Idk why this mindset is so common in our generation, but I see people at UBC stressing so much about "making friends" or "getting in a friend group" or "getting a date" that they forget what relationships are supposed to be.

Whether it's friendly, professional, or romantic, human relationships are not a one-and-done thing that you "obtain" and suddenly become happy. They require effort to develop and they fade when one or both people stop trying. If you're not taking a genuine interest in people (in a non-invasive way), not taking the time to make plans, not reciprocating, and generally not being the kind of person you want in your own life, it's not going to work out. Relationships should be a healthy addition to your life, not a cure for your problems.

Also: hygiene. Stop calling yourself "chopped" and wallowing in self-disrespect. Take a shower, groom yourself, and start working on your health.

2am and I can hear through my window on the 7th floor people talking outside at ground level:

Person 1: Dude, like, I don't want sex all the time. Am I gay?

Person 2: Nah bro you good, you just don't get no bitches💀

Yadda yadda good guys don't get action, all the girls like bad boys👉👈

Like genuinely shut the fuck up I'm tryna sleep and I can hear yalls loudahh, again in the 7TH FLOOR THROUGH MY DAMN WINDOW, ain't no one want to have to fall asleep to your storytime episode about getting no action🥀🥀

I fear I’m not gods strongest soldier rn…

Started an assignment worth 30% way too late, and I legit feel stupid doing it. Either I grind it out and neglect my other midterm and hw or I take the easy way out ig. This is my last semester too 😭 can’t even go out with a bang

I’m completely lost in how to study for this midterm, there so many probelm set questions but I don’t know if I am even doing them right.

Does anyone have tips on how to study and prepare ,the midterms on Wed….

im in third year and have made individual friends, but haven’t really found a friend group. for people who have, how did it happen? did you meet through classes, clubs, residence, etc.?

i feel like everyone has already grouped up idk

Are note takers even a thing this year? If so, how did you get one? I’m registered with CFA but unsure if I would qualify with my mental health disorder. Does it have to be something more intense?

Side note: I have the Genio accommodation but it’s so useless for Science courses, would explaining why help my case?

Hi! If anyone in fnh350 and has notes for lec 9, I would greatly appreciated if you could share it with me. The recording had no audio and I am missing a few notes from what I couldn't catch in class. Thank you!

So I’m not a student at UBC but I’ve been curious about the social life and parties that are if barley going on in this school

title exactly ^

Depends on what the researching chemist does and what the chemical engineer does -- both areas of work which I have no clue about.