Yeah everybody sorry for the bad title. I recently got my surgery date for bottom surgery and was wondering about how long would some of you say I should wait before wearing again?

Not sure if I would call myself a sissy, I’m what guess would be a typical guy, I game, I watch Motorsports, I collect figures and collectibles but when I regress I lean more towards more girly toys, programs, dresses, just the stereotypical things that little girls love. I’m not sure if there’s a term for this or if others feel like this, not just guys but if any women are more tomboys when regressed

Just yapping btw

So I've just recently started using diapers and embracing my DL side a little more lol. Anyway, i Was looking for challenges to do today and i ended up generating a challenge.
this is what i'm currently doing today:

1. 16:15-17:15 - filled my diaper with pee, then changed

2. 17:15-18:00 - continued peeing and did my first mess in my new diaper, and sat on it for 20 minutes.

3. 18:00-18:45 - a couple more wetting and messing

4. 18:45-19:15 - gonna take a bath with it on. then change into a baby pull up.

5. 19:15-20:00 - continue on it using it like normal.

6. 20:00-2:00 - last run, gonna put a diaper on top of the pull up and use/fill it. not permitted to change it. have to continue doing my life.

I have also spent all day eating and drinking so yeah, everytime i got emptyed i was getting refilled at the same time. wish me good luck lol 😂

I seem to have gone down a size but I am looking for a sample of Kiddos M just to make sure. Is there a Canadian source for samples I can buy or do i have to order it from the states?

Ive been choosing it for years without realizing i am making a choice.

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Life changing to know i can forgive myself for all those years of choosing effects of fear (someone light find out, I might be exposed) and isolation (no one understands, I am alone in this)

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It shows up in your everyday behavior like when you're stressed out under pressure.

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The truth is a lot to be grateful for right now (even the fucked up struggle of an unwanted fetish)

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Know the mind plays tricks on you, plays like a broken record.. until you decide to learn the difference of who you really are and the old patterns of fear.

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You are required to participate in this everyday choice. It cannot work passively by (intelligent) design.

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I wasnt *BEING* me so many moments. I was desensitized out of necessity. Needed to numb the fear and isolation. 1. Fear and isolation are only as real as I cocreate them. 2. I forgive myself for all those moments. 3. Choose more wisely now.. at least in that direction.

I was wondering how common is it to be aro/ace, ABDL and have Asperger's at the same time? And is there any correlation between the three?

Hello guys i have a Question for you all. Maybe someone can help me.

Do anyone know if there are ABDL diapers fully printed like Crinklz. But have the yellow stripe wetnes indikator like Tena Slip have ?

I genuinely don't understand this. They go from bring nice and then asking for straight up body pics. It's sad how this is because I wanted genuine ABDL friends and then most guys are straight up perverts. I just wish I had more nicer friends and less weird ones :(

Personal I think it's Bambino, good prices aproamenty $5 usd per diaper, great sizing as small as 32 all the way to 58 waste, cute designs, reusable tapes and they have great absorbency/leak protection. The problems I have with Bambino is that the still do leak some what easily, the padding is a bit thin, they could be alittle bit more comfortable and they need alittle more variety in there designs. Also I'm looking for factual the best diaper, not your favorite one. That's why I wear Bambinos because from research I thought they were the best ones. But I have no doubt that there is better out there and I just haven't found it yet.

hello everybaby im still very new to the Abdl community and just recently got my first set of dips and was wondering if i could ask what is actually needed to wear them cause i have no clue

thankies again

Ivy :3

Hey all. I’m interested in developing a in depth ios and or android app, but have no experience what soever.

I was thinking of starting out trying a less complex app first and thought creating a ABDL might be a good way to practice.

Does anyone have any ideas or suggestions for functions and features they would like to see in a ABDL based app?

i’m so unbelievably frustrated. my diapers leak on my clothes daily, multiple times a day, despite me doing everything i and the multiple experienced diaper wearers advising me could think of

i usually buy printed diapers from brands like ABUniverse, kiddo, tykables which all have capacities listed at about 6000 ml mostly have also tried ones with even greater capacity like one that claims 9000 ml. i have also tried northshore’s megamax

obviously these numbers are not realistic, but i say them because it isn’t as if i am buying cheap garbage. however, i have measured by weighing them after use over the course of multiple months and my diapers always hold around 1.5 liters (sometimes over or under by a bit. a couple times i have gotten one up to like 2 liters)

i genuinely don’t know if i am simply expecting too much out of them and am bad at judging when i need a change, or if something is going wrong.

list of things i have tried:

\- taping in a variety of different ways. looser, tighter, angled various directions

\- different sizes (my waist is 28” and the i buy size s or m diapers, usually of a waist size about 28”-40” but i have tried ones that go down to 24”-36” or something like that)

\- standing the leak guards up, checking that they sit flush against my skin

\- boosters (the diapers just leak at the same volume they would anyway but without saturating the entire diaper itself)

\- fluffing my diaper

please please someone say they can help me i’m genuinely at my wits end. i don’t know what i’m supposed to do. i can’t just piss on and wash my pants constantly for the rest of my life!!! it happens so much i don’t even wash them unless it’s a very large leak, i just hang dry them and rewear because what else can i do???

Does anyone know any good brands of adult diapers I should use as I am still new to this any recommendations would be appreciated

I haven’t gone in 2 days. I got some reg ex lax and ate 4 chocolates ( double dose). I cant wait to try and hold it in. Im a casual diaper user and decided im going to unpotty train myself.

Anybody know of a file that has a good progression? Something where the hypnotist describes having the occasional bedwetting accident, but it develops into wetting every night, daytime wetting, messing etc?

So I’m quite curious I personally don’t like the idea of getting caught but are there some out there that do like the concept of being caught in a diaper?

This would be my second night ever wearing diapers to bed I’m so excited!!!!! 😁😁😁😁

Crocs limited edition Barbie the movie mega crush clogs! I'm a women's size 13, so it's near impossible to find cute shoes that make me feel little. Got these used! They're so cute! Perfect for a baby girl like me 🩷💕🩷💕🩷💕🩷💕🩷💕🩷💕🩷💕🩷💕

Hey guys I’m looking into buying one or the other. I would love some thoughts on both! I have tried and loved inspire+ but i was looking into the BeDry cause of hook and loop tapes.

Let me know your opinions!

I'm sick at the moment and drinking lots of tea cos it makes my throat feel better and helps me feel more warm and cozy 🥰

But I've noticed I have to change my diaper a loooot and it's difficult to remember to change in time 🫣 I can't tell if I'm just feeling very little and wetting more often/subconsciously or if I'm actually drinking too much tea 😅

Usually I can stay in one diaper for 4-5 hours easily even if I'm just sitting down/wetting in the same position but in the last few days (since I got sick) I have to change every 2-3 hours 🤭

I might get some pushback or negative comments for this, but I wanted to share something that’s been happening. 😅

I reached out to three professional caregivers and was completely upfront about what I was looking for. I explained that I wanted someone who could change my diaper and possibly treat me a little like a baby. I know it might seem unusual, and maybe I was a little too direct, but I didn’t want to pretend to have a disability or mislead anyone like some of the stories I’ve heard, as that is completely illegal and just plain sick. We’re consenting adults, I’m paying for a service, and I made it very clear that this is strictly nonsexual. Everything was discussed beforehand so there wouldn’t be any surprises or misunderstandings.

For the most part, I didn’t get any responses, but one caregiver actually agreed! She’s a CNA and has plenty of experience caring for adults, including changing diapers. Obviously, what I’m asking for is a little different from her usual work, but she’s been incredibly sweet so far. She texts me cute things, and we’ve talked about what the session would look like.

We agreed on a diaper change, reading some stories, and just spending some time playing. I know she’s still a stranger, so I’m not expecting some magical personal connection right away, but she seems genuinely kind, and I feel pretty lucky to have found someone willing to give this a try.

We’re meeting in person next week for a one-hour session, and honestly, I’m nervous about how it’s all going to go. 😂 Part of me is scared, part of me is excited, and part of me feels like I somehow hit the jackpot!

I guess we’ll see how it goes. Below is an example of a text she sent me.

What if a close friend posted their face on this Reddit? Would you be brave enough to let them know? Considering how discreet we are as a community, would that be considered brave? Or is it more respectful to keep it to ourselves?

I just bought my first adult pacifier, can anyone tell me how to be hygienic with my pacifier.

Hi so I got a quest 3 and I'm looking abdl related things to do on it. I have heard of baby hands being along the lines of interest but haven't tried it yet. I've been in VR chat too but find it difficult to find a chat with peps like ourselves besides I'm a little too nervous to speak most times in VR chat considering the abundance of trolls and the like scattered about.

Basically looking for abdl versed games on there and things to do that fit the theme of pastel, cute, fun catering towards the abdl crowd.