I’ll keep it as brief as possible- A good friend of mine has a truly evil step-mother. Tale as old as time, she swindled her sick father on his deathbed (he was in the hospital, days away from passing when she had him change the will to “make things easier”), and has pulled some absolutely egregious stunts on the girls (my friend and her sister), and we are concerned that she gave them false cremains when she finally agreed to give them some, a year after his death.

We have googled pictures, but still find ourselves unsure. It truly looks like gravel, and even some dirt/stems?

Any insight would be greatly appreciated. I only just found this community, and it is so wholesome. What a nice reminder that humans are capable of humanity.

We use a cargo van as our flower vehicle. We put the vases in a plastic tub but even that slides all over the place. There’s got to be a better way. Who has engineered something more stable? Tell me what you use please.