Please answer only if you're a Muslim man.

Don't speak on someone else's behalf.

Are women in your family and relatives free to wear what they want?

Are the girls allowed to pursue the career of their choice?

Are they allowed to work after marriage?

Are they allowed to have male friends and boyfriends? How about sex before marriage?

Is there a pressure for marriage?

Do you or your parents control your sister's actions?

And what else?

Why is it so common in India for men to wear briefs, boxers, trunks, or boxer briefs at beaches and swimming pools instead of actual swimwear? Is it affordability, lack of awareness, cultural acceptance, or simply “good enough”? 😅

It’s been happening for years, and honestly, most people seem to dislike it. Why is it still so accepted?

I'm just so tired of being in social media and constantly seeing boys and males putting down women in their comment section, without realising the impact of their words. What do you even mean women are always crying about everything? They can't even protect themselves? They can't love, they just have a checklist? They are gold digger? I have always tried to be kinder as this was my birthday resolution, to treat everything with a little bit of positivity but sometimes it just takes a toll on me. Women do not want men against them! We do not collectively hate men, it just that the crimes against us has led up to be protective. Go and ask any feminist (not the pseudo feminists), they would never disregard you just because you're a man. Particularly, women love men who are respectful and who understands the actual threat we have to face everytime we step out. That's not so deep, is it? And btw having standard is not considered coming up with a checklist, majority women would eventually fall in love with a respectful man who is competitive and ambitious. Nothing to do with looks or wealth. What am I working for if eventually I would rely on your wealth?!?! Also, having empathy isn't crying! And I still think that not all men are like this but when I see the mentality of people especially guys who look so mature and spiritual on their ig bio, c'mon man are your just a pretense!!!

Why is it so easy for you to consider that women as a whole gender is rigged when all we try is to be polite and have a little bit of gender equality that we were always kept from! I get it there are women who just try to appear cool by hating men and I'm equally unimpressed by them as well....ughh!!

Soooo I met guy in arranged marriage set up and we had a great chat. He conveyed his answer in negative later although his parents sure liked me.

Should I text him and ask his reason of doing it? I can’t stop thinking about it. I am a perfectionist and I NEED the reason ONLY for self-improvement.

We are not connected on any platform or have each other’s numbers. But maybe I can reach out on Facebook?

Please help me with the advice if I should. If yes, feel free to share the draft of text, I will keep his response posted here (if I get one) :p

My marriage has been pretty rocky ever since I had my daughter. Due to some serious (not really comfortable revealing) reasons, a sort of dislike towards each other developed between my family and my wife and vice-versa. So basically, no one in my family likes my wife and vice-versa.

Now, when my daughter was less than a year old, regular disagreements and episodes of long silent-treatment persisted, soI asked my parents to leave (on my wife's request) to keep the peace. So they went to my Hometown which led to my wife becoming resentful, critical of even the harmless of statements, molding statements made by family members for a good fight etc etc.

There is going to be my sister's wedding and as revenge, my wife has refused (earlier she said she will go) to go just two weeks before the day when everything has already been planned and set. It is giving me nightmares. I am already someone who isn't much respected in family. If I ruin my sister's wedding, I fear I may be shunned.

What do I do? If I tell them everything, there is going to be some serious stress in the household. If I somehow convince my wife and she creates some drama at the wedding, that is also not desirable. F*ck my life!

Do you think gay men deserve marriage rights too?

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After a long term relationship which I really wanted to end, we broke up but we didn't get a closure that I needed.

After that relationship I did really really like a few people with whom for a short while it felt like I was in love. It did. But then without a closure, everything felt - not right. It was in ways where nothing made sense anymore and it didn't work with anyone. I was not hung up but the fact that it wasn't working with anyone made me feel like the closure would have made sure that it worked with someone. It's just a feeling but that is growing each day as none of the relationships make sense and the man who I thought he was, makes me question things even more. Because my present is so bad I have a hope that maybe I'll cross paths with him and he'll reach out at some point; which I feel is a really delusional thing to believe.

Basically I'm as single as I can get and nothing's working, which is making me believe that I'm meant to be with someone who I have already crossed paths with.

But, I kind of hate all of the men I've dated with whom it didn't work. I definitely do.

I am in my mid 20s and I only very recently found out that you have to click the underside of your foreskin. In my defense, I have a tight foreskin which is super hard to pull all the way back to the back of the crown, so until I reached my 20s, I thought that all penises are like that and there's no need to do anything more.

Because of the tight skin, I was always worried about trying to pull it back and clean it. But I had a sexual experience recently and it just made me feel conscious about my penis and I figured I would clean it up now.

The problem is that it's too hardened and it won't budge with water even. I feel so scared when it's pulled back worrying that I might get hurt. How do I fix this? Should I go to a doctor? If someone has been to one, please let me know your experience. I am worried a doctor might hurt my penis somehow.

hello guys, I'm studying btech cse 2ndyr in a tier 3 private deemed university.i possess average skills and participated in some hackathon.few relatives i know working in big MNCs.how much is it feasible for me to ask them for internship? can anybody explain to me the ground reality and how these things work? Thank you

Kareena: Saif asked me a 1000 times at multiple places and then I said yes.

People: She knew her worth, he loves her so much.

Vijay: She asked me 100 times and then I said yes.

People: OMG such a misogynist, Red flag, Narcissist, Dog, Watermelon, Papaya and what not

i’m quite strongly opinionated, and post a lot political stuff on my instagram. there’s always a bunch of men who’d LIKE and AGREE with everywhere i’ve to say - they’re such simps. it makes me so so angry. They’ve 0 personality of their own and they think we don’t know their game.

i’ll much rather prefer a complete vocal red flag to talk to who’s firm on his politics instead of having to talk to a man who’d agree with everything just to enter your pants.

such men think we can’t sniff where they stand in terms of their politics and their moulding of opinions just to enter our good books. y’all look like losers if you do that.

STAND BY YOUR GROUND. It’s okay if you like an XYZ political party. Don’t say you like ABC leader just to PLEASE ME.

For decades now every TV series, Movies, even News reporting on news websites and channels it is frankly tiring to the point of avoiding all of it.

Example: I just watched a Kannada movie "Premada Oorali" which has the message that the woman is to believed blindly and unconditionally no matter the desires and preferences of a man. For example a village born & raised virgin men who believes in "love and sex after marriage" is portrayed as regressive, patriarchal hicks and are dangerous to women to be shunned in all spheres especially prevented from getting a wife, unless he prostrates in front of a woman in tears and submits as the absolute moral authority patni parameshwari , agrees with her on everything and is always guilty until exonerated(temporarily) by the wife/gf.

Similar messages in both the Hindi "Newz" movies rationalised with crazy mental gymnastic reasons. They use comedy for normalizing misandry/gynocentrism messages.

Good Newz: The paternity of the child raised by the husband shouldn't be questioned.

Bad Newz: Be whole-heartedly accepting of a cheating by wife , and be ok with her having a child with another man.

Such storylines are there in every language TV series, movies, news and there is not even any widespread acknowledgement let along pushback of the one-sided gynocentrism propaganda.

Imagine an only son in his mid-20s who is just starting his career and planning to get married. His wife wants them to live separatley after marriage, with privacy and independence, and grow together and both contributes, However, his family strongly believes that everyone should live together under one roof. They have always been a close-knit family and find it difficult to accept the idea of their son moving out after marriage.

The situation is more complicated because his parents are still working but have debts and other financial commitments. Since he is only at the beginning of his career, setting up a separate household, paying rent and managing everyday expenses could be challenging while also helping his parents financially.

He wants to support his parents and make sure they are not left struggling, but he also wants to give his wife a comfortable married life and build their future together. His family might see moving out as distancing himself from them, even if he continues visiting them regularly and contributing financially.

In this situation, how should someone approach the transition? Would it make sense to live with his parents for a couple of years, save money, and help reduce their debts before setting up a separate home, or is it better to establish boundaries from the beginning of the marriage?

How much financial responsibility should an only son take for his parents when they have existing debts, especially when he is still building his career? How can he support them without compromising his own household's financial stability?

I'd especially like to hear from people who have been through something similar. How did you handle your parents' expectations, financial responsibilities, and your spouse's need for independence? What would you do differently if you could go back?

Guys, what would actually make you realize a girl likes you and isn't just being friendly??
What kind of hints do you actually notice? cause I feel like when I like a guy, I either become too obvious or end up acting so distant that he probably thinks I'm not interested at all!

can you guys tell me what's the right balance ?

26M

The report image is in the comments section.

So basically I go gym and have been experiencing severe muscle soreness and muscle lock so my trainer recommended me to take a full body massage once a month. But I feel very very ticklish in the process. I can't handle touches around my neck, abdomen, wait & feets 😭🙏🏼

What other alternative do I have?

Have gone into masturbation spiral recently? Yesterday i went to watch a movie, didnt even feel like looking at girls whom earlier i would find hot.

has anyone faced this before? how did you overcome it?

I’m a 30M currently looking for marriage prospects and have been in this process for nearly three years.

With most women I talk to, I feel like I’m the one asking almost all the questions. A few do put in effort, but often the conversation starts feeling one-sided, and after a point I run out of things to ask or talk about.

I’m naturally introverted and have never been in a relationship, though I’ve casually chatted with many women.

For guys who have gone through this process, how do you keep the conversation interesting, build chemistry, and move toward genuine mutual interest? Any practical suggestions would help.

Late 30's single guy here. I see many of my friends tolerate all kinds of infantile or straight toxic behaviour from their wife. Things like deliberate stubbornness in having their way. Passive aggressive behaviour if wife is home maker. Over sensitivity in everything. Sulking instead of discussing emotions. Pushing for things in husband's career and doing some emotional black mailing if it does not as per her. Driving children emotions away from father. Holding back intimacy. This stuff I have seen in women with pg education and in senior positions in profession. Many of them are unable to differentiate in behaviour of work place and home also. Some of my married friends come and complain and just say things like "it's just marriage".

Most marriages are good and couples have worked things out but too many couples i gave seen like i described. What is going on there ? What is a single guy missing to see here ?

I was in a village for a month and saw nudity is very normalised among them. Be it bathing in a pond, changing clothes in front of eachother or male skinny dipping in an isolated water bodies. How common was/is in your village? Btw OP also did skinny dipping

Read a post today here and it got to me thinking..

I have tight foreskin.. I get hard I had sex… but my foreskin still covers my tip of dick ( just the foreskin goes to around side of dick )

Is this normal ? Or should I go to doc as well ?

I m currently obese reducing my weight ..
Also many people wonder after being obese does the dick looks small - yes, but since last 2 months I m eating healthy and my morning wood are back taking proper nutrition walking a lot..
Lost 6 kgs in last 2 months.. more 23 kgs to go..
Didn’t had sex since a year now due to me being obese I started having mental trauma related to sex so I started workout situation was so bad my dick wouldn’t even get hard and if it got hard I used to cum in 15-25 seconds..

But now since last 2 months there are a lot of improvements the timing has increased from 7-10 mins in masturbation and I
get morning wood feel a lot horny as well.
But when I read the post it got me wondering is something wrong ? Or there are people out like this..

I genuinely need some advice because I feel like this has started affecting me more than it should.

Whenever I talk to a girl, my parents start shipping us together, even if we're literally just having a normal conversation. It doesn't matter if she's a classmate or just someone I know, they'll somehow make it weird 😭

And it's gotten to a point where I struggle to even talk to girls normally. I can't even communicate with a girl in a Discord VC without feeling awkward, and it's not like I have a crush on her or anything. I also catch myself avoiding even looking at girls my age on TV because for some reason, I feel weird about it.

I know my parents probably don't mean any harm, but constantly getting teased over something as simple as talking to a girl has genuinely messed with how I interact with them. I end up overthinking the most basic interactions when they shouldn't even be a big deal.

Has anyone else gone through something like this? How do I stop being so awkward around girls and just treat them like normal people without overthinking everything? I don't wanna keep being like this 😭