No more potty breaks🥰

Thin, discreet diaper: Tranquility ATNs (96)

-These are the best thin diaper for sure. Any other diaper this thin holds half as much. ATNs are like 100% SAP powder. So even though they’re thin, they can hold 3 full bladder empties and have a little room to spare. They do swell up a lot and get very squishy, and they also crinkle quite a bit. And they absorb kinda slowly so a big flood can cause a leak

But the best part about them is the padding is narrow. I can cross my legs at my desk if I want and I can’t do that in other diapers this abdorbent. An elastic waistband would he nice but they fit pretty well.

Medium diaper: Seni Quatros (40)

-These are Seni’s most absorbent diaper. They are SUPER soft and dead quiet. Can hold a solid 4 or 5 wettings. I wear these if I know I need some extra protection and won’t be able to change my diaper. They’re a little bulky but discreet enough. And the tapes are very easily refastenable for when I need to use the toilet for #2.

Heavy duty diaper: InControl BeDry Night (30)

This is the best adult diaper ever made in my opinion. Any more absorbency than these and it’s just ridiculous and impractical.

They can hold like 8 full bladder voids and won’t leak even if you sit down. They absorb super fast. The padding is just as soft as the senis. The tapes are velcro and shoer strong, and the backing is smooth plastic. They have front and back waistbands that hug you lower back and prevent up-the-back poopy blowouts very effectively. It’s hard to get these to blow out through the leg cuffs too. Even if they’re incredibly wet and messy, if you sit down, it might be a small leak. I honestly don’t know how it’s possible.

I will wear these in public sometimes. With very loose pants. They are just super thick and when they’re full it’s hard to walk without a waddle. They are mostly for wearing at home.

if you’re considering what kind of diapers to get for 24/7 wear these are a good combination. I also have a diaper pail which is convenient for all the diapers I’m going through. Baby powder, of course, and some diaper rash cream. As well as some long boxer briefs which wilo help prevent chaffing on your inner thighs.

Is it actually possible to have involuntary accidents after a certain amount of time wearing 24/7? I’m doing a trial run on 24/7 wear and one of my fantasies is to lose at least a little bit of control so that I actually need diapers for bed and to prevent accidents but is is actually possible? Any wearers that have been wearing for a long time? Share!

There’s not really any good posts on ABDL diaper bags. Trying to decide on best option for me right now. I’ve been using a smaller backpack diaper bag, which is okay but lacks some fun. Share inspiration! What do you carry? What’s your must-haves? Show pics!

Made my first trip to the Midwest in awhile. Shoutout to Meijer for having an adult changing table in most (or all) of their locations.

Map of adult changing tables, in case someone hasn’t seen it before.

https://my.atlist.com/map/306b2633-4789-4c3c-af67-f948baa51f66

I don't know why my post got deleted yesterday or how, but I reckon I'll ask again since you people seem to be pretty friendly!

First off, here on Germany what's the absolute most absorbent and thickest diapers I can buy samples of, and in which store? (also are these stores discrete? as in, the diapers don't ship in a way it's obvious I'm buying diapers? And are they safe to use credit cards in?)

I'm personally looking to buy 4 or 6 diapers just to try them but I do want the biggest quality and thickness possible

Then, I'm only DL, so any recommendations while wearing a diaper? Any general tips a begginer should know?

And well, maybe a little what to expect when I go pee and poo for the first time in a diaper?

Just a fun thought I had on a small, yet important part of our art. I see plenty of members going in different ways, so gathering some input could help everyone find their right method of fitting.

Personally, I used to do top, then bottom, but I'd always be re-adjusting the tapes anyway. But now I do it the other way around so I can fit the leakguards right and get a snug fit at the waist with the top tapes.

I'm sick at the moment and drinking lots of tea cos it makes my throat feel better and helps me feel more warm and cozy 🥰

But I've noticed I have to change my diaper a loooot and it's difficult to remember to change in time 🫣 I can't tell if I'm just feeling very little and wetting more often/subconsciously or if I'm actually drinking too much tea 😅

Usually I can stay in one diaper for 4-5 hours easily even if I'm just sitting down/wetting in the same position but in the last few days (since I got sick) I have to change every 2-3 hours 🤭

So I’ve been getting back into diapers again and am working my way to 24/7 (except at work) and sometimes it’s so hard to just let go! I’ve seen some people use a catheter so that they couldn’t hold it in if they tried which seems pretty fun and interesting to me. Of course it requires safety and sanitation and knowing what you’re doing and I’m not really planning on trying it out at the moment but I’m curious to know how it’s done and how it feels! What’s it like, any problems that can show up, which one is the most ergonomic etc.. also how would erections go?? Please share your experience!

I did to again!! I love this feeling I wish I could stay like this forever!

Unfortunately I can’t 😭

I just picked up a bunch of vintage baby diapers size 6 and some 4t 5t pullups any ideas what to do with them

I was using diapers quite frequently. I stopped for a few months and then a few days ago i wet my bed. Ive decided to give in and just start wearing all the time. It feels so good to just give in to it.

For starters, sorry for posting this kind of post, they are probably posted here really often.

I'm looking forward to purchasing abdl diapers but was debating on what stuff I should get alongside it. Just to be clear, this would be my first ever diaper purchase and I'm still not sure if I would really enjoy wearing them so I just want informations on bare minimum.

I own wet wipes and that's probably it from stuff that could be useful for diapers. Only other thing that comes to my mind is powder or that liquid (forgot what it's called) but would I really need them and is there anything else I'm forgetting about?

If I plan to stay in them for as long as I can then should I be worrying about rashes or for one time thing I would be okay?

I'm looking forward for your answers. Sorry for this post again 😓

Does anyone know how to get notifications sent to multiple devices using the Diapstash app? Currently only get notifications on my device.

Hi so I got a quest 3 and I'm looking abdl related things to do on it. I have heard of baby hands being along the lines of interest but haven't tried it yet. I've been in VR chat too but find it difficult to find a chat with peps like ourselves besides I'm a little too nervous to speak most times in VR chat considering the abundance of trolls and the like scattered about.

Basically looking for abdl versed games on there and things to do that fit the theme of pastel, cute, fun catering towards the abdl crowd.

I might get some pushback or negative comments for this, but I wanted to share something that’s been happening. 😅

I reached out to three professional caregivers and was completely upfront about what I was looking for. I explained that I wanted someone who could change my diaper and possibly treat me a little like a baby. I know it might seem unusual, and maybe I was a little too direct, but I didn’t want to pretend to have a disability or mislead anyone like some of the stories I’ve heard, as that is completely illegal and just plain sick. We’re consenting adults, I’m paying for a service, and I made it very clear that this is strictly nonsexual. Everything was discussed beforehand so there wouldn’t be any surprises or misunderstandings.

For the most part, I didn’t get any responses, but one caregiver actually agreed! She’s a CNA and has plenty of experience caring for adults, including changing diapers. Obviously, what I’m asking for is a little different from her usual work, but she’s been incredibly sweet so far. She texts me cute things, and we’ve talked about what the session would look like.

We agreed on a diaper change, reading some stories, and just spending some time playing. I know she’s still a stranger, so I’m not expecting some magical personal connection right away, but she seems genuinely kind, and I feel pretty lucky to have found someone willing to give this a try.

We’re meeting in person next week for a one-hour session, and honestly, I’m nervous about how it’s all going to go. 😂 Part of me is scared, part of me is excited, and part of me feels like I somehow hit the jackpot!

I guess we’ll see how it goes. Below is an example of a text she sent me.

What if a close friend posted their face on this Reddit? Would you be brave enough to let them know? Considering how discreet we are as a community, would that be considered brave? Or is it more respectful to keep it to ourselves?

This would be my second night ever wearing diapers to bed I’m so excited!!!!! 😁😁😁😁

I genuinely don't understand this. They go from bring nice and then asking for straight up body pics. It's sad how this is because I wanted genuine ABDL friends and then most guys are straight up perverts. I just wish I had more nicer friends and less weird ones :(

So I am a mtf closeted Abdl, and I just spent the weekend in Chicago area for my sisters wedding. I am thinking about moving out of Oregon and moving to Chicago area now. Anyone in the Chicago area can you help decided weather to move or not. I would like reasons why I should or should not.

Crocs limited edition Barbie the movie mega crush clogs! I'm a women's size 13, so it's near impossible to find cute shoes that make me feel little. Got these used! They're so cute! Perfect for a baby girl like me 🩷💕🩷💕🩷💕🩷💕🩷💕🩷💕🩷💕🩷💕