A little about me:

Divorced,.one child. Animal lover. Not an extrovert or introvert, but a mix of both. I love long deep conversations, holding each other, sitting in front of the fire at night. Mornings sipping coffee and making breakfast together.

I'm looking for someone who is my complement, my match. We all have faults and scars but I'm looking for someone who works well with me and I can build a life with.

I'm flexible and have the ability to relocate a bit, but not looking to move fully across the country.

You:

Male, hopefully in the Midwest. 40s or up. A career but with time to spend on us and maybe travel. Would love to meet someone who has seen the world at least a bit. Want someone who is looking for and ready for a full relationship. I appreciate someone who has a mix of strength and caring.

Besides, dreams can get weird, and I’d rather be someone you actually enjoy talking to when you’re awake.

I love conversation, traveling, reading, sports, movies, gaming, building things, and finding humor in situations that probably don’t call for it. I’m independent, affectionate when it matters, a little mischievous, and perfectly comfortable with silence. I appreciate a woman who’s clever, open-minded, a little quirky, and doesn’t take herself too seriously. Bonus points if you can dish out sarcasm and handle getting some back.

Since Halloween is creeping up, I figured I’d get an early start looking for my boo. Preferably one who doesn’t ghost me by November. Yeah, I know. Terrible joke. Unfortunately, there’s more where that came from.

I’m not looking for perfection or some carefully rehearsed version of a person. Just someone genuine, interesting, and willing to see where a good conversation leads. A little chemistry, some mutual curiosity, and the ability to laugh at absolutely ridiculous things would be a pretty good start.
So, tell me something about yourself that wouldn’t make it into your dating profile. The stranger, the better.

15 or so years ago, I bought a LEGO set: a Parisian Restaurant. I had built a bunch of spaceships but I loved the romance of this two-story restaurant with an apartment. It captured my imagination and I just had to have it.

A decade and a half later, I still have it. Unbuilt. I long ago decided that I would build it with the right person for me. It's stayed in its box through relationships and a divorce. I've had dates end awkwardly after describing this glass slipper of mine to people who weren't interested in building a LEGO set with me.

I decided to lead with this. It's a good barometer for who I am: dorky, romantic, and patient.

I'm looking for the person who wants to live a life of cozy, fun adventures. And by adventures, I mean the occasional new recipe or trip to the used bookstore or drive to the last remaining location of a dying restaurant chain.

I'm not good at this. I will miss hints and clues. I am not good at asking questions. I am interested and caring and kind, just a little bumbling and naive.

Hey lovely and lonely people of Reddit. After finding success on this lovely app in the past I’m once again throwing myself out there and looking to meet new people and who knows, maybe find someone special.

The Basics
I’m 37, live in Nottinghamshire in England, I’m white, 6’4, live with my boisterous cat, drive, work, and after 2026 being probably the worst year of my life to date, I’m looking for a little bit of positivity before the year ends. I don’t have kids, I’ve never been married and I’m single (obviously). I’m sensitive (in both a positive and negative way) and despite being introverted I love nothing more than good connections and companionship, especially in person.

Extra stuff
I love film and cinema and try and go at least once a week. I watch a lot of TV too and am a big football fan (just don’t ask who I support please, I might cry). I run weekly and have recently done my first half marathons, I also love walking and hiking whenever the weather allows. Everyday I try to read and I love music too, it’s a big part of my life. I’m drug and smoke free, I do drink but only heavily when it’s an occasion.

You
What am I looking for? Ideally you are…
\\\\- within 10 years of my age either way, so 27-47
\\\\- this is key….you don’t live far away! I am absolutely not looking for a pen pal or a LDR. I’m too old for that. I’m looking for someone who, if the vibe is there, would be happy meeting up for a drink as soon as we’ve realised the other person is probably not a serial killer. Please don’t message if there’s no chance of us realistically meeting up
\\\\- comfortable sharing some pictures early on. Ultimately as shallow as it is, it’s nice to know who you’re talking to. If I could upload a picture alongside this post, but alas I can’t
\\\\- I’d prefer those who don’t have kids and don’t want kids. I’m at the stage in my life where I’ve accepted that it probably isn’t for me
\\\\- are looking for a relationship, one you are happy to invest time and effort in. I’m not one for riddles or games, if we like one another, let’s just say that
\\\\- lastly, you are up for actually engaging in conversation. Of course I don’t mind starting with the pleasantries and “hello”’s, but please don’t leave it to me to carry the conversation. I’d like us both to look forward to chatting to the other each day, sometimes you message first, sometimes I do, call me idealistic.

Like my post title says, what I’m ultimately looking for is to be amongst someone’s priorities in life. Whilst I would never expect to be permanently #1, I realise that in former relationships I’ve been guilty of being blind to the fact that I’m often not even in the top 3, despite them being mine. If you have kids, or a large family, or are religious, or are career driven, or have a hobby that you love….fantastic, tell me all about it and let me share it with you if you’re willing, but don’t choose it over me every time please, I don’t think that’s unfair to ask.

It’s been a terrible year so far, something nice before the year ends wouldn’t go amiss. Extra bonus points if you’re the reason I never have to download a dating app ever again.

I’m a good listener, and there’s absolutely nothing I love more than putting the world to rights and discussing both serious and silly things well into the night.

As an icebreaker and to get the conversation going, what’s your favourite film of all time?

Come say howdy 👋🏻

Looking for earnest, looking genuine. If you are single, not married, in NY and looking to make a connection, between 40 and 55, let’s chat.

What are your passions? What do you miss about the simpler days? What is the last song you listened to? Do you like coffee? What makes you laugh? Do you have a hobby?

Hi there! James here, I am 38 (soon to be 39) from Maryland (Anywhere in the US/Canada is fine too; you don't have to specifically be from Maryland. I can freely travel/relocate due to WFH) and looking to chat and see if chemistry develops.

Still looking for my person... NO MAGA/conservatives. Absolutely not.

I am 6', black hair, hazel eyes, love working out/lifting weights! It is as good for you mentally as it is physically. Willing to share pics as well!

Some of my hobbies/interests...

Lifting weights (I go 4x a week; it's my mental reset)

Videogames

Movies (HUGE Marvel fan; love anything HORROR/sci-fi/comedy/action/high fantasy primarily)

Huge music fan (of all kinds; primarily of the 90s/early 2000s variety)

Road trips! (Tons of fun, especially with the right co-pilot)

Traveling

Stand-up comedy

Socialize with friends (can have just as much fun staying in too)

Drinks occasionally

Sports

Learning to play electric bass guitar

Voice calls/voice messages (It's way easier and more fun to get to know someone/talk with them via voice; much easier to convey sarcasm as well 😁)

Audiobooks

Being active and outside (LOVE the beach!)

HALLOWEEN IS THE BEST SEASON.

Shoot me a message if you're interested, and a pic since attraction is important; wouldn't want to hit it off like crazy and find out we're not attracted to each other.

Here is my voice to show I am not a bot, if you're curious:

https://voca.ro/17YDWuF7kFeE

I am looking for a relationship where both man and woman have established roles and boundaries. We both share the same mindset when it comes to our dynamic and are in tune with each other.

Respect is number 1 and will always be the cornerstone of our relationship. I believe everyone should be treated with dignity whether they are a stranger in public or a loved one. I am very assertive and do not need to raise my voice or get excited to get my point across. I do not believe in verbal abuse of any kind and is something I will never subject you too. I am very aware of the physical imbalance between the sexes, and I understand that it is my duty to always make sure you feel safe, loved, and protected while in my presence.

Once respect is established, trust begins. The level of trust will be to the point that anytime we are out together as a couple your mind will be completely clear and your entire focus will be on enjoying yourself, being pretty, and just being a girl. This will be your reality because you will be of the understanding that no matter what happens your man can handle the situation. This idea that you have someone who is always looking out for you gives you peace of mind.

What I am looking for ultimately is a woman who fantasizes about the idea idea of fully surrendering herself to a man and will submit fully within the confines of the relationship. In other words, you recognize that I am the one who leads us and I know what is best for us.

When it comes to intimacy, this is not an ad seeking BDSM sex with props and toys. I don't need any of that. Dom/Sub is a mindset. I am very much a dominant and love being in control. This will be your time to shut your mind off and not think about anything. You will never have to think about what comes next as I will always lead the interaction. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

About me:

I am 41 years old (no kids). I'm 5'10 160 lbs. I workout a couple times per week and am in good shape physically. I am white with dark brown hair that has a touch of gray and hazel eyes.

I'm a very simple man. My trials and tribulations have taught me to enjoy the little things in life. My favorite moments are enjoying a nice meal, having a good laugh, or just enjoying the moment with someone I truly care about.

I have a lot of life experience and would love to share that wisdom as a mentor with a new friend/lover. I will teach you how the world works and help guide you when you need it.

I love a feminine clingy woman who craves my attention, approval, and validation.

I am STD free.

Professional guy from the UK who’s 45 years young. Into all sorts of hobbies (given the time). I’m into being outside, active and keeping fit. Into my trail running (often with one of my dogs), road bike riding and martial arts. Enjoys travelling domestic and abroad, cars, films/cinema, music, festivals. While I’m into IT and a bit of a geek at heart, I have another side of me that is passionate about meditation, into learning from books/audiobooks and into self-improvement.

I’ve experience in ENM and also kink friendly.

If you are looking for genuine longer term friendship with a guy who enjoys talking about all sorts, from deep late night conversations to a light heated giggle then please do say hi!

Hi 😉 I'm here, seeking something that I hope will lead to something meaningful. Someone to share things about myself and to learn about you. Co-create things together, whether that be inside jokes, stories, playlists, art. I miss having that type of connection that brings a particular excitement to your day.

I'm drawn to intelligent, curious men who have a little wit about them. Someone affectionate, emotionally available, and capable of both thoughtful conversation and playful banter. I value reciprocity, consistency, a connection where curiosity and attraction grow together.

A little about me: I'm a short, curvy brunette with an artistic streak and a fondness for the unconventional. My interests include literature, music, writing, art, fashion, fragrances, tarot, and astrology. I particularly enjoy creating playlists inspired by people, moods, and feelings. I'm equally happy getting lost in a novel or discovering a song that I can't stop listening to. I do want to move off reddit at some point and am open to voice calls if things develop in that direction. Looking for someone 35+. I'm from California, I am open to distance but ultimately am seeking something that exists outside a screen.

Tell me about yourself, what you're looking for, an amusing story, the last meal you cooked, or what you did on your birthday.

Hey there!

I’m looking for a recurring FWB situation built on mutual attraction and clear communication. I’m 40, 6'3, and have an average build. I’m a big believer that the best sex happens when there’s a bit of a connection and comfort between two people.

What I’m looking for: Someone I can click with, laugh with, and then get physical with. I’m into long sessions, making out, giving oral, or being adventurous...but I’m mostly focused on making sure my partner having a great time.

About me: I’m DDF, respectful of boundaries, and I value discretion. I’m happy to exchange photos or meet for a quick coffee/drink first to see if the spark is there.

If you’re looking for a reliable partner who knows how to take his time, shoot me a message with a little about yourself!

I am a single, simple and down to earth man. I have been introvert, silent and straight forward person.

However, I am trying to change myself from being introvert to extrovert.

One of the steps I have taken is joining reddit and trying to open up.

Yes, am new to reddit and the sub.

On my marital status, I have never been married till date. And, I have lost interest in marriage now.

All that I am looking for now is something honest and drama free connect.

I value mutual respect., meaningful conversation, keeping things simple, mature and easy going connection.

No drama and no confusion whatsoever.

I am therefore looking for genuine hearts who are willing to connect with.

Let's connect and then let's decide whether we could go for long term connect or short.

Rest, let's talk.

Please message me over DM.

Thanks for stopping by and reading through.

I hate having to mask every time I go out in public. Fake smile. Asking "how are you" to people and not really wanting to know the answer. And telling them a stock "good" when they ask the same out out it sheer politeness.

This might be the last place to totally eschew all of that. I want to get to know you from all the things we aren't supposed to say right away.

Send me an opinion you wouldn't let someone you work with know. Or ask me something you'd never dare ask someone you don't know the name of. Be bold. Be original. Be you. And be it now.

Hi there,

How's your week? I'm from US but live in UAE. You don't have to be. Just looking to talk. Maybe a little distraction? If you are in any type of relationship, no judgement, just please be up front about it. Hope to hear from you soon😊

To get the elephant in the room out first yes I'm really 6'9(not the internet kind).

No, I won't answer the obvious height related follow up in this post. Some things are better discovered than declared.

Former nurse turned construction guy, so I know how to take care of people and build things that last. I'm calm under pressure, steady in my decisions and comfortable when it feels right. I don't need to be loud to be confident. I just show up, handle what needs handling and make sure people i care about are taken care of.

I'm a nerd at heart. I'll talk music theory, random documentaries or why that one movie deserves an Oscar. I play guitar (well enough), used to play basketball so I know a thing or two about the importance of team play, but nowadays I channel most of that competitive energy into trying to be the best possible dad. Being a single dad gave me patience, depth and zero interest for chaos.

I flirt slowly. intentionally. I like the kind of chemistry that builds. Standing a little closer than necessary, brushing your hand just long enough to make a point, eye contact that says more than words. Protective, not possessive. Direct, not arrogant. Confident enough that I don't need to oversell anything.

I'm looking for someone over 30 who knows what she wants and isn't afraid of strong energy, emotionally or otherwise. Affectionate, self-aware,playful. Someone who appreciates a man that can make her feel safe at one minute and slightly distracted the next.

If you miss being desired with intention come say hi.

Let's see if we measure up in more ways than one.

The most interesting people are the ones who have quietly built a life that makes sense to them, even if it looks slightly eccentric from the outside. I’m drawn to women with a sharp mind, a warm nature, and a life of their own. You have your interests, your opinions, your routines, your particular way of seeing the world. I have mine. I like the idea of two lives meeting without either one needing to be rearranged.

I enjoy good conversation, wandering unfamiliar streets, long evenings that somehow become much later than intended, and the occasional beautifully pointless argument about history, food, music, or whatever has caught our attention that week.

If you’re walking your own path, wherever that path happens to be, I’d be glad to hear where it has taken you lately.

Tell me about a place you would happily return to tomorrow, or an opinion you hold that your friends think is completely wrong. I suspect either answer could make for a good beginning.

Intention. Isn't it a bummer?

I don't think it's a stretch to say that we're all kinda trying to find something we don't have. But what is that thing?

Basically, I don't want to be your husband or anything. But I don't want the conversation to stop and end at "what's your favorite color?", either.

Wanna just wing it? I think a conversation (...and whatever else) with no bounds and no guidelines would be the most refreshing way to get to know someone. Let's be untraditional, shall we?

The fall has started, and I’m looking for warmth

Candles and blankets will not be enough

I’m looking for a warm teddy bear to hold tight

One that lets me warm up my feet underneath his thighs

If you are that man who checks these boxes

Feel free to reach out and let's get started.

I need a sweater weather teddy bear who’s big and warm

Heats me up from across the room

Lets me climb his body when I need it

Well, the applications are open. Let’s get to it

I’m not joking, this is a serious matter

It’s a real commitment, no simple banter

I will take notes and review your progress

I’m expecting excellent service and nothing less

What will you get in return? Good question!

A happy woman who’s at peace, that’s all that matters

I need a sweater weather teddy bear dressed in grey sweats

Who walks around the house and brings me snacks

Refills my tea, coffee, and hot cocoa

Lets me buy new candles without saying, “No, no.”

So write it down grey sweats, snacks, fluids, and candles

And if you are a walking oven, that’s even better

You will receive a response within five to ten business days

Thank you for your application.

Interests:

sports

concerts

comedians

science

anything outdoors

gardening

home projects

reading, movies and tv

trivia

politics

history

birding

Looking for other people who are looking for genuine, non- platonic connections. Not looking for someone who’s just passing the time at work!

If you write me a book as an opening message, I probably won’t read it.

Very dominant.

Please lead with pertinent information about yourself so we can get the ball rolling. Everyone has their someone but some of us are not for everyone, and that’s okay. Keep it positive!

Not sure how this is going to go but here are some starters updated:

Favorite historical event?

An interesting fact you love?

Current obsession?

If you were stranded on AN island, name 3 things you’d bring with you.

I'm a 48 year old white guy, 5’11” 190lbs brown eyes and salt and pepper hair. I’m pretty easygoing, stable, and definitely still young at heart. I'm married, but untortunately the intimacy and connection have been gone for a while, and I really miss having that physical fun.
I'm looking to meet a woman who's warm, fun, affectionate, and enjoys a good laugh. I'm a man with a high libido, so physical chemistry is important to me, I'd like to actually enjoy talking, hanging out, getting to know each other, and having something consistent that we both look forward to.
If you're in a similar situation and miss having that kind of connection, I'd love to hear from you.
What is your favorite 80's or 90's comedy.

Wow, you clicked in with that as the title. I am shocked, but thankful!!!

So here we are relatively near the start of another week, and, as ever, I am ready to hit it head on, as it pays to be optimistic!

Decided to break the week up by working from home, as pretty back to back next two days. Therefore, as I am WFH (as the cool kids say) I thought as there is increased opportunity for distractions why not throw it out there and see what happens. I mean, it could be great or there could be a tumbleweed floating by, who knows.

What am I looking for? - Well who knows, but it is best to approach these things with an open mind and no firm expectations so whatever happens happens really. There may be flirting, there may be a meeting of minds, or it might be awful - Shall we just go with the flow and see where it takes us?

So, a little about me; educated, well travelled, sporty, have to be serious at work so try not to be outside of it, love music and art but can't do either for love nor money, and also pretty darn poor at promoting myself here.

If you ignore the absolute rambling above, then stop by and let us start with something simple like favourite colour or city, or a random fact or even something like what made you read this far and respond.

Go on, I mean if it's bad as we're only at Tuesday the week can only improve, right??

40, Portland, OR, WFH in tech. The job is fine. The house is quiet. By 2pm I’ve already had entire conversations with the microwave and given two of the plants names they did not ask for.

Looking for a woman to chat with during the day. Easy and fun. Banter, teasing, the occasional badly timed joke. If it turns a little flirty, even better. I like that kind of back and forth. Bonus points if you also work in tech.

I’m on X more than I should be. I listen to the Red Scare podcast, Anna and Dasha. The Perfume Nationalist. Rare Candy. If you’ve been in that orbit, we will probably get along.

I’m not trying to make this a whole production. I like talking to someone who’s sharp and doesn’t take herself too seriously. If you can make a Friday afternoon interesting, that’s pretty much my type.

If this sounds like your kind of thing, say hi. Tell me what you’re avoiding at work or home right now. I’ll tell you about the latest meeting I keep postponing.

42 Daddy of 3. 2 older and 1 younger. I play soccer and work out a lot. I like to think I am very fit for being 42.

I am going to be straight up honest, I want very flirty, sexy fun along with just fun conversation. I mean yea, totally open to building that deep connection or more, but I want to put it out there of what I also want. I am a very sexual person with a high drive that rarely gets things at home.

I want tons of pic/video sharing, never ask if I want to see something, the answer is always YES!!!, just send. I am also very open to voice notes and/or voice/video calls. Would love to wake up to a pic of you in my messages making me smile every morning.

Pics are on my profile if you want to spoil the surprise 😉.

I'm visiting Vegas for a business trip and will have some time after dinner on 10/20 or morning of 10/21. I'd love to meet a real local female that isn't in the "business". Be normal and professional like me. Maybe also traveling to Vegas? Staying on the strip. I'm white, 6'1/190, short brown hair, blue eyes and in decent shape. I've been in need of a fun release. Let's chat and see where it leads.

Have you ever wanted to fuck a random guy but are worried about seeing them again in public? Well I have an idea...

I want to set up a time and place to meet up, I'll be in the back seat of my car, blindfolded and with a mask on. The window will be cracked, you come up, say a phrase we agree to, and I let you into the car. You can then use my cock however you want. Stroke it, suck it, sit on it, I'm down with anything. I can even just finger you if you like. Once you are satisfied, you can get out of the car and we go our separate ways. If you would feel more comfortable bringing a friend to watch or stand guard (or participate), I'm totally cool with that.

About me: I'm average height, muscles but also a dad bod, and have long hair. I'm also very well endowed (7.5 long and 6 in circumference). I'm interested in women of all body types. If you want we can exchange pics beforehand, but I'm also good with being completely anonymous.

IMPORTANT:
1. Females only
2. If interested, send me a chat with your age, location in LA, a general idea of what you are looking to do
3. Be ready to exchange verification pictures

I am an Uber driver that gets pretty bored during the late night hours.

I would like to find a passenger that wants to meet up for some naughty fun with an Uber driver. I can pick you up and we can role play in Uber. I got the newest Tesla with all the bells and whistles that can make our encounter fun. Auto pilot that can drive us around as you give road head, a big screen I can turn porn on, and back seats that go all the way down so you can lie and see the stars through the sunroof.

Or maybe you want me to be your Uber Eats delivery driver and I can make a deliver to your place for some naughty fun.

I am open to other kinks you may have, just send me a chat.

About me: I have a picture on my profile. I'm Caucasian, 32, 5'9, 160 lbs, sane, down to earth, clean shaven face, uncircumcised cock.

I am DDF and tested clean as of last month and I expect you to be the same. Any penetrating sex will be with a condom.

About you: 18+, fit to chubby, HWP, attractive, clean, DDF and recently tested.

Everything will be descrete and NSA.