves or each other

- people kissing. im so happy theyre in love and feeling each other’s souls in the moment

- people crying/having a moment and bring held or comforted by the people around them

- watching new connections being formed through compliments

- hearing everyone playing edm in their cars on the way home

- people dancing in “weird” or “ugly” ways. they’re so free and unbothered. i love it

ETA:

- people trying to sneakily do bumps but failing bc they’re 5 lines into the night already


r/aves • • 1h ago

Discussion/Question Best shoes for fest/raves (all night)

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This is a cry for help lmao. I previously had ultra boosts but cannot find ANY in my size in the entire country since they have been discontinued.

I have a very narrow long foot. Any recs/advice are helpful.


r/aves • • 11h ago

Discussion/Question I just feel the need to share my experience Friday night and the amazing people I met

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r/aves • • 22h ago

Discussion/Question Dubaween in Nashville

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Thinking about going to Dubaween for Halloween but wondering about the venue (security, parking, etc.). Anyone have any insight?

Also not seeing a lot of ppl talking about this event, is there any particular reason or is it just lost amonst all the other Halloween events?


r/aves • • 13h ago

Discussion/Question Any international ravers/techno ppl in Nantes-FR?

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Hey,

I am new to Nantes and still learning french but I am looking for ppl to go to Raves/Techno Partys. I am more in to Hard Techno and Psytrance - my fav subgenre is Forest & Jungle. I wanted to check out the Warehouse and Macadam. Is anyone interested in that?

Also let me know on this if you know any Communities/Groups or else that are here to connect for raves or post about techno/rave stuff here. (in Germany we used a lot of telegram for the rave/techno scene, idk if they use it here in Nantes/France too)


r/aves • • 6h ago

Discussion/Question Halloween Raves around Indianapolis

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Hey there! First time poster and new to the rave scene! Me and my girlfriend are looking for a rave in or near Indianapolis IN but don’t know where to look… any suggestions?