Just finished this com and am pretty happy with it from someone who usually mostly draws furries.

Hoping to do more anime coms in the future!

Sooo basically I’ve always had a bit of an OAB and I’ve been 24/7 with pull-ups for a while! I use the toilet most of the time but it catches my leaks, bedwetting accidents and occasional daytime accidents.

My only issue is that while goodnites fit me just fine and work for me 99% of the time, there is one situation where they don’t do the job so well; sometimes I’ll have to go, know I need to go, be able to hold it but won’t find a toilet in time after a while, and flood my pull-ups to the point they leak a bit or are completely bursting.

In those cases I can never tell when to just call it quits and have an accident before it gets that bad, which is really what I should do so I can be comfortable and get changed without issues.

What do you guys think?

Before you tell me to wear diapers!! they’re not practical day to day, I still go to the toilet and I can never get them up and down easily, would just end up having an accident in the process, changes are harder and it’s less discreet!

Hi! How’s everyone doin? I hope well! Just wanted to say today is my birthday and my diapee is soaked!!!

Hope yall have a wonderful day!!

No more potty breaks🥰

Thin, discreet diaper: Tranquility ATNs (96)

-These are the best thin diaper for sure. Any other diaper this thin holds half as much. ATNs are like 100% SAP powder. So even though they’re thin, they can hold 3 full bladder empties and have a little room to spare. They do swell up a lot and get very squishy, and they also crinkle quite a bit. And they absorb kinda slowly so a big flood can cause a leak

But the best part about them is the padding is narrow. I can cross my legs at my desk if I want and I can’t do that in other diapers this abdorbent. An elastic waistband would he nice but they fit pretty well.

Medium diaper: Seni Quatros (40)

-These are Seni’s most absorbent diaper. They are SUPER soft and dead quiet. Can hold a solid 4 or 5 wettings. I wear these if I know I need some extra protection and won’t be able to change my diaper. They’re a little bulky but discreet enough. And the tapes are very easily refastenable for when I need to use the toilet for #2.

Heavy duty diaper: InControl BeDry Night (30)

This is the best adult diaper ever made in my opinion. Any more absorbency than these and it’s just ridiculous and impractical.

They can hold like 8 full bladder voids and won’t leak even if you sit down. They absorb super fast. The padding is just as soft as the senis. The tapes are velcro and shoer strong, and the backing is smooth plastic. They have front and back waistbands that hug you lower back and prevent up-the-back poopy blowouts very effectively. It’s hard to get these to blow out through the leg cuffs too. Even if they’re incredibly wet and messy, if you sit down, it might be a small leak. I honestly don’t know how it’s possible.

I will wear these in public sometimes. With very loose pants. They are just super thick and when they’re full it’s hard to walk without a waddle. They are mostly for wearing at home.

if you’re considering what kind of diapers to get for 24/7 wear these are a good combination. I also have a diaper pail which is convenient for all the diapers I’m going through. Baby powder, of course, and some diaper rash cream. As well as some long boxer briefs which wilo help prevent chaffing on your inner thighs.

Is it actually possible to have involuntary accidents after a certain amount of time wearing 24/7? I’m doing a trial run on 24/7 wear and one of my fantasies is to lose at least a little bit of control so that I actually need diapers for bed and to prevent accidents but is is actually possible? Any wearers that have been wearing for a long time? Share!

They were what us kids wore before Pull-Ups were invented. I should have been kept in them a lot longer. I was a bed-wetter and along with being a leaky faucet in grade school, there were two times in third grade I flooded myself and no one helped!

Curity Training Pants Underwear for Toddlers

I’m restocking my supply of diapers, and I love thick, white diapers that puff up a lot and make a crinkly sound. I’m trying to decide between these options: Rearz Inspire+ Mega LNGU Cloud White Kiddo Xtrem Which ones would you recommend?

Hi! I’m a young adult in my mid 20s and I’m new to budgeting my paycheck and living independently. I only make $25/hr and I work full time and we all know rent/groceries/gas/etc. is crazy expensive. I’m wondering how much you all would set side per paycheck to go towards ABDL items (diapers/powder/wipes/onesies)? Whats a reasonable amount to set aside for diapers and pull ups? Thank you in advance!

There’s not really any good posts on ABDL diaper bags. Trying to decide on best option for me right now. I’ve been using a smaller backpack diaper bag, which is okay but lacks some fun. Share inspiration! What do you carry? What’s your must-haves? Show pics!

When I’m not in public I’m focused only on diapers and playing games but when I’m out and about I’m very reclusive and shy and I tend to not talk to anyone but I’m still mostly thinking of wanting a diaper?

Like I understand that for most people they aren’t abdl in public like in private.

I mean they are essentially a different person completely.

I’ve been thinking for a while now about going to a hotel one of these days to just have a 24/7 diaper / regression day. I don’t live alone, and usually I have to reserve my (solo) age play to the late hours of the night after everyone else has gone to bed (and even then, I’m kinda nervous the whole time that I’ll make too much noise and alert someone). It would be really fun to be able to not worry about that at all and be in a completely private space where I can do whatever I want to (within reason, obviously).

My only drawbacks are that, first of all, I’ve never stayed in a hotel alone before. I’m AFAB (assigned female at birth) and though I’m genderfluid, I make no efforts to make myself appear like I’m not a woman (mostly cuz I just don’t care that much). The biggest thing I’m scared of is how safe it would be—especially because I’m only 19 and I think people confuse me for being younger than I am as well, so my mind is just blaring alarm bells of “this is not a safe idea don’t do it!!” I’ve even heard that some hotels have secret cameras or something in them and I’m kinda scared of that too.

Another thing I’m worried about is that I’m just not a good liar at ALL. I would probably just say I was going to stay at a friend’s house, but idk, I’m paranoid that I would seem super nervous when saying it LMAO. That’s a bit more of an irrational fear though. I’m just an awkward and very socially anxious person, so doing anything out of my comfort zone makes me pretty nervous and I start having second thoughts. I do think my first concern about safety is pretty valid, though. Especially since the town I live in doesn’t have many hotels and I really don’t know how safe they are or if they’re kinda sketchy…

So, has anyone else done something like this before? I’ve heard of ABDL online friends meeting up in hotels to play together being a thing, but has anyone ever gone alone just to escape roommates? Have you done it at a young age (esp if you’re a woman or visibly AFAB)? What happened?? If I can figure out a way to do it that would be comfortable to me, I would really like it, I think, but my reservations are holding me back a lot.

Hi, recently I have started to really notice how many cute outfits people are wearing and am getting more and more interested in building up a bit more of a wardrobe that includes some little stuff. I am a DL first and foremost, but do like some ‘casual’ little stuff. Like, I saw cute little bear socks and a grey sweater with Whinny the Pooh. Where do people find those kinds of cute clothing in adult sizes? It cannot all be speciality stores, right?

I am a man, but if something is truly cute, I could not care less what gender it was originally intended for.

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So I’m naturally a night owl I’m up basically all night and sleep in super long but when I’m wearing a diaper I constantly wake up because 7-9am is that normal or just me?

Boutta get a soon to be not dry diaper and then play some Ready Or Not!!

Just wondering if any of you other solo abdl people do this.

I decided to make a invisible apple cake today. I was padded up, wearing overalls and a t-shirt. The whole time imagining I was mommy's little helper. Pretending she was showing me how to cook and I was to little to use the mandolin. Just realized I made a invisible apple cake with a invisible mommy 🤣🤣 Cake turned out good, needed a little more sugar.

Just got my Rearz Dinos today (will be my first adult diaper! Yessssss finally!!!) and I plan on taping up tonight. I’ve only had pull ups in the last. Any recommendations? I’m hoping this will finally help me accomplish the ‘diaper brained’ feeling I’ve been wanting and I’m so excited to try it

Made my first trip to the Midwest in awhile. Shoutout to Meijer for having an adult changing table in most (or all) of their locations.

Map of adult changing tables, in case someone hasn’t seen it before.

https://my.atlist.com/map/306b2633-4789-4c3c-af67-f948baa51f66

Just a fun thought I had on a small, yet important part of our art. I see plenty of members going in different ways, so gathering some input could help everyone find their right method of fitting.

Personally, I used to do top, then bottom, but I'd always be re-adjusting the tapes anyway. But now I do it the other way around so I can fit the leakguards right and get a snug fit at the waist with the top tapes.

Hi! My birthday is coming up in a little over a month and I'd love to spoil myself by commissioning an AB/DL artist to draw artwork of me that I could use for social media profiles and such. I was just wondering for those who have gone through the commission process, who did you like working with best? The hard part is there are just so many talented artists in our community it's hard to pick who would be best for me!

I don't know why my post got deleted yesterday or how, but I reckon I'll ask again since you people seem to be pretty friendly!

First off, here on Germany what's the absolute most absorbent and thickest diapers I can buy samples of, and in which store? (also are these stores discrete? as in, the diapers don't ship in a way it's obvious I'm buying diapers? And are they safe to use credit cards in?)

I'm personally looking to buy 4 or 6 diapers just to try them but I do want the biggest quality and thickness possible

Then, I'm only DL, so any recommendations while wearing a diaper? Any general tips a begginer should know?

And well, maybe a little what to expect when I go pee and poo for the first time in a diaper?

I'm sick at the moment and drinking lots of tea cos it makes my throat feel better and helps me feel more warm and cozy 🥰

But I've noticed I have to change my diaper a loooot and it's difficult to remember to change in time 🫣 I can't tell if I'm just feeling very little and wetting more often/subconsciously or if I'm actually drinking too much tea 😅

Usually I can stay in one diaper for 4-5 hours easily even if I'm just sitting down/wetting in the same position but in the last few days (since I got sick) I have to change every 2-3 hours 🤭

I was using diapers quite frequently. I stopped for a few months and then a few days ago i wet my bed. Ive decided to give in and just start wearing all the time. It feels so good to just give in to it.