I’m a transguy and struggling a bit with my attraction to men. I’ve known I’m attracted to men for a while and even talked to men on here about it. However, in my normal life I’m nervous about it. I’ve only been with women and in some ways it’s been challenging because I’ve had to hide and compensate for things. I’ve used a strap on and never let them see my female parts, and tried to show them in strong and just like a normal guy despite being short and all. When it comes to men, my female aspects would be exposed and my small size might even become a positive for him. However, the idea of fully becoming vulnerable and leaning into that (for real, not just fantasy) is scary. Also, I don’t even know if I’ll be appealing because my body is so niche.

Have never been a fan of my body and the ladies have usually agreed with me. Would love any advise your willing to give.

I’m starting to lose weight, and I feel like it’s the only way anyone could ever be attracted to me; I’m very lonely and sad—no one loves me just as I am

Always trying to be positive about my body but it is hard when you are a bigger guy. What would you change about me?

M49, straight, 5’10”, 200lbs (-25lbs). Training to get toned! Feeling way younger. You like?

Well on the road again and got some time between meetings (for once) and was feeling myself today so thought why not say hello to the lovely people on this sub 😃

Being trying keto the last few months and it definetly works but I’ve now gotten a bit too thin!

I have started a weight loss project 12 weeks ago, and lost 14.5kg since then. I was around 105kg, and now I'm 90.5kg. I still don't like my body, and I'm still far away from my goal. But progress is being made. My clothes fit me much better, both jeans and shirts. I feel better. I turned 24 last week, I'm still here. My goal is 70-75kg, but I might try going below that, we'll see. I'll have to think of some work out routines sometime soon, if I want muscles and stuff.

The self-esteem just hasn't been there lately, so I'm working on my self image and posting again. Maybe there's fans of a hairy dad bod haha.

For a long time I was really big, then I was really skinny for a while (hence the stretchmarks). My biggest challenge has been trying to keep that balance. I've always felt like my body has really weird proportions but I try to be confident anyway. Gotta fake it 'till you make it!

good morning from the dad next door (especially to any yummy moms reading this 😜)

Starting to feel better about my skinniness after having some good interactions with a few women in the past week. I’ve been doing core exercises daily too which just have me feeling better overall. Things have been going well for me recently.

Plus I really do not like how much darker my penis is and how the balls don’t usually hang at all. So many things I would change…

I thought this photo looked good so I wanted to show it to Normalnudes! I hope you like it too, let me know what you think

I feel good about my body overall, but want to lose my gut, wish my penis was a bit bigger, and get my abs back.

Feeling a bit shy and insecure this morning, posing nude to help. At my hands look good?

Back from a long night shift. The sun is out and the sky is a cold blue but I'm resting up today

I hope you enjoy what I am sharing. But if you don't, I would love to know why... You will not hurt my feelings.

Yup, next chapter I guess. I know I need to shed a few pounds. And finally find a GF...lol.

I feel ok in my body but still not great. I don't feel fit or masculine enough even though I don't want to fit that mold exactly. I've only had one real partner in the past and she found me attractive, and I'm in better shape than I was then, but somehow I still don't feel good enough. It's alright though. Lately I enjoy shaving my chest which I had never done until around a year ago

Trying out some different angles. Down over 10% bf from the start of the year. Feel pretty good about it. Thoughts? Feel free to DM too

Another leg day so intense they shake for a few hours. Anyone else get turned on from leg day workouts every single time?

I can heal you. Sounds strange - but it's the truth. Hypersensitivity is my "super-power". Anyways - i hope you like my body and aura :)

After the surgery, the doctors forbade any heavy physical activity for a couple of months. I’m not moving around much these days, and I’ve started eating more—I’ve even put on a little weight.