I’m a tall, fit 47-year-old professional on the West Coast with a mainstream look, a good sense of humor, and frequent business travel. I’m hoping to connect with confident women who enjoy laughing, relaxed conversation, mutual pleasure, and exploring strong sexual chemistry. I’m known for shooting an unusually large volume of semen and would love to meet someone who genuinely appreciates that, always with clear communication, consent, and discretion in mind.

Let's chat! 😁

I'm a 48 year old white guy, 5’11” 190lbs brown eyes and salt and pepper hair. I’m pretty easygoing, stable, and definitely still young at heart. I'm married, but untortunately the intimacy and connection have been gone for a while, and I really miss having that physical fun.
I'm looking to meet a woman who's warm, fun, affectionate, and enjoys a good laugh. I'm a man with a high libido, so physical chemistry is important to me, I'd like to actually enjoy talking, hanging out, getting to know each other, and having something consistent that we both look forward to.
If you're in a similar situation and miss having that kind of connection, I'd love to hear from you.
What is your favorite 80's or 90's comedy.

Interests:

sports

concerts

comedians

science

anything outdoors

gardening

home projects

reading, movies and tv

trivia

politics

history

birding

Looking for other people who are looking for genuine, non- platonic connections. Not looking for someone who’s just passing the time at work!

If you write me a book as an opening message, I probably won’t read it.

Very dominant.

Please lead with pertinent information about yourself so we can get the ball rolling. Everyone has their someone but some of us are not for everyone, and that’s okay. Keep it positive!

Not sure how this is going to go but here are some starters updated:

Favorite historical event?

An interesting fact you love?

Current obsession?

If you were stranded on AN island, name 3 things you’d bring with you.

I am a single, simple and down to earth man. I have been introvert, silent and straight forward person.

However, I am trying to change myself from being introvert to extrovert.

One of the steps I have taken is joining reddit and trying to open up.

Yes, am new to reddit and the sub.

On my marital status, I have never been married till date. And, I have lost interest in marriage now.

All that I am looking for now is something honest and drama free connect.

I value mutual respect., meaningful conversation, keeping things simple, mature and easy going connection.

No drama and no confusion whatsoever.

I am therefore looking for genuine hearts who are willing to connect with.

Let's connect and then let's decide whether we could go for long term connect or short.

Rest, let's talk.

Please message me over DM.

Thanks for stopping by and reading through.

I miss having someone whose name makes me smile when it pops up on my phone. The kind of connection built on great conversations, ridiculous laughter, mutual curiosity and shameless flirting.

I’m 38, Latina living in Central America. I have black hair, big dark brown eyes, tan skin, curvy/thick, and a personality considerably bigger than my height. I’m divorced, affectionate, creative, and occasionally a little weird (in the good way ;)) I love traveling, creative projects, getting invested in TV shows, and taking football (soccer) far too seriously, among other things.

I’d love to meet a kind, funny, affectionate man who’s curious about me and brings warmth and initiative. Attraction matters, just as it does for most people, and I’m happy to exchange pics early on. I’m curvy/thick and some time ago I started going to the gym to get stronger. Dad bods are welcome; marathon runners will be cheered from a comfortable distance. My type tends to be taller men with fair skin (I guess it’s bc it’s different than me).

I’m looking for something romantic and genuine, with affection, playful flirting, and sexual chemistry if it feels right for both of us. I enjoy a little spice, including sexting, but I’d like it to be one part of a connection, not the whole thing.

I’m not interested in paid offers or anything transactional, and honesty matters to me.

Also, I’ve accidentally dismissed a few requests while half asleep (sleep and I are not on great terms 🤦🏻‍♀️). If yours was one of them, please feel free to send it again it wasn’t personal!

If you message me, tell me something with a little personality. An oddly fact or a mention of something in this post is a good start. A “Hey” alone might get lost.

Let’s see if we make each other smile. ;)

42M. Work in tech, grounded, sane & emotionally mature. I’m well travelled & reasonably successful in career. My 20s and early 30s were adventurous; the last few years were rough, but that chapter is done

You live only once and you gotta the make the most out of it. I’d like to see if there is someone out there, who thinks like me

In public, I’m composed, professional and respectful. In private, I’m shameless, playful and sexually humorous. I love to laugh, make dirty jokes and I’m well aware of my surroundings when I do so

I’m a touchy, and handsy guy and I’m equally serious about hygiene. I’m not new to dating or sex. I know my boundaries, my kinks and my preferences. I’m looking for someone on the bigger/thicker side. This is not a kink. I’m big (6ft2 and 102kgs) and I’m sometimes worried about hurting the other one in the heat of the moment.

I like matching energy and physicality, and I want chemistry without holding back. I’m dominant in bed & prefer to be in control. I’m open to switching roles, but I’ve very little experience in following the lead (Never had a dominant partner)

I talk a lot, my timing can be terrible and yes, I’m self-aware enough to admit it. But if you can bear with me for a while, I’d make a good partner in your conversation. I’ve all my senses working at all times. I take feedback and adapt right away. My work hours is weird right now, but I’ve the flexibility to work with your schedule.

I do understand the meaning of consent pretty well and I make sure not to cross that. I’m not clingy. I won’t text or call 24/7. I’m not into any games, or trades. This is meant to be uncomplicated fun - nothing messy

If you’re confident, comfortable with your body, and know what you want, we might get along great. Looking for a woman, who wants to explore themselves in a safe and secure environment without any complications.

Prefer something ongoing & not a one time thing. Not gonna ghost/stalk, I can translate my thoughts into words pretty well. Not into alcohol, smoking or any other form of drugs!!

No disrespect, No judgment and No Strings attached. If interested dm me.

P.S
- Prefer something calm&peaceful. No need of adventures or butterflies
- Please don’t stop with hey/hi. Make up your mind before DM’ing
- Be over 30.
- Not in a rush for anything.
- Not into sexting unfortunately.
- Not looking for any one time thing.
- I can verify and you should be too.

!lock

I am looking for something casual and fun to blow off some steam every now and then. I work a lot but luckily I am in control of my schedule so I can usually make the time with a little bit of heads up.

When it comes to what I am looking for, I am pretty open, however, I am not looking to jump into another super serious relationship or marriage. In the short term, I would love to have regular sex again and that's honestly what I am looking for with this post. Things typically develop from there and with that I like to keep things casual and let things flow naturally.

When I am involved with someone, to me, respect is the absolute most important thing. I will always show you respect and will always act kindly towards you. I don't believe in yelling, voice raising, or big arguments. I understand the physical power imbalance between a man and a woman and I think it is a man's duty to always make sure that his woman feels safe. In exchange, I expect the same in return and will walk away if I feel you are not living up to this agreement.

In the bedroom, I am very dominant and love being in control. I am always happy to lead our interaction and all I expect from you is to do what comes naturally to you. You won't ever have to initiate or worry about what pleases me. What pleases me most is you making yourself available to me and once there, I know where to take things. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

I am 41 years and have no kids. I have my own place about 10 minutes from the beach. I am 5'10 and weigh 158 lbs. I am white with brown hair with a touch of gray, hazel eyes, and a fit/muscular body type. I workout several times per week, and always try to take care of myself.

STD free.

Never done this before but I figured why not, could make a friend.

I’m on a much needed getaway and would love to connect with a lovely lady to spend time with, get some good eats, coffee tea go to a park, I workout so maybe go to the gym together. Someone around the same age, 35-50, fit, like’s being active.

I’m not looking for anything sexual, just closeness, hugs and cuddles. I’m always open to a relationship (currently single, looking for someone single as well) but I’m just not looking right now.

Felt cute might delete later. Lol. Looking forward to your dm.

It would be absolutely amazing to not be alone at Christmas this year.
I will probably delete this soon 😂
You know how INFJ’s are! 🤭
I live in Texas and I’m an empty nester. I was married for 25 years. Divorced for 3 years. I’m not looking for fun. I am only dating intentionally for marriage.
I have a picture of me in another post if you want to see what I look like.
God Bless!
🩷🙏✝️

42M, 6’3”, looking to meet someone who’s missing a little spark and connection in their life too. I’d love to find someone I genuinely look forward to talking to good conversation, laughing, flirting, and getting to know each other without forcing expectations. I’m easygoing, enjoy deeper conversations, and I’m completely open to someone with kids. Life doesn’t have to be uncomplicated, just genuine. If this sounds like something you’ve been missing too, send me a message and let’s see where the conversation goes.

IMPORTANT:
1. Females only
2. If interested, send me a chat with your age, location in LA, a general idea of what you are looking to do
3. Be ready to exchange verification pictures

I am an Uber driver that gets pretty bored during the late night hours.

I would like to find a passenger that wants to meet up for some naughty fun with an Uber driver. I can pick you up and we can role play in Uber. I got the newest Tesla with all the bells and whistles that can make our encounter fun. Auto pilot that can drive us around as you give road head, a big screen I can turn porn on, and back seats that go all the way down so you can lie and see the stars through the sunroof.

Or maybe you want me to be your Uber Eats delivery driver and I can make a deliver to your place for some naughty fun.

I am open to other kinks you may have, just send me a chat.

About me: I have a picture on my profile. I'm Caucasian, 32, 5'9, 160 lbs, sane, down to earth, clean shaven face, uncircumcised cock.

I am DDF and tested clean as of last month and I expect you to be the same. Any penetrating sex will be with a condom.

About you: 18+, fit to chubby, HWP, attractive, clean, DDF and recently tested.

Everything will be descrete and NSA.

In the United Kingdom - Wrexham area Clwyd-Wales not far from Chester and Liverpool...

56 Dom Man in shape 182 lbs thin fit 6`0" Dad bod type looking to meet younger than me female Seeking someone fun, open, submissive, can be inexperienced, but eager to learn to please..

Up for meeting anyone genuine and up for discreet mutual fun; maybe a student or older who secretly or otherwise, enjoys the company of an older man with the opportunity for some discreet fun

enjoy Giving the ladies kink play i use Toys and other items to bring pleasure to the woman i`m with safe sex and after care is always given..

or maybe wanting to work towards something more FWB or Relationship..

Happy to chat here or on some other socials..

42 / White / Single Mom / 5'11" / North County San Diego (Carlsbad area)

I’m stepping out of my comfort zone to see if lightning might strike here. At the end of the day, I’m a warm, sweet, grounded woman who values peace, depth, and real emotional safety. I’m comfortable in my own skin, manage my own household and career, and am fiercely devoted to my six-year-old son.

I’m specifically looking to connect with a Black man (Blerds to the front!) who is grounded, active, respectful, and knows how to show up consistently. High emotional intelligence, a calm, protective presence, and real confidence are huge green flags. I am 5'11" and love my height, and to be clear I am completely open to a partner who is shorter than me, as long as you've got the confidence to own standing next to a tall Amazon woman! :)

A little about me:

• The Vibe: Tall, dark haired, warm-hearted, low-drama, and naturally sweet once trust is built.
• Day-to-Day: Low-impact gym sessions, home-cooked meals (big fan of my Instant Pot and weekend baking), slow mornings, and building a peaceful life for my family.
• What I Value: Clear communication, strong physical and emotional chemistry, and feeling safe enough to drop my guard and just be soft.

To weed out low-effort auto-dms and make sure you read to the end, please include ONE of the following in your first message:

1. Your age, location, and a quick intro (classic ASL), OR
2. Your absolute favorite rom-com, OR
3. Your ultimate go-to breakfast spot or meal.

Messages without one of these answers will be ignored.

Hey just looking for someone to chat with initially and friendship or relationship if it works out well.
 
Prefer other Aussies as I’d like to be able to catch up if it goes well. I’m in NSW.
 
A bit about me – I’m divorced with kids. I enjoy all things outdoors, camping, hiking, fishing. I enjoy reading, tv shows, movies, sports, cooking.
 
I love spending time with my kids, but starting to miss having someone to talk with about everything and anything.
 
Hit me up if you are keen to chat.

I am 42 years old, soon to be 43, and from southwest Oklahoma. I tried this last year with mixed results, and clearly nothing that lasted. I have a job that I enjoy, my own home, a few pets, and a daughter who is 21 and trying to figure her life out.

I am looking for something long term, serious, and monogamous. I am emotionally available and looking for someone who is too. I am happy to exchange pictures early and move off Reddit quickly. Long distance is fine with me as long as there is an intention to close the gap in the future. Let’s have voice and video calls, watch movies, and play games together while we figure out if this could work.

I have a broad range of interests, so I will list a few of my favorites. I enjoy golf, D&D, board games, and I would love to find a road trip partner. At heart, I am a homebody, but I do enjoy getting out if the right person is involved. I am perfectly happy when we are doing our own things 10 feet apart.

I have a great sense of humor and can definitely laugh at myself. People tell me I am sarcastic, but I’m not sure what that means. I am the kind of person who holds doors open, listens when you talk, remembers the small things, and enjoys quiet moments that actually mean something. I am affectionate, love holding hands, and will still flirt with you long after we are together.

I am hoping to find a woman between 32 and 49, give or take a few years if we click, who shares some interests with me and is as big on communication as I am. Kindness, loyalty, honesty, and affection are important to me. You must have a sense of humor and like animals. We don’t have to agree on everything as long as we respect each other’s opinions. Being a little weird in the best possible way is also welcome.

As a reward for reading all of this, I will leave you with my favorite dad joke.

Q: How much does a rainbow weigh?
A: Not a lot. It’s actually pretty light.

Please tell me your favorite color in your first message so I know you read everything, and please say more than one word.

https://imgur.com/a/japan-Snjusnf  ←me

Seymour’s your friend, but if things worked out Seymour could be your man.

I’m going to lay my cards on the table: I’ve had trouble meeting people. Lately, it seems like the people I meet that I share similar interests with or that appear to be interested in me end up being emotionally unavailable or on the other side, the person and I get along well enough, but the relationship never deepens into an actual friendship and remains an acquaintance with a lot of “how was your day” kind of talk. In either situation the possibility of a relationship developing is far from possible.

I have to admit that I’m a bit of a weirdo and a little awkward. I aspire to be as cool as the Fonz, but in actuality I’m more akin to Rick Moranis. I like good bad movies like Over the Top and Black Dynamite, love live music, and I would die for Prince any day of the week. Recently, I’ve read a lot of US history books like People’s History, Black AF History, and the Half has not been told, which have inspired me to continue digging into the history I was never taught in school. I love art and going to all forms of live performance (plays, poetry, professional wrestling, etc) and I adore being exposed to new things and learning all about other people’s passions.

I tend to be drawn to people who are very challant about their hobbies and interests. I like people that care and make effort, people who value loyalty in their relationships (I’m a Chargers fan so you know I’m loyal through thick and thin haha blergh).

A little while ago I stumbled on a list of questions designed to Lead to Love. In all honesty, there’s nothing special about the questions other than that they provoke thoughtful answers and help you get to know the other person while they get to know you. I thought it would be fun to go through the list, alternating who has to answer first as a fun way to get past the typical getting to know you stuff that inevitably begins any relationship between two people.

Do you want to run through the questions with me?

I’ll start:

1. Given the choice of anyone in the world (living or dead), whom would you want as a dinner guest?

Lastly, please be local. I figure if we hit it off, it would be nice to hang out irl.

Please answer the first question as your response so I can easily sort out the bots. Thank you for your time and consideration.

Would really love to meet someone who is fairly close but I have no issues making a cool roadtrip either. Maybe we can talk for a bit and have a little fun that way.

Very outdoorsy athletic and active because I love food ha wanna love to meet up at a random mountain Airbnb and have an awesome fees days of all types of fun.

If you would like a chill conversation and maybe down for some adventures let me know….. in think it could be so much fun!!!

I also have discovered a love of cooking and trying new dishes, maybe we can spend the day making delicious food and then watch movies all night long.

If you just want someone to talk too I am also happy get to know someone that way too

And finally, a little about me: I’m 6ft 1, 185 lbs, light brown hair, pretty athletic build and have a few tattoos in various places.

If any of this sounds like a a good time, let me know !!

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I was hoping I would not post this again but here I am again, searching in a chaos, succumbing to that need for a spark one needs to maintain a degree of sanity in real life. Without that side eye of judgment, I am open to meeting in irl for the right vibe and palpable chemistry else online is also fine.

So where to begin!! This isn’t easy to write by any means, but I’m at a point where pretending I’m “fine” doesn’t really work anymore. Well, superficially it is fine, but if looked at inner feelings, the turmoil unfolds.

My marriage hasn’t turned out the way I hoped it would. We coexist, we function, we respect , but the emotional connection and intimacy just… isn’t there. There’s distance, silence, and a loneliness that’s hard to explain when you technically aren’t alone. That said, I still deeply respect my family and the responsibilities that come with it. I’m not here to run away from my life — I’m just being honest about how empty it feels sometimes and in need of some form of non judgemental companionship.

What I’m really missing is a connection. Someone who actually wants to talk every day even if it's for brief check ( we are all busy in our responsibilities), misses me when I am not there ,Someone who doesn’t vanish after a few good conversations. I miss being asked how my day was and meaning it. I miss teasing, flirt, comfort, and that feeling of getting attention. I long for that message on my phone which makes me pick a phone with a smile yet I want to hide it from others. The thrill of seeing a notification to tell me you thought about me.

I don’t separate emotional closeness from attraction; for me, they go hand in hand. I want the flirting to feel natural, exciting, and safe — not forced or rushed, but real.That said I don't want to change mine or anyone situation so breathe easy, I am not looking to replace your partner or uproot our lives. Just pure smiles and fun to make our existence better and gain some sanity to deal with everyday chaos.

About me, I am an IT professional with 9-6 routine, introverted, affectionate, caring, somewhat flirty person by nature. I crave playful banter, chemistry, and yes — spicy, NSFW conversations are definitely on the table when there’s trust and mutual comfort. We can find out more about me when we interact.

If you’re someone who:

\* Enjoys consistent, daily chats

\* Values honesty and emotional depth

\* Won’t ghost after two messages or two days

\* Likes warmth and affection

\* Comfortable with flirty/Nsfw conversation once trust is there

…then I’d genuinely love to hear from you.

I’m not looking for perfection and don't care where you are from. I’m looking for sincerity, kindness, and someone who also feels like they’ve been missing something.

If this resonates with you, my DMs are open ❤️.

If my post is up, I am still looking.

I'm a 48 year old white guy, 5’11” 190lbs brown eyes and salt and pepper hair. I’m pretty easygoing, stable, and definitely still young at heart. I'm married, but untortunately the intimacy and connection have been gone for a while, and I really miss having that physical fun.
I'm looking to meet a woman who's warm, fun, affectionate, and enjoys a good laugh. I'm a man with a high libido, so physical chemistry is important to me, I'd like to actually enjoy talking, hanging out, getting to know each other, and having something consistent that we both look forward to.
If you're in a similar situation and miss having that kind of connection, I'd love to hear from you.
What is your favorite 80's or 90's comedy.

Happy fall!

I’m back here hoping to find that rare spark where conversation just flows. The kind of connection where nobody is overthinking who messaged last, the jokes land naturally, and you genuinely look forward to hearing your phone buzz.
I’m Dan. I’m 52, I live on Long Island with my six cats, and work as a data analyst in healthcare. Outside of work, I host The Shelter Cats Podcast and co-host A Little Bit of Ship Banter—if you want to know what I look and sound like, both are on all the major platforms and on YouTube. Feel free to check them out! Not a plug haha.
Personality-wise, I lean toward dry sarcasm, sharing ridiculous memes, and making delightfully cheesy playlists. I try to be funny, even if it’s at my own expense. I love all kinds of music and spend way too much time on YouTube. If you're on Spotify, blending can be fun.
I’ve been single for over four years now. Life is peaceful and full on my own, which gives me the luxury of taking my time. I'm not rushing to force anything, but I do miss having a genuine partner to share daily life’s ups and downs with.
Ideally, you're around my age or younger, completely single, and based in the New York area or somewhere along the East Coast. If we have to board a plane or cross an ocean just to grab a cup of coffee, it won’t work. I love consistent, engaging conversation—certified yappers are very welcome—with the ultimate goal of meeting up for real once we know the chemistry is there. I'm looking for an actual partner, not an endless pen pal. Eventually moving off Reddit to text or another platform once we vibe is definitely the goal, but no rush on day one.
Most of all, I appreciate straightforward honesty. If the spark isn't there, just tell me. We're adults, and a polite heads-up is infinitely better than fading into radio silence.
If this strikes a chord, shoot me a message. Skip the generic "hey"—tell me a bit about yourself, what you're into, and drop the word MEOW somewhere in your opener so I know you took the time to read through.

Hi everyone! I am a 34-year-old single guy originally from Italy, currently living in Belgium. I am looking for someone to have a nice conversation with. Feel free to send me a message if you'd like to talk! 😉

I am moving to Bucyrus within a month of so.

I have recently lost my hearing.

Read to the end or I won't respond!

So here it is:

I am a 41 year old transwoman panromantic with demisexual flair. I am a very niche want.

I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness.

I am looking for my last person to start and finish my life with. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, D&D, Larping, writing, art, magic the gathering and more

LARPING is a huge part of my life, I would love to be able to share it with someone the rest of my life.

I used to game hardcore (Raiding WoW) but it has taken a back seat in my life. I do understand gaming. Got that new game or expansion coming out. My first question is "What snacks and drinks do you want?" Second is "How often do you want them brought to you?"

Deal breakers: smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed a lot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are. I have been deceived before.

Yellow flags are not wanting pictures of us, distance (i prefer within 10 hours DRIVE!), and aversion to anything social media.

Red Flag: Not reading this in full and answering the questions below in the first message. Asking for pictures right away.

I am not a bad person, big girl (Working out and changing that 40+ lbs down), adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess

If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:

1 Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit

2 Age, Location and Pronouns

3 What is something you think is totally underrated?

Hi there,

I’m a 6'2 tall, 34-year-old german guywith an athletic build. I’m the kind of person who needs fresh air to feel alive. Whether I’m out jogging, casting a line while fishing, hiking up a trail, or cruising on my motorcycle, I love being active and outdoors.

However, I’m looking for someone to balance that energy. I have a strong preference for women who identify as BBW. I love a woman with curves, softness, and confidence in her body.

What I’m looking for in you:

• You are curvy/BBW and own it. I’m not looking for stick-thin; I’m looking for lush and lovely.
• You know how to keep a conversation flowing. I love good banter and getting to know someone beyond just "hey" and "what's up." Let’s actually talk..

Tell me your favorite way to spend a Sunday or your favorite travel spot!

I would like to share a pic early on!

Hi! I'm a 38-year-old guy living in London who's hoping to meet someone for a genuine connection.

Outside of work you'll usually find me geocaching, out with my camera, or buried in a book. I mostly read history and fiction—everything from espionage novels by John le Carré to books on European history. If you've got recommendations, I'm always looking to add to my ever-growing reading list.

Photography is probably my biggest hobby. I enjoy wandering around London (and further afield) looking for interesting architecture, landscapes, and street scenes. If you're curious, here's some of my work: https://www.flickr.com/photos/piersmathias/

I'm also into geocaching, which has turned out to be a brilliant excuse to explore places I'd never otherwise visit. There's something satisfying about finding hidden corners of cities and countryside alike.

Travel is another big interest. So far I've explored Belgium, Germany and Denmark, and I'd love to see more of Europe over the next few years. I'm equally happy discovering a new city, finding a great museum, or simply sitting in a café people-watching.

I'm looking for someone who's kind, curious, and enjoys conversations that can wander from history and travel to completely random topics. Bonus points if you're happy to join me on a photography walk, a geocaching adventure, or help me decide where my next trip should be.

If any of that sounds like your kind of day, send me a message. Tell me about the last place that surprised you, your favourite book, or the best hidden gem you've discovered.