Howdy reddit 🤠 My name's Claire, and l've been single for over 2 years now. Sometimes I feel like I'm missing out, especially when a lot of my friends have had partners for years now.

I'm from Canada 🇨🇦, and I turned 23 in September. Some of my favorite things are going for walks, doing art and different creative things, and relaxing in my room.

My ideal partner would be older than me, have a sense of humor, and would be someone that likes to talk and text.

My DM's are open & l'll try my best to respond.

Can send a selfie if interested as well 😊

Thanks 🐸

Hello. I am a 39 year old bbw in Arizona looking to get to know someone in hopes of it becoming my forever. I have been single for quite some time and I have a lot to offer the right person. I have two kids and can not have anymore. If that is a deal breaker, I hope you find what you are looking for. I am funny, smart, fun, I have a job, and I love showing love and receiving love. I am a good person who deserves better than I have gotten in life. I love to talk and get to know people. I love music, horror, Halloween is a lifestyle not just a holiday. For hobbies I love scrapbooking, card making, baking, and doing karaoke. I don't go out very often.

I am looking for someone honest, caring, funny, loyal, and understanding. I would prefer someone between the ages of 30 and 50. I am NOT looking for someone to take care of or to take care of me. I am NOT looking for a casual thing. I know what I want and I am not going to settle for anything less.

If you are remotely interested at all please don't be afraid to message me. Maybe tell me your favorite horror movie or what you are dressing up as for Halloween this year. Even a good joke will get my attention. Hope to hear from you soon!

Hey! I'm 35F from South America (UTC-5). I'm a homebody who enjoys PC gaming, cooking, Netflix, memes, and hanging out on Discord.

I'm looking for a single person aged 34–50, preferably from North or South America, who enjoys talking, knows how to keep a conversation going, and puts genuine effort into getting to know someone.

My kind of humor includes sarcasm, dark humor, and stupid memes. I'd love someone to play video games with, binge-watch shows on Netflix, share memes, and talk about absolutely anything for hours.

I'm more into cozy nights in than physically demanding activities due to some mobility limitations.

If you're interested, tell me a little about yourself, including your age, location, favorite games, and sense of humor. Please don't just send “hey”!

Spam filter: What's 7 × 8?

Important: I will not respond to messages that don't include the correct answer to the security question. If you don't answer it, I won't reply. Thanks for understanding! ❤️

Hey

Just a warning that this is going to be a long post.

Who am I after:
\-a man aged 25-45;
\-ideally living in the UK but will consider the most of Europe; Balkan and Slavic men to the front though haha.
\-someone who speaks English (how else are we going to communicate?)
\-Christian of some sort of a denomination (orthodox would be perfect but will consider others too!). I’m an inquirer at my local Greek Orthodox Church, soon enough to become a catechumen.
\-someone mature, loving, caring, funny, patient, affectionate, protective and possessive. A lover and a best friend.
\-someone who doesn’t smoke and drinks occasionally, almost teetotal (same as me). Same with drugs, no drug use whatsoever.
\-height or weight don’t matter to me; I am more of a nice face person.
\-a coffee drinker! I love a coffee and cake date. Maybe with a book too

What am I after:
\-something long term and meaningful.
\-an old school man led relationship.
\-my safe person whom I can confide in, someone who will become my home.

I know it might be something that isn’t for everyone and I completely respect that. If this is the case, I am wishing you all the best in your search for the one!

About me:
My name is Anita and I am 31yo woman living in the UK but originally from Eastern Europe. I moved here 11 years ago. I go back home twice a year and it would be amazing to have someone to come with me so I can bore them to death about my hometown and show them all the places I used to hang out at as a kid.

I work, I’ll disclose that later but I can assure you that it isn’t anything interesting. It’s a job, pays my bills and helps me stay afloat. Even though I work loads and stupid hours, I am willing to make time for the right person.

Physical side of things: I would consider myself as alternative looking. I dye my hair red, wear rather quirky clothes and heavy makeup is my go to. I am 6ft tall or 180cm (yes, I am definitely a woman; just that women from my dad’s side were basically giants). Not sure about my weight but I’ve gone down 2 sizes in clothes which I’m very happy about.

Personality wise: extreme introvert but it doesn’t mean I’m shy. I’m a very outspoken person when I have to be but most of the time I keep to myself. I don’t like large crowds or loud noises. I would say I’m a loving, affectionate, relatively funny, compassionate and considerate person. My love languages are physical touch and acts of service.

I’ll get this out of the way: I suffer from bipolar disorder (diagnosed at 12) and extreme anxiety. They tend to impact my everyday life but I am taking medication and waiting to see a therapist (people in the UK know what I mean).

In my spare time I like to attend church, read books (true crime novels and occasionally a Bible verse or two!), spend time with my family, chill with my cats, nap, over think, watch stuff on my iPad and travel back home.

While I might not lead an exciting life but I find it peaceful. I’m not looking to change it but to introduce someone to my world. Maybe it’s you?

If any of what I rambled about resonates with you, shoot me a message stating your name, age and location.

Divorced with 2 adult kids. I’m AuDHD and don’t socialize much outside of work. I have a lot of interests - gardening, rock/fossil collecting, history, hiking and camping, reading, anime, baseball, and arts/crafts. I have cats. Heavy metal concerts are one of the few things that get me out of the house, and I’d like to have someone who enjoys concerts and can go with me. Liberal but politics isn’t my personality.
Looking for someone local ideally.

Since i caught your attention.. BAAAH !! My bad, sorry for the jumpscare.

Jokes aside ^^, I'm spinning around and looking for someone who would be up to spend time together, be silly, laugh, tease and get teased, scream and dream, share random shower thoughts, and be comfy together and around each other. No need to try and impress anyone, just be honest and willing to put the effort since I am too.
(Please be from EU, since big timezone differences make it really hard)

I would say that I'm:
- happy with my life, almost always positive, encouraging and happy
- mature and available emotionally and mentally
- like to banter and tease, but can be serious when actually needed. Will tease you when you are upset until you give in ^^
- have infinite patience
- slim and tall (186cm / 6'1), you would probably need big heels to reach my head :)
- have a sweet tooth so I like to spoil people around with snacks too, bough some yesterday and cannot eat them since today I got a sore throat AAAAAAA
- don't smoke and such.. except some drinking socially of course - i'm not a monk haha (tho now i wonder if monks are allowed to drink or not)
- watch movies, like horror a lot with recent ones being Obsession and Backrooms. Also I like fantasy and got hooked on space movies recently after seeing Hail Mary. Amaze Amaze ^^
- I play games, tabletop games too, watch anime, and am more indoor type but enjoy some activities from time to time.

Probably enough for now, rest we can find out together. Hope to hear from you if you reached here, but if not have a nice evening :>

Might be a bit corny intro but that's my mood now, I'm sure non corny me in the future might rethink this :<

(if this post is still up, i'm still looking and you're free to DM!! also, this is really long and kinda specific (this isn't my first rodeo) i'm so so sorry)

please be 21 or over! i cannot stress this enough. and no men please, this is an F4F post. thank you for your understanding

hi!! i'm a 23 year old asexual lesbian. i'm 175cm/5'9" and 57kg, pretty skinny. i would describe myself as a chapstick/futch lesbian presentation wise and i mostly succeed at looking androgynous, since that's my appearance goal.

i can send pictures in dms! there's a picture on my profile but full disclosure; i'm wearing a wig in it. my real hair is wavy and shoulder length.

i'm from south asia, and i would prefer if you were from asia or europe for timezone convenience. i plan to relocate to a different country (maybe even yours!) eventually, hopefully in the next few years. i see myself being in japan, singapore or somewhere in europe in the future.
but regardless of where you're from, if we have a lot in common i'd love to get to know you! just know that the time difference between here and american continents really can't work out for a serious relationship,,

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presently, i'm a NEET who's actively trying to change my situation. i'm doing a masters' in finance just to keep myself busy, but i can't honestly say i like it. i'm also learning japanese on the side! it would be fun to have a language learning partner :>

i did my bachelor's in computer science, and my job hunt has been grueling. there's many things about the tech industry i dislike, and i'm really having my doubts about trying to join this industry now.

if things work out according to plan, i might move to japan next year. i also want to pursue another masters' degree sometime in the future, but in a more humanities/social science oriented field rather than STEM again.

i have wayyy too many goals i hope to reach by the time i'm 30. i want to learn an instrument (maybe guitar or bass), hopefully reach N3 fluency in JPN by mid next year, get a cat as a pet, and travel more. i also want to get better at working out and exercising, rather than doing it on and off. creating and publishing a short game could also be fun!

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personality wise, i'd describe myself as very self sufficient. i'm not really one for being a part of a large social circle, and it shows with all my major relationships being one on one rather than a group/community. big groups overwhelm me and i feel like i'm able to create more lasting bonds when they're one on one.

despite this, i can be a social butterfly in my own way. once i'm past the initial anxious/shy phase when i first get to know someone, i can become pretty annoying. i'm a big homebody and spend most of my time playing games, or lurking on twitter. i'd love it if you were chronically online like me so i can spam you random memes or references to things i see on twt.

i'm an INTP and a cat person (i think i'd be a black cat gf). i also like voice calling and would like to call my partner at least once a week.

i'm pretty depressed and have a lotttt of mental issues (wow who could've guessed). i tend to get really overstimulated and anxious at times so i'd appreciate your patience!! i will of course be patient with you as well. i have a tendency to self isolate when things are bad, so i'm not really the broody type, and i am actively working on my problems

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i feel like i have very typical NEET interests. i'm in several fandoms and i like a bunch of stuff, notably videogames (visual novels, rpgmakers, horror games, jrpgs), writing, animanga, thrift shopping, video essays and more! also dabbling in game dev, though i'm far from having a complete project 😭

i'm a fan of a lot of games/media that would be wayy too much to list, but visual novels are my major interest, and if you like or play any, chances are i have as well !! or i've heard of them in some capacity.

i'm learning japanese (admittedly very on and off recently, i really gotta lock in properly) and i want to get to other languages soon too! some i'm interested in learning in the future are mandarin and german

my ideal hangout is screensharing games i play or watching you play games; or watching anime/kdramas/shows together! i loveeee parallel play and cozy games. i'm really not that big on competitive multiplayer games, carry me if we play them? 🫶🏽

music wise, i like kpop, jpop, vocaloid, shoegaze, industrial, shibuya kei, videogame osts and lots of other random stuff. i'd love to trade playlists or lastfms!

i'm also into anime/manga but not as much as i'm into games. i mostly read yuri and i would love to know about your favs though‼️‼️ i'd also love it if we could read stuff together, akin to a duo book club!

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now with that out of the way, here's more about me and what i'm looking out of a relationship! :D

i'm a trans woman who's been on HRT for almost 3 years. i'm androgynous enough that most strangers can't tell what i am at first glance, but my voice needs some work (it's in the androgynous pitch range, most people say they like it but my brainworms tell me they're just being nice to me)

as for my personal beliefs, i'm vegetarian, agnostic/non religious and a leftist. i don't smoke/vape or do drugs. i'm too young and not financially stable enough to be thinking about this, i'm definitely child and dog free. sorry about the latter...
ideally i'd want my partner to have similar beliefs as me, and that's a non negotiable on religion/politics. i might seem rigid but i promise i'm not THAT unyielding, i'm mostly just listing these since my beliefs might be someone else's dealbreakers and it's best to get that out of the way early !!

i'm into androgynous people and femmes, and i'm okay with both cis and trans ppl!
but if you're trans, please be in the process of transitioning, i don't expect you to be all the way there because i'm not either, but i would like it if you were in a decent headspace about your body/identity since i'm ill equipped to deal with dysphoria struggles.
i also have a preference for fellow asians, no matter where they're from. i find that i get along with first or second gen immigrants best because of similar life experiences and worldviews.

as an ace, i'd like if you were asexual too but i'm completely fine with anyone that's not hypersexual and is okay with me being very vanilla/prudeish, i know my dating pool is small and i don't wanna make it smaller 😭😭

my overall type is someone who's sweet, nerdy and introverted. i'd hope we have a decent amount in common so our initial conversations aren't awkward. most importantly though, i'd really like my partner to be my best friend. my ideal type of romance is a slowburn, but that can vary depending on our chemistry with each other.

i'm okay with any baggage my partner might have. i'd want to be there for you during bad times and celebrate the good times ^^ i don't mind reply gaps/ghosting at all and you can take as long as you need when you talk/reply to me !!

i'm looking for something serious, where we can possibly meet up in the future, and i'm fine with waiting for it. i'm totally okay with long distance anywhere. i value communication a lot, i'd like to talk to a potential partner pretty regularly and hopefully call often to hang out with them!

i just kinda want to do corny things that couples do, like match icons, and stuff hehe.

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i can't think of what else to put on here. please ask me anything else you'd like to know \^_^ thank you for reading if you got this far, hopefully i seem interesting enough to talk to (⁄ ⁄>⁄ ▽ ⁄<⁄ ⁄)

please tell me about yourself when you, what we have in common and what you're looking for in a relationship when you dm me! i will ignore you if you're dry.

sorry again for the long read!

Dating apps have never been my thing, which feels weird to type because here I am, but yea. Not my thing. So I'm taking my chance here in the hopes that maybe the person I'm ment to be with might not be here but even over seas and what not.

So a little about me. My name is Josh, I'm 6'1, love to cook (I cook for you, I dont mind, and I'm pretty good) love movies of all kinds but prefer horror and comedy, love music though not current rap and country, big into games of all kinds though I have no issue putting that in the backseat to make time for you, love nature, theme parks, the beach, big into mythology and history of all kinds. I use dad jokes illegally because I'm not a dad, and I used to work out a ton but took a break. Would be nice to have a partner.

I'm looking for butterflies. Odd thing to say, but I miss having someone to stay up late with, get lost in time with said person, have someone to look forward to hearing from. Romance you know. Feels kind of dead these days but I'm old school on the way that I love showing affection and showing someone they mean a ton to me. I know I play video games but I'm not looking to play games with someone's heart if that makes sense.

Hi there! I am an 29M, I am originally from the UK but have lived in Spain most of my life. I work as a senior developer, which I enjoy a lot! I am very into programming and electronics, and quite techy in general I guess. At uni I studied space systems engineering, although I don't work in anything related to that right now I can probably talk about space for hours if the conversation goes in that direction haha.

In my free time, I like gaming a bit (I like single-player RPGs quite a lot, and also play games like FFXIV, Stardew Valley and other co-op games with my friends). I also enjoy reading, I used to read a lot when I was younger and I am trying to get into the habit again. I am currently re-reading The Lord of the Rings!

In terms of personality, I guess I usually come across as fairly quiet and serious at first, but once I get to know someone I like to have fun and joke around a bit, sometimes I can have a bit of a silly sense of humour. So I am hoping to find someone who can match that, we can have serious conversations but also meme around a bit as well and not take eachother too seriously.

I am usually the stay-in type of person, and in general I think I would be most compatible with someone who is similar, but I do enjoy going out occasionally :P I also enjoy travelling (my last big trip was to Japan, as cliche as it sounds I really liked it!), and I am hoping to find someone who would enjoy visiting different places as well, not very frequently but maybe a big trip every 1-2 years.

In terms of values, I am generally left-leaning and generally believe that everyone is deserving of a basic level of dignity and respect, no matter what their background or circumstances. I see romantic relationships more as a partnership between equals rather than the traditional view.

As for what I am looking for, I would like to start slowly and get to know someone first, but my hope is to find a long-term partner. I don't mind being long-distance first, but hopefully eventually we could close the gap (I work remotely atm so I have some flexibility there). In general I am looking for people in Europe due to timezones and ease of travelling to each other, but I would also consider further afield for the right person. At the moment I am not that interested in having children, I am looking for someone with whom we can enjoy our own company rather than starting a family.

I am happy to share pictures in DMs, and bonus points if you are too. I value personality, kindness, intelligence and a compatible sense of humour more than physical appearence so don't feel self-consious but I think it is important that a baseline level of physical attraction be there as well.

I won't ramble on too long, if you think we could get along or even if you're not sure and have some more questions, please feel free to reach out!

Hello there! As mentioned in my title (You did read the title, I hope? I put a lot of effort into it.), I'm a 29-year-old guy living in the mystical, magical land of checks notes England. Okay, maybe not so magical. All the dragons are in Wales, Excalibur has been melted down for scrap, and Hogwarts is in Scotland.

I currently work in a law firm. Sadly I'm not a lawyer, as that would mean I'd be earning shedloads, but actually I do admin work for them, earning considerably less than shedloads. But it's a fine job, I get on well with my coworkers, and I'm not down a coal mine, so I consider that a win.

As for me myself? Well, I actually speak multiple languages. I'm a fluent German speaker, and I also have a decently high level of Italian. I could also struggle through French if I had to, and I have basic Spanish and Japanese. I do like languages, although it's hard to find the time to do any study of them, what with the problems of having an adult life with adult responsibilities!

Another interesting [citation needed] thing about me is that I'm currently attempting to plan out a series of fantasy novels I want to write. It's going...decently. We'll see how it ends up, but I've wanted to write a book since I was 13 or so, and now as an adult I'm finally doing something about it!

In terms of pop culture, I'm a huge Doctor Who fan. Like, I'm the sort of Doctor Who fan who knows what a telerecording is and can tell you about the Australian censor clips. That kind of fan. I also finally got into Harry Potter this year after putting it off for my whole life, meaning I now finally know the context for Dumbledore asking calmly.

I'm also getting back into Pokémon somewhat after avoiding it for most of the Switch era. Other things I enjoy are The Elder Scrolls, Red Dead, GTA. I'm big Assassin's Creed fan too. In general I like single player, open world games. I'm not a huge multiplayer guy, I don't like having other people ruining my fun!

I'm trying to read more too lately. That's a thing I've always enjoyed that I'm now trying to find the time for again.

And I suppose I should say, I'm a fat guy. Trying to do something about it though!

Be a dork, be a tomboy, have a sense of humor. Age isn't a huge deal to me and anything under 40 is fine if you're at least a mature adult, Location doesn't matter as long as you're willing to travel. I don't mind outcasts, NEETs, femcels, or weebs. I almost prefer them sometimes. Basically, just be a sweet and dorky tiny woman and sit on me a lot. I'd like to find a best friend, a buddy to game with and call a lot, and then maybe more than that in the future.

So, about me. I’m 5’11,” normal sized, and my hair is super long. I look real mean, but I promise I'm not. I'd call myself abrasively zen. I'm a bit of a nerd. I'm kind of a cinephile. I love music; I love composition and like to learn all the trivia. I have kind of an absurdist sense of humor and like to say creatively stupid garbage. I am extremely passionate about writing and my other hobbies, and I'd prefer if you're the same way about yours. I have about 8 million random recorded story ideas because I want to be a writer. Ask me about writing, movies, or music and I’ll talk forever. I'm a gamer as well (elden ring or destiny or anything else with vast lore because I love lore), whether I'm playing with my partner, or just watching her play animal crossing or something. I'm very much a homebody but I like to get out; I want to try that hole in the wall restaurant, I wanna walk around the historic downtown, I wanna check out the museum, I wanna teach you to shoot, I wanna go to the zoo lol. I also love to cook and make pizza for a living. I will make you fat. I hope you like Italian.

I grew up poor, so I don't really go for vanity or materialism. Obsessions with things like fashion and makeup and jewelry are dry and shallow to me. I'm a minimalist, and I appreciate practicality and simplicity. I also appreciate individual thinking, so I'm not really into the political fanaticism. I believe in responsibility at the individual level, so things like being honest, thoughtful, and having integrity are paramount. You won't find me having any part-time principles. I'm very patient, and I'm an extremely attentive listener. I've handled a great deal of stress without breaking, and I'm a good reliable rock to lean on when I'm needed.

In relationships, I love being of use, whether it's cooking, helping around the house, or being a shoulder to cry on. It just feels good to be reliable; but I also appreciate reciprocity and good communication, so I'm not into being treated like a punching bag or a door mat. I have firm boundaries when it comes to not communicating like an adult, like cheating or being manipulative. I'd rather team up with my partner against our problems, not the other way around. I like things stable and healthy.

So that's me, what I like, and what I'm like.

Anyway, if I can be ridiculous for a moment, if any of this is you, come after me please: you're a clingy, thrifty, tomboyish artist that likes when I cook for you and rants at me about your day in the shower while I watch (this is my favorite thing ever) or even jump in with you and wash your hair. You appreciate being touched and held constantly and are totally instiable. You usually wear basically nothing but a big shirt at home and are obsessed with lego or pokemon or hot wheels or 40k or something geeky and crafty. You love music and writing and like to just grab a pizza and watch a movie together most nights. You spend your free time gaming and laughing at stupid crap on the internet. You love flashing me because it's funny (I love being flashed lol), you can also sing like Annie Wilson, and also are a tok sen masseuse. You're also a Martian and don't exist.

Anyway, that's just my little fantasy, not a checklist or anything. I don’t have many hard requirements on who you are, long as I can level with you fundamentally and we get along. I require a little patience and some figuring out, but I’m also pretty patient myself. You can talk to me about, or ask me about basically anything. I'm very hard to offend so please try to be engaging. I hope someone that every word of this post speaks to ends up finding me.

Please put in some effort. Opening a conversation with "hi," makes me sad. Having to play 20 questions with you to keep your attention makes me sad. Finding out after all those questions that we have nothing in common makes me sad. If you're interested, show some interest.

Hi, I’m John from Chicago!

I’m a pretty average, what ya see is what you get kinda guy. I have a 13 year old rescue dog named Buddy who is my entire world. I love film, mainly horror, but I’ll legit watch anything. I often spend my weekdays after work on Tubi looking for movies I’ve never heard of.

On my downtime you can find me at my fav movie theaters, shooting pool at the dive bar down the street, or taking my good boy on walks. I love spending time with friends, but I also enjoy being home bound here and there.

I’ve tried dating apps and they just suck. So I’m here on Reddit trying this out! I’m looking for someone I can be myself with. Someone who I can enjoy little trips with. Someone can enjoy the big moments in life with, and be content in the small ones.

Location doesn’t matter to me. I’m not tied down to Chicago. Let’s talk and see if we click!

Hello I’m Daniel, 30, from Czechia. I work as a software analyst. Since that means spending a lot of my weekdays staring at screens, I try to make up for it by being active whenever I’m not working.

I love hiking, travelling, discovering new places, and trying basically any sport I get the chance to play. I’m equally happy planning a proper trip somewhere new or just heading out for a spontaneous weekend adventure. I have a particular soft spot for Scandinavia and have travelled there several times already. So far Helsinki has probably been my favourite, but there’s still plenty I’d love to see..especially Denmark and Norway, which I haven’t made it to yet.

Last year I picked up a camera and started learning photography. I’m still very much a beginner, but I already have a few photos I’m genuinely proud of. It’s also given me a great excuse to spend more time outside :) .

What I’m really hoping to find is someone I naturally click with. Someone to talk to during those late evenings, exchange random thoughts with, plan weekend trips, send spontaneous "we should go here someday" ideas to, hike and take photos with, or just enjoy a quiet evening together when neither of us feels like doing much.

I’m open to friendship, a travel buddy, something online at first, or something more if there’s genuine chemistry. No need to force anything into a particular direction. I’d rather get to know someone and see where it goes.

If any of this sounds like your kind of thing, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and what you’ve been into lately. I’d love hearing about whatever you’re passionate about.

Hi Reddit! 😊

I’m a 29-year-old Black woman living in Orlando, Florida. I’m 6’0”, plus-size, curvy, and, if I do say so myself, pretty cute! I’m an attorney, financially independent, ambitious, and proud of the life I’ve built for myself. I’d love to find someone special to share it with.

A little about me: I’m feminine, affectionate, funny, a little sarcastic, and love good conversation. I enjoy traveling, trying new restaurants, getting dressed up, exploring new places, and spending quality time with people I care about. I’ve worked hard to build a fulfilling life, and while my career is important to me, there’s so much more to who I am.

What I’m looking for:
I’d love to meet a man in his 30s to early 40s who is established in his career, financially stable, ambitious, and genuinely happy with the direction his life is going. I find intelligence, confidence, drive, and emotional maturity incredibly attractive. I appreciate a man who has goals, follows through on his commitments, and is ready to make room in his life for a meaningful relationship.

I’m drawn to men who are thoughtful, affectionate, funny, emotionally available, and intentional about dating. I love traditional romance, thoughtful gestures, planned dates, and the feeling of being genuinely pursued. I want a relationship where we’re both excited to show up for each other.

Above all, I want to meet a man who genuinely likes me, exactly as I am.

I’m a tall, curvy, plus-size Black woman, and I would love to meet someone who finds women like me genuinely beautiful. Someone whose face lights up when he sees me, who loves my curves and my height, who thinks I’m gorgeous when I’m dressed up and just as cute when I’m lounging around at home.

I want to be someone’s type. I want mutual attraction that feels natural and effortless. A man who is proud to have me on his arm, who compliments me because he means it, who is affectionate without hesitation, and who makes me feel beautiful and desired.

But just as importantly, I want someone who is genuinely interested in me. Someone who enjoys my personality, appreciates my sense of humor, admires my ambition, and wants to know what makes me tick. Someone who remembers the little things, asks about my day, and looks forward to spending time together.

I want us to genuinely enjoy each other’s company, whether we’re dressed up for a beautiful dinner, traveling somewhere new, laughing over something ridiculous, or doing absolutely nothing together on a Sunday afternoon.
I’m looking for mutual enthusiasm, affection, consistency, and a relationship where we both feel wanted, appreciated, and chosen. I have a lot of love, loyalty, and affection to give, and I’d love to find someone who’s equally excited to build something meaningful.
I’m based in Orlando but open to meeting someone elsewhere in the U.S. if there’s a realistic possibility of dating in person. Ultimately, I’m looking for a serious relationship with someone who’s ready for one.

I’m happy to exchange pictures early on because physical attraction is important to me, and I believe it should go both ways.

If this sounds like something you’d be interested in, send me a thoughtful message with your age, location, what you do for a living, and a little about yourself. I’d love to hear what you’re passionate about and what you’re hoping to find in a partner.
Looking forward to seeing who’s out there! ❤️

Hi!! I’m genuinely so excited to meet you!!

I really want that cute kind of connection with someone where we stay up late for hours just rambling on about different things.

A bit about me: I just finished uni and I’m beginning my career in NYC. I am a filmmaker and writer but I will also be starting law school within the next year. I am determined to become either a filmmaker, screenwriter, or producer for film, and it’d be cool if I could find someone as driven and ambitious as I am (but ofc it’s totally ok if you’re not!). Ofc this also means I love movies, anime, and tv and can talk about that for hours. I’d love to hear what you like to watch and maybe I’ll give some recommendations!

Additionally, some other hobbies that I have are that I play the drums in two bands (One is a rock band and the other is a jazz band).

I play tennis semi-often and love the chance to walk around the city exploring new areas and shops whenever possible. I especially love art museums!

I also really enjoy cooking and baking, and I’ve been learning my family recipes.

I also ofc love gaming, yt, watching streams. I play basically every competitive online game so I would love to talk about that too!

But most importantly, I just want to hear about YOU. I want to hear about your life, goals, interests, really anything! I would love to form a connection with you and see where things go. It doesn’t matter at all what you look like. As long as I feel that connection we will be great together. Looking forward to meeting you!!!

22 [M4F] USA/Online - looking for my forever <3

Hello! I'm looking to get to know someone on this sub and form a genuine romantic connection and relationship that starts out as friendship :D

Here's some basic bacts about me to decide whether or not you'd like to chat and get to know each other :3

Age: 22

Gender: Male

Nickname: Kimchi

Ethnicity: 75% white, 25% Korean

MBTI Type: ENFJ

Location: USA

Appearance: 6'2", brown hair, green eyes, athletic build, broad shoulders, strong hands, like to where dress shirts with jeans and classic Vans/Addidas, suit and tie, or my collection of hoodies (which are yours to steal ofc) 🤭

Hobbies/Interests: cooking (Korean food mostly, but some Italian and Mexican too, and I love spicy food 😋), hiking, daily exercise (cardio and running), going to new places and trying new stuff, learning about history, kdrama, kpop, anime, various movies and TV shows, and....

I'm a car and racing enthusiast! I love the history, science, mechanics, stories behind them, and I love going to races, car meets, karting events, and ofc sim racing. Not a douchebag "car guy" by any means btw, I just have a genuine passion for cars of all kinds :))

Occupation: 4th year ICET engineering major, going back for masters in electrical engineering, wants to work as an avionics engineer for the Air Force 😎

.....while competing in a motorsport on the side 👀

Relationship Goals: So.....I've never dated before 😅

But I've always had a clear idea of what I wanted in a relationship. My mom raised me to be gentleman, and to always put my partners needs before myself, and be a giving person. I always wanted an equal, caring, mutual relationship built on understanding, trust, honesty, and genuine care for one another. But I also want to take more of the lead and be a giver to my partner, to support her, take care of her, make her feel loved everyday. Not because she can't be independent, no I definitely want her to be. It's more like I feel the need to let her know how much she means to me everyday. Because when you find that special someone, you love them fully, not halfway, or just a little. Ive just never had anyone to give my love to 🥺

If any any this interests you, please feel free to message me! 😊

P.S. looking for women 18 to 25 from anywhere!

Hi I'm Nick, 31, from South Carolina. I'm pretty quiet and introverted at first, but once I'm comfortable with someone I get pretty yappy, jokey, and affectionate.

I'm hoping to find someone to build a relationship with, preferably something online. I'm not looking to rush anything or force a connection, but I'm definitely open to catching feelings and getting excited about someone. If we click, I'd like to lean into it and see where things go instead of overthinking everything like i already do.

I'm a pretty affectionate person once I get comfortable with someone, and honestly, I'm a bit of a cuddlebug. I'd love to have someone I can be sweet and a little clingy with, exchange cute messages with throughout the day, use pet names with, and tell each other when we miss one another.

I want to be able to tell someone I wish I could cuddle them or that I wish they were here with me, and have them feel the same way. Just that feeling of being close to someone, making each other feel wanted, and being able to express affection without feeling weird about it. I want the little everyday expressions of affection just as much as the bigger romantic moments.

Since I'm looking for something online, I'd love to have someone I can spend time with over discord. watching movies, shows, or anime together, playing games sometimes, or just sitting in a call and doing our own thing sounds really nice. even just talking about our days or hanging out without needing to have something specific to talk about. I like the idea of being part of each other's everyday lives, even when we're physically apart.

as for me, I'm into gaming, music, playing instruments, anime, and other nerdy stuff. We don't necessarily have to share all the same hobbies, though. i enjoy talking about all kinds of things, whether it's serious conversations, random nonsense, or just how our days went.

i guess I'm hoping to find someone who's kind, communicative, affectionate, and a lil nerdy. Someone who wants that same kind of closeness and is happy to give and receive affection. I'd like us to get comfortable being ourselves around each other and see where things go naturally.

If any of that sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to message me. And thanks for reading.

Im a pretty introverted person who enjoys being in my own little world, looking for someone to build a connection with that grows into a long term monogamous relationship. My personality type is INTJ. Conversation is one of my favorite pastimes—I can talk for hours about whether we’re diving into the latest pop culture trend,  philosophy, or just talking about random stuff I’m always down.

I’m also a sports fan—especially basketball and football—and love a good chess match or board game night. When I’m feeling like gaming, it’s usually  Stardew Valley, Civilization VI, or Call of Duty.while I mostly play single-player games, I’m always down to watch someone else play or learn something new. I enjoy reading ( mainly manwha and light novels)

I lean left politically and value communication—honesty and openness are key for me. I’m not into casual flings, though; I’m really looking for something real and long-term with someone I can vibe with and build a future together. As far as looks go, I don’t have a "type"—it's all about that connection.

 I’m 6’7” (200cm) and African American. Feel free to share a photo if you’re comfortable—here’s mine! https://imgur.com/a/iWAbxYN

Sharing my life with an Aussie Shepherd, so you’ll have a little competition for my attention… but I’m willing to bet I’m the better cuddler. 😏🐶
Being a chef means I’ll never run out of date-night ideas, new restaurants to try, or delicious excuses to steal you away for dinner. The real question is whether you can handle me judging the food everywhere we go. 😂 Bonus points if you can recommend a spot that actually impresses me!
When I’m not in the kitchen, you’ll probably find me lifting weights, hiking a new trail, climbing a mountain, planning my next trip, or finding an excuse to take a sports car or motorcycle out for a spin. I’m attracted to a woman who takes care of herself, has a curious mind, loves a little adventure, and can turn even an ordinary day into a good story.
What am I hoping to find? Something real with someone who wants to be my favorite person, my biggest supporter, my partner in crime, and eventually my best friend. I’m a sucker for good conversation, playful teasing, genuine affection, emotional maturity, honesty, and the kind of chemistry that makes you lose track of time talking. I want us to challenge each other, cheer each other on, and build something that actually lasts. ❤️
I’m pretty laid-back, easy to talk to, and can probably hold my own in a conversation about just about anything. I enjoy a good Old Fashioned now and then, but I’m more interested in good company than a bar tab. 😉
I’m open to meeting someone anywhere in the US for the right connection. Distance doesn’t scare me if we’re both willing to put in the effort and eventually turn those messages into real-life memories.
If you’re looking for something genuine, can keep up with a little banter, and wouldn’t mind being spoiled with good food and spontaneous adventures, we might just get along a little too well. 😌
Come say hi. Worst case, we have a good conversation. Best case? You become my favorite notification. 😉❤️
Just one thing: I’m here for a serious, long-term connection, not a pen pal with unlimited texting privileges. 😄

Hello, I just moved out to East Lansing to study Forestry at Michigan State University. I transferred from community college once I figured out a major. It’s been a hell of a time adjusting to a new city and full-time classes.

I’m not really comfortable showing my face on Reddit, but I’m a 6 foot tall fairly thin white guy with long brown hair and am wearing a flannel more often than not. I geek out on animals, hiking, Pokemon, Nintendo games, Elder Scrolls, the Witcher, Dungeon Crawler Carl, the Native Americans, and more. Typically it’s something I am mildly curious about until doing further research. I know a little about a lot of things. A dream of mine is to own a little cabin in a heavily forested area up north near a lake.

I want to meet people and hopefully find that special someone. The dating apps haven’t really worked, even for those I did feel a strong connection with, for one reason or another, but they were all genuinely sweet. I’m kinda embarrassed to be doing this on Reddit, but like I said, Tinder, Hinge, and Bumble just aren’t doing it for me and I’m not comfortable just approaching someone I find attractive in public when they’re just trying to mind their own business.

I find myself mostly attracted to Asians and Native Americans, and would prefer someone be local, but I don’t wanna be picky. I want to get to know people as people first and foremost. If we can’t even be friends, how is a relationship gonna work?

Greetings to any and everyone who reads this. I hope you are doing well today and continue to have a fantastic day.

I'm not the best at introductions for myself, so please bear with me.

I am a 26 year old bisexual (women/feminine preference) male. I'm bi-racial, around 5'10 (177.8 cm) and practically blind without my glasses. I have brown eyes and short brown hair that can get curly if it grows out. I'm on the skinnier and lean side, weighing only 140 pounds or so as I have a rather high metabolism. I do struggle with mental issues, but I am on medications and quite stable with them.

I have two pets. A cat that doesn't like people and prefers to hide from them when they come over and a Leopard Gecko that I've had since I was about 8 years old.

I'm a huge nerd! I love DnD (would love to actually do a game of it one day), Magic the Gathering, History, Anime, Manga, Fantasy, Science Fiction, etc. I'm always open to trying new things as well.

I play a bunch of video games in my spare time. Mostly RPG's and fighting games. Baldur's Gate 3 has me in a chokehold right now. Same with Warframe! Although, The Witcher 3 has been keeping my attention a bit as well since it got remastered. I do play on Xbox as my PC gave out on me a couple of years ago unfortunately. Haven't had the funds to get a new one yet.

I work 12 hour shifts Friday through Sunday and have Monday through Thursday off so I have a lot of time to do stuff. Let's meet up and get lunch or something! I'd be down. 😋

I also really like to cook! I've been meal prepping and it's been really nice on money. I'm hoping to get a cook book at some point so I can try new recipes.

Another thing I have been doing is world building and plotting out a novel. I've been writing since my senior year of highschool and it is genuinely the hardest thing I have attempted to do. However, I am determined to see it through til the end.

As for what I'm looking for, honestly I'm just looking for someone to match my energy really. Personality is the most important thing to me above all else.

That and kindness. Someone who is sweet, patient, nerdy and an absolute goofball would have my heart instantly if I'm honest lol. Another gamer would be nice but is absolutely not necessary!

I would prefer someone around my age but I don't mind a little younger or a little older.

If this catches anyone's attention please feel free to reach out! I do have a Discord but I will not post that here. If we click and hit it off I'll be more than happy to give that to you.

Best wishes to you all and have a wonderful day! :D

Heyyy im looking for my person im a gentle giant and just wanna find someone who accepts me for me i have autism adhd and add but im still trying my luck with partners have been horrible and im hoping to find my person here im in wichita falls and would prefer you be here or around here in a 30 min radius your more then free to dm if your interested

Hi everyone. My name is Tom and I am a 28 year old guy from the UK looking to find my person. I’m not after something short term or friendship based, i want to find my life partner.

I am a pretty introverted guy for the most part (until you get to know me, then you’ll wish i had an off button) i prefer nights in spending time together playing video games, watching tv series and/or movies, listening to music together and doing silly hobbies together. I’ve recently finished watching the dexter series and am currently watching the marvel shows (both have been amazing watches)

I would like someone who shares some of the same hobbies as me, or is at least willing to try them with me (as i would be willing to try yours too!) I love diving into my hobbies and loredumping as much as i can to you, and I’d love it if you could do the same. I do also enjoy going to concerts and festivals and hiding in the back/away from the crowds where i can just enjoy in my own way. I also collect vinyl records and love going out to see what i can find in record stores.

I also am a huge animal lover, I currently have 3 dogs and want more in my future. I am also open to cats and other animals as i have had them in the past, i dont have any right now solely because I don’t think my current group of dogs would accept anyone new (sadly)

I am looking for someone who wants to build a true connection and is willing to put in the same effort as I am willing to give, and is looking to build a life with me. Please don’t message me if you plan to take days to reply at a time, or just because you’re bored or have nobody to talk to, I want to find my somebody truly. I am a very affectionate person once you get to know me and will likely fall head over heels for you in no time lol.

If you would like a photo or photos of me feel free to ask. I am a skinny 6 foot 2 white guy with shaven hair and a beard. But honestly to me the absolute most important thing isn’t looks, it’s our connection and how well we click personality wise.

Location wise I would prefer someone from the UK or EU, and isnt too many hours timezone wise away, as I would like to spend time calling/playing/chilling with you.

If anything I have said has interested you at all feel free to send me a message and let’s see how things go!

Hi!!!! I’m Airyn, nice to meet you guys! I hope you all are well! I’m so over being single, it’s high time I have a man to call my own. A good way to get the gist of me is a femboy! I’m amab but femme presenting, as well as use they/them pronouns! I’m a big gamer, Pokemon has and always will be a huge part of my life. If that franchise ever ends I’ll genuinely feel lost lol. I’m a big genshin fan I log in literally daily to get my rewards, I’ve really invented in my account and am proud of all the progress I’ve made! I’m usually attracted to white guys I’m not sure why but it is what it is. I like taller men I’m down for fit or dad bod I’m not picky. I really hope to hear from some cool guys! If you read this far tell me your go lounge wear in your message lol! ❤️

25 [M4F] #Ontario/Anywhere-looking for my future

Hey! Im ryland I’m 25, from Ontario, Canada, and I’m looking for a long-term relationship. I’m completely open to long distance and honestly don’t care where you’re from if we click.
I’m pretty quiet and shy at first, especially in person, but I’m much better over text. Once I’m comfortable, I’m a mix of sarcastic, goofy, affectionate, flirty, talkative, and occasionally way too deep about completely random things.
I’m definitely more of a homebody. Most of my free time is spent playing video games, listening to music, watching sports, movies, TV, or YouTube, and falling down random rabbit holes about history, geography, weather, or whatever else catches my attention that day. I also like photography, memes, walks, learning useless/random facts, and I absolutely love animals.
Physically, I’m around 6’1”–6’2”, average build, with brown hair and green/hazel eyes. I’m totally comfortable swapping pictures once we start talking.
I’m in school right now and still figuring out exactly what I want to do career-wise.
Relationship-wise, I’m looking for someone who actually wants to build something. I like talking throughout the day when possible, or at least having a few real conversations if life/work is busy. I reply pretty fast, I like good morning/good night texts, sending random memes and thoughts, watching things together, gaming together, and just slowly becoming part of each other’s everyday life.
If it’s long distance, I’m completely okay with starting through text and letting things grow naturally from there.
The biggest things I’m attracted to personality-wise are kindness, patience, affection, good communication, and honestly, being a little clingy. I like feeling wanted and I like making the other person feel wanted too.
Biggest turnoffs are one-word replies, emotional unavailability, and people who are only looking for something casual. I’m not expecting instant chemistry or constant attention, but I do want effort and genuine interest from both sides.
My sense of humor is sarcastic, dry, chaotic, and sometimes pretty dark, so fair warning there.
If any of this sounds like your kind of person, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself, send me a random fact, tell me what you’ve been obsessed with lately, or just say hi and we’ll figure it out from there.