r/Gold • u/Longjumping-Ad2463 • 5h ago
Girlfriend Tossed My Stack
Eight years ago I was single and stacking slowly — a couple of 1oz gold buffalos, a 1oz PAMP bar, some 5g PAMPs, a few rings, and about $8k cash. No proper safe, so I did the smart thing and put all of it in an empty Quaker Oats cylinder in the kitchen cabinet. Taped it shut because it was stupidly heavy.
Then I got a girlfriend. One afternoon she decided to surprise me by clearing out my expired dry goods. She found a sealed, suspiciously heavy oat canister and threw it out with everything else. Trash day was the next morning.
I got home, opened the cabinet, and just stood there. Empty shelf. Spotless. I called her and asked, very calmly, what she did with the oats. Long pause. Then I explained what was inside.
She cried. I think I laughed, which was worse. She offered to pay it back. We worked it out, and honestly it's the reason I trust her — she never once tried to dodge it or blame me for storing bullion like a raccoon.
Anyway, gold was around $1,300/oz then. I've rebuilt the stack, in an actual safe, and I still flinch every time someone reorganizes a kitchen.
Anyone else lose a stack to a well-meaning partner?