I’m a genuine, easygoing woman who loves making people laugh, sharing what I have, and appreciating the little things in life. I have long brown hair, stand 5’6”, keep myself fit, and I’d say I’m pretty attractive by Reddit standards, lol. I’m educated, passionate, and have a playful side that makes life a little more fun. 😊

I’m here hoping to find excitement, meaningful connection, and someone special to share good moments with. I’d love to start by getting to know each other online, enjoying good conversations, flirting a little, and seeing where things naturally lead. If we click and the connection feels right, I’m definitely open to meeting in person.

When I’m at home, I enjoy watching TV shows and movies, working out, playing video games, and catching up on anime. I also love hiking, painting, and staying active outdoors. I can enjoy a cozy night in just as much as an adventure outside, especially with the right person.

Ideally, I’d love to meet someone in the US, or someone from anywhere who is open to traveling if our connection grows into something truly special. I don’t believe distance has to stand in the way when two people genuinely want to make things work.

I’m sweet and caring, but I definitely have a playful side, too. There’s more to me than a few paragraphs can capture, so you’ll have to get to know me to discover the rest. 😉

Posting for the people like me who may be in a position where they do not know what they want.

I read a lot of posts that I feel like I do not resonate with. I more so prefer to have an open mind.

I don’t expect anyone to have similar interests as me or vice versa. To me that is not compatibility.

I heard someone say that you have to be mindful of online connections. That you may be corresponding with someone that you normally would not in person. That it can create a false sense of intimacy and connection.

I’d like to avoid that if possible.

I think everyone desires to find true connection. Someone also emphasized to me the importance of friendship as a fundamental foundation. I think most get caught up on the idea of a person or relationship that at the very basis you have to ask yourself if the person you idolize is someone that you would actually be friends with.

Especially when you are high on all of the chemical reactions happening in your brain during the talking stage of getting to know someone.

I may not respond to everyone that messages me. If I feel like a message stands out and that there may be potential for connection, then I will try my best to respond with intention.

Leading with a description since I know attraction is important:
I’m 5’3, Caribbean. I’m curvy but I value my health and take care of myself inside and out. I like to cook and mainly eat at home. I’m available and stable emotionally. I don’t use any drugs and very rarely drink alcohol.

https://imgur.com/a/mW5b4Es

Currently living in AZ. I’m kind and reserved. I love free flowing conversations. I’m shy, I’m very much a realist, laid back and stay out of drama. I do admit that I am a crier in the context of emotional movies and stories 😅 I’m definitely a tender but confident and whole/fulfilled woman. I’m not political or religious.

I enjoy doing things from movies to fishing. I like to spend time with loved ones, farmers market, write and listen to music. Im not into gaming so much anymore. Don’t mind at all if you are. Basically, I like Star Wars, Tim Burton as well as Stephen King. I understand that having some things in common is great but it’s also nice to have a few different interests.

I’d like something consistent and long term. I have accomplished a majority of my big goals but believe in always making progress in life. So growth with someone is always great. I have a steady career and understand that not everyone has their life completely in order but would like someone who is atleast able to take care of themselves
I’d prefer someone between 28-40

A relationship where we can laugh with and at each other would be amazing! I like to have good communication. I’d like someone that enjoys banter and is honest. Who is also kind, patient and supportive.

Please be ready to share a clear face photo when the chat is accepted to gauge physical compatibility and share some information about yourself. Time is precious. I’m not desperate by any means but I’d like to find my person. I would also like to have a phone call pretty early on.
I wfh and have a ton of free time.

If you read all of this include a 🫶 in your chat
I don’t participate in most social media. I’m ok with distance. But the goal is to meet. Again US/Canada only

If post is still here I haven’t met anyone yet

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I thought I'd just list some things that are a big part of who I am. Hopefully we'll have some shared interests or understand each other.

Illness: I'm chronically ill and disabled, so I've become very interested in biohacking, supplements, and easy health research. As someone who has mental disease as well, i am also well aware of various condition naturally.

Art: I have total aphantasia, so drawing has never come naturally to me. Instead, I am into digital collages sometimes. I don't know much about famous painters, art history, or brands, but I enjoy all kinds of art-paintings, sculptures, photography, interior design, jewelry, and fashion. I'd like to think I have a pretty good eye for aesthetics. Therefore I really admire people who enjoy create things and do self expression. craft or music, dance or whatever.

Music: I used to listen to a wide range of music except metal and non-melodic hip-hop. Lately I've been getting into Michael Jackson, especially his performances. I used to listen to a lot of pop, K-pop, jazz, and rock and roll. Just like with art, I don't know much about musicians or albums—I simply listened what I enjoy. Once my sound sensitivity improves, I'd love to explore more experimental music.

TV series: I've probably spent far too much time on Netflix. Some shows that really stayed with me are Breaking Bad, Better Call Saul, Girls, Olive Kitteridge, My Brilliant Friend, the earlier seasons of Skins, Years and Years, and Baby Reindeer.

Writing: I don't read as much as I'd like, but I enjoy writing poems and short reflections about my thoughts and feelings. I also hope to finally finish the short story I started years ago.

Curiosity: I have a wide range of interests, including mindfulness, Buddhism, meditation, and AI. I'd also love to learn more about science once my brain fog gets a little better.

Personality: I've become quite isolated lately, and in relationships I can be a bit dependent and clingy. That said, I also love joking around, teasing each other, and playful banter. I do enjoy talking with one who use witty sarcasm or metaphor. Oh, also i am politically liberal and i prefer someone not conswrvative or into monotheism.

Thx for reading this post.

Hey

I’m 33f from near to London and trying this again :)

I’m quite an introverted human being. I’m looking for someone who I can share experiences with, I’d love to go to more concerts, go on road trips, walk around aimlessly chatting for hours, playing cute games with and someone I can ultimately build a quiet life with.

I have ADHD (who doesn’t at this point?) and this makes me a little scatter brained and all over the place. I can talk about 10 different topics within the space of 5 minutes and often people are left wondering how I was able to link everything together in my brain. I also find the current dating landscape incredibly overwhelming and just want to find my person.

I have a stable career and life, and looking for someone who is in a similar position, someone who is independent, can also drive, and has ambitions of their own. I have two cats who I treat like babies.

I don’t know how people are able to easily navigate the current disposable nature of dating, I’m looking to build something genuine.

I am a sucker for the nerdy metal head type, maybe you have a few tattoos and long hair (but that’s just a bonus).

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Hey there, beautiful stranger, welcome to my circus.

I’m a 28 year old guy from the world famous country of Bosnia and Herzegovina (just pretend you’ve heard of it, small place, big energy). I come with terrible jokes, random pocket tools and snacks, and just enough trouble to keep things interesting.

I love art and music (my playlist is a mess, Bach and Tupac jamming to Eminem while Bob Marley is chasing pirates or something so please don't ask about it). Jazz clubs, museums, and mountains are where my heart lives. I like visiting new cities, trying new cuisines, and finding moments of tranquility amid the chaos. Also, I absolutely love movies and books (wow, super unique, please be impressed) . Physically, I'm tall, my eyes still kinda work, and girls said I have a nice butt. You could also check my post history to get better idea about my looks (spoiler alert: no butt pictures tho, gotta leave something to the imagination.. or later). I'm also open for a photo exchange so feel free to send some my way if that's your cup of hot chocolate.

I also have a cute hamster named Captain Hamsterstein. He’s small, judgmental, and impossible to compete with but you’ll try.

As I'm still kinda not sure about all this and have no idea how anything really works here, I'll keep my options open for whatever. So, looking for a friend? I'm your man. Need a shoulder to cry? Still your man. Memes exchange? Hell yeah! Relationship? Tell me what kind of restaurant you fancy for our date. Wedding? The suit is ready. Nonsense flirting? Count me in. Serious talks? Let me put my smart face on.

Simply put, I’m looking for someone to vibe with. Someone I can talk to about anything, tease a little, laugh a lot, and also get serious with when the lights go low. Someone who challenges me, sharpens me, and upgrades my meme collection. Also, If you have a cat, I’m already all yours (don’t tell the Captain).

I'm not really good at talking about myself (duh) so I'll just leave that part for you to ask about whatever you're interested in.

Also (yeah, I say “also” too much), If you’re still reading, I’ve gotta ask: what’s wrong with you?

(Whatever it is… I like it.)

Keep in mind that our timezones may be different so there's a possibility that I won't be able to answer immediately but I'll try my best to get to you as soon as possible.

Message me whenever, however you want, just know there’s a high chance of flirting, sarcasm, and late-night conversations that go a little deeper than planned. Just behave yourself cause I am legally allowed to handcuff you (again, don't ask).

Meanwhile, have a lovely day or night or whatever and take care!

PS, don't text me if you're only into my kidneys, I have only 5 left. And no, you can't have them.

Hey! I’m Late, 21, and a Christian femboy looking for a serious relationship. 🖤

I’m soft, affectionate, and feminine, and I’m attracted to confident, dominat women who enjoy taking the lead.

I’d like to start as friends and get to know each other through talking, gaming, calls, and spending time together. I’m into Minecraft, Marvel Rivals, JJK, anime, and gaming.

My Christian faith is important to me, and I’m looking for someone who shares it. I want something serious that could eventually lead to mariage, and I want to wait until then.

Looking for:

- 21+

- Christian

- Domiant

- Affectionate

- Looking for something serious

I’m especially into tall, gamer women, but personality matters most.

If that sounds like you, feel free to message me. 🖤

Greetings.

I'm male, 33, native German, currently living 'round the northern tip of Bavaria.
I am politically left, atheist, non-smoker, non-drinker, childfree, and neurodivergent.

I am generally quiet, but exceptionally talkative with the right company. I love talking about all manner of things, such as animals - bugs, birds, reptiles, almost all - natural phenomena and quirks of the earth, celestial bodies (the moon is a delightful companion), and also a whole lot of other things. Hypothetical questions are great fun, "What ifs", whether close to reality or entirely whimsical, those really get me thinking.

Among my favourite topics is fantasy storywriting, worldbuilding, inventing characters, creatures, concepts and contraptions.
I like D&D, but only very rarely get to play. I also enjoy video games, mostly singleplayer story driven, but there's variety to be had.

I'm looking for somebody who would want to join me in conversation, but also to join me in various activities, that are just more fun to do with company rather than solo. I'd be inclined to visit museums, zoos, aquariums, look at old quarries, caves and cliffs, ancient castles and other ruins, and I also want to experience activities like kayak/canoe trips, urban exploration or ol' reliable, a forest walk.

Within a relationship, I express affection verbally/through text, and through physical touch. I adore small but deliberate gestures.
Boundaries, consent and safety are of great importance. I value trust, and I am very open for questions, but I'd hope to be trusted in return.

Your qualities:

• Preferrably European - I will give everybody a fair chance, but you must consider timezone differences and travel expenses.
• Genuinely chatty. Be somebody who wants to ask questions, who wants to share about that cat you saw on your way to the store, about how amazing the stormclouds look, or complain about pet peeves.
• Non-smoker and childfree. The occasional drink is fine, don't worry.

Hey there, just a swede looking for a friend or more, I just want cuddles while I’m finding new shows and movies to watch.

I’m a 185cm tall swede who is left handed and have red hair, which makes me quite rare i think lol.

My usual ways to enjoy life is playing games, watching shows and movies, cooking food together with friends, being out in nature/exploring abandoned buildings and cool locations in general. And just cuddling forever if possible.

My dream would be to drive around the world with someone i connect with, seeing all the locations that is worth visiting, eating food at all the nice restaurants all over the world. Just exploring the world in a van with the ability to stop at locations we enjoy being in for awhile aswell.

Hit me up if you feel like we would enjoy chatting.

Hey, if you're reading this chances are my title caught your attention, here's hoping I can keep it!! I'm a 25 year old guy from Canada and I'm looking for something long term, I'm looking for someone I can vibe with as friends at first and maybe turn into something more if we hit it off. I'll be up front in saying I don't have the most relationship experience BUT I've always been a huge sucker for the lovey dovey stuff and can be a bit of a hopeless romantic, I've always imagined my ideal relationship being a honeymoon phase that lasts forever (I know its not realistic but a man can dream 😤.) ANYWAYS I should probably give myself a bit of a lengthier introduction so you know what you might be getting yourself into

About me:

• I know appearance is important for a lot of people so I'll get that out of the way first incase I'm not your type, I'm 5'8 and currently 210 LBS (I've been on a weight loss journey and don't plan on stopping.)Also here's a facepic https://imgur.com/a/me-TOsgAsN
• As a person I'm naturally really introverted (I'm an INFP if you care about mbti) and need occasional alone time to recharge my social battery but I can absolutely talk someones ear off if we're close (I've been told I give golden retriever vibes.) People usually tell me my biggest strength is my kindness, I hate being mean to people almost to a fault, I'm a bit of a softie. I have a tendency to wear my emotions on my sleeve and can be a big crier whenever watching something sad. Lastly, I can be really staunch about my morals and what I think is right or wrong.
• Hobbies wise I'm a big nerd and pretty much all my hobbies reflect that, I like playing games (I LOVE JRPGs, fighting games, VNs and random competitive games the most but I'll play literally anything if its with the right person, I've been loving deadlock recently) Watching anime/reading manga (or whatever other media, mostly anime though) and listening to music (Indie, Rock, Pop-punk and JPOP mainly) I've also been getting into working out more if you count that as a hobby.
• I'm left leaning politically.
• I LOVE animals I don't have any pets right now but if you have any or send pics of them I’ll die of happiness.
• Just to get them out of the way, my 2 BIGGEST red flags would be that I can be pretty clingy without even realizing it once I get close to someone and that I have some REALLY severe social anxiety that can make getting to know someone new very difficult, I'm not just a "little shy" it can genuinely be crippling when trying to get to know someone new. I promise though that once I'm past the initial social barrier it gets A LOT easier, I can be mistaken as really outgoing around those I'm comfortable with, I'd never want to make my issues someone elses problem but I figured I should mention it since its bound to come up eventually.
• And finally since idk what else to add, my favourite colours are pink and yellow.

About you:

• Having some interests in common would be pretty nice, it could give us something to talk about and maybe do together, this isn't a deal breaker though, I LOVE hearing people nerd out about their hobbies whether or not its something I'm interested in myself.
• Distance isn't important to me as long as we can find the time to talk more than once in a blue moon and you're open to the possibility of meeting sometime in the future if we click really well
• Appearance also isn't all that important to me but I would like to see the person I'm talking to eventually just so I know I'm not talking to a ghost
• I've always been told I'm a really good listener so if you're a yapper we'll feel like a match made in heaven
• The only real dealbreaker for me is poor communication. Relationships simply can't work without it IMO

I don't have too much else to add and I don't want this to get rambly so I'll end it here, If you read all the way to the end and are interested at all, feel free to shoot me a message with a brief introduction, PLEASE tell me a bit about your interests, where you're from and your age at the very least!! I'd love to hear from you :)

Hey! Thought I'd roll the dice on Reddit and see who's out there.

I’m 25, 5'3, plus-size, and an introvert who comes with a few default settings: I need my tree-time, I love comfort, and I am entirely powered by sweets.

Things I bring to the table:

Nature enthusiast: I will literally stop walking to look at a cool wildflower or admire a nice tree. Fresh air is my love language.

Professional cozy person: My ideal weekend involves a good comfort movie, comfy clothes, and a slice of cake (or multiple, no judgment).

Deep dive chats: I might be a little quiet at first, but once we click, expect some very random, very deep late-night conversations.

Hobbies: I spend way too much time looking at fashion online and trying to organize my life in note-taking apps that I will inevitably abandon.

What I'm looking for: Someone warm, funny, and genuine. I'd love to find a steady connection with someone who wants to swap movie recs, send silly texts during the day, and actually talk. Zero interest in boring small talk that dies after two messages!

If you're looking for something sweet and real, slide into my DMs. Tell me your absolute favorite cake flavor so I know you actually read this. ✨

An invisible red thread connects those who are destined to meet, regardless of time, place, or circumstance. The cord may stretch or tangle, but it will never break.

I saw this quote on a random, unverified internet post on a questionable website, but the moment I read it, I wanted to believe it. Don't you?

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage. So, here I am, trying to find you in perhaps the most unlikely of places. They say it’s about the journey, not the destination. No matter how bumpy the ride gets, I know every single moment will be an experience to savor if it's with you.

While a person is always so much more than just words on a screen, here is a little glimpse into who I am:

Timezone and Availability

My Timezone: GMT+4 / GMT+3

Your Timezone: Anywhere in the world. Distance doesn't frighten me as long as we are both fiercely committed to making time for each other.

When I’m not working or catching up on sleep, you can find me:

Cooking and Music: Experimenting with new recipes in the kitchen while blasting my favorite playlists.

Gaming and Movies: Cozying up for an immersive gaming campaign or a relaxed movie night.

Anime Fanatic: I love the mainstream classics (Naruto, One Piece, Bleach, Hunter x Hunter, Jojo, MHA, Yu-Gi-Oh, SAO). However, I have a major soft spot for niche death-game anime and those hidden-gem, 12-episode series with ridiculously long titles.

I hope the thread between us is no longer just a gentle tug. As you read this, I hope it becomes a fierce, burning current pulling us together. Let it tangle. Let it knot, twist, and wrap around us until the miles between us are completely erased. I don't want space. I don't want time. I want a long-distance relationship where we actively, passionately work together to eventually close the gap through our collective efforts.

If this resonates with you, I look forward to hearing from you. Let’s start with a simple hello, your timezone, or your absolute favorite anime!

I'm pretty much your average nerd, I'm a homebody, introverted, love video games and have been having a rough time finding someone lately. I love traveling so I'm absolutely down for a long distance thing, so long as we make a plan to eventually close that distance.

I'm also on the spectrum, and have golden retriever energy

I do enjoy video games, but I'm mostly looking for someone who loves traveling, animals, cuddling on the couch and wants to have kids someday. That last one is especially important as I've always wanted to be a dad, but I also want someone who enjoys traveling at least once a year. I didn't get to travel around a lot when I was younger and I would like to see more of the US. And eventually visit Canada, London, Tokyo and other places.

I actually plan to see the Pokemon Fossil Exhibit in Chicago, I've been a lifelong fan and have a collection. Though Fallout has overshadowed it a bit in my mind, I've got a Fallout collection as well, I still enjoy the series, play the games and love talking about it.

Aside from those ones I play Skyrim, Mario, Cyberpunk, RDR, GTA, Fortnite and Rivals. I'm also a fan of co-op games like the Lego games and other games like that. Also enjoy board games!

I love movies and tv too, I watch a lot of superhero stuff. Lanterns is my favorite show this year, but I love all sorts of genres. And Legos.

I also love chill dates like going out for ice cream, visiting the zoo, or simply staying in to watch tv or play a game together. When you become someone's favorite person, everything you do together is an amazing experience.

This is me

How long does it take to make a Bruins fan cry? (answer is below)

I'm 35 female from Texas, 5'5", medium build, tattoos, curly dirty blonde hair, hazel eyes hidden under glasses. Willing to exchange photos early because attraction matters. I have never been in a relationship and never dated. Looking for a lifetime commitment but it's reddit so I'm not holding my breath.

I am a Christian and my faith is what guides my worldviews. One way that shows up is that I won't have sex before a signed legal document and some vows. Long distance doesn't bother me as long as both of us make an effort to get to know each other and meet. I work remotely and I'm looking to move to a cold weather place within the next year. I miss the cold stinging my face when I walk to my car. Ultimately I would love to live outside of town where I can see all the stars and just be. I want to surround myself with good people who value community. I'm undecided on children.

I was diagnosed two years ago with ADHD and its friends autism and OCD. They aren't great guests most of the time but they make me interesting. It also makes me need more quiet moments rather than just running constantly. I would love to just be still with a good man. When it's a serious thing I need directness. If you like me I need you to tell me and if you hate me and never want to talk to me again please tell me.

I love sarcasm and banter. Honestly, banter is one of my favorite ways to communicate. Life is so heavy and it feels like it's being held together with bubble gum and baling wire so having fun conversations is a must.

I always have a book on me and you will find me reading in line at the grocery store, waiting for the main act to come on stage or during a hockey intermission.

I am missing 3 continents to achieve my goal of visiting all 7 and I'm about halfway from visiting all 50 states. I have been to 10 NHL arenas so slowly but surely I'll get to all of them.

I am a very amateur sewist, I take pictures of odd things, and I'm starting pottery classes this month! I can change a flat tire on the side of a busy road, make delicious chess pie, and provide obscure facts on random things.

Now the part that makes all the cool guys go quiet. Looking for a Christian man, 33-43. A man who is kind, steady, does what he says he'll do. I can deal with a lot but not a man who can't keep his word or make a move. When it's uncomfortable, he says the hard thing instead of going quiet. Also, please actually be funny, not 'good sense of humor' funny. Laughs at himself, trash talks my team back, and doesn't cry when I win.

Someone who messages because I seem like a woman he'd want to know not because he's trying to put himself out there. If I sound like a woman you would like to get to know and see if maybe we can end up sitting on the front porch watching the stars go by send me a message.

Tell me the most obscure fact that you know. I will be fact checking so make sure it's correct 😏

17 seconds.

Hello! I'm Chris or Christian, whichever you prefer. I'm a 26 year old Cis M from Ontario, Canada. I'm 6'3" and I'm straight and love a good personality. I don't have any preference on who you, but please be Sweet, Kind and in Canada or at least close in time. I love to cook and I love trying new things. I'm not picky when it comes to new foods. I'm tall, I smell good, I make good food!

I play Xbox, Once human, Destiny 2, Arc Raiders, Battlefield 6, Apex Legends, Overwatch, Stardew Valley, Rivals, I have Fortnite for friends can send full list when we talk. (PC Valorant, Peak, Golf with your friends, Minecraft cobblemon, and I've been loving LEGO recently

I would love to start a Stardew farm with you, play Minecraft modded, I also have Bedrock and would love to spend time with you.

Let's go on dates do Halloween stuff let's go to spirit? Would love to do Christmas stuff, let's go to the zoo or aquarium, go on a picnic, go on adventures together, I want someone I can spend my time with, someone that understands me, gets me, someone I can bond with and love. Holding hands and cuddling + hands in my hair is the way to my heart

Likes: My Cats, Video games, Marvel, Brooklyn 99, Supernatural, Riverdale , Snowpiercer, Flash, Disenchantment and The Walking Dead, The Good Doctor, 9-1-1, Station 19.

Loves: my cats cuddles, Communication! Streaming games for my person or playing games with them as well

Personality: I'm a very sweet, loving, loyal, kind, affectionate and romantic guy. I'm 6'3 I'm bigger like 230lbs, blonde-haired, blue-eyed. I'm very sweet and kind, I love to praise, and will give reassurance if needed. I'm very, very loving and will constantly give you my attention and love. I'll be shy at first, but that'll go away quickly once I'm comfortable.

I'm looking for my person, my lover girl, my yapper, I want someone that wants me for me! I love phone calls and late night texts, good night and good morning texts are also key, just want someone I can vibe with and be with, someone who is amazing and who wants to cuddle and spend time with me. Someone who wants to build trust with me and build a strong bond. I'm looking for someone I can call mine and I can be theirs. I want to give all my love and affection and kindness to them and spend a lot of time with them. I'm looking for long term, open to short term as well

Communication is a need. It's key to a healthy relationship. So please be someone who communicates everything

I look forward to meeting you. I hope you have a wonderful day. Ask me anything and everything you want to I'm an open book

I'm 26 and work in sales. Outside work, I'm building an app on the side, which has given me a second thing to think about when I should probably be doing something else.

I like gaming, movies, music, cooking and F1. I also have a habit of looking something up and ending up somewhere completely unrelated an hour later. Space and psychology are particularly good at getting me to do that.

I'm quiet at first, but I get more talkative once I'm comfortable. I'm fairly straightforward and sarcastic, and I like being able to tease each other without taking every little thing seriously. I'm not going to have a clever comeback for absolutely everything, but I'll probably have an opinion.

What I'm hoping to find is a serious relationship. I'd like the attraction, the affection and the excitement of getting to know someone, but I also want us to genuinely enjoy each other's company once that initial excitement settles down.

I like the idea of having someone to cook with, watch movies with, share random thoughts with, or call at the end of a long day. Even doing completely separate things together sounds nice to me. I don't need every day to be an adventure. I'd just like to find someone I'd rather share the day with.

I'm not expecting to know whether we're right for each other after a handful of messages. I'd rather get to know each other, see if the conversation comes naturally, and find out whether there's something worth building. I'm here for a relationship, not a ONS or a chat that has no intention of going anywhere. If we click, I'd want us to work toward meeting in person.

You don't have to be into all the same things as me. Actually, tell me about something you like that I probably know nothing about. I'm curious about what people get passionate about, especially when it's something I wouldn't have thought to ask about myself.

And since I've mentioned movies: what's a film you'll defend even when someone points out all the reasons it's terrible?

I'm willing to hear your case. I just can't promise I'll agree.

If you think we might get along, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. I'd like to get to know the person behind the username.

Hey there, I'm just trying to find someone to start my next major relationship with, I'm already kind of tired of the short winded half hearted ones, they're not for me. But allow me to rattle off about myself rq.

•Physically- I'm White, dirty blonde, 5'10, leanish kinda stocky too, and allegedly "very cute"

•How I am at first- I'll be quiet or slow to respond but that's because I'm usually thinking and processing our conversation so I can really understand what you're saying and learn more about who you are, but then I open up quick and start yapping then you can't put the genie back in the bottle.

•Hobbies- My main one is probably gaming, I'm on ps5 btw, but I genuinely have quite the catalogue, I got souls borne games like Ds2, BB, ER+sote, demon souls and ERNR also I can carry in all of them if need be.

I also play Cod zombies bo3+4+cw+6, Minecraft, fortnite, bg3, swbf2, bf6, darktide, phasmo, OW, and honestly too much to list but u get the idea. Also being able to game together is a requirement idc about having the same platform tho

My other main hobby is lifting, I have my own gym I go to, I do free weight and been working really hard on my body this year, it honestly has helped me push myself to be better, I even eat pretty healthy now plus I'm getting good at cooking and I will def cook for you, but don't get it twisted about eating healthy I'm still a fat kid at heart, I will down a whole pizza turnover all by myself so I don't mind indulging together too.

•Things I watch- Ngl little bit on yt too much I get really into certain deep dive videos, esp if it's true crime/ or a conspiracy, even if I don't subscribe to their viewpoint it's still very entertaining to watch.

I like movies too, I just haven't been able to get back into them. I enjoy horror and comedy the most, but I want to get into the mcu movies with someone, I've only seen a few and would love to experience them with someone else. Tell me things you like to watch!

•Thats enough about me I'll leave the rest to be discovered in dms, but when you do give me bit of an intro about yourself, not just a "hey", tell me what you enjoy doing in your free time, what games you like, your favorite hobbies, or what horror movie villains you can beat. Also if you want to just hop off reddit first then give me an intro say that first, cya soon!

Hey! I'm 23, from Lithuania, and currently living in Vilnius. I'm looking for a genuine LDR with someone who wants to build something real together.

Distance isn't a big issue for me as long as we both put in the effort, communicate well, and eventually make plans to meet. I'm also open to relocating for the right person.

I'm 185 cm/6'1, around 75 kg/165 lbs, lean and athletic, with blonde hair, blue eyes, and a full beard.

Here's me: https://imgur.com/a/HpkzDje

I speak English, Lithuanian, and Spanish fluently. I spent a big part of my childhood in Spain and have lived in different countries across Europe, so I'm pretty used to meeting people from different places. Feel free to message me in English or Spanish!

I run my own business after spending several years working in sales. Right now, I also work part time while building my business and working toward becoming fully independent.

I'm really into training. I've done MMA, Muay Thai, lifting, and other combat sports training for years. I love getting stronger, improving my technique, and pushing myself physically. Outside of that, though, I'm pretty relaxed.

I'm also a big gamer, so meeting someone who enjoys gaming would be amazing. I play League, Warzone, DayZ, BO3 Zombies, Minecraft, Assetto Corsa, Brawl Stars, and quite a few others. I'd love to find someone to play with, even if we end up trying completely new games together.

Besides that, I enjoy movies, books, music, long conversations, spending time with my dog and family, and just enjoying life. Music wise, I'm mostly into rap, hip hop, R&B, and reggaeton. I also love joking around, randomly rapping, sending voice notes, and making people laugh XDD

I'm Christian, and my faith is important to me. I'm open to someone who's Christian or isn't, as long as there's mutual respect and she's genuinely open to talking about or exploring Christianity together. I don't believe in forcing anyone into something they don't believe in.

I'd ideally like to meet someone around 20 to their early 30s. I really value kindness, loyalty, honesty, affection, emotional maturity, and good communication.

I'm not expecting constant texting or someone to be available all day. I just want someone who's genuinely interested in getting to know me, asks questions, shares things about herself, and puts in effort too.

I'd love to have those little routines together, whether that's gaming, calling, sending voice notes, sharing music, talking about our days, watching movies, or just being there for each other.

I'm naturally pretty affectionate once I genuinely care about someone, and I'd love to find a woman who's similar in that sense.

And of course, mutual attraction matters too. I think it's perfectly normal to want to find each other attractive.

If you message me, I'd appreciate a little intro about you, your age, where you're from, what you're looking for, your interests, and a pic too. I'm happy to share more pics of myself as we get to know each other.

Thank you for reading! (:

Hi! I'm here looking for someone to form a genuine connection with! I've never had a irl relationship before and have no experience, but i would LOVE a relationship. I've always wanted one, i want to know what it feels like for someone to love you so much and so softly. I'm so full of love and i just want mutual love with someone, im like a golden retriever 😂🐶. I'm neurodivergant, plus sized and 6'3, i hope that isn't a problem though.

I'd much prefer the person im talking to to be from England, as im looking for a irl relationship. And don't want long distance as im not built for that, and if we are to meet be at least close enough to eachother. My distance limit probably being an hour or two as i don't feel safe travelling too far from home and am not confident in travel. So if you are willing to travel to where i live first I'd appreciate it ❤️ Talking about preferences, I also prefer femmes, im a soft masc and would like you to be at least 24+ the oldest being 36 or 38.

My schedule is pretty much none existent atm so I have alot of free time, so im looking for someone who also doesn't have a massively busy schedule or a very time consuming job. I'd like to get to know and hopefully meet and spend time with who im speaking to eventually, and I can't do that with someone who is really busy.

If any of that sounds good to you dm me!

Trying different ways to meet new people this year, so taking a crack at a reddit personal ad.
 
I really value kindness, honesty, passion and intelligence in a woman.  

Here's me: https://imgur.com/a/LEFG0Yz
 
-Single, no kids

-6’3

-Physically active; member of a running club and lift about every day of the week

-Attend dance meetups; swing, salsa, fusion

-Dabbled in acting; starred in a play in 2022

-Has a good job in e-commerce

-About 2/3rds introvert, 1/3rd extrovert; generally a homebody but I like to go out/socialize every now and then and push myself to get out of my comfort-zone (growth is important)

-Interests include fitness, dancing, gaming, karaoke, anime, narrative-design/writing of all kinds (films, tv, books, etc.), science (big fan of the Natural History Museum in NYC), and interior design

-V close to my family and friends; adore my nieces (and they adore me); have a close-knit group of about half-a-dozen friends I've known for years (quality > quantity kinda guy friendship-wise) - you'll know I like you if you're looped in to our karaoke parties! =) 

-Traveled around the world

-Master's degree

-Politically left

-420 friendly

-Love dogs; like cats but have a mild allergy

I just recently turned 23, I started to feel hopeless about life while simultaneously trying to not lose hope. I think it’s one of those times where you need to believe in yourself but it’s hard. I’m not asking for someone to miraculously come and “fix” my problems, I also don’t want to dwell on it too much but I’d love for a kind and patient soul to be by my side as I slowly start to trust and believe in myself again. I don’t want or need you to be my therapist, I don’t think that’s sustainable or healthy longterm but I’d love to have a witness to my journey of self love and acceptance, I’d also love to be your witness :)

Perhaps this was a little too “self help” book coded but I swear I can also be very bubbly and not so sad, it has just been a few rough days (or months) I love Pink and squirrels! I also love frosting way too much and would die for a good strawberry shortcake

Hi there! I’m 27F in Phoenix, AZ. I am seeking someone in Arizona. I am looking for something serious !!

About me: office job, cat. Leftist, monogamist, childfree. I am plus-size (5’6”, 230 lbs) and white/asian (but look white). Currently living with my family (cannot host shenanigans). I enjoy baking, music and concerts, video games, crafting, and going new places.

Ideally looking for: someone local to Arizona. someone who is also leftist, monogamist, and childfree. Someone who is interested in building up to a relationship. Looking for someone 33 or under.

Some more fun info to sound less intense: I love cozy gaming and grew up on farming sims. I would love a horror/thriller movie cuddle buddy. I work in science!

Feel free to send me a message or chat (:

Hi everyone, I'm a 26 year old male from Washington State. I'm rather introverted, but can be quite chatty with the right person, and like to think I'm somewhat interesting to talk to. I'm interested in women between the ages of 20-30. If you don't quite fit into that range but think we would be a good fit then message me anyway as long as you aren't a minor.

Most of my hobbies involve being indoors, although I'm looking to change this and get outside more. Meeting someone local would be amazing, although I'm open to someone who is in the USA as well. In my free time I enjoy playing video games, or watching tv/movies. I love doing these with someone as well, so it would be great if you also enjoy at least one of those things. Some of my other hobbies are cooking, and investing in the stock market. I'm pretty much self taught for both of those, and enjoy looking for new recipes and researching different investment opportunities. I'm trying to get back into the gym and reading, I used to do these both when I was younger and think they are both good habits to get back into for my own personal growth. Going on hikes with a partner is something I would love to do as well!

As for physical attraction, I'm open to sharing a selfie relatively early on. I do like to talk for a little bit first as personality is by far the most important thing to me in terms of what I look for in a partner, but I understand a certain level of attraction is required as well. If I was to describe my looks I'm white, short brown hair, glasses, pretty normal build, tall, and overall just look a bit nerdy.

I'm not religious, and don't drink or smoke. I'm not opposed to someone who is religious or drinks occasionally, but if you smoke or drink often we probably wouldn't be a good match. I'm looking for something monogamous and serious. I'm not very picky on how you look, I mostly just care about how we get along with each other.

If you think we would get along please reach out and let me know your ASL, and what part of my post interested you the most.

NYC girl 🇪🇺 | Eastern European | always on the hunt for great sushi 🍣
I get way too invested in soccer games, dance around the kitchen while making dinner, and will absolutely steal your fries while insisting I’m “just trying one.” 💃🍟
Looking to meet a guy aged 24–38 who lives in NYC. My type? Tall, white, and ideally with a European background. 😉
Bonus points if you love soccer, spontaneous plans, great food, and can keep up with me on the dance floor.
If you’re in NYC and think we’d get along, come say hi. ✨

Hey there!

I stumbled across this subreddit a while ago, somehow lost track of it, and eventually found my way back. So I figured it’s time to put myself out there and see if I might find someone special here.

A little about me:

I’m 31, from Germany, and 6 ft tall. I used to have blonde hair, but that chapter of my life ended about two years ago. There wasn’t much left to save anyway.

A few months ago, I started going to the gym, and surprisingly, I’ve grown to really love it.

Outside of that, I enjoy hiking, traveling, and gaming. I’m particularly into Path of Exile and World of Warcraft, so if you enjoy gaming too, that’s a bonus! Though I promise I can talk about things other than games. Probably.

When it comes to traveling, I’m a fan of a good mix of adventure and relaxation. Ideally, you’ll find me somewhere in the mountains, enjoying a beautiful view and appreciating the fact that the hike was actually worth the effort.

Personality-wise, I’m introverted and reserved when meeting new people. I might take a little time to warm up, but once we click, you’ll get to see a much more talkative, goofy side of me. My humor tends to lean toward sarcasm, so there’s a decent chance I’ll tease you a little once I’m comfortable around you.

I’d describe myself as thoughtful, loyal, and genuine. I care about the people close to me, and I appreciate the little things that make a connection feel special. I’m not necessarily the loudest person in the room, but I’d rather have a meaningful conversation with someone I connect with than make small talk with twenty strangers.

What I’m looking for:

Ideally, someone from Germany, but I’m open to other parts of Europe. Distance isn’t my first choice, but I’m willing to give it a chance if we genuinely connect.

I don’t have a specific type when it comes to looks or hobbies. You don’t need to go to the gym, share all my interests, or be an outdoorsy person. I’d much rather meet someone who’s kind, honest, and passionate about something in their life. Someone I can laugh with, support, be a little silly around, and gradually build trust with.

I’d love to find someone who can be both my partner and my best friend, someone to share everyday moments with, have the occasional deep conversation at 2 a.m., explore new places with, or simply spend a quiet evening together doing our own things.

If any of this sounds like someone you’d like to get to know, feel free to send me a message!

A small request: Please tell me a little about yourself rather than just sending a “Hi.” Tell me what you’re passionate about, what you enjoy doing, or anything else you’d like me to know. And if you’re comfortable with it, please include a picture of yourself. I’ll happily share mine, too.

You can find a picture of me on my profile or here: https://imgur.com/a/cpMtJoe

No pressure to have the perfect introduction. Just be yourself. 😊

Looking forward to hearing from you!