I’ve been on a very long (3+ year) search for a bra that is wearable for a full day. I’m finally narrowing down some of the fit aspects that have made it difficult, and would very much appreciate any help or tips. Calculator gives me 32G typically, measurement fluctuations range from 32FF to 32G/GG to 34F/FF for comfort. I am close set, center full, either tall roots or just lower set, but shallow on top, and apparently an odd root shape. There’s a part about halfway up the outside of my larger side that must be a tad wider than above and below that area; cups that are too wide at the outside top still end up sitting just inside the root/on tissue in this particular spot. (Not sure I’m describing this well, I’m sorry!)
I’ve tried a range of sizes and bra shapes/styles, with fit help from Bravissimo, Breakout Bras, and Levana (very unhelpful at that one, putting me in an Ewa bra that did damage to the root). What I’ve found to be the closest fit is a Freya offbeat in 34FF, but a very uncomfortable aspect is how short the wires are. Again, not sure if it’s tall roots or low set, but that means the very short side wires on this bra leaves the top part of my root/tissue unsupported and tends to poke. Yes, it is sitting just outside my root, so it’s not too narrow. I have tried a 34G and while the wires are better for height, they’re too wide (not a dealbreaker if it worked otherwise) and because I’m not quite full enough to fill out the cups (seems to run a bit large in the cup?), the gore digs in at the top.
I seem to be between sizes for 32G/32GG, getting some overspill in many 32G (Freya Quinn for example, I think because of the way it’s cut) but Elomi Matilda in 32G has enough cup room, that outer mid part of my root is just a smidge too wide for comfort though.
Any ideas for bras/styles/sizes to try that would have a similar shape to the Freya offbeat wire, but with taller side wires? As a note, the gore is tall but folds on itself so works okay, but when I tried panache Clara and Bravissimo Millie, the gores are too wide (mostly at the bottom of the cups) and push tissue apart and then slides down. I’m not worried if the wire is technically too wide, that doesn’t seem to bother me as long as they aren’t super high, but seem to be out of options. Panache Ana is too shallow at the bottom in 32GG, too small in 32G. Freya Quinn is too wide is 32GG but tolerable, but the straps are so stretchy it seems to put more weight on my shoulders than should be. Fantasie side support bras have some similar measurements as Freya offbeat, but the wire is not shaped the same at the outer areas, and seem more deep and full coverage, just don’t sit right and always slide down or have a flat spot at the bottom.
Thanks in advance and my apologies for how long this is!!