I have extreme difficulty with falling asleep. I wear ear plugs or earphones with noise and a sleeping mask. The ear plugs, of course, cannot block the sound or doors and cabinets being closed, as my roommates wander around in the small room that we have.
The ear plugs also exaggerate the noise of chairs grinding against the floor in the study rooms downstairs.
The thing is, those sudden chair noises have stopped bothering me, when they once did. And when I'm travelling by bus, even with sudden unexpected noises and light, no headphones and sitting quite uncomfortably, I'm able to fall asleep. I've started heavily relying on ear plugs and earphones, and on my mask, and I remember being 11 and unable to fall asleep without a light.
I don't want to spend my whole life being annoying to others when it's time for me to sleep. My roommates can sleep just fine in any environment, that goes for my current roommates and my past roommates. So I understand that I'm the minority.
I also think that I could be a person like that too, and that the thing actually stopping me from sleep is just the thought of my roommates not being motionless and in bed, and the anticipation of sudden noises (I used not to anticipate them and then they show up and jolt me awake from the half sleep, so I learned to anticipate them)
But if I can adapt to the sudden noise of chairs, and if all these things actually won't wake me when I'm already asleep, then for sure I'm not as light of a sleeper as I think myself to be?
I'm AuDHD which doesn't help my case. (Hence trying not to think really won't help me)
But I'm getting progressively more tired. I have a demanding schedule in college and I want to sleep early. It's not okay from me to expect lights off every night by 21:30, it's not okay from me to expect everyone to be ready for bed by that time.
Any unconventional tips for me, since Google isn't helping much?