Italian guy from Northern Italy, 1.92m, dark hair, hazel eyes, physically fit. A bit shy at first in person, but once I’m comfortable I can talk about pretty much anything — especially history, nature, life goals, and random late-night conversations.

I’m more of an outdoors person than a gamer. I love long walks, hiking, quiet places, animals, and spending time in nature.

I’m looking for someone down-to-earth between 20–30 who values genuine connection and wants something serious. Bonus points if you also enjoy hiking and being outdoors.

I speak Italian, English and some Spanish.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to message me 😁.

Hey, I’m Cameron, and I’m still pretty new to North Carolina. I'm from Florida originally.

I’m looking for someone nearby who’d like to get to know each other. I enjoy hiking around the area and checking out local scenery and restaurants. I do also like traveling to different states at random for fun, but I do plan some ahead of time.

I’d really like to meet someone nearby who can show me more of the area, but I’m still open to talking to someone farther away.

SF Bay Area, divorced, no kids, empath, psychology, deep, great communicator, interesting. People, food, culture, outdoors, conversation, conspiracies, coffee, travel, MUSIC…heavy metal to EDM 🎸🪩

SAPIO love intelligence, masculinity, communication, emotional vulnerability, raw honesty, humor/wit, very open and passionate 🔥

I'm a 44-year-old man looking for a female partner for a long-term, committed, monogamous relationship, starting with friendship and taking things one step at a time.

I've realised over time that I feel most fulfilled in a relationship when I'm taking the lead and looking after my partner, using my experience and confidence to provide protection, reassurance, and guidance, making sure we're going at the right pace, and helping her to feel safe and secure. It's a dynamic where we have different but complementary roles - traditional in many respects, but not all. If this sounds appealing, please read on.

About Me

I’m single with no kids, and I’ve never been married. You won't be surprised to hear that I've had relationships before, but I've also spent long periods single, partly because I’ve been focused on other things in life, partly because I realised a long time ago that I'm much happier single than in the wrong relationship, and partly because it’s pretty rare that I meet someone I feel the right connection with. But I still dream of meeting the right person for the long term, and over the years I've developed a much better understanding of who I am and what I'm looking for. I find dating apps awful, and so I figured Reddit was worth a shot.

I’m 6 ft (1.84 m) tall, around 170 lbs (78 kg), slim, and in good shape, with blue eyes and dark brown hair. I’d like to think that I'm intelligent, well-educated, and kind. I’m honest and genuine, and I value integrity and a sense of right and wrong. I have a good job and live alone in a house that I own, and I have a great group of friends.

Fitness is important to me and I love running and spending time outdoors walking in the hills and camping. I don’t smoke, I very rarely drink, and I'm generally in bed by 10pm. I'll happily spend weekends wandering around old castles or exploring National Trust properties. I also love quiet nights in with a book or a film, board games (including chess), and occasional trips to the theatre, live music, or comedy. I’m someone who tends to have a small number of close friends rather than being part of large groups.

As I said above, I really enjoy taking the lead in a relationship - but this is leadership as a responsibility. It only happens when my partner has grown to trust me to play that role in her life, and it's a privilege, not a right. I tend to work well with someone who can be anxious or over-think at times, because I enjoy making decisions and guiding someone, and because I understand the importance of patience and trust. When we reach the point where you trust me to look after you and to take some of your worries off your shoulders, it can allow the hyper-vigilant part of your mind to switch off, letting you truly relax and feel safe. Being trusted by my partner to play that role in her life is enormously rewarding for me.

I'm not religious, but I don't mind if you are, as long as our values match. I'm not looking to have children (it's a long story, which I'm happy to explain). I don't really fit a political category, because my views vary on different topics. But if you're very extreme in any direction (in UK terms), we're probably not a good match.

Who I’m Looking For

I’m looking for a woman who is single, never married, with no kids. Someone who is intelligent, articulate, caring, sweet, genuine, and loving. I tend to find shyness and introversion attractive, partly because I love the sensitivity that goes with it. I'm not going to specify an age range because I think the connection we have, our shared values and interests, and the kind of relationship we both want are all more important.

I want to meet someone I can talk to about everything and anything, and who dreams of looking after her partner in her own devoted way. Someone who loves books and values education and intellectual curiosity. Someone who feels completely unsuited to modern swipe culture and the disposable attitude to dating. Perhaps you dream of living in a Jane Austen novel, or you just want to meet a man with old-fashioned values, with whom you can take time to feel truly comfortable and be your whole self, without feeling pressured to rush things.

I'm looking for someone who enjoys a mix of time outdoors or with other people and quiet time at home with a book, a series, or a film. I'd like my partner to share my active lifestyle and for us both to keep ourselves in decent shape (but that doesn't mean you need to be a gym nut).

I’m looking for someone who takes dating and relationships seriously and who has never been into casual encounters. I don't mind if you’re inexperienced or if you’re not sure what you’re looking for - I'm happy to gently take the lead and guide you as we slowly get to know each other.

I’m happy to hear from people outside the UK, but it needs to be realistic for us to see each other regularly, and you'd need to be comfortable relocating here in the long run.

Say Hello

I'm happy to chat with anyone who's curious - there'll never be any pressure from me. But if we want to move beyond friendship, I’ll want to exchange SFW photos, then voice/video call, and then meet - I'm not looking for an online relationship. I will never send or ask for NSFW photos. I need an emotional and intellectual connection with someone before we move beyond friendship. I really hope you're the same.

If you think we might get on, message me with your age and location. There's no need to comment first - just DM me.

(Sorry about the picture I’m not very photogenic) Hello I am 20, straight, white, stoner, hypersexual, ADHD filled, funny little guy looking for a new girlfriend (or even just a friend right now), I was in a serious relationship for about two years before it fully dawned on me that we were unfortunately just not compatible no matter how hard we tried, she’s moved on pretty fast but personally it’s been very hard for me cause I’m socially inept, not in college, and the people in my town are pretty awful so I gave up on dating here altogether, I just want someone I can watch shows with, play games with, and send memes to (maybe even sleep on call with potentially) but I want to go slower than my last relationship because things with her went way too fast and I’m trying to focus on healing, it just so happens that it’s really hard for me to cope with being alone. I’m into lots of different fandoms: The Binding of Isaac, Spelunky, South Park, Kirby, Invincible, Regular Show, Fortnite, Pizza Tower, Mewgenics, Family Guy, Sonic, just to name a few, I’m really into music as well so I’d be down to trade playlists or songs anytime（⌒▽⌒)

Im a lover of all things horror and hopefully you are too. Im a bit of a gamer fallout, dark souls, doom etc. Currently playing red dead on my ps3. I was a chef for 15 years and still love to cook just not for work. Im pretty creative i mostly play guitar but i draw on occasion and i have been known to write a short story or two. My music taste are mostly metal and punk but i love everything especially 80s.

I love to read im always in the middle of a book and have a back log. Most nights you can find me at home watching a movie or show but that doesnt mean i dont want to go out, i just would rather be home with my cat lol. I love being outside doing small hikes or camping, i mountain bike at least twice a week.

I have a kid but do not want more. Im living in texas right now but moving to colorado in about a year

About me:

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So I'm currently in Texas but I will be moving to Delaware/ surrounding states in 3 - 4 ish years. I'm definitely the stupid goofy type, I love a good running bit. Art is a really big part of my life, I crochet, make jewelry, and draw. I have six pet parakeets and they are my whole world, I am constantly talking about them lol. I love weird conspiracy theories, and stories about cryptids and stuff. I'm currently working on learning how to take apart and understand DS consoles (I'm not tech savvy at all lol). I'm currently working on losing weight, and am currently plus sized you know big thighs, big boobs, cute face, all that jazz. But you know what they say thick thighs save lives.

What im looking for :

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I'm looking for that old school romance, courting each other, flowers, cute goodnight texts. You know taking things slow, and truly getting to know one another. I think shared experiences are important in relationships, and because of that I am strictly Les4Les. I'm looking for a woman who is 23 - 34 years old, and knows exactly what she wants. I typically am more attracted to alternative, masc, soft masc women ,but it's not really a deal breaker if you aren't.

Deal breakers:

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* No drugs of any kind, no vaping weed or any of that. The occasional alcoholic beverage is okay though.

* Must be strictly monogamous.. and no being friends with your exes. Being friends with someone you've seen naked is weird.

* I am atheist and moderate / independent. So I would prefer someone with similarish views. Basically no one who is Christian /Christian adjacent. Politically I would prefer someone who is more left-leaning/ moderate, but as long as you're like not a MAGA Republican it would probably be fine

* Although I do adore cats and dogs I am highly allergic to them . Do I still pet them? Absolutely I do. Do I regret it later? Absolutely I do. I know I'm not happy about it either. 😭😭😭 So if one day we do move in together and you have those animals there would have to be a lot of precautions put in place.

To let me know that you read my whole post please tell me your favorite conspiracy theory / your favorite cryptid.

Just looking for someone who understands me. Shoot me a message and we can talk.

Howdy everyone, my name is Will I'm 23 years old currently living in Wyoming but always open to relocating. Honestly looking for my future wife, I really want a family so if that's not something you want please don't message me. I'm 6'1 220 lb approximately. I love video games reading and going on late night drives listening to music.

Hey! I’m Cameron and I’m 25 from Scotland looking to date someone ideally in Scotland… maybe in time for the Christmas markets? I’ve been single most of my life and haven’t had much luck with dating so far but I’m not letting that stop me this Christmas! So here’s a few things about me:

I love going to the gym! I go most days and have been for the last few months and it’s done wonders for me! I’m a bit of a lowkey nerd, I love marvel, a bit of stars wars, game of thrones etc and love video games! I also love going to watch the football most weekends and hanging out with people in general. I like to read too and mainly read sci fi, fantasy and horror. I’m also trying to learn Spanish through Duolingo (2 year streak)! I have a maths degree but I’m still searching for what I want to do in life. Im 6ft, slim (trying to be more muscular), have brown hair and blue eyes.

I’m looking for a girl who’s sweet, kind, and would like to spend time together. My main love languages are touch and time together so if we hit it off I’d like to see you as much as I can :) I would like someone where we can make each other smile and get invested in each others life and be curious about each others day.

I’m sure there’s a ton of stuff I’ve forgot to put in here but I guess you can find that out if you want to chat or go on a date in future! Oh and if you do want to chat message me with your favourite colour and flower in your message!

Hi there strangers!

I'm a short girl who works in wildlife. Think early game drives, camera in hand, and lots of animal spotting.

Things I love: travel, wildlife, photography, anything outdoors (but not clubs, I'm just not a club person!), reading and writing, comedy, cinema and musicals, and gaming. I'm also a horror and gore movie enthusiast, so if you have a good recommendation, I'm listening. I love to dance, though I have two left feet.

I'm currently learning Japanese and Korean and plan to visit Japan next year. I'd love to meet people who are Japanese or Korean, or who are learning the languages themselves, to chat, practice, swap stories, and see where it goes.

If any of this sounds like you, send me a message and tell me your favorite horror movie or the most beautiful place you've ever been!

Hi! 💗 I’m a 21-year-old Latina-Caribbean girl living in Florida, looking to meet guys in Florida who are interested in getting to know someone genuinely and seeing where things go.
I’d describe myself as bubbly, ambitious, imaginative, particular, and very independent-minded. I have a lot of different interests, and I love that about myself. I’m the kind of girl who can spend a whole day studying, then go out exploring the city, arrange flowers, and come home with three new hobbies I suddenly want to try.

୨୧ A little about me
I’m currently studying Psychology and Business. Outside of academics, my interests are a little all over the place in the best way.
I love reading, poetry, journaling, ballet, flower arranging, volunteering, and exploring new places. I’m happiest near the beach or in the water, and I enjoy water sports and activities like beach volleyball and tennis. I’m also interested in etymology, chess, coding, and trying new creative projects. I like having things to work toward, but I also love following my curiosity just because something catches my attention. I enjoy gaming, anime, and comics. Attack on Titan is my favorite anime, and I’m currently reading Irredeemable.
I’m also trying to get into football, so bonus points if you’re willing to be my personal football tutor. I’m a romantic at heart, but I have plenty of interests and ambitions outside of romance.

♡ What I’m hoping to find
I’m pretty new to dating and haven’t had the typical relationship experience, so I’m approaching this with an open mind and genuine intentions. I’m not looking to rush into a relationship just to say I have one. I’d rather meet someone, get comfortable with each other, and see whether we develop a connection.
I’m hopelessly romantic, and I love both talking and listening. I’d love a guy who is respectful, affectionate, patient, emotionally mature, and comfortable communicating how he feels. Someone who can make me laugh, hold an interesting conversation, put thought into a date, and make it clear that he’s genuinely excited to be around me.
You don’t need to share every hobby with me; I think it’s lovely when two people can introduce each other to new things. Maybe I’ll get you interested in poetry or anime, and you’ll teach me something completely new. Maybe we’ll discover a shared hobby neither of us expected. Pretty words are lovely, but consistency matters more to me than promises.

୨୧ A personal preference
I’m a virgin, and I’d prefer to meet someone who is also a virgin. It’s important to me that my first sexual experience is with someone who shares that experience and understands the importance of patience, trust, and mutual respect. I want to take my time getting to know someone and build a genuine connection before intimacy becomes part of the relationship.

♡ A few things to know before messaging me
I’m looking for guys in Florida. I’m open to starting online and eventually meeting in person if we click.
I’m 21, and I’m not interested in dating someone 9–10 years older than me. Please respect that boundary and save us both the time.
If you’ve made it this far, tell me something interesting about yourself instead of just saying “hey.” What are you passionate about? What’s a niche interest you could ramble about for an hour? What’s your dream for the future, your favorite fictional universe, or your idea of a perfect date?
I’m curious what you’ll come up with. Maybe we’ll have something in common, maybe you’ll introduce me to something new, or maybe we’ll surprise each other.
Let’s start with a conversation and see where it takes us. ♡

Hello everyone!

I'm a 36yo guy from Northern California, hoping to find someone interested in building a genuine romantic connection. I'm open to people of all genders and walks of life, and while I don't have a rigid idea of what a relationship needs to look like, I do know the kind of connection I'd like to experience.

A little about me:

I'm an extremely introverted person with an overactive mind and an endless appreciation for entertainment and storytelling. Video games, anime, movies, music, nerd culture in general. These are the things that occupy a lot of my free time and frequently inspire my conversations.

I'm also a bit of a philosophical wanderer. I enjoy exploring ideas, questioning conventional wisdom, and having conversations that go somewhere unexpected. You don't have to agree with me. Sometimes a good disagreement is more interesting than agreeing about everything.

Life has given me a somewhat cynical perspective, but I'm considerably softer around people I care about. I'm loyal, curious, and genuinely interested in learning what makes someone tick. Tell me about your favorite comfort show, the food you could eat every day, or something you're passionate about that nobody ever asks you about. I love those little details.

What am I looking for?

Someone emotionally mature, communicative, and genuinely interested in getting to know another person. I'm pretty shy romantically, so someone who's confident, direct, and comfortable taking the initiative would be especially welcome.

I don't need us to share every hobby. I'd actually love to discover new interests through someone else. But curiosity and a willingness to engage with each other's passions are important to me.

I also value independence and personal space. One of my favorite ideas of companionship is simply sharing a room while doing our own things. Maybe I'm gaming while you're reading, drawing, or watching something. We occasionally exchange a joke, share something interesting, and enjoy the comfort of being together without needing to fill every silence.

A little transparency:

I'm currently experiencing housing and financial hardships. I'm working toward greater stability, but I understand that my circumstances aren't what everyone is looking for in a potential partner.

I'm not seeking financial support or someone to take responsibility for my situation. I respect people's boundaries and expectations, and I'd rather be upfront than have someone feel misled later.

One important thing:

I'm looking for a connection that can eventually exist outside a screen. I'm happy to start with messages and get comfortable with someone, but meeting in person is a major goal for me. California is strongly preferred, particularly Northern California, though I'm open to people elsewhere in the US if meeting is realistically possible.

I'm not particularly concerned with traditional gender roles or appearances. Chemistry, maturity, curiosity, and mutual effort matter much more to me.

If any of this resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself, what you're looking for, or just introduce me to something you love that you think more people should experience.

Maybe we'll find something worth exploring together. Toodles.

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16 years ago I was in a bad accident that almost killed me. It changed my life. Getting better took everything I had, and I had to commit my whole self to recovery to become me again. I made it, and I finally feel like myself.

While I was recovering, I dated someone who lied and cheated. I've moved past that, and now I know exactly what I want.

I'm looking for something real: honesty, loyalty, and someone to build a family with. If you have a kid or kids, that's great with me.

I'd love to meet someone soulful, someone with a spiritual side or a faith that matters to them. I respect all beliefs. I just connect best with someone who has that depth.

I like hikes, walks, comedy shows, movies, going out for a nice dinner or cooking at home. I keep a clean house and I take care of myself. I'm not looking for someone to take care of me. I want to be there for someone.

If that sounds good, send me a message and tell me what makes you laugh.

UK nerd who would love to find a fellow nerd to develop a close relationship with. I love all things Doctor Who and ASOIAF related, but I have many others fandoms and interests too! I love most Bethesda games, Fallout and Skyrim mainly, with some Stardew Valley thrown in for when I’m feeling like I want to pretend to be a country farmer.

I’m a total homebody, and love to stay inside and relax with a nice TV show or movie. I am however, willing to get taken out on a long walk or relaxing hike, if you promise we can hold hands the whole time.

Hopefully this has caught someone’s interest! Even if we don’t match up n terms of fandoms and interests, shoot me a message anyway and maybe we could both find a new interest from each other! I love exploring new books, movies and TV shows, and video games as well!

UK people would be amazing but I am open to long distance stuff as well.

Hello im 27 Years old ,im From From Brazil , im Very romantic, afectionate,, caring And cilngy . Im looking for a clingy woman,a Very romantic, afectionate, cute Woman .

I love to Write fanfics,read books. I love Marvel, DC, Star Wars,Lord Of the Rings,Ben 10, dragon ball etc

About Me:
Age / Location: 20, Louisiana, Shreveport/CST

What I look like: Brown skin brown eyes, on the slim side, 5’6, my style is casual or street casual

What I do: Teacher, Software Dev Major, Focusing on work, school, and hobbies

Hobbies & Interests: I like cooking, gaming, watching movies, listening to music, gym, going out

What I’m Looking For:
Im a trans man thats never dated before or been in a relationship. And I want either an older, mature couple to be with so I can learn and experience being in a relationship, or people thats around my age that I can bond and build a connection with.

Im not big on texting but I can do that, I would hope that a plan to meet or go out on a date would be in the works after talking for atleast a week. That is if we seem to vibe well.

I can get along with anyone as long as you’re certain on what you want and are honest, I cant deal with people that string others along.

Open to local people, and online but it has to turn into meeting in person! I dont want anything strictly online

If interested in getting to know each other, send me a message! Tell me a bit about yourself and what you’re looking for relationship wise, or what you’re offering as im open to joining an already established relationship. No blank "hey" messages, please get to the point.

Lastly for couples it would be helpful if I could speak to both partners instead of one and them speaking on the behalf of the partner, I dont want to feel like im being set up for a more personal one on one relationship with one partner.

So yeah Im open to couples and other singles looking to form a relationship.

I'm a 29 year old veteran living in Los Angeles looking for a girl to marry and start a family with, not right away of course. We will of course take it slow and get to know each other but I don't want to date just for datings sake, I want it to lead somewhere meaningful. A bit about me I'm currently going to school for Businesses Administration and living in the Little Tokyo neighborhood of Los Angeles, I like to go on long walks, I recently got back into the gym, I like to volunteer and do spiritual things like visiting temples. I would say I'm a good person who likes to help others as much as possible to a fault. I want to meet someone who is also good and kind hearted and is family oriented I prefer spiritual people over religious people but I'm not picky. Hope to hear from you! - Drew

Hey There,

I’m Jr. Been separated since November 2025 and officially divorced as of August.

Honestly, trying to find a connection after being with someone for 11+ years is weird as hell. The dating scene sucks ass, It feels like nobody knows how to hold a conversation anymore, and I’m over here trying to figure out how to even do this shit again. 😂😭

I live in GA and have plenty of male friends, my day ones since high school, but when it comes to female friends, I really only have 1 or 2 who are childhood friends. Over the years, most of my other female friendships kinda drifted away because I was in a serious relationship and eventually got married. Now I’m single and realizing I don’t even know how to meet people anymore lol.

Going out with the boys, meeting someone here and there, maybe swapping Instagrams, but nothing ever really goes anywhere. Dating apps aren’t much better. People either barely respond or are just too young and not at a point in life where they have their shit together enough for me to see myself building a connection with them.

I’m a pretty simple dude. I like gaming, off-roading/overlanding, cars, camping, music, good food, and cats. If I met someone who was even remotely into a few of those things, I’d feel like I hit the damn lottery, I’m also into other things too but these are the hobbies interests that I have rekindled during my whole separation and divorce.

Idk, I guess I’m just putting myself out there. If you wanna chat, be friends, or even help me get my feet wet again and build up some confidence talking to women, I’d be down for that. And if you’re just looking for someone to talk to, I’m cool with that too.

Honestly, I think I just need a genuine friendship with someone who isn’t a dude I can talk to when I get stuck in my own head, keep myself occupied, and feel a little less alone through this whole adjustment. Someone outside of my usual circle of the boys who I can talk to about life and whatever else comes up.

No pressure or expectations. Just looking for genuine connections and seeing where things go.

HMU if you wana chat, you can find my IG easily, same as my username if you wana see more of my interests or hobbies and whatever else you wana see I guess lol

I’m Chrissy. I’m a 26 year old graduate student who is passionate about mental health, disability rights, animal rights, and making the world a better place.

I love psychology, anime, poetry, writing, sewing, horror movies, podcasts, swimming, etc. Day to day I enjoy exploring new coffee shops, spending time with my animals, going to the movies, and finding new hobbies to take up or adventures to go on. I am also neurodivergent and choose to live sober, so a potential partner has to be okay with that. I am plus size, size 24-26 and completely confident in that at this time, but am also focused on my health and recently lost 75 pounds. However, my partner would need to be just as confident in my body as I am, regardless of potential for more weight loss.

I’m looking for someone who shares at least some of my interests, particularly an interest in movies would be nice. Other qualities I’d like
-Good communicator
-Emotionally intelligent
-Kid free
-24-35 years old
-Interested in understanding and getting to know me, asks questions
-Ambitious
-Intelligent

Thanks!

Hey there! Thought I'd throw caution to the wind- or am I throwing spaghetti at a wall? 🍝 Nobody knows anymore. I'm based in Sydney. I am extremely passionate about bats, bees, Australian wildlife, conservation, permaculture and sustainability. Looking for friends or more, with other like minded individuals. I am mostly attracted to tall, brunette guys with long hair who are huge plant and animal nerds, as well!.. So thats an extra bonus if you fit that description! I am Audhd, so meeting other ND ppl is ideal too. If you hate crowds of ppl, and prefer to stay home and garden, and read a book most days, please say hello to me! We can be introverted, together. Because at this stage, I am dead set against using dating apps anytime soon and unless my future husband decides to pull a Santa claus down the chimney, I'm going to just be a chicken and dog lady and forget about love. No pressure, hey? 🤣

I do NOT want kids.

Please do not message me if ur younger than 28 or older than 40- Thank you!