r/STD • u/miguelcruz2503 • 17h ago
Syphilis NSFW
Hey guys so I’m here to tell my current situation as it is making me very confused and I would and I need you guys (and people with medical knowledge) to help me out on this. So, I, 24M have been dating this guy, 25M for about 4 months now and we have been having unprotected oral and anal sex. Last week he said he “injured” himself during masturbation and a little ulcer appeared on his glans. We spent the weekend together but did not have any sexual contact because I was not comfortable during whatever when he was injured and wanted him to heal. Some days ago he told me some inguinal lymph nodes started appearing on his thigh so he went to the ER to get checked. Turns out it was syphilis. He told me this and ever since I’ve been real confused about the situation. He tells me he wasn’t with anyone during our time together. I went out and got tested and me VDLR came back negative. Went to the ER anyway and got a penicillin shot anyway. Never had any symptom or any lesion. Also I wasn’t with anyone else during the time we were together. I was tested Jan 2026 and other than this guy, I had sexual encounter with another gay (in March) and we used protection. So my question here is, how does he get syphilis out of the blue? It’s not like it just appears like that right? I’m thinking he might have been with someone else and not telling me? What’s your opinion on this? I’m very confused and all of this is making me real anxious. I appreciate if you read it until the end and please feel free to leave your comments here!