r/CrochetHelp • u/icantpaint26 • 21h ago
I'm a beginner! slightly vulnerable post but i need advice on this project i’ve been working on for over two years !
i’m a fairly beginner crocheter and about two years ago a friend of mine was pregnant and her baby shower was coming up so I thought I’d make her a small (supposed to be about 22x35 in) blanket with a pattern i found. I figured this was well within my wheelhouse and started, but I’m pretty slow and life happens and I just didn’t have a lot of motivation to finish it, but I eventually got the main portion finished maybe in december of that year. by then baby was born but I figured I’d just finish and send it over. The issue was (is) I absolutely hate it. Because I took so long to make the main rectangle, my tension is all over the place and the edges are super wonky. It’s also a few inches smaller all over, more in some places than all over. I steamed the hell out of it, I tried adding a border to fix it and still hated it, it still looked wonky. I couldn’t bring myself to fully finish it and give it looking the way it did and instead of figuring it out then, it went into my closet for me to not think about. i had just started a new job around this time and it was out of sight out of mind. I have been getting the itch to crochet again but feel like I can’t bring myself to make anything else when this is sitting unfinished, so I took it out to try and fix it. I decided to take the border off and I think I cut some stitches on the edge of a portion so now there’s that to deal with too. I guess i’m wondering, should I cut my losses, frog it all, and redo it? Or are the cut edges and wonky-ness fixable? Should I frog just a portion of it?? I truly am at a loss after three days of looking at it.