Hello, I'm 39, from the UK.

I am auDhd but I do work and have my own friends, I just don't like certain sounds sometimes lol

I really love art, books, music (mainly mid west emo/pop punk/post punk) TV and film and walks in forests and mushroom hunting.

If that's a bit of you let me know

My life is pretty boring, just working Monday to Friday and checking out new food spots on weekends. Recently, I had a crush on a coworker, and it felt great having that fun little spark again. But I just found out he’s married, so that's a no-go.
Anyone want to fill the spot?

Hi, everyone! I decided to try looking for a life partner here, since it’s hard to find someone compatible in real life.

About me:

·        I’m calm and very introverted, but I genuinely enjoy building meaningful connections. It takes me some time to get comfortable with someone, but once I become attached, I’m very caring, affectionate, and loyal. I’m not looking for anything rushed. I’d rather get to know someone naturally and see where it goes.

·        I live in Kazakhstan, but I speak English fluently. I decided to look for someone abroad because I’ve found it difficult to meet men whose views on family and children align with mine. I don’t consider myself conservative, as I don’t want a traditional family where I’m expected to be a mother and a housekeeper. I’d rather have an equal partnership.

·        I don’t follow any religion.

·        As for my appearance, I’m Asian, slim, and of average height.

Potential deal-breakers:

·        I love cats and animals in general. I used to have four cats, but unfortunately, I had to rehome them because of my allergies. Because of my cat and dust allergies, I can’t live with furry animals, including dogs. Even hairless cats like Sphynx cats aren’t an option for me.

·        I spent a lot of my adult life struggling with depression and anxiety and feeling disconnected from life. Recently, though, I’ve decided that I want to start living and enjoying the little things. I’ve been pushing myself to go for walks, getting into yoga and Pilates (I’m still a beginner, though), exploring music I genuinely enjoy, and occasionally watching history videos and movies. I know these are simple things, but they’re a big deal to me. After years of barely feeling interested in anything, it’s really nice to feel that little spark of curiosity and enjoyment coming back. Despite my struggles, I’ve never been unemployed.

·        I don’t smoke, drink alcohol, or use drugs.

·        I’m childfree.

·        I can’t drive and get motion sickness after more than an hour in a car or on a bus, so long road trips aren’t for me. I’m open to learning to drive, and I’ve never had any issues travelling by plane or train.

·        I’m lactose intolerant. I’ve found some lactose-free dairy products where I live, but there aren’t many options, which limits the range of foods I can prepare.

Who I’m looking for:

·        Someone looking for a genuine connection that could eventually develop into a real-life relationship. I’d like to meet someone patient and kind, because there are still days when life feels gloomy.

·        Someone who is also introverted.

·        Someone who isn’t strongly religious.

·        Someone who communicates openly and puts some thought into their replies. I don’t expect long essays either, a happy medium would be great. We don’t always have to talk about deep topics, chatting about everyday life is fine too.

·        Our interests don’t have to match, but I’d love it if we enjoyed some of the same movie genres. I’m into psychological thrillers, horror (except for body horror), and science fiction.

·        My preferred age range is 30–40.

·        Someone who takes their health seriously, eats reasonably well, exercises moderately (you don’t have to be a fitness enthusiast), and keeps up with regular medical check-ups.

·        Someone who is happy with a childfree life and understands that living without pets is a necessity for me.

·        I’m open to relocating for the right person. I speak English and Russian fluently.

If you think we might get along, please send me a message telling me a little about yourself!

To get the elephant in the room out first yes I'm really 6'9(not the internet kind).

No, I won't answer the obvious height related follow up in this post. Some things are better discovered than declared.

Former nurse turned construction guy, so I know how to take care of people and build things that last. I'm calm under pressure, steady in my decisions and comfortable when it feels right. I don't need to be loud to be confident. I just show up, handle what needs handling and make sure people i care about are taken care of.

I'm a nerd at heart. I'll talk music theory, random documentaries or why that one movie deserves an Oscar. I play guitar (well enough), used to play basketball so I know a thing or two about the importance of team play, but nowadays I channel most of that competitive energy into trying to be the best possible dad. Being a single dad gave me patience, depth and zero interest for chaos.

I flirt slowly. intentionally. I like the kind of chemistry that builds. Standing a little closer than necessary, brushing your hand just long enough to make a point, eye contact that says more than words. Protective, not possessive. Direct, not arrogant. Confident enough that I don't need to oversell anything.

I'm looking for someone over 30 who knows what she wants and isn't afraid of strong energy, emotionally or otherwise. Affectionate, self-aware,playful. Someone who appreciates a man that can make her feel safe at one minute and slightly distracted the next.

If you miss being desired with intention come say hi.

Let's see if we measure up in more ways than one.

Off work early today and will keep this point short and sweet. Looking for long term friendships because adult life is boring. Pretty much looking for interesting conversations, I am into working out, playing tennis, NBA and travelling. I'm a doctor and love it but stresses me out. Anyone else big coffee fans out there? ask me more!

I'm 38, from a small southern Ohio town. I've been single for over 3 years with no luck on any apps. It's probably because I'm not really a conventional person. I'm pretty eclectic and eccentric, from my style to my tastes and apparently even my looks.

I'm tall and skinny with long mutton chops that I wouldn't change for the world. I have 2 boys (6 and 7), and there's no drama with their mama. We share custody 50/50. In person, I'm rather shy, probably because I'm constantly analyzing everything I'm about to say to make sure I don't come off wrong, while at the same time knowing everyone's opinions of me are based on completely different things, their experiences, preferences, etc.

Interest-wise, I love music of almost any kind. I like analyzing lyrics and discovering the meaning behind them. Some concerts I've been to this year include St. Paul and the Broken Bones, Breakaway Festival to see GRiZ, and Railbird Festival mostly for The Lumineers and Tyler Childers, although there were a lot of others I wanted to see. I took the kids to see The Aquabats, Weird Al, and then Everclear. On Halloween, I'll be seeing GRiZ again, then Streetlight Manifesto in November. That kind of gives you an idea of my music tastes, except there's a lot more than just those.

I like psychology, sociology, and philosophy. I enjoy making my own clothes and hand embroidering. I like art of any type, the weirder, the better. I like rocks, minerals, fossils, oddities, and curiosities. Pretty much anything with a story.

I really just want someone to talk to daily, as I don't have many people I'd consider actual friends. Life gets lonely when your kids are pretty much the only people you interact with outside of work. It also makes you hate hearing your phone go off when it's almost always something work-related.

I can be kind of weird, and I may sometimes say the wrong things, but I am loyal and honest.

I am a 37-year-old German who has been living in the U.S. for many years and has a job, but I often feel bored in the evenings and on weekends; I would like to meet some close friends of a similar age

I’m looking for friends, to yap, to spill the tea, to share a laugh. I don’t care what’s in your pants, might it be a sausage, a bun or doom. I’m a former physics student now working a blue collar job in a backwater region of Quebec. I have my certified babysitting course also!

Let’s talk about nonsense!

Let’s hear want other people had to say about me!

« You’re the dumbest smart person I know. »
-My father, after sticking my tongue on a metal shovel in the dead of winter.

« Are you sure you aren’t gay? »
-My homophobic mother, at dinner, in front of numerous guests, in several occasions

« You seem slightly distracted, I’ll prescribe you 40mg of vyvanse. »
-My first shrink

« Why did he prescribe you vyvanse? It’s basically amphetamines, Its most current side effect is anxiety. »
-My second shrink

« Jesus suffering Christ, we should see other people. »
-My third shrink

« Thank you. »
-An ex-girlfriend after I told her I loved her for the first time

If you’re still not convinced. Know that I’m not only forklift certified, but I’m also a forklift instructor. You too can be forklift certified!

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Irish male ,37 ,well travelled ,like reading ,a big lord of the rings fan (books and soundtrack to the films ),gaming and watching sci-fi films ,sick of the dating sites and hoping to make a connection here ...still quite active on the sports field when time allows ,happy to chat about anything,send funny memes ,while away the day, marked nsfw because why not ,live and let live

Just putting myself out here!! Who knows… a good conversation, genuine connection, a meaningful relationship? We never know until we try :)

Sfw only!

Good conversation, questionable jokes, and a fresh hello

I’ve had some great conversations here before, so I thought I’d give it another go. I’m a 54-year-old guy who enjoys rock music, a little humor, and the kind of chat that starts with “How’s your day?” and somehow ends up debating life, music, or the best road-trip snacks.

I’m here for a genuine connection and easy conversation—no pressure, no interview questions, and no need to pretend we’ve both read the same book. If you’re kind, curious, and can appreciate a well-timed bad joke, say hello. Tell me what song you’d put on for a long drive, and I’ll try not to judge your answer too harshly.

I am an honest, laid back, fun, no Drama kinda guy. I like being independent and having my own things. Currently working and seeing where life take me next.

I love to laugh, festivals, the beach and just anything fun. I don't do clubs but I like a staying up all night. I would love to chat with someone who can make a simple day into one special and full of adventures.

I'd like to talk with someone, laid back, adventurous and specially a talkative person. Someone who has the time and energy to explore a new friendship. Vent, talk about life, about anything in our mind. Someone who is actually tired of her current daily life and want something new with the hopes of it becoming long term adventure.

Let's avoid the one word answers. I ask toooons of questions but I don't want to be the only one asking. If anything i said caught your attention then send me a message.

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I'm a big fan of camping, national parks, road trips, and wandering around places that may or may not be haunted. I love history, mythology, folklore, and weird little facts that serve absolutely no practical purpose but will inevitably become your problem when I decide to share them.

I have a growing list of places I want to visit, an unreasonable number of interests, and a habit of deciding something sounds fun and then figuring out the logistics. I enjoy a good adventure, but I'm equally happy staying home, getting lost in a book, watching something ridiculous, or going down an internet rabbit hole at 11 PM.

I dabble in tarot and spirituality, enjoy all things spooky, and have a sense of humor that leans heavily toward sarcasm and the occasional inappropriate joke. I'm not easily scared, which is probably an unfortunate personality trait for someone who likes camping alone.

I'm a mom, have a career, and generally have my life together. *Generally* is doing some heavy lifting there.

I like people who are curious, funny, a little weird, and capable of talking about more than the weather. Tell me about your niche interests, your unpopular opinions, your latest obsession, or the dumbest thing you've ever done that somehow worked out.

36 M from Midwest dad one son just looking for someone to chat with and get to know. Single dad movie buff and music buff. Love traveling and going on walks it helps clear my mind. Just looking for someone to chat with vent and share stories. Tell me your favorite movie of all time?

A little bit about me:

32, so please be at least 30

I have kids, so I need you to also have kids or be accepting

I live in the US, on the east coast but you could be from anywhere ☺️

I am NOT into nerdy things like gaming and anime

Attraction is a must, so please be willing to share what you look like and exchange pics sooner than later

I look forward to hearing from you 💕

Hey I’m 35/m white stocky bearded tattooed in west Texas. I enjoy gaming (PC), movies, tv shows, audiobooks, I’m very go with the flow person and just looking for a long term serious relationship. I can send my photo if you care to chat just let me know feel free to say hi.

Looking for someone to ride with and enjoy life. Like to listen to live music and ride my motorcycle. Also like to travel. Kinda new to this hope I get the right one’s attention. Let’s chat and see where the adventure takes us.

How’s it going? My name is Tyler and I’m 48 from Australia. I’m single, been divorced for 3 years, and have no children.
I’m looking to find someone who enjoys having a good laugh each day and likes to joke around and yet be serious when the occasion calls for it. I’ve been told I’m an excellent listener and I must admit I do enjoy a nice long story being told to me.
I enjoy hiking and try to get out most weekends around Sydney to be in nature. I also enjoy cooking, travelling, puzzles, golf and basketball.
Something I’ve been doing lately is writing and have finally written my first novel which has a post apocalyptic dark romance theme so if that’s your thing please feel free to say hello and I’d be happy to share it with you.
If you’ve got this far thanks for reading 😊

Hello everyone. In december I am visiting Los Angeles again, and I would love to meet a girl 30+ years to hang out with and who would show me the city of Los Angeles and other areas of Southern California.

About me, I have brown hair and brownish hazel eyes, I am a white european with beard and 6ft tall. I do work in the health care system plus I have a side job at an international airport.

I hope to find an easy-going, open and funny girl, preferably a caucasian, whom I can laugh with and have a good time in L.A.

If you're interested, just hit me up with a private message, I'll leave you my phone number and send you my pictures. I am even available for a video call 😊

So, I'm 38 but for me (and this will make more sense the more you get to know me) age doesn't really mean an awful lot, it's all about the connection which doesn't have an age limit..

Ideally looking for someone who like me doesn't take life or herself too seriously, loves emotional, mental and physical connection.. music is the key to my heart as well as a good smile and an even better cup of coffee ..

I have recently moved house into the countryside and currently have sheep as neighbours, and when I'm not debating with them about the state of the world I'm gardening, or I'm baking, or I'm making some new bits of furniture or messing around on my guitar.. if I'm not doing any of this I've disappeared away in my camper trying to discover a new hidden cove somewhere where I can pretend I know how to surf!

So if this 'make it up as you go' lifestyle interests you as well as open fires, river swimming and spontaneous road trips being your thing then please get in touch..

:)

...I'd spring for tacos but since this is Reddit, we'll have to rain-check that.

But, since you're here, you might as well say hello. I'm a mostly normal dude in my 40s. Divorced with grown kids and looking for connections. I like hockey, football, and typical guy stuff, but I also like to read, write, and cook.

Now that fall is here, I love sitting at a fire, and I should tell you that I have quite the collection of hoodies you can borrow if you get chilly.

Send me a chat with your age, location, and your favorite Halloween candy, and let's see what happens!

💗 A Little Shy, A Lot of Personality
I’m an introverted, independent, big-hearted woman with a creative side, a nerdy streak, and a sense of humor that comes out once I’m comfortable. I may be shy at first, but don’t mistake quiet for boring. There’s a lot more to me than meets the eye!
I love getting lost in a good book, coloring, gaming, listening to music, and getting lost in online rabbit holes. I’m happiest when I can enjoy the little things, laugh at the ridiculous things, and be unapologetically myself.
I’m compassionate, affectionate, and a genuinely good listener. I care deeply about the people in my life, value my independence, and believe that being kind is a strength, not a weakness. I appreciate real conversations, dark humor, and people who make me feel comfortable enough to let my guard down.
❤️** What I’m Looking For
I’m not here to force a connection or rush into something just because it looks good on paper. I want to take my time, get to know someone naturally, and see where things go.
I’m drawn to someone who is kind, unapologetically honest, emotionally mature, and comfortable being their authentic self. Someone who communicates instead of playing mind games, takes accountability, respects boundaries, and understands that a healthy connection takes effort from both people.
Give me genuine conversations, mutual respect, laughter over the silliest things, cozy nights in, and the kind of affection that feels natural. I want someone who can be my best friend as well as my partner.
**I’m not looking for perfect. I’m looking for real. Someone who sees the person behind the shyness, appreciates my heart, and wants to build something meaningful one step at a time.
💕 Your turn: Tell me your favorite book, your go-to game, or what song you could listen to a hundred times. Let’s skip the boring small talk and get to know each other!

Hello! I've had a terrible year but luckily things haver been working out these last weeks. Looking for anyone who want to talk and maybe becone friends :)

I say that if you're truly doing what makes you happy, then it's a life well-lived. Obviously making a post on Reddit is what makes me happy right now, so here's to hoping the feeling continues when we connect! I left Reddit almost a year ago after being stalked by the last person I met so, the bar is low! My name is Daniel and I want to find someone to chat long-term with who cares deeply for others and is compassionate. I definitely think I am but if those things, especially with the right person. I hope to find someone who is willing to share themselves with me. Location doesn't matter; I love to travel and have met great people everywhere!

I'd describe myself as kind, caring, and I don't take myself too seriously! I love what I do so much that I work two jobs which does take up a lot of the calendar. But, it's just me at home so it's pretty doable! When I'm home I love to work around the house even if it's just cleaning, fixing any type of thing, 3d printing and usually some other minor new thing I've found!

We all know that attraction does matter in a partner, so here's a picture taken last week after getting what feels like all my hair cut off:

https://imgur.com/a/Tin66bH

Please reach out if you're interested. I only ask that you give me a sense of who you are when you do! Chat soon -