r/ForeverAloneDating • u/demovoroa • 2h ago
F4M 26 [F4M] Europe/Anywhere/Online - Introvert in recovery looking for my favorite person, travel companion, player two?
Hi! After spending a while living in my own bubble, I realized it doesn't do me many favors. So, I've been trying to step out of my comfort zone... and finding someone to connect with might be another step on my way.
Nice to meet you! I'm 26, Belarusian by ethnicity living in Russia. Working towards moving to Spain by the end of next year.
Generally, I try to find a balance between being silly and serious, since I believe both sides are equally important! Here are some of my interests to describe who I am :)
Travel. Been to 7 countries in the last 1.5 years. It probably sounds cooler than it actually is haha but I definitely wouldn't call myself a high-energy 'always-on-the-move' person. My style is about finding balance, I love my cozy downtime at home, recharging and taking quiet local walks, but it is also important for me to discover and visit new places. It gives me the sense that my life is not just passing by
IT. I work as a senior Data Engineer and I truly enjoy it. Can't imagine myself doing anything else for a living tbh, but at some point I was one step away from becoming a university teacher. Competitive programming enthusiast, icpc semi-finalist in the past if that speaks.
Games. Civ5, hoi, the Darksiders series, some of mihoyo's games and visual novels. Currently replaying retro games for nostalgic reasons: wh40k, wow.
Music. I love metal, pretty much all the genres but mostly dm/bm. Music discussion and recommendations are very welcome. I've been learning to play bass for 3 months now!
My appearance:
My height is around 171-172 cm. Pale af, long light brown hair. You can see me here: https://imgur.com/a/me-gGY4pO5
About what I'm here for:
I'm looking for someone to share some of my interests.. and probably have some interest in me as well. I want something lasting, serious - yet funny, warm and caring. Just please share a Western mindset/culture which I'm the most comfortable with. Values-wise: left-leaning, supportive of sensible feminism. Just basic human respect and equality.
The ideal format for me is online at first - I'm used to getting to know a person before seeing them. I value thoughtful texting where we can exchange meaningful thoughts (or silly memes) every few hours without the pressure of constant instant replies. I'd love to take my time to build trust through words and voice notes before jumping into live video calls - for me, the best connections start quietly and build naturally over time.
But, well, I'm definitely not going to keep it online for too long. As you can see, I enjoy traveling, and I'd like to believe that, if anything, I can reach you anywhere.
The age range should be around 23-32. These boundaries aren't too strict, but I'll be uncomfortable with someone significantly younger or older. I really don't have any looks preferences, but I do have a soft spot for medium/long-haired guys ;;
If you felt some sort of connection, I'd love to hear from you. If this post exists, you can still write me.
I'd appreciate if you tell me a bit about yourself in your first message! Also, please, tell me about your favorite meal in it so I know you made it this far and didn't just send a message blindly, hehe :) Or at least mention you didn't.