This is provoked by a conversation that took place at work. The conversation should probably get everyone fired but that notwithstanding, I was genuinely curious.

We have a new-ish guy at work named “Mike”. Coming from me, a straight man, this guy is the most obviously attractive guy where we work. He’s tall, fit, charismatic and gets along with everyone.

A few if not all the girls we work with openly flirt with him at work. To a degree that’s almost unsettling

Now I guess it’s recently become readily available information that he is bisexual. I don’t know if there’s any more technically accurate term because I don’t know exactly what his described sexual orientation and interests exactly are, I just know that he has sex with men and women, seemingly regularly enough to discuss his interests in both.

Fast forward to this past week, one of the girls at work, let’s call her Rachel, had flirted herself into the position where she happens to be telling Mike that she’s been told by everyone “she’s the best at giving head” or something to that effect

This lead to Mike, very casually in almost an “oh honey, no” type of dismissal, telling Rachel that in all his grand experiences, men outperform women in oral sex and it’s not close. Paraphrased he said that men basically have an enthusiasm and a horniness that on average, no girls match. Not to even get into the discussion of “skill”. Even the girls that are “enthusiastic” would be middle of the road compared to men. He said bi-guys know this all too well.

She persisted and some other girls who were also indignant said their requisite “skills” have been praised by many guys.

To which he basically said, of course they all tell you “you’re the best” … they want you to keep sucking their dicks.

I wasn’t really involved in the conversation but it had me curious if this was widely regarded as true? Are men considered that much better at oral sex than women? I generally don’t ask people about their sexual habits and history so I honestly have never heard anyone discuss this openly before

TLDR: Is it considered generally true in the bi community that men outperform women in giving head considerably with enthusiasm and skill? I know there may be outliers, but we’re talking about on average

Edit: this probably goes the other way too, with women preferring oral from women. I hadn’t been thinking about it in those terms because the situation that unfolded was from a guy’s bisexual perspective. Anyway, thanks for any insight. It’s intriguing and something I’d never thought about before

What do you guys prefer swallow or cum kiss or facial?

So my gf and I broke up recently after 6 years together. She cheated on me regularly throughout our relationship but I stayed because she was my first love and despite the cheating I knew she really loved me. She was a very sexual person.

The reason that we broke up was because I got home from work one morning (I worked am nights) and I the front door wasnt locked. I knew she went out and drank that night so I assumed she just forgot. Right when I walk in I hear something fall off the bed in the room and heard her say "fuck" in a moaning type voice. In the moment I thought she was just saying that after dropping something. I walked up to the room and see her taking it from behind on our bed. That was the last straw and I ended things with her.

It has been about a month and I have recently realized that I jerk off alot more but love cuck porn and bi encouraged vids. I also think back alot to that morning and get off to it. I am to the point where I think I really just dont want a relationship but wanna just have a fun life and explore sexually. I know for a fact that I dont want a relationship with a guy but I cant help but love the look of a nice hard dick. It turns me on.

I guess im here to ask for some help or see if someone would like to help me through it.. sorry for the book but thanks if you made it this far.

I realized recently that because of my lack of guy friends growing up and inevitable girls only becoming my close friends that I missed out on the bromances and bonding that some other guys have had. I’ve tried on a few subs here but not to much luck seeing as guys would say down for long ended chats, deep thoughts and the like but as most things, it fizzles out in a day or doesn’t really start to begin with. Generally I think having some common interests would get the ball rolling like loving fitness, movies, languages and travel, plus more, but still not much lately. So I’m wondering, what avenues do you take to meet or have met the great bros you’ve made in life, or if you are having trouble also, then what are you doing or plan to do differently to achieve that goal?

Hate it how I'm expected to tolerate homophobia from straight women

Honestly I am so angry right now I don't know what to do. Straight women are so mean I can't stand it. It's like I'm always nice to do them but they are always mean towards me. I hate it so much I can't stand it it's unbearable. Ever since I was a little kid straight women have always been my biggest bullies. It's like I'm always getting bullied and physically assaulted but yet it's like if I get upset then there's something wrong with me. I hate it so much.

It’s been so long since I’ve had anyone aside from my wife give me a a blow job.
For those lucky guys, do you prefer a guy or girl?
Who does it better?

(M25) Hey everyone, there's something I've been thinking about for a long time, and I want to ask you about it because I still can't find a reasonable answer. These thoughts have been seriously affecting my mental health.

I've been identifying as bisexual for a while now. I think I've felt this way for about 6–7 years. However, even though I've had romantic and sexual relationships with women in the past, I've never felt "romantic attraction" toward a man. Just so you don't misunderstand me, I'm definitely not homophobic. I've simply never felt "that feeling" toward someone of the same sex.

I enjoy solo anal play, and I recently bought myself a dildo that I use for pleasure. I'm into kinks, bondage, BDSM, and especially CNC (consensual non-consent). Imagining myself in these situations turns me on even more. Every time, I think, "I wish I could actually experience something like this," and I masturbate while imagining it. Recording videos of myself during solo play and watching them later turns me on incredibly much.

I've been with someone before, and that experience was extremely pleasurable and fun. Sometimes I have really extreme fantasies, and since I'm not currently sexually active with anyone, I act them out in my imagination while playing with myself, pretending that they're actually happening.

But sometimes, afterward, I feel like what I'm doing is somehow wrong. And because I've never felt romantic attraction toward a man, I can't stop wondering, "Is there something wrong with me?"

Is any of this wrong? Is it weird? Am I a pervert?

I'd really like to hear your thoughts, experiences, if you have any, and advice on this. I'm honestly tired of being stuck in this endless loop of thoughts.

What is longest time when you was wear buttplug? And where?

if I’ve used dildos on myself in the past and am turned on by gay porn and the thought of bottoming should I just consider myself bi or should I still consider myself bi-curious until I actually have been with a man?

I can't really tell if I can or should be asking this here, but if it breaks the rules or if it's not the place, could anyone direct me to where I should go?

I've been thinking of buying a dildo for the first time recently, but I don't really know how to go about it.

What website should I buy from, preferebly not too expensive? I also dont want something that looks nuts, hopefully just like a solid color or something.

And if I do, does anyone have any tips? I really dont know much of how to go about it.

Thanks!

What do you guys love doing with your partner cum?

I know you can go through a lot of confusing feeling but I also like the confusion too. I’ve never auite been able to explain it.

I'm 29, always had things going on with girls but secretly I'm a submissive bottom for daddies...

I'm about to break up with my girlfriend and commit to being a good bottom...

Has any one ever been in my situation and made the step ?

IDK if this is just a "grass is greener" situation but I can't help wanting men while dating women and vice versa. Last time I was with a man I kept checking out hot women, right now I'm with a woman and it's the same but with men. How do you guys manage this?

Hi guys, I have always considered myself straight and don’t find men attractive but over the last couple years I’ve started to find dicks really quite horny. Now I love watching close up gay porn and the thought of a dick inside me really gets me going, I fantasise about having a prostate orgasm and being filled up. Problem is I still have no desire to kiss or get with men nor do I find that attractive ? I am CONFUSED

I know its really up to me but i want to hear your views too.

So im 24 yo virgin and for some time i have fantasies about trying it woth a man. The problem is that i fir some reason dont like the fact that it would ve my first sex but at the same time i fear that i wont get the chance to do this if i wait (mainly if i found a gf i dont want to cheat on her or break up only vecause a fantasy)

Have you thought about this also? Or what are your advices or stories?

I have had a few experience with guys as well as trans girls. I don’t really look at men as attractive but I do love sucking a cock. Well I did before getting married.
I’ve noticed that when I’m done cumming, the desire goes away.
Anyone else feel like that?

Wanting to chat and explore. Brisbane AUS. Hmu.

I am a post op trans woman and I had gender reassignment surgery and after a year scar tissue built up and it closed and I feel really horrible because I wanted to receive vaginally but now I need a revision.

I am ok with anal given my options but I’m worried that men will no longer be interested in me when they realize I had a complication and it can’t function properly.

Again I plan on a revision, idk when but I’ll need it of course.

Should I wait until I get it fixed or will men be ok with anal?

P.S. I mean only the men who are bi or anyone that is open to trans women. The super straight men I’m not talking about.

I’ve been crushing on this guy from the gym. We’re not yet saying hi, but I shook his hand once when I was there with my buddy. We exchange a lot of eye contact, and I feel like there’s some vibe going on between us.

I’m just a shy guy, and I’m a bit intimidated by him because he’s big and so handsome to me. I feel awkward because he seems more outgoing than I am. But that’s not really the point of my question.

The first time I saw him, he had rusty-red colored hair and looked more tanned. I honestly thought he was the most beautiful prince ever. Then he changed his hair to a darker, black color, and now he’s got another cut, shorter, that looks almost emo-boy.

I’m wondering what that says about a guy, because when I first met him, he didn’t strike me as someone who would go in this darker direction. He seemed almost California surferish. Although he’s big, there’s something very sensitive about him, and I get a bisexual vibe from him—though obviously that’s just my impression.

So, for people who change their hair like that, what does it mean for you? Is it just enjoying different looks, or does it reflect something, like identity crisis? Because he seemed so self confident and that suddenly seems undecided or something. Maybe I’m overthinking it because I have a crush, but I’m curious.

And yeah, I’m planning to say hi or something next time. I’m just so shy and nerdy compared to him 😅