I’m sitting here in my room now right after making dinner. I just had my first session that lasted over one hour. In fact I’m at an hour and a half, It’s a little difficult to explain how I feel at the moment but I am going to do my best to try despite the fact that I’m still having mild orgasms while I’m sitting here eating my meal. But I had to type this out and share it with anyone who is willing to listen.

It finally happened today and yesterday, and the day before that. And oh my damn! Firstly let me say that I have felt different sensations to a lesser extent before this but I always had to play with my dick to get me over the edge. I’m not really sure what happened these times but something snapped.

I’m honestly at a loss for words right now and none of it is going to make any sense unless I explain it all from the beginning to you guys so here’s my story of how this all came about.

I am not new to this. I have dabbled here and there with this ever since I was about 19, and I’m older now.

I remember the very first time that I did anything down there. I think we all kind of start with a small toothbrush or something that isn’t too much and then just throw it in the trash after. There was no lube for me back then, as a straight male, I didn’t really know its importance. Nor did I keep that kind of stuff on hand. I must have used Vaseline.

The toothbrush felt enjoyable but in order to really get it to feel more pleasurable you had to move it around a lot. I didn’t know that I was somehow massaging my prostate because I had no clue it was in there. Or better yet, in a way, I actually was discovering it was in there but I had yet to feel pleasure in that region until later in life.

The toothbrush taught me one thing and that was, I’m not a fan of anything thrusting inside of me. I ended up stroking my dick with the toothbrush up there and the added sensation that I was feeling inside of me seemed to enhance the whole experience. Also I noticed the orgasm was stronger and when I did shoot, I shot my load pretty far.

What started as a night where you’re so horny you end up doing something completely taboo turned into an experiment to learn more about how this part of my body worked.

One day I was so horny while watching some porn, I couldn’t control myself, I was looking up sex toys online and it made me want to try it again. There’s just something about browsing a sex toy site that gets me so hard. I imagine the things people do with all those things and all of the pleasure they feel from it. So now my curiosity has evolved into “research.“

After coming back to the site about three different times within a month or two I eventually purchased something to try. I wanted see what more I could experience from this.

It was called the Nexus or something like that. I bought lube and everything thinking this could be fun.

When it arrived I took it out the box and charged it. Having to wait until it was finished was not easy. I even waited until it was nighttime so the mood would be right. Lol

But sadly it was too much, I couldn’t figure out how to get it in and by the time I finally did my ass was too sore to enjoy any of it. This was around 2010 and there wasn’t as much information online about anal play. I want to say they let me return it iirc. I got my refund and was a little traumatized from the whole experience. Of course it felt good but it was really just another “more intense“ penile orgasm at the end of the day.

So from there a good amount of years went by and I moved on from it, met girls had sex with some of them and stuff but nothing crazy. Anything anal in general wasn’t on my radar and to me, I loved the way vagina felt so much I never craved anything else. Throughout all the years of my early adulthood hookups, I had a girl that I met online and we went on a date to the drive in movie theater. We found ourselves in the trunk of her parents SUV (never had done that before because my folks never owned one so I thought that was pretty neat) with some blankets back there cuddled up, while we watched the movie.

Well anyone who has been to the drive in knows usually one of the movies isn’t as good as the other. So after watching the first, I remember getting bored and started to kiss on her neck and back and then began touching on her inner thighs. Eventually I had worked off her jeans and her panties followed, then I explored my way down to her pussy where I played around in her box for about a good 10 minutes. I love to please but I also used to play in the band, so hearing a girl moan from my fingers or my tongue, feels exactly like I’m playing an instrument.

So yeah, she’s soaking wet and since were under the blankets we have all the privacy we needed and before I knew it she was reaching back and grabbing my dick and jacking it for me and then she took it with one hand and pressed it firmly against her ass as she slowly started to work it into her hole. The thing is we talked “freaky” on the phone before all this so I knew this form of intercourse was going to happen eventually and yes, I had sex with her a few times before this but only giving each other oral or me dicking her down. But my point here is that this definitely wasn’t our first fuck.

Anyways, I remember the movie going mute, I couldn’t distinguish between any of the words, my focus was on her as she was grinding back on me so good like that. I’m could tell that she wanted my dick so bad in that moment and I wanted her too. As I took my time to passionately fuck her hole, her hips continued to push back against it. I started to pulsate a ton, I could feel my dick constantly swelling up (we were also high off weed) and then out of nowhere she came! Oh man, hearing her breathing so deeply while moaning like that sent me over the edge and I bussed inside of her.

I was in shock. Because 1: I couldn’t believe my dick had the power to do that to someone 2: I didn’t think a woman (or anyone) could orgasm from anal sex at the time. My mind only knew of the regular way, getting a girl to cum from eating her out and playing and licking on her clit. The reason this part of the story is important is because that night I learned two things. That the human body can cum from anal stimulation and that fucking someone like that without lube or a condom makes your dick hurt a lot the morning after. 😖

Now that I know what I do now, I’m gonna say she didn’t even clean out beforehand. There was no way she did cause I was with her all day earlier, so we were legit fucking like animals that night.

From there, I didn’t do anything sexually down there to myself or any girl I had sex with. Several more years went by and I ended up horny watching so much porn one night that I stumbled yet again, onto a sex toy website. 😂

And I mean can you blame me? I wanted to try it again. This time I put more effort into it, I used a Fleet enema, put down towels, and I bought some relaxing anal gel with some clove in it that was supposed to relax your hole. It really worked wonders too because this time I purchased one of those “premium quality“ toys and wanted to see if I could feel what all these people in the reviews were talking about.

It was the same concept of something moving around inside of you but so many years had passed by that the technology was much better. There were some times where I would lay back and feel like something was coming, a faint orgasm but it was so mild, I knew that the device couldn’t possibly be reaching my prostate correctly. Still only having penile orgasms but the main takeaway from this one is that I finally got something inside without all that pain and discomfort.

I moved from that to an Aneros I think it was and I thought for sure that I was going to be in orgasmic heaven based off all the stories I was reading on it. But then it arrived and yeah, it felt good even great, but nothing quite like I expected and the process took so long to get it to work that I ended up giving up and sending it back for a refund. I wasn’t living alone at the time so I barely had the privacy or the time needed for it. But here is what I learned from it, the device does nothing by itself but with enough practice you learn how to contract those muscles and before you realize It, your ass begins interacting with this device without you doing anything. This part was important for me to learn because without it, it’s difficult to know what having your prostate stimulated actually feels like.

It is important to note that this Aneros experiment was all about two years ago and here we are now. You guys know the story by now, I get super horny most recently and start browsing a site of sex toys yet again. I find one I’m willing to try and then I wait for it to arrive.

I could have never guess what was going to come next. You see, for some years I’ve been single, and started practicing semen retention. I like it, I lift much heavier at the gym and I love the feeling of my balls always being full of nut. Either way I have been committed to it since I started a couple years back and the only way that I release is when I have a wet dream because my body has gone so long without cumming.

It’s a little hard to explain what happened this time but I believe it was a combination of no more porn because I quit watching it entirely and I no longer jack off so zero penile stimulation. This version of being horny is a lot more intense, and any women I do hit up has told me that I fuck like an animal. 🤣 I guess, when you deprive yourself of pleasure for so long, those few rare occasions that you feel it, it just feels different.

The device was finally charged and I wanted to try it out, I kind of already knew the drill, I took an enema I bought from Walgreens earlier that day, made sure everything ran clear, put towels down before all of this. I was ready but it had been a least a year or more since I had done this so I was extremely tight.

It didn’t take long though maybe 10 minutes in of me messing around with the different settings before I felt a rush of pleasure take over me. I realized that I was feeling P waves before with the Aneros but these were crazy! I would have felt them sooner in all of this had I known the right position to get into but as the device did its thing and the pleasure began to build, I could tell something was absolutely different. The sensations I was feeling made me moan so much it was out of character for me. I’m like WTF is this shit? I couldn’t believe what was happening inside me, my ass was interacting with this device in such a way that it kind of scared the shit out of me. It was a lot! Repeatedly feeling muscle spasms down there but they’re jam packed with pleasure. It wasn’t very long before I came in ecstasy. Didn’t have to touch my dick once, but I watched it swell up over and over during most of this that I could see inside of my dick hole.

All I can say is, that was around 2 or 3pm on Friday, I went for a walk around the neighborhood and couldn’t shut up about it. I just kept saying to myself ”holy shit bro, that shit was crazy!” Repeatedly. It’s a good thing I had my AirPods in so everyone around me likely just thought I was talking to someone on the phone. Lol

Then later that night I felt this strange urge inside of me, oh noooo I wanted more. “Uh oh, I’m in trouble now“ I said aloud. My dick was standing up tall, harder than adamantium and my prostate was fired up and begging for more of what I gave it earlier.

“This might really become a problem.” I thought to myself

Let me be clear the session Friday night ended with penile stimulation, but there’s a caveat, I did it because I knew I had to wake up early in the morning for an appointment. The next day, Saturday, I tried it again around noon and also later that night but I was using the little bit of leftover coconut oil I had. So those sessions were drier and therefore the friction made it so that I decided to end them with me ejaculating.

Now I knew I needed water based lube, this was getting serious. What stands out the most from these is for the first time in my life I had an orgasm without touching my dick or fucking.

It was magical.

That was the only confirmation I needed.

I ordered that lube off Amazon immediately and decided to finally try out one of those lube injectors I have been reading so many people talking about. And I’ve gotta say it for sure made a world of difference.

But my need to turn everything into an experiment so much got the best of me.

Stupid me said I’m just going to see how far I can go with this. I kid you not, I was stuck in an infinite loop of orgasms earlier today, and most of you reading is probably thinking what’s so wrong with that?

Let me tell you. What I was feeling was so euphoric that you don’t want it to end, it’s lowkey dangerous. I’m talking about you could have other things to take care of but the pleasure is so amazing that you forget about all of your responsibilities. As a dominant and masculine guy, the pleasure you get from prostate stimulation has the power to make you moan like a bitch. It doesn’t matter how deep the moans you send out are, you just submit to all of the sensations and it really does feel like sex heaven, it’s unreal because you are trapped in this cycle.

I truly don’t know if we were supposed to have discovered this part of the male body because the fact that you can get infinite orgasms like this it almost feels like you’re glitching. Cheating life, even. I promise you, there were times where I was thinking it kinda feels like torture because you can’t get out. You want to cum so bad at times because your brain has been wired to think that intense pleasure = it’s time to ejaculate but the waves don’t stop coming. Sure you can take the toy out but who in their right mind wants to stop pleasure? Especially pleasure this strong. So you lie there and experience orgasm after orgasm, it’s sometimes really hard to catch your breath and they never end. You go through these things where your asshole is contracting hard and twitching rapidly and tightly gripping the toy that’s inside of you and it feels so damn good that you surrender to it all.

As a guy you feel pleasure from stroking and then something stronger when you eventually ejaculate.

With this you feel waves of pleasure from your prostate being stimulated and those come up in intensity and then down. I was literally looking forward to the lows because all I could think about is, “oh finally I can get a little break from this.“

To feel pleasure like this over and over again is absolutely nuts!!! And once an hour and a half had gone by I had to unplug the switch and say get me off of this ride. 🤣

And that’s my story. Since then I have had little anal orgasms but thankfully my prostate has calmed down. I can feel inside of me that it still wants more though and that is what makes this a problem. It reminds me a lot like the Gremlins, you‘re feeding an organism that never gets full.

Prep. Spend a few minutes getting hole loose with my fingers using a bit of lube.

Get out the prostate toy with the cock ring. Use a lot of lube. Spend a few minutes slowly getting it in, turn it on. Immediate head-to-toe euphoria. But then after about 30 seconds, it starts slipping out. I put it back in. It slips back out. Repeat two or three more times before I give up and grab my weighted massager wand.

Apply (you guessed it) lots of lube. Get it in, find prostate. Immediate head-to-toe euphoria. Massage prostate for a few seconds, lose it. Have to readjust. Find prostate again, immediate head-to-toe euphoria. Feels amazing. Wrist starts getting sore from awkward angle. Find a new angle, which of course means find the prostate again.

Usually after a few minutes of this, I end up giving up before I achieve prostate O. I've never had a true prostate O and at this rate idk if I ever will. I absolutely love the feeling of my prostate being directly pleasured but I always give up halfway through and it is a lot prep (and lube) with a good bit of clean-up after. Is there any toy I can get to make it easier?

It seems that the nJoy is a good tool for me after years of okish feelings but ONLY if i put a lot of pressure on the prostate. Is that normal? Have i been doing it wrong all this time?

I find that if i lie on my front for example and put it in and let rest on the bed or on a pillow if i then fuck the bed the orgasm is x10 in pleasure! But the device is putting a lot of weight and downward pressure going on for it to feel like that.

If i just use it with my hand it kind of doesn't do too much but if i put a lot of pressure in there i can just about feel lovely things. Why is that?

I asked AI and this really resonated with me;

"Yes, it is common to feel like you need a lot of pressure when using the njoy Pure Wand for prostate stimulation, especially when you are first starting out. The prostate is located deep within the pelvic cavity, buried behind the rectal wall and surrounded by thick pelvic floor muscles. If those muscles are tense, they act like a shield, requiring you to push harder to physically reach the gland"

I feel i tense up a lot in there when using the nJoy and i think its this shielding that is stopping me feeling anything until that is i apply lots of pressure to push through the tensed muscles.

Yesterday, I decided to give it a try for the first time, following the steps described in the forum's wiki. I cleaned myself up, lay down, and relaxed...

One thing worth mentioning: I'd tried to find my prostate before, but without success. This time, I just took my time, inserted a dildo (a regular, penis-shaped one), and relaxed, focusing on the pleasurable sensations. No pressure, no trying to achieve an orgasm, zero expectations. I simply paid attention to whatever sensations arose down there.

After just a few minutes, I felt a gentle wave of pleasure. It's hard to describe, but it reminded me a little of that fluttery feeling in your stomach when something really good catches you by surprise.

Then the sensation came again, slightly (and I mean very slightly) more noticeable than the first time. Then another wave followed. But then, like an idiot, I'd forgotten to silence my phone, and notifications started pouring in. I got distracted and eventually gave up... So I just masturbated and went on with my day.

Any insights? Can anyone offer a simple explanation of what might have happened?

I found a cheap $24 estim prostate massager on Amazon a few weeks ago. I liked the fact that it had enough girth to fill me inside. When I got it and got it fully charged I found that the estim feature was malfunctioning. I got ahold of Amazon customer support and they graciously refunded the order and asked me to safely dispose of the item.

I then wrote a review giving the product 5 stars because of the refund and I wrote the details of what went wrong with the massager. A few days later I received an email response from the manufacture who of course are in China. They were very apologetic about the issue and were in the process of sending me out a replacement and a refund too boot. There just was no shock feature. So the new toy came a few days later direct from Amazon, I charged it up and again felt no estim feature that was until I had one hand grip the tip of the end that rest against the area of the prostate and the other end that touches the perineum, I got a fairly lively ticklish shock. Later that night I gave an official first try. When I turned it on I did not feel anything so I readjusted it and then felt some tapping and then I dialed it up and found that the 2 second tickle pulse and just left it alone and laid back and took my mind and soul outside this world for the hour the toy lasted.This toy just builds and builds of the last shock. I had perhaps the best PM experience as of that day. I informed the manufacture of my success and how I got it to finally work. After sending them a detailed email of my troubleshooting they asked if I would be interested in doing some beta testing of some new higher end estim products they are planning to release, my response.....YES!

So, since then I have started to do massages on a more regular basis to the point of going to bed a little early and then waking up at 1-2am to spend some time pleasuring my prostate and going to work that day. This massager reminds me of an old sane, "Less is More" .This cheap $24 massager has got me addicted and I dont mind the interruption in my sleep. In fact this massager has added a calming and therapeutic aspect to my being and so far I haven't noticed any signs that it is affecting my performance at work.

Anyhow, got to get to bed, you know what comes in a few hours!

Just a quick post. I haven't posted in awhile because I got my rewiring way up there every session is instant and non stop HFdo chains. So I don't know what more advice I need. But what's started happening now, is I can edge four four hours staying hard the whole time if wanted, and I can masturbate and cum and literally do it again ten minutes later with no delay getting hard, and then even again in another twenty minutes, and it works as easily as if I hadn't cum all day. I'm in shock because it's never worked like this my entire life. I feel like there's almost no refractory time.

Used to be the second time after spending I'd be stroking a limp noodle for ten minutes till it gets hard. Now it literally goes hard in ten seconds. Rewiring is insane. And I'm 40

A while back, I was browsing Walmart and I found this muscle massager that was shaped nearly identical to the Njoy Pure Wand. I bought it for like 10 bucks and brought it back to my house to play with it. I took a nice shower, cleaned up, relaxed a little and began to use it on my bed while I was laying down. I had my knees up to the ceiling and I was slowly rubbing just the area of the prostate. The feelings were extremely intense. It felt as though I needed to pee, but there was also an almost “itchy” feeling inside of my urethra. It didn’t tickle per se but it was just a super intense sensation. I was also leaking a lot of this white fluid from my penis. I kept doing what I was doing and I didn’t end up orgasming, I just kind of felt like I needed to release urine the entire time and nothing was coming out. Am I doing the right thing or am I just chasing a red herring?

After a year of going nowhere, I’ve been able to finally have HFWOs a couple times with my Aneros Helix Syn. I just put it in, on my back, vibration off, and after some time my body just starts involuntarily thrusting. I was wondering if the nJoy wand/weptia wand would be a good next step to provide a different experience or will I be achieving the same goal with a different item?

I have been ”toying with the idea” of buying a butt plug for my private use. I can partly imagine what it would feel like but still would like any input and recommendations.

Do i need to get a series of different sizes?
Is the heaviness of metal nicer than the softness of silicone?
Can it be used for hands free orgasm?
Straight or bent shape?
Any other ideas and ways to use?

I started doing this in March because I couldn't tell if i was making progress. I described every session re what toy I was using and whether I was doing any other kind of stimulation plus a 1 to 5 rating.

Then today I sat down and analyzed all the 5star sessions and here's what I got. I hope this will help some newbie out there optimize their experience.

1. No alcohol-whisky dick is a real problem for me, it kind of just makes me not horny at all
2. Taking a break between sessions but not too long (2-3 days is optimal)
3. No penile stimulation because then my focus moves to that
4. Nipple stimulation
5. Position: doggy style
6. Rotating Massager - Giddi Thor specifically
7. Audio porn instead of regular, although listening to JOI made me want penile stimulation which was counter productive so sometimes I would play regular porn and just close my eyes lol
8. Astroglide water based lube (purple bottle)

Been playing with several toys and there’s a feeling I can only describe as a ZING when it feels like I go in deeper. I read most people say the prostate is only 2-3 inches or so deep, but it feels like this feeling comes in deeper (I might be overestimating how deep it is)

It doesn’t feel like pleasure it feels like a completely different feeling that I can only describe as a “ZING”.

I’m wondering if that’s the prostate or if it’s like the sphincter or bladder or something.

Fingering my self feels good so i figure i'd need a dildo or vibrating toy. would a regular prostate toy do anything for me? i dont like feeling something just stuck there only the in and out.

I'm debating getting either the tapping device or the 'come hither' rocking device. Apparently the tapping device is said to 'tap' / move out about 2-3mm.

The rocking stroking device looks good too.

I want something kinda subtle as It seems I need consistent light stimulus to achieve the orgasm, maybe anyone here has some experience. I want a subtle progressive build up of not too crazy stimulus.

Im worried the tapping device will not do enough and on the other hand maybe, I worry, the 'come hither" stroking device will be too much, as I find too much movement stimulus takes me out of the desired state.

Which one is the one to go with!?

Here is a picture of both devices. I would be very grateful to those who take time out to respond to this. https://imgur.com/a/1PdE5mQ

https://imgur.com/a/CmLMpI8

Hello, I use a standard dildo to stimulate my prostate. After about 10 minutes, my penis becomes erect—as if I’m about to reach orgasm—and my prostate also firms up (I can tell because it becomes more difficult to move the dildo). However, even if I keep going, I can’t quite reach the finish line. Does this sensation of hardening mean I’m on the right track? If I continue, is it possible for me to reach orgasm?

Hey all prostate pleasure enjoyers I have a couple dildos (all plusone brand) and while they feel good they leave me wanting more. I’m looking for something a bit larger in width but not too expensive. I prefer it to be realistic and have a slight bend to it. Also a strong suction cup. Any ideas for under $50 and where to buy them? Thanks.

In the toybox we have:

• Doc Johnson A-Play RISE Rechargeable Silicone Anal Plug (Thrusting)
• Aneros Helix Syn V
• Lovense Edge 2
• Lovense Hush 2 (Large)
• Nexus REVO Extreme

When we're using fingers we have no problem hitting the target, which is why we invested in the toys, because hands have better things to do and I don't want to twist myself like a pretzel.

None of the above have really come close to doing the job, except the Hush 2, and I suspect it's purely a result of the sheer size.

Your mileage may vary, here's the problems I have with each:

• The A-Play's thrusting is weak, and you need to steer it the entire time.
• The Syn V seems to hit everywhere but the spot, and while the two arms feel pretty nice, without the big payoff I end up spending the rest of the evening with spasms I didn't intend.
• The Edge 2... in theory we should look at our curled fingers and bend it into the shape, but when it ends up looking like a crab claw I get concerned about what it's doing to my innards. Straightening it into a near-L shape doesn't seem to do much for me either, but I'm open to the suggestion that it's because I already expect disappointment.
• The Hush 2 Large, but one does not simply "use" the Hush 2 Large, you have to build up to it, and while I like the sensation it also needs careful planning in advance.
• The REVO Extreme just doesn't "sit" right, unless it's pinned into place. It doesn't really narrow at any point, which is why I guess it just tends to slide back out.

I've seen other folks mention those nJoy wands, but we've dropped enough money on the near-misses that we're reluctant to shell out on a big purchase like that. I know the wands aren't hands-free either, but I'll settle for something that only takes one hand if hands-free is not on the table.

I've also seen people praising various rotating beads and plugs, but it feels like we have plenty of plugs, and I'm not certain a lack of depth is the issue.

Anyway, I'm hoping folks here might have a bit more knowledge. That the manual method and the Hush 2 both work is a good sign, I believe, so there's got to be a happy middle ground out there somewhere.

Thanks for taking the time to read this, I look forward to any advice.

Has anyone ever injured their prostate?

Ive been having a real hard time getting prostate orgasms ever since what im assuming was me injuring my prostate.

So if you have, what happened? Did prostate play become way harder? And how long did it take to recover?