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Freshly 38, redhead who is in the most mundane chapter of her life.

I am married and have been for 13 years, no children but I do have a cat. My husband's work keeps us split majority of the time, I guess thats the plus side of his job. Unfortunately, its taken a huge toll ... I have needs and wants. I want laughter, fun& excitement. I want to date, fall in love, actually feel something.

am looking for someone who isnt serious, who can take a joke. I want simple, easy yet passionate.

I'm petite, 5'2, redhead as mentioned. Will share photos if we click

I'm sorry if this is awkward! I'm not sure what to write without sounding desperate??

Anyways if you are in the metro Detroit'ish area shoot me a message!

no, I'm not a bot or a OF model

Me:
I’m Married, short, fiery, blonde, blue eyes, tattoos and piercings.. sometimes an attitude and indecisive..

I’m looking for a particular guy..

He’s also married, Between the age of 30-45, shared interests and conversation, keeps up with the fun and passion, opportunity to meet locally.. even if passing from flying into the country.. Be so in tune it’s scary, hot and tall..

I’m not looking to change anyone’s situation, I don’t want to hear bad mouthing of other halves and discretion is key

I had a previous account of ConfidenceThat9384

I’d really like to meet someone who is chill, likes to have fun, and would be interested in getting to know each other. I like talking, sharing stories (ghost stories!) and the occasional roast just to keep you on your toes. North AL is my preferred location or surrounding areas. We can get to know each other better if you want to decide to meet up at some point.
I’m happy in my marriage, and I want more. I hope the same for you.

I'm married. I'm here looking for a long term relationship, preferably online but I'm open to moving things in person if that's what we both want.

For work I carry a badge and cuffs and drive a really fast car that makes wee-woo sounds whenever I chase bad guys.

I love to travel. I enjoy road trips, visiting beaches, working out, movie nights at home, cold cloudy weather, rainy days, pineapple on pizza, the yellow tropical Redbull, steak and roasted potatoes, s’mores, Halloween and Christmas, food trucks, tacos, Coke Zero, calisthenic workouts, boxing, detailing cars on the weekends among other things.

I enjoy listening to music. My playlist is kind of everywhere.

I also love listening to podcasts, mainly anything true crime related and conspiracies.

If I sound like your shot of tequila then feel free to reach out :)

Happy Friday, Y’all! I’m 46, married (in a dead bedroom) and looking for a consistent, long term AP. I’m looking to build an emotional and physical connection with one man who makes me feel seen and desired. I want to feel excitement and passion again! I’m looking for someone who isn’t going to ghost in a few days or start with sex talk right out of the gate. I like a slow burn where there’s intense flirting and the building of anticipation. I’m not interested in cake eaters or partner bashing. I just want to create our own little bubble that’s drama free and full of passion. That shouldn’t be too difficult, right? 🤣

This isn’t my first rodeo, so my OPSEC is solid and yours should be too. And I’m not interested in changing your situation, or mine for that matter. Please only reach out if you have the time for this and can engage in consistent communication. I’m not talking about nonstop texting, because who has the time for that!

A little about me: I’m petite and physically fit, with curves in all the right places. I have dark hair and hazel eyes, and I’m often told I’m attractive and exotic (I’m mixed Filipina and white). I take care of myself and am most attracted to men who do the same, so I prefer someone active, fit, and HWP. Physical attraction and chemistry are obviously important, but personality, intelligence, humor, and how we connect matter even more to me. I’m confident in my own skin and have a laid back personality. I’m educated with advanced degrees and work in a white collar profession.

A few things that will probably save us both some time: I’m looking for a similarly married or attached man ages 35 - 50 yo. I prefer someone who doesn’t have very small children (mine are grown). It would be great if you lived in my area (Little Rock), but I know that’s not likely. I have the flexibility to travel 1-2 times per month and it would be even better if you could also travel some. Politically, I’m very much in the blue camp so no MAGA please. I’d rather share pics on telegram sooner rather than later. Attraction goes both ways, and I think it’s better to make sure we both like what we see before investing too much time chatting.

Most importantly, please have time for this and intend to actually meet up in person as soon as we feel comfortable. I’m not interested in online only. The goal is to look forward to your messages, smile at my phone like an idiot, and eventually find out if the chemistry is even better in person.

So, if you’re a grown man who can flirt without making it weird, communicate without being chased, and follow through on what you say, I’d love to hear from you! Bonus points if you can make me laugh and leave me wanting more. 😉 I’m definitely a real woman and #notabot

If you reach out, tell me your favorite holiday and why so I know you read my ad in its entirety.

Like most people after being married for 10 years with multiple kids everything is the same. Random date nights, school, get home cook and bedtime, and weekends are for cleaning the house and yardwork. I miss the excitement and thrill of the unknown.

Not trying to change your situation or mine. Just looking for the butterflies again. You know. Seeing a chat come in and being excited. Goodnight and good morning text.
Maybe you feel the same.

*notabot

Full transparency: I’m here for a mostly sexual connection. Flirting, chemistry, and orgasms. Not your next soul tie or exit plan. Miss me with that shit. We can absolutely talk about day-to-day life, laugh, share things, send each other music, etc. But if you’re looking for a whole ass relationship, there are plenty of other women to choose from. It won’t be me.

I need you filthy, direct, and unapologetic. If you’re timid or want to dance around giving me what I need, please don’t. Call me names like you fucking mean it, talk me through it. If your whole thing is throwing a “good girl” my way every so often, we aren’t a match. I need someone who knows how to talk to me and isn’t afraid to push the right buttons. I can’t cum without it, and I’ll let my therapist unpack that later. In the meantime, you can take all that shit you probably need therapy for, too, and put it to good use.

You should absolutely ruin me, then help me catch my breath and remind me it’s all a game. I can get emotional and overwhelmed, and I need someone who understands how to help me come back down. I’m not looking for some weird fucking online dom/sub relationship. I want someone who makes me laugh and calls me a whore. Simple.

I know you’re reading this like, fuck yea… she just wants to cum. Easy day. But there’s more to it than that. Sometimes the need to get off is so intense I can’t focus. I pant, cry, and whimper like a bitch in heat. That’s where you come in. My mental state is directly tied to my cunt (but really)… I want you to learn how to read me like a fucking book. Anticipate that a bad meeting at work means I’m going to need you to put me on my knees to help me make it through the rest of the day. If you’re not comfortable navigating that side of me, we won’t work. I’m looking for one guy I can build trust with, someone consistent, who follows through, and who I know will take care of me when I need it.

Me: married. a natural redhead. A whole 5 foot tall… yes, really. Some tattoos, but not covered. A little nerdy. Think space buns and converse. In shape, and I don’t mean round (except that ass tho ;). I’m not afraid to send pics early because if we’re not attracted to each other, there’s no point wasting time. I really do need to find someone to make me cum. 🤷‍♀️

Oh, and *notabot

I think that’s about covers it. Ffs.

Looking for that connection that goes beyond our married lives. One where we can be ourselves and free from the constraints our routine lives.

We can light that fire and reignite the excitement along with the thrill. Fulfill our needs and put our minds at ease. Share our intimate moments together as we keep it a secret we share.

I’m not looking to change your situation nor mine’s.

I enjoy humor with a mix of introspective or deep conversations. I enjoy the hobbies of working out, watching shows, strumming my guitar, cooking, occasional book reading, taking walks outdoors, listening to music or a podcast, and connecting with you ;)

Let’s grab a coffee and see where this journey takes us :)

Before you roll your eyes and think “oh here’s another horny guy with a cougar fetish,” I promise you that’s not the case. I want a deep, long term connection on every possible level, and I just happen to really enjoy and connect with more mature women. I love the experience, the intelligence, the beauty that only gets better with age. I love that you know what you want and don’t play games. I’ve always been more grounded and emotionally mature than most men my age, and I think I’ve got the qualities that would appeal to someone older than me.

I’m 35, married with kids, postgrad educated, liberal, very laid back and great at conversation. I’m in no rush to jump into bed and prefer to take our time chatting and really getting to know each other before exploring the physical realm. I love baseball, classic rock music, old movies, and Mexican food. If it matters, I’m white, 5’10, stocky build, clean cut. Looking for a friend first, with the possibility that we develop into passionate lovers eventually.

I would say the age range I’m looking for is 40-70 (ish). I’ve no preference on your ethnicity or body type (plus size ladies are very much welcome). The main thing for me is that we connect intellectually and emotionally; if we do, the physical attraction will undoubtedly be there for me. It would be great if you’re local to Houston, but I’m open to chatting with prospective matches from elsewhere. If you find any of this intriguing, I’d love to hear from you.

Married clean-cut professional in the suburbs that no one would suspect. The bedroom’s been quiet enough that Netflix has been getting more action than I have. Light hearted & love finding the humorous aspects of life.

Looking for something ongoing and discreet with someone in a similar spot. Not a one-off, not a full relationship; a fun discreet partner. Actual chemistry mental and physical, long makeouts that don’t turn into a race, plenty of skin-on-skin. Let’s explore and fulfill each other. I’m more interested in what actually works for both of us. Low-maintenance and low drama.

I stay busy (sports, travel, outdoors, reading, keeping in shape). 6’, dark blonde and athletic build. Discretion is non-negotiable.

Not looking to change my or your situation.

If your life also looks handled from the outside and the bedroom’s been the quiet part, say something.

40M married attractive Asian guy. Things are good but the passion, the physical connection isn’t there and I don’t want to spend life just going through the motions.

Looking for someone local who wants an ongoing, meaningful connection that feels real, even if it has its limits. Someone who enjoys staying in touch when we can but understands we both have full lives.

If you’re also missing that fire and ready to bring it back, let’s talk. Life’s too short to settle for less.

I'm 32, in a long-term relationship, and like many here… quietly craving that spark of something new. That desire, the excitement of getting to know someone you shouldn’t. I miss the butterflies, the late-night conversations, and the kind of connection that makes you glance at your phone with a sneaky smile. I’m looking to add what’s missing... discreetly, intentionally, and with mutual respect.

I am quite grounded, and clear-headed about what I want. I’m not looking to blow up my life or yours. A little about me:

- 32, based in North London/Herts

-6’2”, often described as a cheeky, tall, dark and handsome Northerner (but I'll let you be the judge)

-Professional in a white collar job

-Active and outdoorsy, whether that is running, hiking, any kind of sports (particularly into padel at the moment)

-Well travelled

-a little bit of a nerd

- reasonably normal and a half decent sense of humour

What I’m looking for:

- a woman who is married or in a long-term committed relationship (non-negotiable)

-ideally someone between 25-50ish

-london or nearby (or can travel)

-emotional maturity and discretion on both sides, including regular sexual health checks

I've had APs before, so I know the rhythm, the risks, and the responsibility that comes with this. I communicate well, respect boundaries, and will not ghost (like so many others do)

Ideal sexual encounters? Intimate, passionate, leaving us both in sweaty, satisfied heaps. Sex is always much more fun when you can have a laugh and a cuddle too.

if this sounds like something you are interested in, drop me a message. Looking forward to hearing from you...

31, married and need a little something extra

I’m looking for my sneaky link. I’m so bored at home, I get no attention, and I’m a very giving person.

I’m definitely more attracted to plus sized and bigger girls, I’m open minded though 😉

I love just meeting up and having a little CarPlay then getting some desert or going on a walk and chatting.

I’m into pretty much anything you want.

I’m mobile around Sarasota/venice area if anyone is interested

I'm here for the affair and looking for someone local to enhance my life with a woman who is in a similar situation.

Get to know each other via messaging, if we like each other, we meet and if we like that.. we do it again.

And if your opening message is just “hey”… we’re not a match.

Located in the Greater Boston Area. 44, married, well educated professional man. Physically, I am tall and muscular, white, short hair, no beard, no facial hair, and not much body hair either. I have a smile that usually means I’m either about to flirt or be sarcastic… sometimes both.

Excellent OPSEC is paramount. Affairs are sweet but not looking to blow up your life or my own, and definitely not looking for any games or drama. Anyone looking for a strictly online only arrangement need not apply.

If we click, awesome.

If we don’t, at least one of us gets a funny Reddit story out of it.

A handsome dad type looking to take you on a chill tour of a small museum in the Boston area. I can tell you which one once we talk, and you won't need to pay for entry. I am friendly and nice, chill and non judgemental. I am white, 5 ft 11, 220 lbs, short brown curly hair, blue eyes sweet smile. One and half tattoos, glasses and usually scruffy beard to clean shaven.

Want a break from your life? Feel like talking about it with a stranger? Or do you feel like pretending everything is ok and you have a parallel life for a couple of hours? You just like museums? You're bored? I'm your guy 😄 I am craving female attention, so we can make it as sexual or platonic as you want, no questions asked, no judgment. I am married and have a kid, so as long as you're ok with that I'm ok with that. Very kink friendly, but also we don't have to go there if that's not your thing. Let me know what is on your mind and I can figure out how we can do that. I am also open to genuine friendships.

I'm a married man in my mid-40s in the Kansas City metro. From the outside my life looks fine — career, house, family, busy calendar. At home it's become functional and affectionate in a friendly way, but not romantic, not physical, and not really wanted for a long time now. I miss flirting, I miss being looked at like that, and I miss having someone who actually wants to talk to me at the end of the day, not just coordinate schedules with me.

I'm not looking to leave, and I'm not looking for someone who wants to leave either. I'm looking for a married/attached woman in a similar spot locally — someone who gets why you can love your life and still feel lonely in it.

What I'm hoping for: real conversation first, during the workday mostly, building to coffee/drinks and, if the chemistry is there, a longer-term, discreet connection a couple times a month. No one-night stands, no rushing to meet, no drama, and absolutely mutual discretion. Neither of us changes our situation at home.

About me: 47, 6 fee tall with a slim to active build. I like to stay active, I play a winter team sport competitively, follow college sports probably too closely, and I have a dry sense of humor. Background in media a long time ago, project work now. I can hold a conversation about almost anything, and I'd rather have a good one than a quick one. I have pics and will share once we've talked and you're comfortable.

About you: roughly 35-50, local to KC (not long-distance/online-only), married or attached, kind, witty, and in this for chemistry and companionship, not chaos.

Send me you best pick up line.

Obviously they send shivers down your spine, but what ELSE do they offer? And we all have one - think about it!

But I'm not here to discuss the merits of skeletons. I'm here to find a companion to discuss the merits of skeletons - among other things. Ideally in person eventually, but not opposed to online for someone that clicks. Being a puzzle piece for each other - filling in the gaps we're missing in each other's lives long term. The idea that you might be reading this out of what amounts to a sea of dudes is pretty great - so welcome.

A little about me: Married, tall, salt and pepper hair with a beard I keep trimmed and relatively short. Not sporting a mountain man grizzled beard with squirrels nesting in it. Apparently a beard is a common disqualifying factor so I'm putting that out there. A little nerdy, a lot handy, I enjoy laughing, watching a good movie, listening to an audiobook or reading said book, podcasts and video games. Also weirdly a common disqualifying factor so might as well mention it. Conventionally attractive with an average build that skews a little athletic. I'm not going to say the thing you think I'm going to say about it. I have been in this realm for a little while and I know my way around opsec and considerations for life outside of our bubble. Boilerplate: Not trying to ruin your situation. "Take no shit, do no harm." I take care of myself and I hope you do, too. Kink friendly but not a requirement or an opening salvo.

Who are you? Someone who likes to laugh, between the ages of 35-50. Bonus points for tattoos, video game player, or have curly hair. These aren't remotely required but it's always nice. You enjoy goofy references or ancient callbacks, sexy times and goofy times. In an ideal world, you're in Central Texas and near the Austin area, but ideal world scenarios are hard to come by these days. Experience within this realm is preferred. No religious zealots or (gasp) conservatives. I'd prefer to work towards exclusivity (as far as we can be in this world, ya know?), so if that makes you balk, bye now. If you're also in the Discord world, gold star A+ preferred.

So why not give me a shot and see if we can click? Pics available early on to to determine mutual attraction - I'm not deluded into thinking my magical word salads can woo you - there needs to be an element of physical attraction as a bedrock. Those prone to ghosting or using AI need to apply. Be an adult and use your big words - you'll be doing both of us a courtesy.

Made it this far and want to reach out? Then I look forward to talking with you!

Hello everyone life’s been hard I mean real hard lately it feels like going through this life style has been more challenging than normal. We go through these highs and lows of finding someone on here that gets it and then something happens she disappears lives to far away so the connection can’t last,different time zones etc etc. you start questioning yourself and wondering if keeping a family together is really worth it. The walking on eggshells everyday wondering what version of your spouse you getting today you go the extra mile just for it not to be recognized or appreciated. You realize that no matter what you do you can’t make it work but yet you stay. We know the answer we know what we should do but we can’t do it. I would really love to get to know someone real that wants something real and I’ve posted 100x and I’ve met some wonderful women on here and a lot of only fans fishers 😂 but this post is just a post at the end of October before the holiday season starts before the “maybe next year will be different” thoughts creep in our heads just hoping someone reads this and knows that they aren’t alone

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I figured I’d throw this out there and see who I meet.

I’m 34, from Michigan, laid back, a little introverted at first, and probably better at one on one conversations than small talk. I’m looking for an ongoing connection with someone who enjoys getting to know each other and letting things develop naturally.

I’m into hiking, kayaking, camping, random drives, exploring small towns, cooking, movies, music, and those late night conversations that somehow turn into talking until 2am.

I’m not looking to rush into anything or make things complicated. I’d rather find someone I genuinely click with, where there’s attraction, chemistry, humor, and enough trust that we can both look forward to hearing from each other.

If you’re also looking for something discreet, consistent, and more than just trading a few messages before disappearing, feel free to reach out. Tell me a little about yourself and what you’re looking for.

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So firstly I’m not looking to change my situation or anyone else’s but would love to chat and get to know someone new. I’m open to sharing pics and more if we both feel comfortable. I’m also Scottish and have the accent to prove it ;)

I’m 6ft1, a bit chubby, an introvert, green eyes, have all my own teeth, very clumsy and tattooed.

To be truthful I am very bored, restless and need some excitement in my life. Someone to look forward to receiving messages from and potentially meet in the future if life and geography allows it.

I like to put in some effort when I chat and would love it if you were the same, asked questions and could hold up your end of the conversation too.

Things I like (in no particular order…): Reading, cinema, travelling and exploring new places, maps, good food, current affairs, random facts, castles, history, pineapple on pizza, boardgames, walking.

Things I hate: Olives

Been married 5 years, together for 9, and currently separated. While I am not looking to rush into meeting, ultimately i would like to find something ongoing and consistent. Someone I can connect with in and out of bed, with shared interests and good conversation.

Physically, I am half Korean and half white, been told I have a cute smile, a few tattoos on my arm, and above average height being just shy of 6 feet tall. I also try to stay fairly active working out during the week but would say I have an average build.

Hobby and interest wise, I like taking photos, watching movies (on a horror binge right now), listening to music (favorite band is Radiohead), and reading (never let me go is my favorite book but currently reading dungeon crawler Carl series)

Comfort, communication, and boundaries are important to me so we can take things at a pace that works for the both of us. I lean between being a soft dom/pleasure dom but have a nerdy wholesome vibe outside of the bedroom apparently. I also enjoy a good cuddle and have been told I give great massages.

If any of this caught your interest, feel free to send me a message about yourself. I don’t mind some distance if there’s a way for us to see each other somewhat consistently but local to the Central Florida area would be preferred. I’m near the mills/downtown area and am able to host evenings and weekends, or during the day if we plan.

I trust you truly understand what I want, really need and truly desire. I'm married, with a dead bedroom because has orthopedic issues and stopped, While my end goal s for us to eventually be talking to each other in our birthday suits and much more, we can go very very slowly with this. I am an older, well educated, white male, 6', 205, clean shaven, do not drink or smoker with graying black hair. I do not drink or smoke. I am on Long Island but can travel into Manhattan. Besides what I truly want, I have many interests and am interested in developing a very special friendship with a woman. I can elaborate more if you write but trust you know what I am looking for. It takes time for something to develop and marinate, but I am patient. Enjoy your day and write if there is any interest.

Hi. I am a a 46 year old guy in the Pittsburgh area. Married with kids. My kids are older. I work a d workout and try to stay in shape. I am 6’ tall and athletic build. I am look for an affair partner. Being pretty much an empty nester has made me realize how little my wife and i do together. We get along well. It is like have a good roommate. I want and need more. Not looking to change your situation or mine, just looking to add to each other’s lives. Let’s laugh, flirt, and then eventually meet. Let’s give each other a reason to smile at our phones.

I hope to hear from someone in the Western PA or NE Ohio area. Good luck to all!