r/StraightPegging • • May 20 '24

The Rules - New members please read before posting NSFW

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StraightPegging Rules – Read Before Posting or Commenting

This is a subreddit for real couples into pegging. Share experiences, ask questions, give advice. This is not a porn dump or hookup zone.

Be respectful, or be gone. Rude, insulting, or creepy comments will be deleted. Repeated offenses = permanent ban. Don’t test us.

No porn. No links, no nudes, no explicit videos. Take it to r/Pegging or elsewhere.

No solo pics unless relevant. Solo images must be tied to a genuine question or discussion. Otherwise, it’s spam.

Light BDSM/femdom is okay. We’re kink-friendly — teasing, control, and playful power exchange are fine.

No hardcore femdom or humiliation. If your post belongs in r/Femdom or r/SFWKink, it probably doesn’t belong here.

No begging for pegging. This isn’t your personal Craigslist ad. No “peg me” comments, no DMs, no creepy fishing. This includes asking where you can find women into pegging (hint- not here)

Don’t kink-shame. If someone’s experience isn’t your thing, move on.

Don’t compare pegging to “the real thing.” We’re not here to debate dicks. If you want to talk about bisexuality or M/M experiences, try r/Bisexual or r/BisexualMen.

No low-effort karma farming. Throwaway posts with zero context, memes, and lazy one-liners will be removed. Respect the community.

No minors. Ever. You must be 18+ to view or participate. If you’re underage, scram — and take your hormones with you.


r/StraightPegging • • Apr 09 '25

Pegging and Bisexuality in this Subreddit NSFW

126 Upvotes

All of these posts about guys being bisexual and wanting to be with men are demoralizing for those who are here for straight PEGGING sex. Can mods please do something about this?

Received this report for a recently removed post about a pegging receiver exploring bisexuality and others similar to it.

A Little History

There are two main mods in this subreddit. I am a more recent add to the team. One of the creators of this subreddit, u/pegged50 and I had a conversation about this subject before I was a mod, because I took the name of the group to mean no bisexual talk/wonderings/etc., only heterosexual. And I have a thing against bi-erasure. He explained they never meant for that to be the meaning of the group name. They were more trying to keep out the porn and the heavy BDSM, in order for it to be a welcoming and not overwhelming place for new couples exploring pegging. The word 'straight' was not meant to mean solely heterosexual.

Not Black and White

When receivers explore pegging, they sometimes discover that they have some repressed bi-curiosity that pegging brings to the surface. This doesn't happen nearly as often as new givers fear it will, but the point is that it's not a black and white situation. There is some grey area.

Having said that - I don't feel that this is the subreddit to explore bisexuality, how it might affect your relationship, whether you should do it or not, and whether you might regret it - with pegging as a mere background mention.

Regarding the posts of - have you ever thought about the real thing? This is not the place for those discussions. If you want to talk about bisexuality or M/M experiences, try r/Bisexual or r/BisexualMen.

We do our best to keep a balance and ensure this subreddit is a welcoming and non-scary place for newcomers.

Dealing With the Fears

As to the 'demoralizing' part of this comment, I want to say this with the most respect and kindness that I can - bisexuality exists. I understand that there are many potential or new givers who have concerns and fears about pegging leading to 'the real thing' or not being able to compare to a bio-cock. I would encourage you to trust in your relationship agreements and keep in good communication with your partner in order to quell those fears instead of asking the mods here to keep out any and all talk of bisexuality. This is an adventure that you and your partner are exploring together. Even if they discover that they are bi-curious, that is not the end of the world of monogamy, there are still many choices:

  • they never explore their bi-curiosity and relegate it to fuel for their fantasies (not involving anyone else in your relationship)
  • you role play with them and act out those fantasies with them (still not involving anyone else in your relationship)
  • you give them a subscription to porn that feeds those fantasies (still not involving anyone else in your relationship)
  • you combine the porn with the roleplaying (still not involving anyone else in your relationship)
  • you use that knowledge as fuel for dirty talk that can send your receiver over the edge (still not involving anyone else in your relationship)
  • you decide to allow them to explore in person, but only if you are present/involved
  • you decide to open up your relationship and they can explore without you

As an example, u/pegged50 shared this with me (and I have permission to share it with you):

I myself have been bi my entire life. My wife knew this. We turned to pegging as a way of being able to (sort of) simulate that sexually while staying within our monogamous relationship.

I've done a couple of podcasts about pegging and bisexuality in which I invited listeners to write in their stories about how pegging and bisexuality intersect in their lives and relationships. Some of them said yes, they identified as bisexual because they felt it was important to be authentic and honest with their partner, but they had agreed not to explore because they valued their relationship more than exploring their bi-curiosity and their partners weren't okay with them exploring.

Hope that clears things up a bit. Thanks to everyone for helping to make this subreddit exactly what it was intended to be, a welcoming place for newbie couples to get information about pegging. I must say that I am often impressed by the measured and kind responses from our members to all sorts of questions. You all rock!


r/StraightPegging • • 3h ago

My wife got me into pegging. She begged to try it on me and got hooked. What are some other things to incorporate into this? NSFW

18 Upvotes

Such as I am dying to be her pussy and ass eating slave. The thought of her sitting on my face telling me I have to earn my pegging by doing a good job eating her pussy & ass turns me on so much! On a scale of 1-10 that puts me at about 1000! Any ideas like this or other slave type work for pegging ideas


r/StraightPegging • • 6h ago

What code words to use on (vanilla) dating apps to search for a man that enjoys pegging? NSFW

30 Upvotes

Help me to get creative here :D don’t want to reveal too much for everyone to immediately know. I‘d like those that I target to get it though :)

Oh, and I am using FEELD already. I just find most of the people on there to be into a quick adventure. I‘d like to give it a try with apps are used to find something more serious. Hence - vanilla apps.

Creative advice is appreciated ☺️


r/StraightPegging • • 7h ago

Honest opinions plz….. NSFW

9 Upvotes

OK so for the guys here I’m asking simply “would you?”…. And for ladies the question is “what do you think?….hot or not?”

Ok so my idea is to go get a clone-a-willy kit and make a dildo of myself so I can let the wifey use that on me……I figure I’m always trying to fuck her in the ass…..I could at least take what I’m trying to put in her…. Am I alone with this idea????


r/StraightPegging • • 5h ago

First time pegging since our baby, my body feels different and i'm nervous NSFW

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8 months postpartum. Husband has been patient but we both miss it. My hips are wider and my old harness doesn't sit right anymore. Any moms here who peg, how did you get back into it?


r/StraightPegging • • 1h ago

How to discuss pegging with your future partner? NSFW

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I have been running into the issue of pegging causing breakups with all of my partners in the past. Usually this is after multiple times hooking up and then asking what other things they like which eventually leads to the topic but it’s always ended poorly and I feel like I then have to deny myself by saying oh no that’s not what I want even though it is. I’m totally at a loss of what to do should I try sign up for fetlife or other types of apps like that?


r/StraightPegging • • 14h ago

Date ideas? Help? NSFW

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Ok so me and my fiancé have been exploring and so far has been great pegging has been amazing still new still learning But amazing! And we have been kinda talking about a lil Femdom mini vacation and I’m just looking for suggestions on what to do to spice it up …… as of right now we are kinda thinking she has total control over everything what we do where we go obviously, but I surrender my debit card and we go shopping at the mall, maybe a remote control butt plug in him while we shop could be fun finish it off with drinks and go back to the hotel for some handcuffs and pegging …..just where we got to so far ….. any recommendations are greatly appreciated ty


r/StraightPegging • • 19h ago

My gf wants a woman to watch NSFW

17 Upvotes

She has pegged me a couple times, now she wants to be watched by a woman. Any ladies interested? Video chat is preferable to her


r/StraightPegging • • 15h ago

Need Help. Looking for Actually good Double-sided strapon. NSFW

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Welcome. Ive been into pegging for few years now, and finally got a partner that is sharing my enthusiasm. We’ve tried pegging several times with various toys (we hate most of them) and eventually completely resigned from using double-sided strap-on.

Currently we’re yet to test our newest purchase from Strap-on-me but there is another question that keeps popping up in my head. Is there an actually good double-sided strapon? We tried few but all of them were absolutely awful. They all shared same issues. The design is lacking and her side simply slides out of her or it’s very unstable and turns fun into struggle.

I’ve been looking for something that she would also physically enjoy, something stable and simply fun to play with. We’re not doing any complicated movements or trying any advanced positions. It’s mostly doggy style, missionary or me (M) on top.

I don’t really care if it’s strapless, pink, rainbow, with balls or straight dildo. I’m just looking for something that will be anatomically „proper” and will enable fun with both sides being penetrated/stimulated.

I’ve lost all hope for finding one (most designs are exactly the same for most brands) but i figured that I’ll ask here as last resort since I’ve read some nice stories and tips from you guys. The price doesn’t matter. We’re looking for something stable, fun and safe to play with so we can both enjoy the experience to the fullest (preferably adjustable so it can be personalised and comfiest possible - but that’s not mandatory).

Thanks in advance! Have a wonderful day.


r/StraightPegging • • 1d ago

How do I get my wife to genuinely enjoy pegging me? NSFW

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My wife and I have the house to ourselves tonight, and I’d really love to have a proper pegging session with her.

We’ve done it before, but it’s always felt more like me asking and her going along with it rather than something she genuinely wants to do.

My wife can be a little hot headed, and the last time she pegged me, it almost felt a little passive aggressive. She took me doggy style, and honestly, it felt amazing. But she eventually stopped and finished me with a handjob instead.

We’ve also tried fingers, but that wasn’t great either. She was pretty rough and just kind of jammed them in without much buildup or care.

What I really want is a session where she’s genuinely into it, takes her time, and actually enjoys being in control. I’d love to be able to finish while she’s pegging me and stroking me at the same time.
I’m not looking to pressure her into anything. I want this to be something we both enjoy, not just something she does because I ask.

For couples who enjoy pegging, how did you get to the point where both partners genuinely wanted it? Any advice on making it more enjoyable for both of us?


r/StraightPegging • • 1d ago

Some Advance NSFW

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So within in the last year or so I kinda got to talking with my girl an we both wanted to try pegging so we agreed and the first time I think we both was feeling completely different feelings the power exchange was breath taking an well after a few more times we separated for 6 months then out of nowhere I was thinking about her and soon after we hung out an wile we was together I couldn't help myself but i had to ask if she misses pegging me an everything and well she misses being dominant an then she grabbed me by the neck firmly an started calling me her sissy slut. An gave me a female nickname I am not allowed to call her anything but mommy wile she treats me like a fuck slut she makes me wear sexy clothes she Ties me up and completely destroys me shes always gagging me with her fingers covered in my cum an so much more.

Well when we are not having sex she dresses me up for around the house I can wear something to cover up all the sexy clothes an she paints my toenails.

Iv never felt the feeling I been feeling but I can't explain it but its out of this world an I am so frustrated when she doesn't remind me that im her property she has me feeling like I may want to start changing my appearance to be for feminine sissy Trans something like that I know she makes sure I cant walk after at all and calls me a good girl that im mommy's sissy bitch that calls your fuck hole your pussy so I go around begging mommy to make sure I will always know my pussy belongs to her so I just completely submit wile im asking mommy dominant questions an making sure she knows that shes my owner and she completely changed me to where I cant go without it an id do anything to know how I went from being the dominant one to backing it up on mommy dominant with my back arched as I moan an make mommy dominant happy by being her little sissy girl.

So whats this feeling im feeling i can't explain how like on the moon it has me


r/StraightPegging • • 2d ago

Sensual videos suitable for couples NSFW

29 Upvotes

I have never watched porn with my current wife. I don't watch a lot and I am pretty sure she never does, but I know she would be open to watching some with me on occasion.

Most porn today is just hard core sex scenes, but I think she would much rather see, and honestly if I am viewing with her during our own sex I would rather see, the more sensual and romantic types of porn that were popular long ago. Thinking like an hour with the same couple with candles, crackling fire, dim lights, starting fully clothed and slowly undressing, caressing, kissing, and lots and lots of foreplay before slow and sensual sex.

I would like to find some videos like this without any prostate play at all to start, and then some with small additions a little at a time to put in the mix and then some introductions to pegging added which I am sure she has never seen before.

Can anyone recommend a good place to look for this, specific videos or couples that make this type, or maybe the correct category name or sites that specialize in these types of porn?


r/StraightPegging • • 2d ago

Has anyone ever been to Pegfest in NYC? NSFW

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If so what is the scene like?


r/StraightPegging • • 2d ago

Need some guidance from some of yall more experienced than me. I’m (45)and my girl is (40). She pegged me for the first time a little over 2 weeks ago and wow she rocked my world! NSFW

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This all started about 3 months ago she started talking about pegging me… first joking around but she kept saying it almost daily to the point I can tell she wasn’t just joking. Fast forward to a month ago I want to go on a fishing trip with my friends but I had promised to go visit her mom with her. She said she would let me out of visiting her mom but it would cost me. She said she she always wanted to try it and it makes her so hot thinking about it. And I agreed half thinking she wouldn’t go through with it… I got home 4 days later at 6pm and she had sent our kids to a sleepover prepped our room the way she wanted and have got a strap on at the adult store… oh shit she is really wanting to fuck me…

I couldn’t back out cuz she’s a damn good woman and I love her but I wasn’t thrilled… she eased me into it and blew my mind with an orgasm that was so intense and amazing I almost couldn’t handle it. I have since tried to play it cool but it’s all I think about! We have a good active sex life with me always being dominant and I’ve fucked her that way 10 times since then and still enjoy it… but it won’t quench the thirst for what she gave me..

I don’t want to scare her off. I don’t want her to think less of me. But I have this nonstop overarching desire to be her sex slave. All I can think about is being her pussy and ass eating slave who might get fucked again if I do a good enough job…

No matter what we will eventually talk this through but I’m embarrassed right at the moment… she fucked the alpha out of me and I want to serve her…. But she has always beeen the sub and I’m embarrassed to say these things to her and scared she won’t want to do it…

I’m going crazy please help


r/StraightPegging • • 2d ago

How far part 2 NSFW

20 Upvotes

Last night, my wife and I had a few hours to ourselves (the house was empty). We started fooling around and layed me down on the bed and started sucking my dick. Very passionate. Took her time. She started talking about how she want to fuck me in the ass this weekend with the strap on. As she was saying this she started fingering my ass. I came so fast and so much. It was more than usual. Which I assume is normal.
Here is the part that wasn’t Normal. I didn’t cum in her mouth I came on my belly. She scooped some cum up with her finger and told me to suck it. I was taken back at first, but I did it. I want to make it clear she didn’t force me to.
I fucking loved it. She called me a good boy we made out a bit and she grinded on my face untill she came in my mouth. love eating pussy.
I am sure the strap on play is leading more to a dominant sub Relationship for us. She asked me if I enjoyed it after all was said and done. I still had the taste of her pussy juices in my mouth. I said I loved it mommy. The she told me you are really going to love this weekend.

I don’t believe she will ever be into a threesome or a bull. But it is definetly progressing to her being very dominant.

My grammar sucks. My bad.


r/StraightPegging • • 2d ago

Dildo Recommendations NSFW

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I am looking for a dildo that inserts into my wife and would work with a harness. I would like it to be about 1.5” to 1.75” in diameter and a between 6” and 7” insertable on my end. Any help would be appreciated!!!


r/StraightPegging • • 2d ago

Twofer Tomorrow - Pegging Equipment 8AM PDT & Advanced Pegging 11AM PDT NSFW

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NOTE: These webinars will not be recorded and can only be viewed live. If you are unable to attend, recorded versions can be purchased here.

Register Here

Equipment 8AM PDT

Do you get confused when exploring the wild world of Pegging equipment? It can be overwhelming to try and find body-safe, non-toxic equipment that is not only good quality, but is suited to your needs and preferences. I'm here to help! In this webinar, I will teach you all the factors that are important to consider, and show you some of the best choices on the market today! I teach to prostate owners as receivers and vagina owners as givers. I also teach to all bodies and all budgets! (Plenty of time to order holiday sexytime gifts.)

Advanced 11AM PDT

You have begun your Pegging adventure, and now you are looking to fine tune your experience for even more pleasure. We take a deeper dive into giver/receiver orgasms, including hands-free and prostate orgasms. Then I'll show you many different positions to expand your repertoire! The last half of this webinar is all about longer and wider toy play, how to stay safe while you find that next level of pleasure. Let's de-stigmatize big toy play with education! I teach to prostate owners as receivers and vagina owners as givers. Last Advanced webinar of the year.

Join me!

To the Hilt,

Ruby


r/StraightPegging • • 2d ago

Toy Question NSFW

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Update: tried the phluid one and had more of a burning sensation instead of pain sensation if that makes sense. Wife was completely on board with stopping and continuing with the plusone.

Wife and I have been using PlusOne prostate massager for a few months now and we both want to explore more. I bought a harness set (Phluid Empower set) and haven't tried it. My question is:

Would it be better to use that or use the 6 inch dildo that she has for more anal play? We haven't tried either and I don't want make it an issue of either of us.


r/StraightPegging • • 2d ago

feeling sexy in a harness when you’re self-conscious about your body? NSFW

10 Upvotes

i’m curvy and the first time i put a harness on i felt more silly than sexy. took a while to feel confident. anyone else? what helped?


r/StraightPegging • • 2d ago

how long before pegging stopped feeling awkward for you two? NSFW

6 Upvotes

we're a few months in and it's getting better but still a bit clumsy. how many tries before it felt natural for you?


r/StraightPegging • • 2d ago

Pegged by loving wife NSFW

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r/StraightPegging • • 3d ago

ED NSFW

18 Upvotes

Alright guys this pertains to ED, I’m 31 and 5’8” and 170 pounds. Sometimes I suffer from going soft no matter how worked up I am. I’m wondering what’s going on? I take testosterone injections for low testosterone and that level is normal now and my sex drive never decreased but I’m wanting to know what could be going on? I’m into pegging and we tried it 1 time for a couple of minutes and I enjoyed it. Do I need to start wearing a plug or a cock ring to keep it up ? My wife is upset because she feels like she did something wrong but I was turned on as much as I could be but still couldn’t keep it up


r/StraightPegging • • 3d ago

My girlfriend keeps hinting, or not? What do I do? NSFW

30 Upvotes

My girlfriend keeps making jokes about putting her fingers or her “huge dick” in my ass. She often sticks a finger up my ass through my clothes, or even when we’re naked but doesn’t actually put it in when I am naked. She also sometimes dryhumps me as if shes fucking me (really turns me on, I can feel it in my prostate..). Moreover, she’s also mentioned a couple times how she’d like to “lock up” my dick and have full control over me. I’d love to be locked up by her, but not for weeks or longer, since I go out a lot (we’re stil students) and have to pee in urinoirs and have to be able to clean it up fast etc.
But; whenever I hint I’d actually be down to be pegged and/or caged, she doesn’t really bite. It’s as if my hint had just flown right over her or that she really doesn’t want to answer. I think of this as pretty frustrating, since I’d be down to try it.

This would be both our first time doing something such as pegging or chastity. We’ve done some type of non-vanilla sex, like tying each other up or choking or her making me eat my own cum, but nothing that extreme.
How do I bring it to her that I want to try pegging and chastity? I don’t want to tell her straight to the face. Something important is that we’re both 19 and that I’m her first boyfriend, so everything in the bedroom is kinda “new” to her and I don’t want to scare her away.


r/StraightPegging • • 3d ago

Brain Reset NSFW

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