r/R4R40Plus • • 23h ago

F4M 54F -Any Christian men here?

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It would be absolutely amazing to not be alone at Christmas this year.
I will probably delete this soon 😂
You know how INFJ’s are! 🤭
I live in Texas and I’m an empty nester. I was married for 25 years. Divorced for 3 years. I’m not looking for fun. I am only dating intentionally for marriage.
I have a picture of me in another post if you want to see what I look like.
God Bless!
🩷🙏✝️


r/R4R40Plus • • 18h ago

F4M 38 [F4M] #Online/Anywhere Hoping for romance, laughter and a real spark ;)

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I miss having someone whose name makes me smile when it pops up on my phone. The kind of connection built on great conversations, ridiculous laughter, mutual curiosity and shameless flirting.

I’m 38, Latina living in Central America. I have black hair, big dark brown eyes, tan skin, curvy/thick, and a personality considerably bigger than my height. I’m divorced, affectionate, creative, and occasionally a little weird (in the good way ;)) I love traveling, creative projects, getting invested in TV shows, and taking football (soccer) far too seriously, among other things.

I’d love to meet a kind, funny, affectionate man who’s curious about me and brings warmth and initiative. Attraction matters, just as it does for most people, and I’m happy to exchange pics early on. I’m curvy/thick and some time ago I started going to the gym to get stronger. Dad bods are welcome; marathon runners will be cheered from a comfortable distance. My type tends to be taller men with fair skin (I guess it’s bc it’s different than me).

I’m looking for something romantic and genuine, with affection, playful flirting, and sexual chemistry if it feels right for both of us. I enjoy a little spice, including sexting, but I’d like it to be one part of a connection, not the whole thing.

I’m not interested in paid offers or anything transactional, and honesty matters to me.

Also, I’ve accidentally dismissed a few requests while half asleep (sleep and I are not on great terms 🤦🏻‍♀️). If yours was one of them, please feel free to send it again it wasn’t personal!

If you message me, tell me something with a little personality. An oddly fact or a mention of something in this post is a good start. A “Hey” alone might get lost.

Let’s see if we make each other smile. ;)


r/R4R40Plus • • 19h ago

M4F 41 [M4F] #Gardengrove - FWB. Southern California.

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I am looking for something casual and fun to blow off some steam every now and then. I work a lot but luckily I am in control of my schedule so I can usually make the time with a little bit of heads up.

When it comes to what I am looking for, I am pretty open, however, I am not looking to jump into another super serious relationship or marriage. In the short term, I would love to have regular sex again and that's honestly what I am looking for with this post. Things typically develop from there and with that I like to keep things casual and let things flow naturally.

When I am involved with someone, to me, respect is the absolute most important thing. I will always show you respect and will always act kindly towards you. I don't believe in yelling, voice raising, or big arguments. I understand the physical power imbalance between a man and a woman and I think it is a man's duty to always make sure that his woman feels safe. In exchange, I expect the same in return and will walk away if I feel you are not living up to this agreement.

In the bedroom, I am very dominant and love being in control. I am always happy to lead our interaction and all I expect from you is to do what comes naturally to you. You won't ever have to initiate or worry about what pleases me. What pleases me most is you making yourself available to me and once there, I know where to take things. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

I am 41 years and have no kids. I have my own place about 10 minutes from the beach. I am 5'10 and weigh 158 lbs. I am white with brown hair with a touch of gray, hazel eyes, and a fit/muscular body type. I workout several times per week, and always try to take care of myself.

STD free.


r/R4R40Plus • • 2h ago

M4F 48 [M4F] #NYC - Tri-state area. Looking for someone trustworthy to keep things quiet and fun.

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I'm a 48 year old white guy, 5’11” 190lbs brown eyes and salt and pepper hair. I’m pretty easygoing, stable, and definitely still young at heart. I'm married, but untortunately the intimacy and connection have been gone for a while, and I really miss having that physical fun.
I'm looking to meet a woman who's warm, fun, affectionate, and enjoys a good laugh. I'm a man with a high libido, so physical chemistry is important to me, I'd like to actually enjoy talking, hanging out, getting to know each other, and having something consistent that we both look forward to.
If you're in a similar situation and miss having that kind of connection, I'd love to hear from you.
What is your favorite 80's or 90's comedy.


r/R4R40Plus • • 5h ago

39 [M4F] north America/online Lets strike up an exciting conversation!

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Hi there, hows your day going? Good i hope! I dont have much going on today and would love to meet someone to chat with!

I love to cook and bake. Lasagna, curry, muffins, cupcakes... i make delicious food. Let me show you?

I have a mini library. 2 bookcases almost full and still adding to it. I like reading scifi, fantasy, horror, and littpg.

Big fan of movies, especially horror. Have a nice collection of blurays too. Physical forever!

Love all kinds of music. Country is not my thing tho. Let me recommend you some songs!

Other hobbies of mine include writing, coloring, staying active by walking or biking, tennis...

The really prefer the 3 C's

Compassion, communication, consent.

If you are curvy/alt/nerdy please move to the front of the line but everyone is welcome! Also know effort you put in is effort you will get back.

Send me a message and lets chat!


r/R4R40Plus • • 12h ago

M4F 48 [M4F] #NYC - Tri-state area. Looking for someone trustworthy to keep things quiet and fun.

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I'm a 48 year old white guy, 5’11” 190lbs brown eyes and salt and pepper hair. I’m pretty easygoing, stable, and definitely still young at heart. I'm married, but untortunately the intimacy and connection have been gone for a while, and I really miss having that physical fun.
I'm looking to meet a woman who's warm, fun, affectionate, and enjoys a good laugh. I'm a man with a high libido, so physical chemistry is important to me, I'd like to actually enjoy talking, hanging out, getting to know each other, and having something consistent that we both look forward to.
If you're in a similar situation and miss having that kind of connection, I'd love to hear from you.
What is your favorite 80's or 90's comedy.


r/R4R40Plus • • 20h ago

M4F 46 [M4F] New England, roadtrip, hangout and cuddles

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Never done this before but I figured why not, could make a friend.

I’m on a much needed getaway and would love to connect with a lovely lady to spend time with, get some good eats, coffee tea go to a park, I workout so maybe go to the gym together. Someone around the same age, 35-50, fit, like’s being active.

I’m not looking for anything sexual, just closeness, hugs and cuddles. I’m always open to a relationship (currently single, looking for someone single as well) but I’m just not looking right now.

Felt cute might delete later. Lol. Looking forward to your dm.


r/R4R40Plus • • 7h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] Air Force officer for an #Online chat partner

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Hello ☺️

I'm 35 years old and an Air Force officer.

I love cooking, baking (especially sourdough and pizzas) gardening, and woodworking. I'm trying to work on my garden, planting garlic and soon some grass lawn.

I have a 7 years old chubby corgi that provides me company when I'm home, and my neighbors take care of her when I'm away.

I want to meet someone to discuss recent events and the past few months. Most nights, I feel a bit lonely and need to process things.

Thank you, look forward to your messages. 😄


r/R4R40Plus • • 23h ago

42 [M4F] Are you Wi-Fi? Because I’m feeling a connection.

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42M, 6’3”, looking to meet someone who’s missing a little spark and connection in their life too. I’d love to find someone I genuinely look forward to talking to good conversation, laughing, flirting, and getting to know each other without forcing expectations. I’m easygoing, enjoy deeper conversations, and I’m completely open to someone with kids. Life doesn’t have to be uncomplicated, just genuine. If this sounds like something you’ve been missing too, send me a message and let’s see where the conversation goes.


r/R4R40Plus • • 1h ago

32 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Is it a naughty Uber or UberEats kinda night? - I’m here to fulfill your fantasy NSFW

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IMPORTANT:
1. Females only
2. If interested, send me a chat with your age, location in LA, a general idea of what you are looking to do
3. Be ready to exchange verification pictures

I am an Uber driver that gets pretty bored during the late night hours.

I would like to find a passenger that wants to meet up for some naughty fun with an Uber driver. I can pick you up and we can role play in Uber. I got the newest Tesla with all the bells and whistles that can make our encounter fun. Auto pilot that can drive us around as you give road head, a big screen I can turn porn on, and back seats that go all the way down so you can lie and see the stars through the sunroof.

Or maybe you want me to be your Uber Eats delivery driver and I can make a deliver to your place for some naughty fun.

I am open to other kinks you may have, just send me a chat.

About me: I have a picture on my profile. I'm Caucasian, 32, 5'9, 160 lbs, sane, down to earth, clean shaven face, uncircumcised cock.

I am DDF and tested clean as of last month and I expect you to be the same. Any penetrating sex will be with a condom.

About you: 18+, fit to chubby, HWP, attractive, clean, DDF and recently tested.

Everything will be descrete and NSA.


r/R4R40Plus • • 6h ago

M4F 41 [M4F] #Huntingtonbeach - Seeking younger woman for FWB. Southern California. Spoiler

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I am looking for a FWB. I would love to go on fun dates like the beach since it's so close by or perhaps try out some restaurants that I have been wanting to try.

I was married before and am now divorced. My marriage overall was a pretty good experience, but getting married again isn't something I have my goals set toward. I would love to find someone to spend time with, to take a break from the everyday, and someone with a voracious sexual appetite. I have never been into one night stands or any of that, and would love to find an ongoing situation and would happily entertain something longer term with the right person.

When it comes to our dynamic, I very much believe in the male role of leadership. I have never once been in a fully 50/50 relationship and don't ever intend on being in one. I have always walked to my own beat, and people have always relied on me and not the other way around. Things like responsibility always fall on my shoulders and it's my duty to make sure that everything that needs to be handled is handled.

The kind of woman that I get along best with is one who respects masculine authority, The kind of woman who immediately falls into her submissive feminine energy when the kind of man I am speaking of is looking in her direction.

To me, mutual respect is of utmost importance and I feel we should always be kind to each other. I do not need to make you feel small to make myself feel big. I understand the physical power imbalance between the sexes and it is my duty to make sure you always feel safe in my presence.

When we are behind closed doors, I am very much a dominant. I will put you in a mindspace where you will never have to think about what comes next. It will just happen. This will be your opportunity to fully clear your mind and not worry about any of life's challenges. It is always my goal to make sure you are just as satisfied as I am.

I have a lot of lived experience, have led an interesting life, and can have conversations about most subjects especially those that involve the inner workings of how the world works and life in general.

I am 5'10 and weigh 160 lbs. I am white with brown hair with some grays peaking out and hazel eyes. I very much care about my health and how I look and have been working out for years. My body type is somewhere between fit and muscular and I am pretty lean overall.

STD free.


r/R4R40Plus • • 3h ago

M4F 40 [M4F] Oregon/Online - Looking for daytime banter before I start naming the houseplants

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40, Portland, OR, WFH in tech. The job is fine. The house is quiet. By 2pm I’ve already had entire conversations with the microwave and given two of the plants names they did not ask for.

Looking for a woman to chat with during the day. Easy and fun. Banter, teasing, the occasional badly timed joke. If it turns a little flirty, even better. I like that kind of back and forth. Bonus points if you also work in tech.

I’m on X more than I should be. I listen to the Red Scare podcast, Anna and Dasha. The Perfume Nationalist. Rare Candy. If you’ve been in that orbit, we will probably get along.

I’m not trying to make this a whole production. I like talking to someone who’s sharp and doesn’t take herself too seriously. If you can make a Friday afternoon interesting, that’s pretty much my type.

If this sounds like your kind of thing, say hi. Tell me what you’re avoiding at work or home right now. I’ll tell you about the latest meeting I keep postponing.


r/R4R40Plus • • 9h ago

M4F 47 [M4F] Washington State/Online - Fit professional shoots a lot of cum

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I’m a tall, fit 47-year-old professional on the West Coast with a mainstream look, a good sense of humor, and frequent business travel. I’m hoping to connect with confident women who enjoy laughing, relaxed conversation, mutual pleasure, and exploring strong sexual chemistry. I’m known for shooting an unusually large volume of semen and would love to meet someone who genuinely appreciates that, always with clear communication, consent, and discretion in mind.

Let's chat! 😁


r/R4R40Plus • • 6h ago

F4M 40F [F4M] Florida… hoping to get to know a great man

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Hi gents, I’m in the Treasure Coast area with hopes of meeting a man that I can click with as a friend that would in turn lead to something real and substantial in time.

Personally I’m not looking for a ONS or FWB or anything of the sort.

I’m 40F, 5’0”, short not tiny, divorced, no kids, not looking to waste anyone’s time or vice versa.

My preferences:
Location- between Palm Beach and Orlando, Tampa possibly
Age- must be at least 37+
Physicality- body type, height, hair or the lack there of, eye color no preferences, however I am interested in white/Caucasian.

Please send me a DM if interested. Thank you!


r/R4R40Plus • • 5h ago

34 [M4F] - Do You Work From Home, Too?

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I'm of the opinion the ONLY good thing to come out of the 'rona was the new-found acceptance of so many office workers to be able to now work from home.

I'm a hybrid guy, so I feel like I have the best of both worlds. When I go into the office, I do anything relating to physical paper, the high intensity tasks, the more collaborative efforts.

But when I'm WFH, well, chances are I'm not getting out of my PJs until noon. If I don't have any meetings, I end up with a lot of free time.

That's where you come in. Do you wanna keep me company? That sounded kinda conceited, 'cuz I'd like to keep you company, too. I basically have no filter and no limits, so I'll be sure to keep it interesting.

Set your Teams status to busy. Let's go!