r/ForeverAloneDating • • Jul 04 '25

Rules Announcement Comment karma requirement has been increased

181 Upvotes

As you may have noticed, we've had a sharp increase in bot activity the past few days. We've banned over 50 bots in the last couple of days alone. These bots are posting everywhere, not just here, and steal other users posts. Reddit eventually bans most of them, but not fast enough.

Therefore, we will be temporarily increasing the comment karma requirement to 100. We realise that people who create new accounts or struggle making karma will be affected by this, but this is important for the safety of the subreddit and it's users. We may lower this later or it may stay permanent.

We also appreciate those who submit reports as it helps us out a lot. If you spot any bots, or people trying to subtly advertise NSFW content, then be sure to report them, but this comment karma requirement increase should get rid of the majority of them.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Apr 10 '25

Rules Announcement Chat is replacing DMs.

66 Upvotes

While the change doesn't officially take place until June, the change is already occurring, and has been since March. This means we had to change the comment automod leaves on every post. Now instead of linking to the DM system, which is being phased out, it will link to the author's profile. From there, simply hit "Start Chat" to send them a message. If the link doesn't work or you run into any problems, send us a report in modmail.

For more information: https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/34720093903764-Enhancing-Messaging-on-Reddit-A-simpler-faster-and-easier-way-to-communicate


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

F4M 26 [F4M] Europe/Anywhere/Online - Introvert in recovery looking for my favorite person, travel companion, player two?

29 Upvotes

Hi! After spending a while living in my own bubble, I realized it doesn't do me many favors. So, I've been trying to step out of my comfort zone... and finding someone to connect with might be another step on my way.

Nice to meet you! I'm 26, Belarusian by ethnicity living in Russia. Working towards moving to Spain by the end of next year.

Generally, I try to find a balance between being silly and serious, since I believe both sides are equally important! Here are some of my interests to describe who I am :)

Travel. Been to 7 countries in the last 1.5 years. It probably sounds cooler than it actually is haha but I definitely wouldn't call myself a high-energy 'always-on-the-move' person. My style is about finding balance, I love my cozy downtime at home, recharging and taking quiet local walks, but it is also important for me to discover and visit new places. It gives me the sense that my life is not just passing by

IT. I work as a senior Data Engineer and I truly enjoy it. Can't imagine myself doing anything else for a living tbh, but at some point I was one step away from becoming a university teacher. Competitive programming enthusiast, icpc semi-finalist in the past if that speaks.

Games. Civ5, hoi, the Darksiders series, some of mihoyo's games and visual novels. Currently replaying retro games for nostalgic reasons: wh40k, wow.

Music. I love metal, pretty much all the genres but mostly dm/bm. Music discussion and recommendations are very welcome. I've been learning to play bass for 3 months now!

My appearance:

My height is around 171-172 cm. Pale af, long light brown hair. You can see me here: https://imgur.com/a/me-gGY4pO5

About what I'm here for:

I'm looking for someone to share some of my interests.. and probably have some interest in me as well. I want something lasting, serious - yet funny, warm and caring. Just please share a Western mindset/culture which I'm the most comfortable with. Values-wise: left-leaning, supportive of sensible feminism. Just basic human respect and equality.

The ideal format for me is online at first - I'm used to getting to know a person before seeing them. I value thoughtful texting where we can exchange meaningful thoughts (or silly memes) every few hours without the pressure of constant instant replies. I'd love to take my time to build trust through words and voice notes before jumping into live video calls - for me, the best connections start quietly and build naturally over time.

But, well, I'm definitely not going to keep it online for too long. As you can see, I enjoy traveling, and I'd like to believe that, if anything, I can reach you anywhere.

The age range should be around 23-32. These boundaries aren't too strict, but I'll be uncomfortable with someone significantly younger or older. I really don't have any looks preferences, but I do have a soft spot for medium/long-haired guys ;;

If you felt some sort of connection, I'd love to hear from you. If this post exists, you can still write me.

I'd appreciate if you tell me a bit about yourself in your first message! Also, please, tell me about your favorite meal in it so I know you made it this far and didn't just send a message blindly, hehe :) Or at least mention you didn't.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 8h ago

F4M 26 [F4M] #canada #usa Looking for a life partner

23 Upvotes

Hi!
I’m looking for a man. Dating apps are kinda hopeless and it feels like no one is serious there.

About me:
-age: 26
-location: Canada
-I recently finished BSc in Computer Science in Canada.
-languages: English, Russian, now studying French.
-hobbies: drawing, photography, cooking, languages.
-I’m more of an introvert but I’m still good at communication.
-don’t smoke, drink very rarely

What I’m looking for: someone who is serious, knows what they want, wants a family one day, kind, ambitious, genuine, transparent. I’m not here to play games, I want real connection. Age: preferably ~24-37yo.

Photo: my photo

Feel free to text me 😊


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

F4M 31 [F4M] Belgium/Europe

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Hello. How are you doing? ☺️

I am writing this post because I'm looking for a relationship with a sweet and funny man. I'm not expecting anything to click from day 1 and I prefer for something to build organically and genuinely if that happens.

In a random order: I come from a sorta big family. I like children. I love poetry. I am very sensitive. I liked the finale of Lost. Tarts are my favourite dessert. I like reading to people I care about. I am fiercely protective in nature. I am not a chef in the kitchen. I liked playing football. I like running. I don't like big crowds. I love big dinners with familiar people, friends you'd call family. I value loyalty. I take my health seriously. I love to paint. I read a lot. I like beauty in every space I can put it and making nests. I hate coffee. I have a soft spot for helping teenagers at risk. And I do believe I'll meet someone out of this post, even as an experience that will teach me something.

I am 1,65. I have brown eyes, light brown long hair with lighter threads in the mix. I am thin with curves and a small belly. You'd recognize me from the stare.

Appearance, fitness and hygiene does matter to me. Not going to pretend it doesn't.

I am looking for:

A flawed, loyal and caring man.

Someone that is open to connecting, not someone unavailable or doesn't know if they want something serious. Be open and have space to meet each other if we text. :)

A cuddler.

Someone with their own interests apart of dating.

Someone that likes texting since it will require that in th beginning. Someone that has humor and we can laugh a lot and easily during movies or conversations about work etc. Someone romantic. Someone that has a protective streak. A listener and a giver. Because I also give a lot..

More selfishly now, hope you can cook or we might starve. And you are known to love your people hard.

💌

Do you like quiet night walks?


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 6h ago

F4M 29[F4M] #Online #Europe - looking for a genuine relationship

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I figured it’s time to try again and see what’s out there. I’m looking for something serious but enjoyable. If you’re only here to get over an ex or want something short-term, let’s save each other the time.

There’s this quote that I always think about. “To be loved is to be seen and known.” It’s someone knowing little things about you and understands you fully. At the same time, still curious about you and still ask the right questions.

**A bit about me:** I’m 29F from the Philippines. I love traveling whenever time and budget allow. I’ve been to Europe and explored a few places around Asia. Last June I was in Tokyo with my friends, and honestly, Japan never gets old. There’s always something new to see and discover. I’m a huge matcha fan, so my caffeine intake during the trip was absolutely through the roof lol. Now that I am nearing my 30s, I want to travel as much as I can.

I’m into watching some sports. I follow F1 (Tifosi…yikes), tennis (Sinner and Swiatek), and cycling (MVDP). I also run…sometimes. I wouldn’t call myself the most athletic person, but running a marathon at least once in my life is on the list lol. But pickleball is what I am into these days.

I listen to music a lot. Alternative rock, indie rock, pop. My spotify playlist is all over the place lol. Dream is to watch Oasis concert in person.

I’m also really into reading. My current read is Book Lovers by Emily Henry. My usual books that I read are contemporary romance. I guess I am still a hopeless romantic deep inside.

**What I’m looking for:** someone kind, patient and emotionally mature.

Communication matters a lot to me.

Does already have a job and is financially stable.

Loves to travel.

Ideally someone based in Europe. Like I mentioned, I’ve already been to some places in Europe. I love the idea of exploring Europe together with a partner.

I’m open to long distance at first. It won’t be easy, but I think it says a lot about how strong something can be when both people are willing to put in the effort.

Physically, I want my partner to be taller than me and someone who takes care of themselves. Good hygiene is important for me.

I don’t know if my post was too much. I just wanted to try if it will work this time. I hope you’re having a great day! :)


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 15m ago

M4F 29 [M4F] UK- Looking for a genuine connection (and someone to send funny reels to!)

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Hey!

I'm 29, from the UK, and I'm hoping to meet someone I can genuinely connect with or we become friends who send each other Instagram reels.

A little about me: I work in construction, and outside of work I’m either really busy or I’m chilling out and there’s not much in between.

I like to kickbox a few times a week but I’m looking at mixing it up and adding in BJJ. I volunteer on a rewilding project in the Lake District which involves carrying trees and tree guards up a hill and monitoring for animal activity. It’s a cool project in a really interesting place and I’m paid in coffee and I get to have interesting chats with interesting people.

When I'm not doing something active, I'm probably playing something on my PS5, listening to an audiobook or watching a series. I'm particularly drawn to stories about adventurers and astronauts, although I'll happily disappear down a Warhammer 40K lore or Star Wars rabbit hole too. I also love to call my friends in different time zones

The most interesting thing about me is that I've thru hiked most of the Pacific Crest Trail, and I'm hoping to head back next year to finish. And I’ve also got a list of smaller trails like the Camino de Santiago, Dolomites or Annapurna that I want to do.

Physically, I'm slim, with short blonde hair, blue eyes, and a short beard.

As for what I'm looking for, I'd really like to find something genuine. I'm not expecting instant chemistry through a Reddit post, but I'd love to meet someone where the conversation feels natural, we can be ourselves around each other, and things have the potential to grow into something lasting.

I don't have a rigid checklist for a partner. I think personality, kindness, curiosity, and being able to laugh together go a long way. I'd like us to have our own interests while also finding things we enjoy doing together.

One practical thing: I'm looking to date someone in the UK, and I'm not looking to date someone who already has children. Beyond that, I'm open-minded about the kind of person I might click with.

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, I'd love to hear from you. Tell me about something you've been really interested in lately, a place you'd love to visit, or even something you've cooked recently that turned out surprisingly well.

And if you've made it this far, bonus points if you have a niche interest, you're always looking for an excuse to talk about. I'm very easy to tempt into a conversation about something I've never heard of before.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 16m ago

M4F 34 [M4F] San Jose, CA - Childfree & Seeking Someone to Share Life's Quiet Moments

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I'm searching for a meaningful long-term connection with someone that will make the days seem less like a blur and more like a snapshot of stars. It's akin to when you look through a kaleidoscope, and you focus on the shapes and patterns that come into view. Finding that vicarious clarity is what I live for, those fun and wholesome moments. We don't remember days, we remember moments - it would be nice to share them with someone.

A Little About Me

  • Homebody at heart. I'd rather read a book, watch a great movie, look at an art gallery/museum, go for a walk, or play a game than go clubbing or backpacking across Europe. Sharing random trivia, analyzing movies, going down Wikipedia rabbit holes, or the occasional stroll somewhere is what I view as a fun things to do.

  • Childfree by choice. I don't want kids, and if you feel the same, great! We can enjoy our freedom to sleep in on Saturdays and enjoy slow mornings.

  • A bit of an overthinker with thoughtful conversations and the occasional existential musing about life and the universe and random theories about things that may relate to your experiences.

  • I'm 6'2", slim build, half Asian/white. I have a humanities degree and work as a janitor, it's nothing like Good Will Hunting but I do have my moments.

  • Drug/alcohol/smoking/cannabis free - I don't drink or smoke or use substances. I don't mind if you drink a bit, however smoking's not for me.

I'm mostly looking for someone near my city (within 15 miles) & childfree. I'd like to hear from you if you think we're a good match. Tell me about yourself, tell me about the last great book you read or a movie you love, or a theory you have about life. Here's one quote that's stuck with me by John Wyndham: "Knowing makes all the difference... It's the difference between just trying to keep alive, and having something to live for." Knowing that you have someone to share life with, that you're not just surviving but living, that you have a reason to look forward to things, it's what makes all the difference, and can make us bear any how as long as we have a why. Maybe we can find out what that difference is for a meaningful life or maybe just laugh about it.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 6h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #Greece #Thessaloniki - Looking to build a healthy long term romantic relationship

6 Upvotes

Hey everyone. My name is Mel. I am 32M 1.78m (5.10''), skinny guy from Thessaloniki. I am looking to build a meaningful healthy long term relationship with the right person based on honesty, trust, communication, reciprocity and shared experiences.

I studied Biomedical Sciences, earned a Master's in "Management of Aging and Chronic Diseases", and I'm currently working on dissertation of my second Master's in Nanomedicine.

For a living, I am working in a hospital in Greece as a Biomedical Scientist. My native language is Greek. I also speak fluent/native English and some German. I have served army for a year.

I am a PC geek. My main hobby is computer technology. Love building and tinkering with them. I also help out students with their medical research papers.

Music-wise, I am into symphonic metal music but i am open to anything. Even though, i drive and love my vehicle, i also like walking a lot and going to the gym. I love coffee, especially cappuccinos. and beer (while i am not driving).

Movies-TV? I am a big fan of Horror and Sci-Fi especially psychological thrillers and time travel stories. Sometimes, i watch anime too, if there is something interesting. My favorite anime show is "Solo Leveling". If you’re down to binge-watch something together, even better.

I love cuddling under blankets while we are watching a TV show. Long walks, hand by hand and hugs while sitting on a bench.

A life dream goal that i achieved, was to have my myopia fixed with laser. Now, i can see the world clearer without glasses and enjoy activities that i couldn't before.

My DMs are open for you!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 3h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] Scotland - hoping to find a date :)

2 Upvotes

Hey! I’m Cameron and I’m 25 from Scotland looking to date someone ideally in Scotland… maybe in time for the Christmas markets? I’ve been single most of my life and haven’t had much luck with dating so far but I’m not letting that stop me this Christmas! So here’s a few things about me:

I love going to the gym! I go most days and have been for the last few months and it’s done wonders for me! I’m a bit of a lowkey nerd, I love marvel, a bit of stars wars, game of thrones etc and love video games! I also love going to watch the football most weekends and hanging out with people in general. I like to read too and mainly read sci fi, fantasy and horror. I’m also trying to learn Spanish through Duolingo (2 year streak)! I have a maths degree but I’m still searching for what I want to do in life. Im 6ft, slim (trying to be more muscular), have brown hair and blue eyes.

I’m looking for a girl who’s sweet, kind, and would like to spend time together. My main love languages are touch and time together so if we hit it off I’d like to see you as much as I can :) I would like someone where we can make each other smile and get invested in each others life and be curious about each others day.

I’m sure there’s a ton of stuff I’ve forgot to put in here but I guess you can find that out if you want to chat or go on a date in future! Oh and if you do want to chat message me with your favourite colour and flower in your message!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 3h ago

M4F 37 [M4F] #Florida looking for my happily-ever-after

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Ive been looking around for a while now and ive had a few people talk to me here and there but they usually ghost me or go silent for days after the initial introduction and a short conversation.

Im a 37 white male single father to two autistic children looking to find my happily-ever-after and settle down together. Im open to the possibility of having more kids as long as everything is flowing the right way.

Im not particularly picky about size, shape or anything of that sort. Personality and a good heart matter the most. We will change as the years go by but a good loving heart is the most precious lasts the ages.

Im a bit of a hopeless romantic and a gaming nerd and though I dont expect to have all of the same common interests, I would like to have a few. Ive always kind of pictured the perfect woman to be one that gets caught up in the moment and just gets lost in each others arms. I like to daydream and think of us dancing in the kitchen listening to some soft music while the children play outside or falling asleep at night giggling and holding each other while we whisper sweet words made only for our ears. Id want you to be the little spoon though so I can rub your belly each night and feel our baby kick.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1m ago

M4F 29 [MF4] UK 🇬🇧- looking for my favourite person

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Heyy! I figured I’d give Reddit a shot and see if my favourite person happens to be hiding here somewhere. You never know, right? 😂

I’m 29, from the UK, white, 5’10”, average build, with brown hair and green eyes. I look younger than I am, which I’ll choose to take as a compliment.

I’m outdoorsy, a bit silly, and love making people laugh. I also have ADHD, which means conversations have a habit of turning into five completely unrelated topics within about ten minutes.

I love exploring new places, spontaneous adventures, cooking, travelling and not taking life too seriously. I also have a ridiculously good memory, so be careful what random facts you tell me at 2am. There’s a good chance I’ll casually bring them up six months later.

I currently work for the NHS, although I’m hoping to move into professional sport eventually. I’ve also been thinking about how easy it is to spend your life putting experiences off until “someday”, so I’ve decided to do a little less waiting and a little more living.

My current plan is to spend a few months backpacking around Europe in the new year. I want to explore new places, try new things, meet interesting people and collect a few stories worth telling when I’m old and boring. I’ll probably get hopelessly lost at some point, but that’s all part of the adventure, right?

So, what am I looking for?

I’m strictly monogamous and looking for a genuine, long-term relationship with someone kind, playful and emotionally mature. Someone who enjoys good banter, stupid humour, meaningful conversations and the occasional spontaneous adventure.

Ideally, I’d love to find someone who feels like both a romantic partner and a best friend. Someone I can be completely ridiculous with one minute and have a deep conversation with at 2am the next. Someone I can laugh with until my stomach hurts, share random thoughts with, and talk to about absolutely anything without feeling like I have to pretend to be someone I’m not.

I’m also a bit of a romantic at heart, and I’d love a relationship where we’re genuinely affectionate and close. Where we make each other feel wanted, appreciated and loved, whether that’s through cuddles, little thoughtful gestures, spending quality time together or simply making each other laugh after a rubbish day.

I want us to look after each other, be there for one another when life gets difficult, and feel safe enough to be completely ourselves. Someone I can turn to when I need comfort, celebrate the little wins with, and rely on emotionally, knowing I want to give them that same love and support in return.

I love the idea of having someone who’s just as happy going out and exploring somewhere new as they are staying in, getting cosy on the sofa, cooking something together or watching a film neither of us will probably pay much attention to because we’re too busy talking.

Basically, I want us to be partners, best friends and each other’s favourite person. Not in a way where we have to do absolutely everything together, but in the sense that we genuinely enjoy sharing our lives, make each other a priority and keep choosing each other even when life gets busy. ❤️

I also really value honest communication, mutual effort and being able to talk things through. Nobody’s perfect, and I don’t expect a relationship to be perfect either. I just want us both to care enough to understand each other, work through the difficult bits and grow together.

One important thing about location

I’m looking to meet someone who lives in the UK, and I’m not interested in a long-distance relationship.

Although I’m planning to backpack around Europe, I’m not looking for an international connection or something that exists primarily through a screen. I want someone I can actually go on dates with, see regularly, cuddle, spend weekends with and build a relationship with in person.

We don’t have to live five minutes away from each other, but I do want us to be close enough that seeing each other regularly is realistic. My travels are something I’m excited about, but they don’t change what I’m looking for romantically. I’m hoping to meet someone here in the UK who wants to build something real together.

A few bonus points if you:

- Can keep up with my ADHD-fuelled conversational side quests.

- Enjoy spontaneous plans, exploring new places and trying new things.

- Are affectionate and enjoy the little things, like cuddles, hand-holding and random kisses.

- Can make me laugh until my stomach hurts.
Enjoy both meaningful conversations and the most ridiculous humour imaginable.

- Are equally happy going on an adventure or having a cosy night in.

- Can occasionally remind me why I walked into a room in the first place.

Ultimately, I’m not looking for perfection or some unrealistic fairytale. I just want to meet someone I genuinely click with, where the feelings and effort go both ways, and we can build a happy, loving life together while still having plenty of fun along the way.

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, tell me a little about yourself! Where in the UK are you from? What do you enjoy doing? What would your ideal weekend look like? Or tell me a completely random fact I probably don’t know yet.

Just give me a little more to work with than “hey”. 😂


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 12m ago

M4A 25 [M4A] Michigan/ Online - Let's get to know each other as people and hopefully romance follows

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I'm cool with starting online but would love to aim for IRL in the future.

My name is Zach. I'm 25, 6'4, From Michigan, and I have some pics on my profile if you want to see me.

What I look for in a partner: I am gynosexual, tldr I'm attracted to feminine people (so girls, feminine men, and fem presenting nb folks). Looks wise other than the gynosexual stuff I'm not that picky. I am a lot pickier with guys tbh but stuff like height, weight, race, and to a certain extent age (obv be reasonable so over 18 and not like 15 years my senior). I care more than we get along in the important ways and can be friends and more. Also I lean left politically so that is important. Also another big thing I look for is someone who actually want to talk and get to know each other, nothing makes me lose interest more than needing to wait a hour for a response most of the time. I read and reply fast, I give my all to get to know you and hope for the same. Also I am monogamous so there is that.

As for my interests I enjoy trading card games, video games( lots of rivals recently), anime, going to the gym, and being with my friends. Most weekends are usually spent out and about.

My fav shows are Dexter, survivor, and the fallout show is good

My fav artists are Gorillaz, Coldplay, and OneRepublic.

As a person I have been described as funny, caring, understanding, reliable, and a just overall decent guy. I like to make sure those I care for know they are cared for. But like everyone I'm not perfect.

The red flags: First I am autistic so communication for me is big and I'm always direct and sometimes don't filter what I think until it's too late. Second I'm a deeply sexual person, not saying that's all I want or I rush that aspect in my more personal relationships. Just putting it out there that the sexual aspect of a relationship is just as if not more important to me than the romantic one. So until I know we can get along well in that aspect I can't commit to anyone. If that's something you're uncomfortable with, I wish you the best of luck elsewhere. And third I am a man who knows what he wants and will always be open and honest with communicating how I feel and what I need. That also means I can be a tad bit possessive when I really get along with someone.

So that's me, if I seem cool and like we could get along, message me and tell me about you a bit


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 6h ago

M4A 34 [M4A] #UK Gamer seeks something serious with someone

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I'm 34 years old, living by myself in Essex. I struggle with social anxiety and severe depression. I don't really have any real life friends, but I do meetup with family quite often. I'm currently waiting to be seen by the autism service - I scored mildly when I did some tests with them.

I spend most of my time at home either gaming (PS5 and RPGs), watching shows and movies, and cooking. I do enjoy going out, but I'll admit to not getting out often enough.

I'm looking to get to know someone with the intent of eventually meeting. It would be good if we shared common interests, but if we don't and you still feel like I am someone you could talk to, then feel free to message.

I am bi and you should be able to see my face on my profile.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 25m ago

M4M 22 [M4M] | Munich, Germany | Looking for a long-term relationship!

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Dear future lover, it's good to meet you. I'm hoping to find someone to grow old with, laugh at my jokes, and maybe teach me a thing or two. Hoping to find a partner who thinks building a life together is the greatest adventure of all.

Some interests include reading, traveling, playing Minecraft or Animal Crossing, and spending too much time going down rabbit holes of research.

I’m looking for someone to be close to physically, so please be relatively near southern Germany / Bavaria / Munich. If you're far away, please be open to moving eventually, and perhaps we can visit in the meantime. I am okay with long distance in the short term.

Send me a message with an introduction if you're interested in speaking more. Looking forward to hearing from you!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] Poland/Europe - Lonely nerd looking for lonely nerdy company.

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Hello. I'm looking for someone who wants to get to know each other. Chat daily and all that good stuff, maybe watch some movies and play some games together. Y'know, quality time spent together

I'm a shy individual, usually sitting at home by myself. I've been on the internet longer than not in my life, probably. I love retro video games, I'm playing something very often. Not just those, but mostly. It's as close to my lifelong passion as can get. I know a lot about it, and I'd be happy to play something with you :)

Other than that, I enjoy music and exploring places I haven't been to yet. When it comes to music, I'm more on the heavier side. Metal is my bread and butter, but I enjoy a variety of genres too. I just hate rap, sorry to all the rap heads out there. I'm going through a sort of transitory chapter in my life, so I just happen to have a lot of time recently. I'd be very happy to share some of it with you. If you have too much time while you stare at your computer all day, we could spend that time together.

I'm open to chatting in text at first. Once we get to know each other a bit, I'm happy to voice chat or video chat, if you fancy that. I don't, but I'm open to a lot of things. I love bad movies and anime, if you're into those.

If you want to know what I look like, here's some on my Tumblr blog. Feel free to reach out there if you have a blog of your own. I'd really like it if you included a few details about yourself in your message. Maybe a picture if you're feeling brave. It's always nice to know who you're talking to.

I'm mostly interested in people from Europe and surrounding areas. It would be wonderful to meet you all, but if you're too far away it'd be really hard to meet up if we do hit it off.

I look forward to your message :]


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 8h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] #LosAngeles, Cali - I'm 33% Sure This Is a Good Idea.

5 Upvotes

"Hello There!" — General Kenobi

Are you here for attention, to pass the time, a distraction from life, or are you actually hoping to find your person? I'm probably somewhere around 4 out of 5.

I'm naturally curious and ask a lot of questions, so if you enjoy talking about your interests, passions, random thoughts, or facts, I'm all ears.

I love conversations that flows naturally—easy, fun, and a little flirty. If that's your kind of vibe, we're already off to a good start.

I will say im a little reserved, but once I'm comfortable I can talk for hours about life, random nonsense, weird what ifs, or whatever deep topic at 2AM. I've always imagined talking to someone late at night in a dark room, with nothing but the sound of our voices and laughter. We can also go as far as the most unhinged stuff. GIVE ME ALL THE DARK HUMOR!

I'm an adventurer at heart. I love late-night drives, music blasting, empty streets, city lights, and finding a lookout spot tk over the city big plus for some urban exploring. Am I psychotic for actual enjoying exploring abandoned places? I really wanna explore an an abandoned asylum, hospital or a school (silent hill vibes)

I go to the gym about 5x a week (3x weights, 2x cardio). I want to hike more, I know a few spots but it would be fun to do it with someone. I also walk my dog twice a day. It's his walk so I let the little guy lead the way while he checks his daily sniff-mail.

I've been getting leaner and stronger. There have been changes to my physique...sculped? More "define." One favorite thing someone said to me was "You're muscular than I thought you were." ( has I was taking off my shirt) (¬‿¬). Not gonna lie that gave me a little ego boost. But enough kidding around one thing I realized that besides being healthy, fit, and strong, another reason I workout is to see what my genetics are capable of.

Am I a nerd for being into video games, anime, manga, manwha, and light novels? As much as I enjoy anime, it's kind of dropped for me; I'm more into manga and actual reading. Currently reading "Second Life Ranker" and playing alot of Deadlock.

One niche hobby I have is collecting specific sculptures/trinkets, and I have a metal detector. I am looking into magnetic fishing as well. That looks fun!

So that's me—chill, curious, sarcastic, and I love banter. Come say Hi! Best case, we exchange a few messages and share a laugh. Worst case, we try to figure out what to have for breakfast. Worst, worst case scenario some god or devil entwines our lives together, how unfortunate.

PS: I get the feeling something is still missing, but at the risk of making this longer than it should be or "long-winded," I propose: "How about you tell me what's something I should have added or expected to find but didn't."

My Character Build:

Height: ?'??

Weight: ???

Ethnicity: ???-?????

Body Type: ???? - ????????

Hair Type: ????

1st Bonus:

Music-wise, I've had these on repeat lately:

• Djo — End Of Beginning

• Sombr — Back to Being Friends

• Vicente Fernández — Estos Celos

• C.C.R - Fortunate Son

• The Stranglers — Golden Brown (Slow + Reverb)

• Jaden ft. Kid Cudi — On My Own

• Lola Young — Messy

• Clean Bandit - Rather Be

• Gigi Perez - Sailor Song

• Future - Mask Off

• Brazil - Declan McKenna

• Ice Cube - You Know How We Do (best song to cruise)

• Leave Her Johnny - AC4 Black Flag Sea Shanty

• Rolling Stones - Paint It Black (great workout song)

•Childish Gambino - Red Bone

I got Spotify, so send me songs I might like

2nd Bonus

• Favorite Color: Phthalo Green

• Favorite Reptile: Jackson's Chameleon

• Favorite Crustacean: Mantis Shrimp

• Favorite Beetle: Japanese Rhinoceros

3rd Bonus

https://voca.ro/1oC8cIWuMU3m

https://voca.ro/17UbBbTKRQNX

By the way, if you didn't know - Bungee Gum possesses the properties of both rubber and gum.

Current at the gym! As of this post. I like to chat between my rest times.

If youre seeing this after a few days im not.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 36m ago

M4F 22m[m4f]#uk/online nerdy guy looking for someone to geek out with

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Hey there reddit you can call me kai(only a nickname), I should start by saying that this isn't my first post here but i've decided to try my luck again. Im here again searching for a genuine relationship and I know reddit isn't the best place to look for a relationship but I've never gelled with dating apps so here i am. Im 22 from the uk specifically the south of England and i would prefer someone also from the uk as It would make meeting up easier if things progressed that far but im also not in a rush to start a relationship and wouldn't mind taking the time to get to know eachother properly first.

Anyway here's a little bit about me.

Im 5'9 with a decent build exercising is a hobby of mine whether it be weight lifting or cycling i enjoy it all the same. I have long brown/brunette hair down past the shoulders now, which tends to be curly at the ends and also on the thicker side. My eyes are a lighter shade of blue tho ive always thought they were more of a grey colour. My skins on the paler side most of the year apart from summer cus I tend to tan easily but it never lasts long. I have no tattoos or any piercings tho i wouldn't mind getting some tattoos down the line.

Personality wise im definitely more introverted then extroverted so definitely prefer a night in as opposed to going out partying. Ive often heard people describe me as a quiet person so theres that's and I do admit i have no problems just keeping to myself. I would say im care free and pretty easy going but can be quite sarcastic and enjoy self deprecating humour so that could be a draw back. Also while I dont show it very often I am quite the nerd and enjoy geeking out about things.

Hobbies and interests:

.Video games(pc only)Some examples of my favourites being

Yakuza, persona, forza, nier, expedition 33. I mainly play single player games and rpg/jrpgs but do like the occasional multilayer games especially if I have someone to play with.

.I love listening to music and like most people I tend to listen to a little bit of everything but manly rap/hiphop especially the stuff I grew up listening too tho I'm always on the lookout for new artists and genres. Im also into podcasts and the occasional audio book anything that can keep me amused while working.

.Cars and motorbikes but i only currently have a bike licence, im also into moto sports but the only one I watch regularly is f1.

.Most weeby things like anime,manga/manwha some examples of my favourites being steins;gate,berserk,death is the only ending for the villainess.

. I really like animals and have kept quite a few pets over the years tho I currently only have a axolotl.

What im looking for in a partner

Someone around my age tho i don't mind someone older than me. Someone who i can consider my best friend as well as a partner, someone who's kind and wants to spend the time to get to know each other. Having the same hobbies would of course be nice as it would make starting a conversation a whole easier but isn't necessary as I'm always down to being introduced to new things. To be completely honest i dont have much of a preference when it come to physical appearance so whether tall or short, 2 arms or 10 i don't mind as long as there a connection there thats all thats matters.

There's plenty more that i could waffle on about but it's probably best to save that for now, so if im someone who seems like your type or at least interesting to talk to please do send a dm and please include a bit about yourself instead of just hi and maybe your favourite pokemon if u have one(my favourites snivy)


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 6h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #Sweden/Online – can we make each other’s lives just a little bit better?

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Hi thank you for reading my post I hope to find someone who is honest loving and caring because those 3 words describe me. I am a gamer so finding a gamer girl would be great. But it's definitely not a dealbreaker. As long as you are a good person then I'm sold.

Just a warning I'm going through the worst part of my life ( so far. It can always get worse.) so I'm not doing to well. Even though that's the case I'm The one in my family that complains the least 🤣 my life moto is cry in the evening and then focus and work hard in the morning. Need to start off and make some things clear. I have gotten hate/criticism that I'm looking for a nurse or someone to “fix me” well that couldn't be further from the truth. I'm strong mentally and have handled my situation by myself. If I have done that for the 10 past years them I think I will be fine 10 more. My physical health may be bad but not my psychological health. I will be there for you as much as I hope that you will be there for me. And yes I can but all my stuff to the side if you need me. So it's not going to be one sided. Hope that's enough to keep the haters away🤣🤣

I have hydrosefalus. It has to do with the water that protects the brain. It's constantly changing. But my water didn't disappear they wey it should. So I have a small pump whit a small plastic tube implanted. And when everything works as it should. I'm normal. Sadly it malfunctioned so I ended up having six surgeries in one year 7 years ago. And because of that I now have brain tiredness. And that changes my whole life. I have to meditate every 2 -3 hours, I can't be in a large group of people. And if a push too much I risk collapsing. And for the past 5 years, I have had so many setbacks. A half a year ago I was up on 700m two times a day. Now I can barely walk 10 meters ( uses wheelchair outside) So it feels like it doesn't matter how much I fight I always end up on step one again. I tried some meds a year ago that would both give my brain more energy and to prevent big setbacks. Sounds good right? But no. 32 days in my pulse is between 130-94 ( when im in bed ) stopped with them So now I'm back on step one again and in even worse conduction than before. So everything I try fails 10 years of fighting has taken me nowhere. I have never been a lucky person and I never will be. I play all my cards right play by the rules. But everything still goe wrong.

So let's end with my green flags and why you should give this Swede a chance. I like to make people feel good with compliments and give them a lot of my time. Sending a cute good morning message is the best. So if you want to receive a “ good morning my love hope you slept well. You mean so much to me “ then I'm the man for you. And if you feel like that was pathetic then just skip me please 🙏🏼 no negative stuff needed. And I'm a good listener. I will be there for you

If this sounds like something you’re looking for too, I’d love to hear from you. Make my day and send me a message

https://imgur.com/a/iJ0VecU


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 43m ago

M4F Bearded man seeks meaningful relationship! 🧔‍♂️ 31 UK

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Hello Redditors! Happy weekend.

A little about me - I live in the South West of the UK. I work full time (from home). I’m 31 and I’m a lone father.

I love to cook, bake (and eat). 🍰Guarenteed to fill you up with amazing food of all varieties.
I love the outdoors - whether that’s going for walks, or travelling. The best part of the travel is usually the car ride while doing karaoke. What’s your song of choice?!

My social life and DM’s are currently dry. So surprise me and light up my day! Bonus points if you’re from the UK, a parent, and love RnB. Speak soon😊


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 21h ago

F4A 30 [F4A]- NY/Anywhere- looking for something real

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Hello there, Reddit. This is probably a silly place to go looking for something real. But here I am.

I’m looking for the kind of connection where I actually get to know *you.* Not just the version of you that's easy to show people, but the whole thing. And I am not looking to be in a relationship just to be in a relationship. I’m not looking for you to fill some vacancy inside of me. I would rather you create in me a new space, that is all yours. Does that make any sense to you? Ha if it does, message me.

A little about me: I work at a nonprofit (and genuinely care about making the world a better place). In my down time, I play a lot of music (I used to teach guitar and piano- so will come in clutch if you ever wanna learn). I love long walks and the moon (my camera role is filled with grainy moon shots) and the rain and trees and philosophy (especially absurdism and existentialism) and spooky things. 

Disclaimer: I’m tall (5ft9), pale, skinny and have curly very black hair. If you care about finding someone who is good-looking, you best look elsewhere, as I am lowkey chopped. I don’t care what you look like. Or how tall you are. 

I’m in NYC. That's great if you're nearby. But if you're not, please enjoy voice calls (I don’t like typing long essays back and forth- I have to do enough typing up reports for work :P). Shoot me a message if you think we’d get on. 


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #US #Anywhere - Hopeless romantic searching for his forever person

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Hi there, I'm Bearhands, I'll gladly tell you my name in the dms. I guess I should start off with what I'm looking for. I want someone who will put as much effort into me as I will for them, any relationship is a 50/50 split and I fully intend on shouldering my 50, be that emotionally or physically. Communication is a huge thing for me. Admittedly I have an anxious attachment style, this means if my partner doesn’t communicate their needs or feelings, I will assume the worst and stress myself out.

Now I'm sure you're wondering why should I waste my time and message you? What do you have to offer? Well let me try my best to sell you on myself. I'll get the ugly out of the way fast, I have and still do struggle with mental health issues so I may not be your cup of tea. I am however actively seeking help and working through my issues in hopes to be a better person for myself and everyone else. I am a larger guy, but I am working to better my health (-70 pounds over my journey) hopefully that shows some dedication.

Aside from that I have been described as "Whimsical and easy going” I also once had myself described as "a fluffy haired golden retriever boy." I was assured this is a good thing. I am extremely loyal and am the type to send a good morning message routinely. I get that some may find this clingy and I respect that.

What do I like doing for fun? Well I enjoy watching sports a whole lot, any sport you can name, I probably enjoy it to some degree. I love music and would argue it's probably one of the most important things in my life, I'm almost always listening to something. I would love to get some album or song recommendations from you, I listen to just about everything so odds are I'll enjoy whatever you share. I also enjoy writing albeit nothing I've ever written will see the light of day. I enjoy doing it for myself as a creative outlet. I love reading as well. I typically listen to audio books in my free time and while I'm working out. I love Sci-fi, fantasy, and non-fiction.

I would describe myself as jeopardy smart. Are you looking to receive copious fun facts from my interest of the month? Well, I'm your guy.

What am I looking for in a partner? Looks wise I could care less. I am a firm believer that a beautiful soul trumps all superficial nonsense. I want a partner I can laugh with, someone I can make smile. I want a best friend. I hope this is appealing to someone and we can try and grow something special together.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] #California - Not asking for much but a weekend frienddd/company! 😄👏 (plz read the whole post)

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Good morning/afternoon fellow Reddit strangers & happy beautiful Saturday.

A bit gloomy out today but still grateful anyway.

Woke up way earlier than anticipated and already made me a fresh batch of Italian coffee since I couldn’t go back to sleep.

Now, sitting here contemplating my next move and thinking should I just call it a lazy day and enjoy the peace…. Well, I figured I might as well try to find a weekend buddy, companion, frienddd maybe is an exaggerated word to use on here… but basically someone to connect, converse, chat, have a good and healthy banter with! Before I proceed, I’d like to make candid disclaimer, I don’t want to sign up for anyone’s only f&ans, follow any models wanna be on in&sta and absolutely won’t download or join this this thing called Di&scord! Yeah! I’m not that cool sorry, Reddit is perfectly fine with its generic chat thing, otherwise snp or Telgrm! Haha.

Again, I don’t have a specific plan set for the day, weekend yet, but I’m thinking, some books, the gym, watch the EPL and relax — so many bonus points if you know what the EPL or LaLiga are! Moreover, I’d message you in a heartbeat if you are a fan too lol. Yeah! Three things get extra super excited; 1- Football/soccer and 2- traveling lol

Okay… now before you start asking why hit this guy up, when I can be watering my garden, picking flowers, hitting the gym, going to yoga, playing with my kitty, all the good stuff that you like to do… I gotta tell you this is an absolute win/win for you, both of us actually! We get to chat, laugh a bit, so bring your spring humor game and if you don’t the. I got you! If you happened to be bi or multilingual then id love to learn a bit from you! Haha. Yeah!

Aside from that, we can keep each other company over the weekend, maybe beyond if we can manage to make it past the first three to five messages lol. Yeah…. True story haha.

A bit about me: professional, educated, traveled, 6’1 tall, black hair, naturally tanned/olive skin, been told handsome and ONLY into women. Enjoy the beach, nature, and can never say no to pistachio ice cream/gelato or blueberry pancakes lol. —-insert the Easter egg here cause you managed to read the whole post— I absolutely love a decent size (thicc) woman ;))))

Oh, my! You read this far and haven’t get in my dm yet? What’s is it gonna take..? lol jk

Cheers & have a marvelous weekend


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 7h ago

M4F [M4F] 22 #Lebanon #Online looking for my life partner

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Hello everyone,

I'm a 22 year old guy, Muslim, live in Beirut Lebanon, looking to build something that lasts. Not looking for casuals, only serious.

I don't drink or smoke, not deeply religious but i do all my deeds. I don't mind your background, as long we can enjoy each other's time and can communicate properly.

I recently graduated as a mechanical engineer, started master's program, and started working full-time at the same time. I don't want to keep on waiting for it to come because I have been waiting my whole life working on myself neglecting this side of me. Dating apps suck and i don't seem to get much out of it. I've tried here before also didn't get anything.

I am 170cm, not very athletic currently, but will go back to the gym and pumping iron again after i finish master's (around January ig if a war didn't erupt again LOL)

I like playing video games, mostly single player games (like farcry, Detroit, Ghost of Tsushima.. ), some multiplayer like Squad, and i like minecraft a lot (even though i don't have someone to play with and not much time). also enjoy coding for fun, and looking up random topics online.

if you read this far and want to have a conversation, feel free to dm!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 7h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] #Netherlands #Online - Professional daydreamer searching for a reality partner

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Hey! My name's Brian from the Netherlands. Currently, I'm working towards finishing a degree in communication. I like gaming on my Switch, PC and PlayStation and I do a teeny tiny bit of photography and sketching when I get inspired. The sketching I do both on paper with pencils and digitally using a pen display. I usually also watch sci-fi/fantasy series and movies, and on occasion animated shows (like anime or western animation). I'm very introverted and a bit awkward until I get comfortable talking to you.

I'm looking for someone about my age that is also looking for a serious long term relationship. While I have little prior experience with relationships, I do value strong connections and want to build a special and even stronger one. I wouldn't say I have any set preferences in terms of appearances, but I do prefer being around a similar age. While I'm also not against an LDR, I prefer someone who lives nearby (nearby = Netherlands/Belgium/UK/Germany), but it's not an issue if you live farther away. It's not a problem for me if the distance between us is big. Because if the spark is there, then no distance will be too great. Of course, I'm open to just being friends too, but that's if we end up not being compatible as more.

I hope to get to know each other. I'm down to meet up for some coffee, but first let's get to know each other with a nice chat here on Reddit to see if we match. Talk to you soon!