It’s official, my wife and I will be going for our first time tomorrow. We’re both 37. Hoping to arrive around 9 and get a tour perhaps.

Not sure what to expect. My wife wants us to maybe be able to flirt. She’s a little more social than me,
I’m not the best conversationalist. We’re both not really sure what it’s like. I’m more nervous than she is, but I know imagination is different than real life when we’re actually there.

Either way, we’re dipping our toes to see if this kind of stuff is for us or if it’s just a fantasy that we talk about. Seems like we’d be into it, but we’ll find out tomorrow!

51/44 bi couple coming to Toronto Oct 31st through November 2nd. After reading up on the city we figured this would be an exciting spot. We've been to Fantasy Fest in Key West, FL and lifestyle resorts in Mexico, so we're not entirely new to the lifestyle scene, but we are new to Canada, so we're jumping in! Feel free to reach out, comment, or DM... We love meeting other sex-positive people!

Looking to head down tonight, anyone know if the sauna's back open?

Hello,
I’ve attended a few nude yoga classes in the city and wondering how the vibe and turnout is like at Oasis? I see it’s scheduled on Monday and Wednesday. Is anyone a regular at these sessions?
Thank you

Hi, I'm a chubby 22F going solo to unicorn night this Saturday. I'm really anxious but it's something I've been wanting to do for a while, and I'd like some advice on it. I've been to Oasis a handful of times but never solo at a non-sapphic event.

Do unicorns do the approaching or is it the other way around? What's the etiquette there?

I hear things tend to get cliquey. DMs open if you have advice or are interested in hanging!

I am 40 year old South Asian who is kinda social conditioned shyness about the body.I want to try Oasis for a liberating experience and definitely won't be doing anything sexual as am too nervous for it..What kind of activities can I enjoy there

I will be traveling to Ontario the first week of December. Saw that Oasis is having a MtG night. While I love magic and will totally play. I was wondering how those nights go down. Is just a casual night of magic, or do folks normally have extra fun after the fact. This would be my first time at Oasis and just trying to understand the vibe that night.

Thank you

Hey we are married couple. From South asia and want to explore with other couples full swap same room. We are experienced.

About us

Her: 5.4 inch height and chubby, full figure

His: 5.6 inch height and average build

We are looking for same age group couple, also we both drink and smoke if you are doing too that is good. We can go to Oasis on October 24th Saturday.

Hey everyone!

My girlfriend and I are both 23, and we’re considering checking out Oasis Aqualounge next Tuesday (October 27) during the day for our very first experience.
We’re both pretty open-minded, adventurous, and curious about exploring the lifestyle together. We’ve been talking about it for a while and figured Oasis might be a fun place to start.

Since it’ll be our first time, we’re not entirely sure what to expect. We’re hoping to meet some fun, attractive, like-minded people, enjoy the atmosphere, and see where things go naturally. We’re definitely open to exploring if the chemistry is right, but we’re not going in with any pressure or expectations.

We’re particularly curious about what the atmosphere is like during the daytime on a Tuesday. Is it usually busy? What’s the crowd and age range like? Would you recommend it for a younger couple visiting for the first time?

Also, if any couples are planning to be there during the day, we’d love to connect beforehand and potentially meet up!

Any tips, recommendations, or advice for first-timers would be appreciated.

Hello,

I've always been so interested in going, but could never get the courage of going because I dont have any like minded friends to go with. I would love to create a relationship with some like minded people and have some company for my first time??!

Last night I was hanging out in the pool when I noticed an unusual character show up around 10:30 (time possibly not super accurate, my eyes weren't glued to the clock). They were dressed in pretty grungy clothes, but more notably, they were carrying around a golf club which they began twirling around on the deck by the games area, gradually undressing as they did so.

They weren't causing any actual trouble or interacting with anybody at all, they just kept whirling their golf club around. Eventually they sat down on the bench by the pool. I saw the manager and someone I assume to be a security guard approach the individual and briefly talk to them, and I wondered if they were being asked to leave. I'd figured the golf club was something they might not have been allowed to come in with. But after their talk the manager and guard just left and the golf club guy stayed.

Does anyone know who this person was? Or why they brought a golf club? Did I imagine all of this? I'm sincerely just confused and curious.

Wife and I may be coming on Friday November 20th. Were are new to this world, just went to M4 for our first expereince. It was a friday night, we had a great time but didnt love the line ups of single men.

What is it like at Oasis?
Are there private rooms?
Whats the demographic?

We are only interested in being with each other but enjoy watching others and possibly being watched.

I look forward to all of your tips.

Hey all!

I’m a single 26 m, recently out of a long term relationship and been exploring with my sexuality and want to take the plunge and go check out the club.

I know that fridays and saturdays are no single guys but through the week is it a welcoming scene? Also, if anyone has any tips for me not to unintentionally make any one uncomfortable I’d really appreciate it. I know how to act in public but am nervous and don’t want to miss any basic etiquette pieces.

Also, as someone who is bi, is there rooms or days that are better than others for that?

Thanks in advance!!

Hi there ,

I’m very interested in joining Latin night as I’ve always wanted to learn to dance ! Is this a night where we are taught and we can pair up with a partner?

Thank you!

Hello, we are a 45 year-old couple that’s been married for 23 years. We attended Oasis a couple weeks ago on a Saturday and had a great time!

The staff were great and we thoroughly enjoyed the cleanliness of the club. Husband was nude most of the night, but also wore a towel a bit. Wife wore lingerie all night, nervous about getting nude in front of others after having breast implant removal surgery and then a lift. Apprehensive to show scars.

This was the first time we had ever been around anything lifestyle related. We are a very vanilla, somewhat timid couple. We are both educated, good looking, height weight proportionate. No one in our social circle would expect us to attend a lifestyle club.

While we thoroughly enjoyed watching others, we felt a bit out of place. We didn’t know where to go and simply blend. It’s was a very cool night so we stayed inside the entire time. We enjoyed the third floor but we stood around a lot. We enjoyed the shows others were putting on, but at what point does it become creepy for us to watch, how long is acceptable?

We did not actually talk to anyone else, and we found that somewhat disappointing. We know conversations are a two way street but looking for thoughts on how to make “friends” ?

We live three hours away (USA), but plan to attend another Saturday night in the next few weeks.

We truly have no intention of playing with others, just yet, but would like to meet people and simply have some conversation while we are there. Others probably have different priorities and we totally get that. Guess we are wondering how to break the ice with other attendees?

Anyone else ever in the same situation as us, in that they want to watch mostly?

Hoping for worthwhile replies. Oasis is a great establishment, compliments to the owners for having such an inviting space!

Hi! I'm a pleasant spirited low drama 50yr pre-op trans woman planning to check out Unicorn night October 24.

I'm currently in a trans women polycule, but interested in play with men. I'm bi, so open to play with women as well. I'll be coming solo. I'm not experienced in this scene yet (this will be my 2nd Oasis visit). I'm not ready to go to a single men night yet. I'll work up to it :) I'm currently mulling over what my limits might be.

If anyone is interested, or has any tips on what to expect, I'd appreciate!

If nothing happens, it's fine! I'll love the relaxing pool time and people watching :)

Has the sauna been re-opened? Last time I was there it was closed.

M38F30 going tonight at 10 PM, would like to hangout with other couples in the pool, for parallel play, with no intention to swap.
We play with other single women, She also plays with other women solo,
Not picky about age or ethnicity, just mutual attraction, no pressure and respect.

Send us a message :)

Any other oasis fans please hit me up! Hubby and I love the pool and the vibes!

Never been to a sex club or the show. We are late 40s ( not swingers) but interested in a sex club. Thought going to the sex show and going to the booth to learn a bit about it. What to expect