42M, 6’3”, looking to meet someone who’s missing a little spark and connection in their life too. I’d love to find someone I genuinely look forward to talking to good conversation, laughing, flirting, and getting to know each other without forcing expectations. I’m easygoing, enjoy deeper conversations, and I’m completely open to someone with kids. Life doesn’t have to be uncomplicated, just genuine. If this sounds like something you’ve been missing too, send me a message and let’s see where the conversation goes.

Hi there,

I’m a 6'2 tall, 34-year-old german guywith an athletic build. I’m the kind of person who needs fresh air to feel alive. Whether I’m out jogging, casting a line while fishing, hiking up a trail, or cruising on my motorcycle, I love being active and outdoors.

However, I’m looking for someone to balance that energy. I have a strong preference for women who identify as BBW. I love a woman with curves, softness, and confidence in her body.

What I’m looking for in you:

• You are curvy/BBW and own it. I’m not looking for stick-thin; I’m looking for lush and lovely.
• You know how to keep a conversation flowing. I love good banter and getting to know someone beyond just "hey" and "what's up." Let’s actually talk..

Tell me your favorite way to spend a Sunday or your favorite travel spot!

I would like to share a pic early on!

I know right, me too!

As it happens, I tend to make my way across the pond every so often. I've got the passport, the funds for a couple of tickets, and the vacation time. The only thing missing? Someone amazing to share the adventure with.

So here’s the idea: hit me up and if we get along and can make a connection and can think, hey this person would be an absolute delight to go arm in arm with to some of the most beautiful places on this here rock, then hell yeah. If we click, who knows? Maybe our first great story together starts with a conversation right here.

Who is this dude with this most curious offer you ask? Well I’m a laid back fit guy who sits comfortably somewhere between a David Duchovny and Bradley Cooper in the looks department (though the latter I get told far more frequently by strangers), own my own business, artist on the side, grower of plants and keeping the yard from staging a full-blown rebellion, former chef, enjoyer of all things beautiful (including finding beauty in the most unexpected places… a bit of a bloom where you're planted sort of fellow), was an underwear model in a former life, listener of sonically amazing music and amateur music guru, I love clocks, and sometimes I travel a comically unreasonable distance to see a band that apparently considers this corner of the world beneath its touring ambitions. This has, on occasion, involved Europe. I regret nothing.

Dip your toe in and let’s see where it goes! Let me know what you’re all about and what you look like (we can exchange pictures early on). Someone local-ish would be lovely. Talk soon!

I am looking for something casual and fun to blow off some steam every now and then. I work a lot but luckily I am in control of my schedule so I can usually make the time with a little bit of heads up.

When it comes to what I am looking for, I am pretty open, however, I am not looking to jump into another super serious relationship or marriage. In the short term, I would love to have regular sex again and that's honestly what I am looking for with this post. Things typically develop from there and with that I like to keep things casual and let things flow naturally.

When I am involved with someone, to me, respect is the absolute most important thing. I will always show you respect and will always act kindly towards you. I don't believe in yelling, voice raising, or big arguments. I understand the physical power imbalance between a man and a woman and I think it is a man's duty to always make sure that his woman feels safe. In exchange, I expect the same in return and will walk away if I feel you are not living up to this agreement.

In the bedroom, I am very dominant and love being in control. I am always happy to lead our interaction and all I expect from you is to do what comes naturally to you. You won't ever have to initiate or worry about what pleases me. What pleases me most is you making yourself available to me and once there, I know where to take things. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

I am 41 years and have no kids. I have my own place about 10 minutes from the beach. I am 5'10 and weigh 158 lbs. I am white with brown hair with a touch of gray, hazel eyes, and a fit/muscular body type. I workout several times per week, and always try to take care of myself.

STD free.

I’m a regular, nerdy, educated gamer-type (see more of me in my profile) here. I’m 6’ and 160lbs. I love to game (video games and tabletop), watch movies (fantasy/horror/both), more homebody, but always down for new adventure and trying new stuff especially with good company.

Generally I have a preference for older, more mature types here. I like good manners, family-oriented, and having good personal hygiene is a must and please no drugs/cigarette smokers. If your profile is completely empty and I can’t see what you look like, I can’t respond, so if you send me a message, share a bit about yourself. Oh and include the word banana so I know you actually read all of this. Thanks

I am 42 years old, soon to be 43, and from southwest Oklahoma. I tried this last year with mixed results, and clearly nothing that lasted. I have a job that I enjoy, my own home, a few pets, and a daughter who is 21 and trying to figure her life out.

I am looking for something long term, serious, and monogamous. I am emotionally available and looking for someone who is too. I am happy to exchange pictures early and move off Reddit quickly. Long distance is fine with me as long as there is an intention to close the gap in the future. Let’s have voice and video calls, watch movies, and play games together while we figure out if this could work.

I have a broad range of interests, so I will list a few of my favorites. I enjoy golf, D&D, board games, and I would love to find a road trip partner. At heart, I am a homebody, but I do enjoy getting out if the right person is involved. I am perfectly happy when we are doing our own things 10 feet apart.

I have a great sense of humor and can definitely laugh at myself. People tell me I am sarcastic, but I’m not sure what that means. I am the kind of person who holds doors open, listens when you talk, remembers the small things, and enjoys quiet moments that actually mean something. I am affectionate, love holding hands, and will still flirt with you long after we are together.

I am hoping to find a woman between 32 and 49, give or take a few years if we click, who shares some interests with me and is as big on communication as I am. Kindness, loyalty, honesty, and affection are important to me. You must have a sense of humor and like animals. We don’t have to agree on everything as long as we respect each other’s opinions. Being a little weird in the best possible way is also welcome.

As a reward for reading all of this, I will leave you with my favorite dad joke.

Q: How much does a rainbow weigh?
A: Not a lot. It’s actually pretty light.

Please tell me your favorite color in your first message so I know you read everything, and please say more than one word.

Never done this before but I figured why not, could make a friend.

I’m on a much needed getaway and would love to connect with a lovely lady to spend time with, get some good eats, coffee tea go to a park, I workout so maybe go to the gym together. Someone around the same age, 35-50, fit, like’s being active.

I’m not looking for anything sexual, just closeness, hugs and cuddles. I’m always open to a relationship (currently single, looking for someone single as well) but I’m just not looking right now.

Felt cute might delete later. Lol. Looking forward to your dm.

I'm 41, and I've always enjoyed conversations with mature men who have a little life experience and a good sense of humor. I appreciate honesty, kindness, and people who know how to enjoy the simple things in life.

I enjoy good coffee, traveling, staying active, and meaningful conversations. I believe a genuine connection starts with friendship and grows naturally.

I'd love to get to know a kind, thoughtful man over 50. If this sounds like you, feel free to say hello!

It would be absolutely amazing to not be alone at Christmas this year.
I will probably delete this soon 😂
You know how INFJ’s are! 🤭
I live in Texas and I’m an empty nester. I was married for 25 years. Divorced for 3 years. I’m not looking for fun. I am only dating intentionally for marriage.
I have a picture of me in another post if you want to see what I look like.
God Bless!
🩷🙏✝️

Would really love to meet someone who is fairly close but I have no issues making a cool roadtrip either. Maybe we can talk for a bit and have a little fun that way.

Very outdoorsy athletic and active because I love food ha wanna love to meet up at a random mountain Airbnb and have an awesome fees days of all types of fun.

If you would like a chill conversation and maybe down for some adventures let me know….. in think it could be so much fun!!!

I also have discovered a love of cooking and trying new dishes, maybe we can spend the day making delicious food and then watch movies all night long.

If you just want someone to talk too I am also happy get to know someone that way too

And finally, a little about me: I’m 6ft 1, 185 lbs, light brown hair, pretty athletic build and have a few tattoos in various places.

If any of this sounds like a a good time, let me know !!

IMPORTANT:
1. Females only
2. If interested, send me a chat with your age, location in LA, a general idea of what you are looking to do
3. Be ready to exchange verification pictures

I am an Uber driver that gets pretty bored during the late night hours.

I would like to find a passenger that wants to meet up for some naughty fun with an Uber driver. I can pick you up and we can role play in Uber. I got the newest Tesla with all the bells and whistles that can make our encounter fun. Auto pilot that can drive us around as you give road head, a big screen I can turn porn on, and back seats that go all the way down so you can lie and see the stars through the sunroof.

Or maybe you want me to be your Uber Eats delivery driver and I can make a deliver to your place for some naughty fun.

I am open to other kinks you may have, just send me a chat.

About me: I have a picture on my profile. I'm Caucasian, 32, 5'9, 160 lbs, sane, down to earth, clean shaven face, uncircumcised cock.

I am DDF and tested clean as of last month and I expect you to be the same. Any penetrating sex will be with a condom.

About you: 18+, fit to chubby, HWP, attractive, clean, DDF and recently tested.

Everything will be descrete and NSA.

In the United Kingdom - Wrexham area Clwyd-Wales not far from Chester and Liverpool...

56 Dom Man in shape 182 lbs thin fit 6`0" Dad bod type looking to meet younger than me female Seeking someone fun, open, submissive, can be inexperienced, but eager to learn to please..

Up for meeting anyone genuine and up for discreet mutual fun; maybe a student or older who secretly or otherwise, enjoys the company of an older man with the opportunity for some discreet fun

enjoy Giving the ladies kink play i use Toys and other items to bring pleasure to the woman i`m with safe sex and after care is always given..

or maybe wanting to work towards something more FWB or Relationship..

Happy to chat here or on some other socials..

42 / White / Single Mom / 5'11" / North County San Diego (Carlsbad area)

I’m stepping out of my comfort zone to see if lightning might strike here. At the end of the day, I’m a warm, sweet, grounded woman who values peace, depth, and real emotional safety. I’m comfortable in my own skin, manage my own household and career, and am fiercely devoted to my six-year-old son.

I’m specifically looking to connect with a Black man (Blerds to the front!) who is grounded, active, respectful, and knows how to show up consistently. High emotional intelligence, a calm, protective presence, and real confidence are huge green flags. I am 5'11" and love my height, and to be clear I am completely open to a partner who is shorter than me, as long as you've got the confidence to own standing next to a tall Amazon woman! :)

A little about me:

• The Vibe: Tall, dark haired, warm-hearted, low-drama, and naturally sweet once trust is built.
• Day-to-Day: Low-impact gym sessions, home-cooked meals (big fan of my Instant Pot and weekend baking), slow mornings, and building a peaceful life for my family.
• What I Value: Clear communication, strong physical and emotional chemistry, and feeling safe enough to drop my guard and just be soft.

To weed out low-effort auto-dms and make sure you read to the end, please include ONE of the following in your first message:

1. Your age, location, and a quick intro (classic ASL), OR
2. Your absolute favorite rom-com, OR
3. Your ultimate go-to breakfast spot or meal.

Messages without one of these answers will be ignored.

Hey just looking for someone to chat with initially and friendship or relationship if it works out well.
 
Prefer other Aussies as I’d like to be able to catch up if it goes well. I’m in NSW.
 
A bit about me – I’m divorced with kids. I enjoy all things outdoors, camping, hiking, fishing. I enjoy reading, tv shows, movies, sports, cooking.
 
I love spending time with my kids, but starting to miss having someone to talk with about everything and anything.
 
Hit me up if you are keen to chat.

“I've had enough of the world and its people's mindless games…”

Bonus if you know the title reference song!

So why am I here today? I have no idea, but life has been feeling very lonely lately. I'm just stuck in a rut and trying to find my way out. I'm just going through the motions right now. I miss having someone to talk to, either on the phone or texting, sending random memes or thoughts, just the generally fun banter and shit talking we all love.

I am the SoCal area, all over really from LA, OC to the SGV. I'm usually where ever the good food is at. Speaking of food, my next spot to visit is King Banh Mi in Westminster. That crispy pork banh mi looks like it was made for me.

I'd love to talk to someone local and maybe hang out some day, but I am open to chatting with anyone in the US. Mean people need not apply. Dog lovers, please do apply. I am some what of a nerd for Marvel and DC, cars as well. I can annoyingly quote any Fast and the Furious movie. I also enjoy going to the movies, for horror movies I will be reading the Wiki before hand because I'm smart like that.

Well, that's all I got for now. But don’t let this distract you from the fact that Hector is going to be running three Honda Civics with Spoon engines, and on top of that, he just went into Harry’s and bought three t66 turbos with NOS, and a Motec exhaust system.

DMs Open!

Hey there! I'm 30M from Italy, and I'm putting this out there because I'd love to connect with someone open minded and a bit playful for daily chats, with the possibility of meeting up in person down the road.

A quick rundown of who I am:

• I love being outside, hiking and camping are some of my favorite things
• Grabbing a coffee or a spritz with friends is always a good time
• I actually enjoy cooking, just not for myself, I get too lazy when it's only me
• Movies and anime are my thing, plus I read for fun and keep starting DIY projects I never quite finish
• I'm 6'5, with brown hair, brown eyes, and a beard

Hit me up, I'd love to hear from you!

https://imgur.com/a/japan-Snjusnf  ←me

Seymour’s your friend, but if things worked out Seymour could be your man.

I’m going to lay my cards on the table: I’ve had trouble meeting people. Lately, it seems like the people I meet that I share similar interests with or that appear to be interested in me end up being emotionally unavailable or on the other side, the person and I get along well enough, but the relationship never deepens into an actual friendship and remains an acquaintance with a lot of “how was your day” kind of talk. In either situation the possibility of a relationship developing is far from possible.

I have to admit that I’m a bit of a weirdo and a little awkward. I aspire to be as cool as the Fonz, but in actuality I’m more akin to Rick Moranis. I like good bad movies like Over the Top and Black Dynamite, love live music, and I would die for Prince any day of the week. Recently, I’ve read a lot of US history books like People’s History, Black AF History, and the Half has not been told, which have inspired me to continue digging into the history I was never taught in school. I love art and going to all forms of live performance (plays, poetry, professional wrestling, etc) and I adore being exposed to new things and learning all about other people’s passions.

I tend to be drawn to people who are very challant about their hobbies and interests. I like people that care and make effort, people who value loyalty in their relationships (I’m a Chargers fan so you know I’m loyal through thick and thin haha blergh).

A little while ago I stumbled on a list of questions designed to Lead to Love. In all honesty, there’s nothing special about the questions other than that they provoke thoughtful answers and help you get to know the other person while they get to know you. I thought it would be fun to go through the list, alternating who has to answer first as a fun way to get past the typical getting to know you stuff that inevitably begins any relationship between two people.

Do you want to run through the questions with me?

I’ll start:

1. Given the choice of anyone in the world (living or dead), whom would you want as a dinner guest?

Lastly, please be local. I figure if we hit it off, it would be nice to hang out irl.

Please answer the first question as your response so I can easily sort out the bots. Thank you for your time and consideration.

I'm a 48 year old white guy, 5’11” 190lbs brown eyes and salt and pepper hair. I’m pretty easygoing, stable, and definitely still young at heart. I'm married, but untortunately the intimacy and connection have been gone for a while, and I really miss having that physical fun.
I'm looking to meet a woman who's warm, fun, affectionate, and enjoys a good laugh. I'm a man with a high libido, so physical chemistry is important to me, I'd like to actually enjoy talking, hanging out, getting to know each other, and having something consistent that we both look forward to.
If you're in a similar situation and miss having that kind of connection, I'd love to hear from you.
What is your favorite 80's or 90's comedy.

Happy fall!

I’m back here hoping to find that rare spark where conversation just flows. The kind of connection where nobody is overthinking who messaged last, the jokes land naturally, and you genuinely look forward to hearing your phone buzz.
I’m Dan. I’m 52, I live on Long Island with my six cats, and work as a data analyst in healthcare. Outside of work, I host The Shelter Cats Podcast and co-host A Little Bit of Ship Banter—if you want to know what I look and sound like, both are on all the major platforms and on YouTube. Feel free to check them out! Not a plug haha.
Personality-wise, I lean toward dry sarcasm, sharing ridiculous memes, and making delightfully cheesy playlists. I try to be funny, even if it’s at my own expense. I love all kinds of music and spend way too much time on YouTube. If you're on Spotify, blending can be fun.
I’ve been single for over four years now. Life is peaceful and full on my own, which gives me the luxury of taking my time. I'm not rushing to force anything, but I do miss having a genuine partner to share daily life’s ups and downs with.
Ideally, you're around my age or younger, completely single, and based in the New York area or somewhere along the East Coast. If we have to board a plane or cross an ocean just to grab a cup of coffee, it won’t work. I love consistent, engaging conversation—certified yappers are very welcome—with the ultimate goal of meeting up for real once we know the chemistry is there. I'm looking for an actual partner, not an endless pen pal. Eventually moving off Reddit to text or another platform once we vibe is definitely the goal, but no rush on day one.
Most of all, I appreciate straightforward honesty. If the spark isn't there, just tell me. We're adults, and a polite heads-up is infinitely better than fading into radio silence.
If this strikes a chord, shoot me a message. Skip the generic "hey"—tell me a bit about yourself, what you're into, and drop the word MEOW somewhere in your opener so I know you took the time to read through.

Hello.

I'm a literature degreed, WFH tech professional living in the Lake Tahoe area. Originally from Los Angeles, I've lived on both US coasts and in Europe, each more than twice.

I'm living the typical mountain life right now: hiking (esp peak bagging), trail running, cycling (touring/road/gravel, not MTB), tennis (the one sport I tend to watch), training, hot tubs, and skiing during the winter.

I like urban living too, especially in places like LA (well..), NYC, Berlin. I like to gym, run, beach, cafe, bookstore, museum, gallery, wander, indie film (big fan of Criterion Channel), etc.

I attended (but didn't complete) graduate school for somatic psychotherapy and do secular buddhism things.

I've traveled a lot, and plan to travel more, and more full-time. I have a WFH/remote job that allows me to live anywhere in the US (and globally with approval), but I'm focused on the independent-income side of things and expect to go fully self-employed by summer 2027.

I've been single for a stretch and it's hard to think about dating locally when you're focused on a geographic transition. I've been in Northern California for a really long time, and if I was staying in the US I'd focus on relocating to Southern California (LA, or north of San Diego), WA, CO, or upstate NY (train distance to the city). My digital nomad ambition has the shape of a plan, too, but I won't go into that here except to say it probably starts in Central Europe. The idea is to be flexible and adventurous but open to everything else.

No lists of who I'm looking for.. but yes to the obvious characteristics of a good match with all the chemistries. I'm active, fit, educated, entrepreneurial, creative, adventurous looking for a great partner for big things. I don't care where in the world you are right now, as long you have the interest, energy, and capacity to move an intentional thing forward in good stride.

I don't drink alcohol.

A pic: https://imgur.com/wZ6gyWe

Hi there! James here, I am 38 (soon to be 39) from Maryland (Anywhere in the US/Canada is fine too; you don't have to specifically be from Maryland. I can freely travel/relocate due to WFH) and looking to chat and see if chemistry develops.

Still looking for my person... NO MAGA/conservatives. Absolutely not.

I am 6', black hair, hazel eyes, love working out/lifting weights! It is as good for you mentally as it is physically. Willing to share pics as well!

Some of my hobbies/interests...

Lifting weights (I go 4x a week; it's my mental reset)

Videogames

Movies (HUGE Marvel fan; love anything HORROR/sci-fi/comedy/action/high fantasy primarily)

Huge music fan (of all kinds; primarily of the 90s/early 2000s variety)

Road trips! (Tons of fun, especially with the right co-pilot)

Traveling

Stand-up comedy

Socialize with friends (can have just as much fun staying in too)

Drinks occasionally

Sports

Learning to play electric bass guitar

Voice calls/voice messages (It's way easier and more fun to get to know someone/talk with them via voice; much easier to convey sarcasm as well 😁)

Audiobooks

Being active and outside (LOVE the beach!)

HALLOWEEN IS THE BEST SEASON.

Shoot me a message if you're interested, and a pic since attraction is important; wouldn't want to hit it off like crazy and find out we're not attracted to each other.

Here is my voice to show I am not a bot, if you're curious:

https://voca.ro/17YDWuF7kFeE

Hi everyone! I am a 34-year-old single guy originally from Italy, currently living in Belgium. I am looking for someone to have a nice conversation with. Feel free to send me a message if you'd like to talk! 😉

I am moving to Bucyrus within a month of so.

I have recently lost my hearing.

Read to the end or I won't respond!

So here it is:

I am a 41 year old transwoman panromantic with demisexual flair. I am a very niche want.

I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness.

I am looking for my last person to start and finish my life with. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, D&D, Larping, writing, art, magic the gathering and more

LARPING is a huge part of my life, I would love to be able to share it with someone the rest of my life.

I used to game hardcore (Raiding WoW) but it has taken a back seat in my life. I do understand gaming. Got that new game or expansion coming out. My first question is "What snacks and drinks do you want?" Second is "How often do you want them brought to you?"

Deal breakers: smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed a lot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are. I have been deceived before.

Yellow flags are not wanting pictures of us, distance (i prefer within 10 hours DRIVE!), and aversion to anything social media.

Red Flag: Not reading this in full and answering the questions below in the first message. Asking for pictures right away.

I am not a bad person, big girl (Working out and changing that 40+ lbs down), adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess

If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:

1 Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit

2 Age, Location and Pronouns

3 What is something you think is totally underrated?