First time posting here and brand new to the pegging community!

So I’ve been married to my wife for 8 years, together for 14, but I’m actually scared to ask her to peg me, regardless of how much my ass craves it. I suffer from Autogynephilia, or AGP, and my wife is well aware of this, and even supportive of it, to a point.

But here are the two issues holding me back from asking her:

1. I’m already pretty sure she would be TOTALLY against it, and potentially even turned off if I asked her to. She had mentioned when we were last discussing my AGP, “You’re not going to surprise me with anything weird are you? Like come out and tell me you like men?” I responded, “Baby, I’m not gay. I just sometimes wish I was a beautiful woman and I like to cross dress every now and then!” Will she think that pegging me = I’m gay or don’t want her anymore? I hope not because I want her constantly, but my ass wants some company too, I just don’t know if that’s worth risking her being turned off of me.

2. And here’s the real issue that I’m sure you’ve figured out by now. I’m well trained after years of secret solo play. As I was behind my wife the other night pulling it all the way out and diving all the way back in again, I had a fantasy of her begging me to let her peg me and I came into her immediately. After we cleaned up I thought about it; if she were to peg me, there would be no way for me to hide how well trained my ass is. For a decade I’ve been secretly able to work my way up from taking something the size of a q-tip to a 9” dildo, and there would be zero way to hide how well my ass is at receiving penetration. What am I going to do? Fake that it hurts? Ooo! Owww! I’m a horrible actor! Hahaha

She’d quickly come to realize that I’ve been doing anal play behind her back for a while and if she somehow got past the fact that I asked to get pegged, she’d probably lose her mind once she realized how well trained my ass is because of secret play.

Or maybe I’m just being ultra paranoid because of how new I am to this pegging thing. I only ever done solo play and have considered buying a dildo machine a million times but ultimately, having a partner willing to fuck you in the ass is far better than having a machine that can do it.

I’ll update you if I ever build up the courage to ask her or if my fantasy of her asking me ever comes true.

Just wondering, I’ve only had one GF that did it only bc I asked and told her I wanted to see what it was like. I rather enjoyed it. I don’t think she really got any satisfaction out of it. I guess I would do the same for her but I just felt bad.

How is there not a pegging scene bar ? Femdom bar? How hot would that be?

we’ve got his aftercare down, cuddles, water, blanket. but i realised nobody talks about the pegger side. my hips and thighs are wrecked after. what do you do for yourselves?we’ve got his aftercare down, cuddles, water, blanket. but i realised nobody talks about the pegger side. my hips and thighs are wrecked after. what do you do for yourselves?

Hi good people of reddit !

A couple of days ago, my wife and I started our pegging journey. I went on a very elaborated description of how it went and you can read all about it here. --->OUR VERY FIRST TIME

Now I just wanted to share with you how lucky I was nowadays...

For starters, we didnt skip a single night. We can't get enough but we limites ourselves at 1 session per day :D My wife loves the power dynamic. She even have orgasm without even touching herself .

Tonight (we just finished like half an hour ago) I had my first prostate orgasm... Just like that. I wasnt seeking anything or even thinking about the possibility that it might happen, it just did.

I went above and beyond and even made love to my wife right after because no refractory period. God it was incredible.

For now all is perfect and I want to enjoy every second of it while it lasts. This litterally made my life more bearable.

Thanks for reading me Im gonna go sleep like a baby :D xxx

Hi everyone first time posting here me

My girlfriend brought up pegging me a while ago and I wasn't too sure until one night she ate my ass and fingered me and I loved it and it's made me think why not give it a go I think I might love it but I don't know where to start I'm looking for suggestions on harnesses, strap ons, sizes, strap on kits and possibly butt plugs also I'm am looking for high quality items in the UK but not sure where to start any suggestions would be brilliant

Thanks all x

Whats good ways to tease before pegging?

Hi all, me and the miss would like to start using a strapless option (currently looking at the Strap-on-me multi-orgasm dildo) to have her get stimulated during a session aswell. We would like to pair this with a Lingerie/Panty/Brief harness, but I’m unsure which are suitable.

The multi-orgasm SOM dildo says it’s compatible with the SOM unique Lingerie, but what about the SOM Diva lingerie for instance?

TLDR; what harness could you recommend for pegging with a strapless dildo that has both internal and clit stimulation?

I like the idea of a weighted plug. Anyone tried it . . .any reviews? there is the Link. . . https://www.amazon.com.au/b-Vibe-Snug-Plug-4-Black/dp/B07659M2D1/ref=sr_1_4?crid=33XIKOUEA43LP&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.b8EruAjDPKbI9hvLs0a0KxkETG0TX83V2sxWUMEMHLQEa_RG0CoA1gKYoSEmXBgdUzzPHMhVzYhRBtcRsmIGHsXRm2IRhKGl_WfHyfY76YpufPAwbdqGUadidbgHYS841RTG7VKrRMm1OJF0kWSOqEuwH_MlcEnrGIjDdzWKI8Kw9WWnRegnqb81qg-P_FI7Z2fVUhj8-hPRZ0KZiKyep_9EK1lT7h52nAWzKSRNT4fR5gJxv3EEPwvtdJrJRaFpg8dGZKUFVgaUYdcUQrgHSWAAPFbDFIHDi3mQJqCNRgg.SktTPlFeB425DlYh6dyoaYqe9ryRYsq94rpXhY57QGQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=b-vibe+plug&qid=1792594198&sprefix=%2Caps%2C1134&sr=8-4