People who are doing well in life don’t get in physical fights. If you fight someone to prove you are a man, the vast majority of people in society don’t see you as tough, they see you as trashy and low class. If you grew up around people who fight regularly, I’m sorry but you are surrounded by people with low emotional intelligence. It’s a hard truth to swallow about the male role models in your life.
When meeting a girl, you should look at her as a potential friend, not a potential hookup. If you treat her like a real person upon meeting, a genuine connection can form (and it might even increase your chances of a romance to follow if you end up liking each other!)
Figure out your moral code and stick to it. You need to be able to answer the question What does it mean to you to lead a “good” life? Figure that out and then spend every day making choices that align with your code of ethics.
Lead a curious minded life. Be investigative, be interested, be involved.
I second this because my dad is the sort thay believes violence and threats will solve anything in his life , including dealing with me. After living with his for like 28 years I came to realize that he is someone with very low iq
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u/kendricklamartin 12h ago
People who are doing well in life don’t get in physical fights. If you fight someone to prove you are a man, the vast majority of people in society don’t see you as tough, they see you as trashy and low class. If you grew up around people who fight regularly, I’m sorry but you are surrounded by people with low emotional intelligence. It’s a hard truth to swallow about the male role models in your life.
When meeting a girl, you should look at her as a potential friend, not a potential hookup. If you treat her like a real person upon meeting, a genuine connection can form (and it might even increase your chances of a romance to follow if you end up liking each other!)
Figure out your moral code and stick to it. You need to be able to answer the question What does it mean to you to lead a “good” life? Figure that out and then spend every day making choices that align with your code of ethics.
Lead a curious minded life. Be investigative, be interested, be involved.