And on the flip side, don't settle for and stay with a bad one. Sunk cost fallacy is real, and being alone sucks, but you'll be doing yourself a huge favor and save a lot of wasted time and be one step closer to being happy if you just cut out someone that you're not happy with.
To add on don't settle for someone who isn't bad but not who you really enjoy being with. And also not someone who if their body changes you lose all attraction for them. Bodies change over time, especially women's, especially with kids. Be sure it is someone you love and enjoy so much, that doesn't matter.
That's just called being "Shallow". Indeed, Don't be Shallow. Surface level attraction will get the motor running but you need a deeper understanding and appreciation for the long haul.
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u/WoodenCrow6024 13h ago edited 10h ago
Appreciate a good woman. When your young its easy to think you can always find better. By your mid to late 30s most of the great women are gone.
Thanks for the awards. Just trying to be helpful.