Hiii!! Soo, here I am putting myself out there again and seeing who I might meet hehe. I'm hoping to find someone I can genuinely connect with and hopefully build something long-term with. I'm definitely interested in a cg/l dynamic with the right person, but above all else, I'm looking for an actual relationship. Someone I can fall for, get close to, and hopefully build a future with. The dynamic is something I'd love to share with my partner, but having that genuine connection underneath everything is what really matters to me :3
The guy behind the screen
Sooo, I'm 24 and around 6'4" tall, and I can be a bit of a yapper once I get comfortable with someone LOL. I'm the kind of person who can start talking about one thing and somehow end up three hours deep into a completely unrelated conversation. I'm pretty laid-back, sarcastic, and a little goofy, but I've also got a much softer side that comes out when I care about someone.
When I'm not working, I'm usually gaming, watching movies, browsing the internet, or finding an excuse to get outside. I'm a massive movie nerd, especially when it comes to sci-fi, and I play pretty much anything that catches my interest. FPS games in general, Deadlock, Overwatch, and whatever else my friends convince me to try are all fair game.
I enjoy hiking, going on drives, and exploring new places too. Sometimes I'll even bring a weighted backpack along because apparently normal walking isn't enough for me 😭. I also have a soft spot for animals, especially ducks and geese, so if we ever go on a walk together, there's a decent chance we'll end up stopping to feed them.
I'm also a big fan of calls and voice messages. I like actually getting to know someone, hearing about their day, and having those conversations that go from something completely silly to something surprisingly meaningful. Bonus points if you can match my energy when the yapper genes kick in.
My softer side
When I care about someone, I tend to show it through affection, little acts of kindness, and being there when they need me. I like remembering the little details about someone, checking in on them throughout the day, and making sure they know they're appreciated.
I love the idea of being able to joke around and tease each other one minute, then have a genuine conversation about what's bothering us the next. If you're having a bad day, you don't need to pretend everything is fine around me. I'd rather you feel comfortable telling me what's going on, even if all you really need is someone to listen.
And yes, I'm absolutely the type to remind you to eat, drink some water, and get some sleep when you've been neglecting yourself. If I find out you've survived on three hours of sleep and a single snack, you're definitely getting a lecture followed by some affection LOL. Somebody has to keep you alive 🙄
As for a cg/l dynamic, I'd love to share that more affectionate and nurturing side of myself with the right person. The little routines, reassurance, playful moments, cuddles, and just having that extra layer of closeness between us are all things I find really sweet.
But I don't want the dynamic to be the entirety of our relationship. I want us to be partners first, to understand each other, respect each other's needs, and genuinely enjoy being together. Having someone I can care for in that way would be lovely, but having someone I love and who loves me back is what I'd ultimately be hoping for.
The little things I'd love to share
Honestly, I'm pretty easy to entertain as long as I'm enjoying someone's company. We could spend an entire evening gaming, watch a bunch of movies, go exploring somewhere new, or just hang out in a call while doing our own thing.
I'd love having someone I can send random pictures to, share stupid memes with, talk about my day with, and message whenever something reminds me of them. Those little interactions might not seem like much, but I think they're a big part of what makes a relationship feel special.
I'm also perfectly happy with quieter moments. Sitting together watching something, talking before bed, going for a walk, or just being in each other's company without feeling like we constantly need to entertain one another.
I want someone I can be affectionate and sweet with while still being an absolute goofball around. Someone I can laugh with until we're both being idiots, but also someone I can be serious with when life gets difficult.
I'm a fan of spontaneous little adventures, too, whether that's a road trip, finding somewhere new to eat, or going somewhere outdoors just because we feel like it. Although, fair warning, my sleep schedule is pretty terrible, so a quick goodnight call might accidentally turn into us talking until sunrise 😭.
A little about who I'm hoping to meet
Above everything, I'm looking for a genuine, long-term relationship, not just a dynamic or something casual that fizzles out after a little while. I'd love to find someone who wants to build something meaningful together, where we're both excited to get to know each other and see what the future might hold.
I want a partner who can also be my best friend. Someone affectionate, honest, communicative, and willing to put effort into the relationship. We don't have to be perfect, and I don't expect us to have everything figured out from day one. I just want us to be able to talk openly, work through things together, and make each other feel wanted and appreciated.
I'm happy to take things at a natural pace. I'd rather build trust and get to know each other properly than rush into a label before we know whether we're compatible. The cg/l side is something I'd love to explore with a partner who's interested in it too, but I want that to grow alongside our connection rather than replace it.
For location, I'm mainly looking for someone local to Toronto or within a reasonable distance. At the very least, I'd prefer someone based in Canada, ideally on the Ontario side, since I'd like to be able to meet up, go on dates, and spend actual time together. I'm not really looking to start a relationship across the border or with someone who lives too far away for us to realistically see each other.
I also want to be upfront that I have a strong preference for white women when it comes to attraction. I'd rather be honest about what I'm generally drawn to than leave people guessing.
Personality-wise, I think I'd get along best with someone affectionate, playful, and comfortable being herself around me. You can be shy, clingy, talkative, a little silly, or take some time to open up. I'm not expecting a particular personality type, just someone who's genuinely interested in building a connection with me.
Ultimately, I want something where we're both choosing each other, putting in effort, and looking forward to what we're building together. A relationship where we can be sweet with each other, support one another, share our interests, and hopefully become an important part of each other's lives.
If you've made it this far...
Well, you've officially survived my yap session LOL.
If you're also hoping to find something genuine, enjoy gaming or movies, like long conversations, or just want someone affectionate to share life's little moments with, feel free to message me!
Tell me a bit about yourself, what you're into, or even something completely random. I'm always happy to see where a conversation goes, and who knows, maybe we'll end up being exactly what the other person was looking for :3 ♡